
Own Your Identity
Own Your Identity is committed to helping men experiencing unwanted same-sex attraction to live a life of purpose and possibility. Each episode contains actionable tools to keep listeners moving forward into the life they truly desire, through Christ's power and for God's glory.
Latest episodes

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May 8, 2025 • 6min
He's an Attractive Guy. Period.
Ever find yourself spinning stories from a simple glance at someone attractive? The conversation dives into how quickly our minds create complex narratives, especially surrounding attractiveness. It explores breaking free from comparisons and embracing self-worth. Discover practical strategies for detaching observations from feelings of inadequacy, promoting self-affirmation, and fostering gratitude. It's all about seeing someone as just who they are, without the mental gymnastics!

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May 4, 2025 • 16min
We Just Talk and Take in the View
Explore the isolation many feel when trying to connect with others. Discover actionable steps to cultivate deeper friendships, addressing fears and barriers. Learn about the significance of presence and physical touch in nurturing bonds. Hear personal stories illustrating the longing for unconditional love and the healing power of friendship. Ultimately, find inspiration in the unconditional friendship offered by Christ, encouraging a journey towards true identity and acceptance.

Apr 28, 2025 • 9min
Let Christ White-Knuckle It
In this episode, I share the top 3 things I sought from porn, and the 6 steps that made the biggest impact for me toward freedom from porn.For more resources for overcoming porn and living beyond unwanted same-sex attraction, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.

Apr 17, 2025 • 10min
Choose Your Frequency
Explore how to shift from negative thoughts to a more positive mindset by tuning into faith and love. Discover the impact of fear on personal growth through a compelling story. Learn practical strategies to dismantle lies and amplify truth in your daily choices. This journey encourages reconnecting with your true identity while overcoming unwanted feelings, ultimately guiding you to live a more fulfilled life.

Apr 13, 2025 • 8min
What are You Staring at?
Explore the transformative journey from shame to redemption. Discover the importance of shifting focus from our sins to the grace and love of God. Personal stories highlight the healing power of community support. The discussion emphasizes finding awe in God's holiness rather than living in guilt. It's a powerful reminder of how to embrace one's identity with faith and grace.

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Apr 7, 2025 • 14min
Stay Uncomfortable
Explore the transformative power of embracing discomfort as a catalyst for personal growth. Learn how facing challenges can lead to clarity and open the door to hope and dreams. Through relatable stories, discover actionable steps to navigate the tough moments in life while trusting that beauty lies beyond hardship. It's an inspiring journey of resilience and the magic that unfolds when you hold space for the impossible.

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Mar 31, 2025 • 13min
You are Not Alone
A heartfelt conversation unfolds as men share their wisdom with a young man named Timothy, emphasizing that he is not alone in his struggles. The discussion delves into Timothy's journey with same-sex attractions, shedding light on acceptance and understanding among friends. It highlights the challenges posed by societal and family expectations while underscoring the importance of building healthy connections. The aim is to empower Timothy to embrace his identity and recognize the strength he holds within.

Mar 21, 2025 • 12min
You're Like Me. I'm Like You.
A heartfelt conversation begins with a young boy's innocent request for matching outfits, symbolizing the desire for connection. The discussion then shifts to the challenges of comparing ourselves to others, emphasizing the importance of authenticity. Personal stories about fatherhood highlight the journey of overcoming self-doubt and embracing one's true identity. The speaker inspires listeners to find self-worth and meaningful connections, urging everyone to celebrate their unique paths.

Mar 14, 2025 • 10min
Embrace Mystery
Mysteries can be beneficial or detrimental, pulling us into negativity or inspiring growth. A personal story reveals the beauty of embracing the unknown. Listeners are encouraged to discern which mysteries enrich their lives while fostering meaningful connections. Practical tips help focus on questions aligned with personal values, steering clear of confusion and inviting purpose into everyday life.

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Mar 7, 2025 • 15min
Life With and Without My Dad
Dive into a deeply personal journey exploring the complex relationship between a father and child. The conversation hinges on themes of forgiveness, healing, and resilience, illuminating the painful yet transformative path of reconciliation. Listeners are encouraged to confront their own traumas and embrace the healing power of storytelling. With poignant memories and reflections, the discussion emphasizes the universal need for understanding and support amidst personal struggles.