
From Hostage To Hero
Sari de la Motte is the host of "From Hostage to Hero" and has been dubbed the "Attorney Whisperer" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Join us weekly as Sari shares tips that will help you up your game at trial and connect with your jurors.
Latest episodes

Mar 3, 2023 • 19min
Ep. 200 - 7 Ways I Built a 7-figure Business
How does someone with two advanced piano degrees and zero law degrees build a 7-figure trial consulting business? In today’s episode of the FHTH podcast, I’m sharing seven secrets to my success so that you can apply them to your own business. This is the kind of advice you won’t get anywhere else. I swear. Enjoy! <3 Sari * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Feb 24, 2023 • 24min
Ep. 199 - How to Wire Your Brain for Risk
“What if my witness pulls a fast one on?” “Everyone in the courtroom thinks I’m a shark… a money grubber…. an ambulance chaser!” “The jury’s going to kill my case.” If any of those thoughts sound familiar, you probably feel pretty fucking stressed going to trial. As a plaintiff attorney, you deal in risk. Therefore, you have to wire your brain for risk. Our thoughts create our feelings. Then our feelings determine our actions… And that’s what we’re talking about in today’s episode. Yes, you CAN rewire your brain. And it won’t take as much time as you think… if you practice. You’ll want a pen and notepad for this one. Enjoy! <3 Sari * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

25 snips
Feb 17, 2023 • 49min
Ep. 198 - What They Don’t Teach You in Law School But Should. (With Dave Maxfield)
If you had the chance to tell a class full of fresh-faced, baby lawyers some of the things that they aren’t going to learn about in law school, what would you say? What do you think I would say to those new attorneys? Find out in today’s episode, where I’m joined by my friend and longtime H2H Crewbie, Dave Maxfield, to give my best advice to the next generation of plaintiff lawyers. Enjoy! Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Feb 10, 2023 • 19min
Ep. 197 - Struggling With Time Management? Here’s Why
The way we spend our money says a lot about what we value in life. The same is true about how we spend our time. In today’s episode, find out why there’s a direct correlation between how much you love your life and how much you struggle with time management. Imma ‘bout to drop the mic on y’all, and you’re gonna love it! - Sari Quote: “When you’re doing a bunch of shit you don’t want to do, time management is pointless. It’s like shuffling deck chairs on the Titanic.” * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Feb 3, 2023 • 31min
Ep. 196 - Do You Have Trial Trauma?
Because you are a trial lawyer, chances are you're living with all kinds of trauma. If you’re not okay, you don’t have to suffer. In today’s podcast episode, I’m joined by my husband (and lead H2H Mindset coach), Kevin, to talk about trial trauma and what we want you to do if you’re struggling. Don’t skip this one, mah dudes. I fucking mean it. -Sari Book recommendations: The Body Keeps The Score, by Bessel Van Der Kolk M.D. Becoming Safely Embodied: A Guide to Organize Your Mind, Body and Heart to Feel Secure in the World, by Deidre Fay MSW * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel

Jan 30, 2023 • 44min
Special Episode - Sari SquadCast: H2H Faculty Answers Your Top Questions
What better way to find out what you’ll be learning in the H2H Playground than to hear our coaches give answers to some of the most common questions they’re asked by trial attorneys. Tune in to find out… What should I ask in voir dire? How do I stop working weekends and evenings? How do I deal with money when it comes to my opening statement? How can I be more present at trial? How do I stop being so overwhelmed? Grab a notebook and enjoy! These coaches are AMAZING! -Sari ***JOIN THE H2H PLAYGROUND*** Join us in the ONLY online working group providing the four ingredients you need to master the art of trial lawyering. Get trial skills training, a consistent place to practice, feedback, and coaching, plus the support of a community of brilliant attorneys who value the same things you do. Doors close on February 1st, so get your ass in there! Sign up here: https://sariswears.com/play

Jan 27, 2023 • 25min
Ep. 195 - Here's Why You DON'T Want to Work With Me One-on-One
There are four things you need if you want to become a master at anything… including the craft of trial lawyering. Tune in to today’s podcast to find out what those four things are and why you should not hire a trial consultant (including me)—until you have ‘em. Don’t spend a cent on a trial consultant until you listen to this episode. Promise? -Sari ***JOIN THE H2H PLAYGROUND*** Join us in the ONLY online working group providing the four ingredients you need to master the art of trial lawyering. Get trial skills training, a consistent place to practice, feedback, and coaching, plus the support of a community of brilliant attorneys who value the same things you do. Doors close on February 1st, so get your ass in there! Sign up here: https://sariswears.com/play

Jan 20, 2023 • 27min
Ep. 194 - 10 Reasons All Trial Lawyers Need a Coach
What’s the difference between coaching and therapy? And does every trial lawyer really need a coach? (Yes. Yes, they do.) I’m joined by lead H2H Mindset Coach Kevin in today’s podcast to give you 10 reasons why you (and every trial attorney) need a coach. If you don’t think you have to listen to this episode because it doesn’t apply to you, then you definitely need to tune in. -Sari *****REGISTER FOR MY FREE WEBINAR***** You don't want to miss my FREE WEBINAR called "3 Key Areas You MUST Master to Win at Trial." Mark your calendar for Thursday 1/26 at 12pm (PT) and get registered now! See you there! Register here: https://sariswears.com/mastery

Jan 13, 2023 • 18min
Ep. 193 - The Jury Didn’t “Get it Wrong”
How many times have you blamed the jury for getting it wrong? I hate to break it to you, but that’s not true. They don’t always get it *right*, but the jury NEVER gets it wrong. Find out what I mean in today’s episode of the FH2H Podcast. For continued learning, I recommend reading this article by Stephen O. Roberts, found HERE. -Sari *****GET ON THE WAITLIST FOR H2H PLAYGROUND***** Join us in the ONLY online working group providing trial skills training, a consistent place to practice, feedback and coaching, plus a kickass community of brilliant trial attorneys. Get on the waitlist here: https://sariswears.com/play

Jan 6, 2023 • 16min
Ep. 192 - Happy New Year! (Important Updates)
Today I’m sharing my special well wishes for the new year with my favorite people in the world… plaintiff trial attorneys. Tune in to the podcast to hear me cheer you on as you head into another year bravely fighting for justice. Don’t let the big swinging 🍆s of the world keep you down. Love, Sari * * * * * FREE H2H TRAINING * * * * * LET THE JURY SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS IN 3 EASY STEPS Use my H2H Funnel Method for voir dire so that your jurors tell YOU the principles of the case instead of you telling THEM (yes, really). Get the training here: https://bit.ly/h2hfunnel