Own Your Identity

Jason Mellard
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Sep 19, 2025 • 12min

Navigating Confusion

Ever felt stuck in the fog of confusion, unsure of your next step? In this episode, we dive deep into how moments of uncertainty can actually be the catalyst for clarity, growth, and connection. I’ll share personal insights and practical tools to help you embrace the fog, navigate through it, and uncover the clarity waiting on the other side.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Sep 12, 2025 • 10min

When Admiration Shifts to Lust

The discussion dives deep into the nuances of attraction, exploring the transition from admiration to feelings of comparison or lust. Personal experiences are shared to illustrate these emotional shifts, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own journeys and values, all while navigating the complexities of same-sex attractions and aligning with their true purpose.
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Sep 3, 2025 • 8min

Choose Me

Exploring our innate desire to be chosen and valued, the discussion reveals how this yearning is often rooted in emotional wounds. Personal stories of vulnerability highlight the importance of seeking affirmation beyond superficial attraction. A practical seven-step process is introduced to help navigate intrusive thoughts, fostering a deeper connection to self-worth and divine acceptance. Ultimately, the conversation encourages embracing our unique identities and living purposefully.
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Aug 29, 2025 • 18min

Just Be

Discover the beauty of embracing authenticity and the freedom that comes with just being yourself. Personal stories illustrate overcoming the pressure to perform while highlighting the importance of vulnerability. Gain practical tools that encourage a mindset shift from 'doing' to 'being.' Inspired by a carefree moment on the soccer field, this discussion encourages living in the present and finding empowerment in simplicity.
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Aug 22, 2025 • 37min

What I Wish I’d Learned Growing Up

Explore the vital lessons often missed in youth, particularly for men. Discover how recognizing these gaps can transform feelings of inadequacy into opportunities for growth. Personal stories emphasize the importance of emotional expression and self-acceptance. The conversation encourages listeners to confront their past while fostering connections through mentorship and community. Celebrate the journey of learning and evolve beyond previous limitations.
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Aug 1, 2025 • 26min

Am I Marriage Material?

If you’ve longed for a life shared with a wife — a woman to build a future with, to be known and loved by, and to love in return—this episode is for you.Together, we’ll explore the deeper questions beneath “Am I Marriage Material?”
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Jul 18, 2025 • 13min

The Locker Room: A Place of Vulnerability and Preparation

Dive into the complexities of vulnerability and belonging as the speaker shares personal locker room experiences. Discover how acceptance among men fosters deep connections. The metaphor of the 'locker room' highlights the courage needed to face life's challenges. Listeners are encouraged to embrace community support and explore their identities through faith. It’s a heartfelt journey of stepping out of the shadows and being truly seen.
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Jul 3, 2025 • 8min

If You Only Knew

The discussion revolves around transforming the phrase 'if you only knew' from a burden of shame into a powerful statement of hope. It encourages individuals grappling with same-sex attraction to embrace their true selves. By fostering openness, the podcast aims to combat feelings of inadequacy and promote empowerment. Listeners are inspired to redefine their narratives and embrace their identities, paving the way for acceptance and growth.
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Jun 27, 2025 • 7min

Mastering the Moment: Mindfulness During SSA Urges

Do your same-sex attractions feel overwhelming at times? Maybe it’s a physical sensation that catches you off guard. Maybe it’s a romantic feeling that stirs something in your heart. Or maybe it’s a thought pattern that loops in your mind. These things can feel powerful, but I want you to know they are not you. They are experiences that are just passing through.For more tools to live beyond your unwanted same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Jun 22, 2025 • 8min

3 Guys at the Airport and the Stories I Spun

When we admire something in others, it’s like God is whispering, “This is already in you. I’ve planted this seed—now let’s grow it together.” It’s not about striving to be someone else, it’s about stepping into the fullness of who He’s called you to be.For more tools to live beyond your unwanted same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.

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