Own Your Identity

If you act out sexually with another guy, use porn, or entertain comparisons, what emotional home are you coming from? Is it loneliness? Shame? A need for validation? For many of us, those moments aren’t just about the act itself—they’re about seeking comfort in an emotional home we’ve lived in for years. For more tools to live beyond your unwanted same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.

Time is sacred. It’s a gift from God, entrusted to us to use wisely. But too often we waste it obsessing over things that don’t serve us—whether it’s comparing ourselves to others, spinning in shame, or acting out in ways that don’t align with our values. It's a missed opportunity to step into the life God has called you to live. Make the best use of your time and energy and get excited about what's next!For more tools to live beyond your unwanted attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.

When we take small, courageous steps—whether it’s replacing a limiting belief, speaking truth over ourselves, or simply showing up when it’s hard—it’s so important to pause and celebrate. Why? Because celebration reinforces the behavior. It tells your brain, This matters. This is who I am now.For more tools to live beyond your unwanted same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.

Imagine waking up each day knowing that no matter what happens, you are loved, you are enough in Christ, and the best is yet to come. Imagine living with a confidence that isn’t shaken by circumstances, a peace that isn’t dependent on outcomes, and a hope that fuels you forward. That’s the power of certainty. And it’s available to you right now.For more tools to live beyond your unwanted same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.

Have you ever felt like you’re just too much for people? Like your personality, your struggles, or your past make you a burden, a liability, or someone who just doesn’t fit? If that’s you, I want you to know you're not alone.

Discover how gentleness and sensitivity are redefined as strengths in modern masculinity. The conversation challenges the stereotypes of toughness and stoicism, presenting a new model that values human connection and compassion. By integrating boldness with these traits, men can embrace a powerful yet authentic identity. This enlightening discussion inspires listeners to foster genuine relationships while encouraging personal growth.

Ever find yourself spinning stories from a simple glance at someone attractive? The conversation dives into how quickly our minds create complex narratives, especially surrounding attractiveness. It explores breaking free from comparisons and embracing self-worth. Discover practical strategies for detaching observations from feelings of inadequacy, promoting self-affirmation, and fostering gratitude. It's all about seeing someone as just who they are, without the mental gymnastics!

Explore the isolation many feel when trying to connect with others. Discover actionable steps to cultivate deeper friendships, addressing fears and barriers. Learn about the significance of presence and physical touch in nurturing bonds. Hear personal stories illustrating the longing for unconditional love and the healing power of friendship. Ultimately, find inspiration in the unconditional friendship offered by Christ, encouraging a journey towards true identity and acceptance.

In this episode, I share the top 3 things I sought from porn, and the 6 steps that made the biggest impact for me toward freedom from porn.For more resources for overcoming porn and living beyond unwanted same-sex attraction, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.

Explore how to shift from negative thoughts to a more positive mindset by tuning into faith and love. Discover the impact of fear on personal growth through a compelling story. Learn practical strategies to dismantle lies and amplify truth in your daily choices. This journey encourages reconnecting with your true identity while overcoming unwanted feelings, ultimately guiding you to live a more fulfilled life.