Own Your Identity

Jason Mellard
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Jan 23, 2026 • 7min

Remember Wonder

What if part of our healing isn’t just honoring what hurt, but remembering what made you feel alive? In this episode, I reflect on wonder as a practical posture—one that calms the nervous system, expands perspective, and helps you engage life with greater openness and courage.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Jan 15, 2026 • 6min

There You Are

The phrase 'there you are' can evoke pressure, but what if it were an invitation to authenticity? Personal experiences reveal how parental disappointment shaped feelings of inadequacy. Discover the importance of self-disclosure through honest questions that promote healing. Embracing the idea of 'Here I am' enhances presence and groundedness. The contrast between a performance-driven spirituality and a loving God highlights the journey towards authenticity. Reflective questions help listeners explore their true selves without the need for comparison.
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Jan 2, 2026 • 6min

Reclaim Power Over Attractions

Explore the concept of same-sex attraction as signals rather than identity, helping to dissolve shame and empower clarity. Learn how to transition from survival tactics to a freedom-centered mindset. Discover a four-step framework to understand your attractions' messages and make aligned choices that bolster your identity. Understand that true freedom comes from being present and acting purposefully. Finally, find out how attractions can foster spiritual growth and encourage deeper relationships.
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Dec 12, 2025 • 6min

Men Create

Exploring the groundbreaking idea that creativity is a foundational masculine calling, the discussion reframes traditional masculinity. It highlights how men create safety and order through presence and boundaries. The importance of a man's attitude in shaping vision and atmosphere is emphasized. Additionally, it tackles shame experienced by men navigating same-sex attractions, affirming their God-given creativity. Listeners are invited to actively participate in creation and foster life-giving environments.
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Dec 5, 2025 • 8min

Vision Trumps Fantasy

Fantasy escapes reality. Vision transforms it. Vision gives direction, clarifies choices, changes what you tolerate, and activates courage.In this episode, you will learn to craft a clear and compelling vision capable of lasting transformation.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Nov 28, 2025 • 9min

Make Space for What's Next

If I received that promotion, I wouldn't be talking with you today. God used that disappointment to make space for something bigger. Now, I am a Certified High Performance Coach empowering men to live beyond their same-sex attractions and into their purpose. And I love it. What does God have next for you that requires space to hear?
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Nov 21, 2025 • 9min

Participate in Masculinity

Explore the thought-provoking idea that masculinity isn't a checklist but a shared identity. Discuss the birthright of masculine traits and the importance of growth over shrinking away from them. Hear personal stories about withdrawing from male affirmation and how other men can reflect and inspire masculinity. Jason encourages reclaiming your identity, highlighting that you belong, and invites listeners to actively participate in a supportive community. Embrace your masculinity—it's all about connection and collaboration!
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Oct 24, 2025 • 11min

Redirect Your Sexual Energy for Greater Purpose

Explore how to transform sexual energy into a powerful force for connection and creativity. Discover the decision to prioritize service over self-gratification. Learn practical techniques to redirect that energy into meaningful actions. Delve into the deeper desires behind urges and how they can lead to spiritual growth. Uncover the science and psychology that support viewing sexual energy as vital fuel for purpose. Embrace a journey of intentional living that transcends habitual behaviors.
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Oct 16, 2025 • 7min

The Key, the Locked Door, and the True Me

For years, I’ve stood in front of the mirror, staring at my reflection. I saw my silhouette—the outline of me. But just beyond it, like a shadow I couldn’t escape, was the outline of the man I thought I had to be. Broader shoulders. Thicker chest. Sharper jawline. I didn’t always know where that outline came from. But one moment, one memory, gave it shape. For more tools to live beyond you same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Oct 9, 2025 • 9min

No Compromise: Why 100% is Easier than 99%

Discover why living 100% aligned with your values is easier than settling for 99%. Explore how that elusive 1% creates mental clutter and inner conflict. Learn about the power of identity-based boundaries, which provide clarity and sustainability. Gain practical steps to move towards full commitment, enhancing your sense of peace and freedom. Jason also emphasizes that compromises don't define you, reinforcing a supportive mindset. If you're ready to live authentically, this discussion will inspire your journey!

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