
Strangers on a Bench
Have you ever walked past a mysterious stranger on a park bench and wondered about their lives? Tom Rosenthal (singer-songwriter by trade) has spent the last 6 months walking the many parks of London, approaching random bench-dwellers and asking if he can sit next to them and record their conversation. Every stranger remains anonymous, neither name or place of work is ever revealed (even to Tom himself), leading to greater openness, intimacy, and surprising revelations from the participants. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Latest episodes

Feb 24, 2025 • 33min
EPISODE 24: A Clown for a Day
Tom Rosenthal sits down with an anonymous stranger whose insights bring a rich tapestry of experiences to light. They explore the profound impact of loss on creativity, particularly how the passing of a father has shaped personal journeys. The duo humorously navigates the delicate balance between artistic passion and financial stability in acting. Expect candid anecdotes about dating dynamics in London, quirky food habits like apples in ketchup, and heartfelt reflections on love, connection, and the beauty of unexpected encounters.

Feb 17, 2025 • 26min
EPISODE 23: The Balletic Lawyer
In this engaging conversation, Tom Rosenthal speaks with an anonymous stranger who shares insights as a lawyer and a ballet enthusiast. They discuss how our perception of time shapes our lives and the importance of mindfulness in finding peace. The stranger reflects on their mixed-race heritage, the emotional journey of injury in ballet, and the complexities of family dynamics. Their narrative weaves through themes of loss, identity, and self-discovery, all set against a rich backdrop of nature and urban vibrancy.

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Feb 10, 2025 • 33min
EPISODE 22: Libraries, Angels, and Anxiety
In this engaging chat, Tom Rosenthal meets an anonymous stranger who shares poignant insights about life and anxiety. They reflect on emotional farewells and the joys of travel while navigating relationship dynamics. Humor and vulnerability shine through as they rank their fears and discuss the stresses of living away from loved ones. The stranger also opens up about their struggles in medical school, which led to a pivotal year of self-discovery. This heartfelt conversation reveals the complexities of connection in our fast-paced world.

Feb 3, 2025 • 26min
EPISODE 21: I Want to Be Un-Unique
Tom Rosenthal interviews an anonymous stranger in London, diving deep into the intricacies of identity and connection. They candidly explore the search for uniqueness while grappling with societal expectations, particularly in the music industry. The conversation touches on personal experiences with autism, reflecting on vulnerability and the desire for connection. They also share poignant insights on discovering family history and navigating life's unpredictability, revealing the delicate balance between dreams and reality.

Jan 27, 2025 • 30min
EPISODE 20: Two Funerals and a Faulty Printer
In this intriguing conversation, an anonymous stranger shares their colorful experiences with Tom Rosenthal. They tackle the quirks of office life, including the chaos of malfunctioning printers and the unexpected joy of singing Christmas songs all year. The duo reflects on humorous hospital jobs during a gap year, exploring the balance of youthful exploration and responsibility. They also dig into the complexities of legacy and memory, punctuated with light-hearted anecdotes about relationships and friendships, revealing profound insights into life and loss.

Jan 20, 2025 • 30min
EPISODE 19: Covid in Cambodia
In this intriguing conversation, Tom Rosenthal shares a bench with an anonymous speaker who reflects on the dramatic shifts brought by COVID-19. They delve into the speaker's transition from a Cambodian tour guide to navigating the pandemic back home, exploring emotional struggles and the healing power of nature. Nostalgia kicks in as they reminisce about adventures and social issues in London, while a thrilling jungle rescue adds an element of excitement. The heartfelt discussion touches on friendship, loss, and the bittersweet nature of change in their lives.

Jan 13, 2025 • 32min
EPISODE 18: Snowy Arrivals and Father Figures
In this engaging conversation, an anonymous stranger from Portugal shares their journey of relocating to the UK and adapting to life in Swindon. They discuss overcoming shyness and building connections, recalling humorous romantic misadventures. Reflecting on cherished community experiences and fond memories, they also delve into complex family dynamics, particularly their relationship with their father and other father figures. This introspective dialogue captures the essence of personal growth through challenges and the deep connections we forge.

Jan 6, 2025 • 27min
EPISODE 17: Cold Water and The Edge
Tom Rosenthal chats with an anonymous stranger who shares a fascinating passion for cold water swimming and its mental health benefits. They delve into the joys of nocturnal swims and how such routines emerged during lockdown. The stranger discusses the challenges of modern parenting, particularly around mental health, and the importance of non-traditional education in personal growth. Their reflections touch on creativity, the thrill of stepping outside comfort zones, and finding beauty in everyday moments, all infused with a light-hearted spirit.

Dec 30, 2024 • 31min
EPISODE 16: The Reluctant Flaneur
This week, Tom Rosenthal sits down with an anonymous stranger who embodies the spirit of a flaneur. They share insights on the joys of urban wandering, especially in cities like London and Paris, highlighting the freedom retirement brings. The conversation is filled with humor as they recount favorite walking routes, the guilt of bookstore browsing, and the bittersweet nature of family dynamics. They also reflect on the complexities of loss, emphasizing personal fulfillment and the importance of embracing spontaneous adventures.

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Dec 23, 2024 • 33min
EPISODE 15: Family Business
Tom Rosenthal chats with an anonymous stranger, who shares their insights as a passionate advocate for family ties. They discuss the lasting impact of cherished relationships and losses, particularly through their family's bicycle business. Reflecting on life's defining moments, they emphasize the importance of joy over societal pressures. The conversation takes a turn towards dementia, exploring mental health and the challenges posed by technology. Humor and personal stories shine through as they navigate social dynamics, ultimately embracing the beauty of life's experiences.