

You Are Not Broken
Kelly Casperson, MD
Empowering women (and the partners who love them) to live their best mid lives. Combining the power of mind-work, body-science and relationships, I joyously smash the societal barriers that are keeping us from living our best intimate lives. Whether you are young or past menopause, single or in a long-term relationship, it is never too late or too early to realize YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. With humor, candor and ease, I break down the stories that we have been told about being sexual beings, to help us play, and normalize our intimacy and health. Nothing in this podcast is personal medical advice, of course.
Episodes
Mentioned books

Dec 1, 2021 • 10min
Tenga Unboxing and Reviews
Tenga reviews
Discount code: YANB15
tenga.co
Lube – hole lotion – $ 15
https://usstore.tenga.co/collections/tenga-hole-lotion-series
Ring Vibrator – SVR Black - $80
https://usstore.tenga.co/collections/tenga-vibrators/products/tsv-001
Iroha Tenga MIZU – 79.99
https://usstore.iroha-tenga.com/collections/rechargeable-vibrators/products/hmt-01
iroha mini Ume-Anzu
https://usstore.iroha-tenga.com/collections/battery-operated-vibrators/products/hmm-02
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Nov 28, 2021 • 41min
November Live Podcast Recording Q&A
This is my November live podcast recording - lots and lots of Q&A in here!
Leave a podcast review by the end of Nov 28th and be entered to win a copy of "Why good sex matters" by Nan Wise, Phd.
TENGA discount code: YANB15
www.usstore.tenga.co
www.instagram.com/tenga_global
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Nov 24, 2021 • 16min
Penis Size
This is the third in a row episode with my good friend Dr. Hart - - - Penis Size
Why is this such a big deal for men (pun intended?)
It is not associated with height, sperm count or any thing else.
Warning – we are going to tell you what is average in length for this body part.
Most people are normal.
What women make their partner's penile function mean and how to talk about it.
Dr. Hart is a sexual medicine physician in Canada at
https://www.sexualfunctionclinic.com
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Nov 21, 2021 • 12min
Virginity is a Social Construct - The Hymen
The myth and the facts of Hymen
What it is and what it isn't
The case for knowing your body.
Dr. Hart is a sexual medicine physician in Canada at
https://www.sexualfunctionclinic.com
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Nov 17, 2021 • 26min
Sex While Fat
Physicians get trained to be biased against overweight individuals - that doesn't help us feel great about ourselves which then can translate into the bedroom.
I LOVE talking with Dr. Hart who a sexual medicine physician in Canada at
https://www.sexualfunctionclinic.com
Body positivity, mindset, myths about body size and sex
The medical system and fat phobia – we are very judgy.
You will “never be good enough to…” if you don’t change your mind.
We discuss chasing “I thought I would be happy when” thoughts.
“if you are having a sex life problem get help, don’t just assume it is your weight”
We discuss black and white thinking when it comes to weight and hear Dr. Hart’s journey.
“A sex therapist is always the answer” – but it isn’t always covered in Canada or the US – here are some tips if you can’t access a therapist.
We discuss mindfulness, our ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) and the flaws in logic about our thinking about our body.
“Body positivity is a journey, not a goal”
“Muscles are associated with longevity and health – and they weigh a lot.”
“We can and should be healthy – we shouldn’t focus on the scale”
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Nov 14, 2021 • 20min
Sexless Marriages, Desire Books and Hormones
We define what low sex and sexless marriages are
We talk about two books that have the word "desire" in them.
We talk about two papers discussing hormones and desire.
www.kellycaspersonmd.com to get on the email list to see when I go live!
Reclaiming Desire Dr. Andrew Goldstein
https://amzn.to/31VnArp
Rekindling Desire Barry McCarthy
https://amzn.to/3F80USX
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Nov 7, 2021 • 27min
Kink, Consent, and Asking For What You Want
Dr. Sonia Wright joins me today to talk about your sex life.
We talk about consent and safety.
Adult play is supposed to be fun!
What are your thoughts around kink?
Different things turn different people on.
We go over some definitions – sub and dom – and maybe be surprised who has the power in these roles.
We talk about consent in a long term relationship – what is your reason for having sex
“for you” sex described and how to start with pleasure
If you don’t know what kind of sex you want, start with identifying what you don’t want.
Tips for communication with your partner. What we can learn from the sub/dom/kink culture.
And remember what the whole point is of all of this is – FUN! Connection! Growth!
https://soniawrightmd.com/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-midlife-sex-coach-for-women-podcast/id1532337565
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Nov 3, 2021 • 44min
Anxiety, hormones, self care, sex and menopause
This is an IG live I did with Dr. Keira Barr, holistic dermatologist and expert in midlife transitions and hormones.
We know good sex doesn't exist when we are stressed, anxious and full of cortisol and our sympathetic flight or fright nervous system, but what can we do about it?
We talk about sleep, breathing, hormones, exercise and alcohol.
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Oct 31, 2021 • 40min
October live Q&A
Sex and hormones, sex and hormones, and life coaching.
get on the email list to learn ahead of time when the lives are going to be recorded! www.kellycaspersonmd.com
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Oct 24, 2021 • 44min
Menopause Whisperer - Dr. Jim Simon
Meet the Menopause Whisperer – Dr. Jim Simon
My listeners want the truth! And they are so hungry for it! Why did "we" scare everyone off of hormones, why are doctors so hesitant to be proactive on hormones. What the "actual" risks of taking hormones are.
Set me straight on "progestins" including progesterone and all the others
Breast cancer and the Women’s Health Initiative – we get the facts about hormones and breast cancer risk.
Hormones protect your heart and bones, especially between ages 50-60.
The myth of “you need to stop hormones at a certain age”
Risks of hormone therapy compared to other medications.
How to get smart about hormones?
In menopausal women, the risk of alcohol is higher than the risk of hormones.
What men should know about menopause and menopause hormones.
“Menopause is mid-life” Dr. Simon
The role of testosterone in mid-age. How the “rules of the game” are stacked against women in regards to getting a FDA approved testosterone medicine for women.
https://intimmedicine.com/
Article on prescribing testosterone for women:
https://www.jsm.jsexmed.org/action/showPdf?pii=S1743-6095%2820%2930982-6
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