Own Your Identity

Jason Mellard
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Dec 5, 2025 • 8min

Vision Trumps Fantasy

Fantasy escapes reality. Vision transforms it. Vision gives direction, clarifies choices, changes what you tolerate, and activates courage.In this episode, you will learn to craft a clear and compelling vision capable of lasting transformation.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Nov 28, 2025 • 9min

Make Space for What's Next

If I received that promotion, I wouldn't be talking with you today. God used that disappointment to make space for something bigger. Now, I am a Certified High Performance Coach empowering men to live beyond their same-sex attractions and into their purpose. And I love it. What does God have next for you that requires space to hear?
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Nov 21, 2025 • 9min

Participate in Masculinity

Explore the thought-provoking idea that masculinity isn't a checklist but a shared identity. Discuss the birthright of masculine traits and the importance of growth over shrinking away from them. Hear personal stories about withdrawing from male affirmation and how other men can reflect and inspire masculinity. Jason encourages reclaiming your identity, highlighting that you belong, and invites listeners to actively participate in a supportive community. Embrace your masculinity—it's all about connection and collaboration!
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Oct 24, 2025 • 11min

Redirect Your Sexual Energy for Greater Purpose

Explore how to transform sexual energy into a powerful force for connection and creativity. Discover the decision to prioritize service over self-gratification. Learn practical techniques to redirect that energy into meaningful actions. Delve into the deeper desires behind urges and how they can lead to spiritual growth. Uncover the science and psychology that support viewing sexual energy as vital fuel for purpose. Embrace a journey of intentional living that transcends habitual behaviors.
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Oct 16, 2025 • 7min

The Key, the Locked Door, and the True Me

For years, I’ve stood in front of the mirror, staring at my reflection. I saw my silhouette—the outline of me. But just beyond it, like a shadow I couldn’t escape, was the outline of the man I thought I had to be. Broader shoulders. Thicker chest. Sharper jawline. I didn’t always know where that outline came from. But one moment, one memory, gave it shape. For more tools to live beyond you same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Oct 9, 2025 • 9min

No Compromise: Why 100% is Easier than 99%

Discover why living 100% aligned with your values is easier than settling for 99%. Explore how that elusive 1% creates mental clutter and inner conflict. Learn about the power of identity-based boundaries, which provide clarity and sustainability. Gain practical steps to move towards full commitment, enhancing your sense of peace and freedom. Jason also emphasizes that compromises don't define you, reinforcing a supportive mindset. If you're ready to live authentically, this discussion will inspire your journey!
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Oct 3, 2025 • 8min

Choose Your Feelings

When I turned to gay porn, I wasn’t just escaping life—I was running towards feelings I desired. I wanted to feel strong, inspired, connected, and safe.The good news? You don’t need anything outside yourself to feel those things. You can choose them—right now. And God made you capable of that.For more tools to live beyond your same-sex attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com.
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Sep 27, 2025 • 12min

Honor Your Anger

Delve into the powerful theme of honoring anger with insights on its origins in childhood neglect and bullying. Learn to meet your younger self and embrace buried emotions. Discover anger as a vital signal, revealing boundary violations and worth concerns. Explore practical tools like anger and empathy letters, which facilitate meaningful emotional processing. Understand how grief often lies beneath anger and consider using it as a catalyst for personal growth and self-reflection. Reconnect with your identity and find encouragement in your journey.
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Sep 19, 2025 • 12min

Navigating Confusion

Ever find yourself lost in confusion? This discussion reveals how uncertainty can spark growth and connection. Personal stories highlight the journey from mixed signals to breakthrough clarity about attraction and identity. Practical tools are shared to help navigate through confusion, encouraging listeners to confront fears and seek wise counsel. The fog might seem daunting, but it’s a pathway to deeper understanding and purpose.
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Sep 12, 2025 • 10min

When Admiration Shifts to Lust

The discussion dives deep into the nuances of attraction, exploring the transition from admiration to feelings of comparison or lust. Personal experiences are shared to illustrate these emotional shifts, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own journeys and values, all while navigating the complexities of same-sex attractions and aligning with their true purpose.

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