
Strangers on a Bench
Have you ever walked past a mysterious stranger on a park bench and wondered about their lives? Tom Rosenthal (singer-songwriter by trade) has spent the last 6 months walking the many parks of London, approaching random bench-dwellers and asking if he can sit next to them and record their conversation. Every stranger remains anonymous, neither name or place of work is ever revealed (even to Tom himself), leading to greater openness, intimacy, and surprising revelations from the participants. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Latest episodes

10 snips
Dec 16, 2024 • 35min
EPISODE 14: Mondays, Pedro, and Silence
Tom Rosenthal has a candid conversation with an anonymous stranger, delving into the intriguing decision to take Mondays off for family well-being. They explore the complexities of parenting amidst social media's challenges and share heartfelt stories of mentorship with troubled youth. Insights on self-piercing and identity reveal playful interactions, while bonding over heavy metal concerts showcases the joy of embracing individuality. Cycling serves as a reflective escape, blending personal growth with deep connections to nature and family.

Dec 9, 2024 • 39min
EPISODE 13: Maybe I Need To Go Home
Tom Rosenthal interviews an anonymous poet and musician who shares their transformative experiences during lockdown, exploring liberation through relocation and familial health challenges. They delve into the complexities of intimacy, relationships, and the challenges of expressing emotions with parents. The discussion also covers strategies for introducing poetry to newcomers and the poignant reflections that come with turning 40, blending humor and existentialism. Their heartfelt conversation reveals how personal connections shape art and creative growth.

12 snips
Dec 2, 2024 • 18min
EPISODE 12: Quiet Chainsaw Man
Tom Rosenthal chats with an anonymous stranger who shares their love for music, emphasizing the emotional power of physical albums in a digital world. They dive into the complexities of shyness, daydreaming as a coping mechanism, and the anxieties tied to the pressures of higher education. Reflecting on future connections, they contemplate life in the countryside and the bonds formed with neighbors over time. Their whimsical takes on reincarnation and adulthood add both humor and depth to this engaging conversation.

Nov 25, 2024 • 25min
EPISODE 11: If I Had a Boat
In this engaging conversation, Tom Rosenthal chats with an anonymous stranger about life’s big changes. They explore what an ideal day looks like and delve into how parenthood transforms identity. The guest shares humorous takes on the challenges of relaxation post-kids and the allure of living on a boat as a simpler lifestyle. They reflect on the significance of embracing new passions and the evolving nature of fatherhood, creating a delightful blend of personal stories and heartfelt insights.

7 snips
Nov 18, 2024 • 24min
EPISODE 10: Shall We Roll Down the Hill?
Tom Rosenthal interviews an anonymous stranger on a London bench, who shares their love for Sunday rituals like music and comfort food. The conversation dives into escapism through fantasy literature, touching on Nietzsche’s philosophical insights. Heartfelt anecdotes reveal familial bonds, alongside whimsical reflections on fate and meaningful city encounters. They candidly discuss hidden struggles with health issues, emphasizing resilience, and conclude with a celebration of nature and the fleeting joy of life.

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Nov 11, 2024 • 28min
EPISODE 9: Deli Meets
Tom Rosenthal interviews an anonymous stranger, who shares fascinating insights into their life as someone of Algerian and Irish descent, growing up in Rouen, France. They discuss childhood memories, cultural influences, and the emotional journey navigating family dynamics. The conversation shifts to the struggles of aging and witnessing global suffering, balancing serious reflections with humorous takes on fitness and music nostalgia. Their exchange beautifully blends light-hearted banter with deep introspection about life's complexities.

9 snips
Nov 4, 2024 • 23min
EPISODE 8: Youngest of Six
Tom Rosenthal chats with an anonymous stranger from London, who is the youngest of six in a culturally rich family. They delve into the struggles of balancing British and Pakistani identities and the feeling of isolation that comes with it. The duo shares personal stories, from daily dance routines that relieve stress to the warm chaos of sibling dynamics. They also discuss the power of music in creating cultural connections during travels and explore the evolving nature of relationships in the digital age.

Oct 28, 2024 • 39min
EPISODE 7: The Disappearing Cyclist
A chance encounter on a park bench sparks deep conversations about the meaning of each day. One guest reflects on a transformative journey from addiction to resilience, fueled by a passion for cycling. They share stories of overcoming health challenges and navigating the complexities of loneliness and family ties. The exploration of parental bonds and the significance of respect in relationships adds depth. Finally, themes of belonging and the nomadic lifestyle illuminate how travel can shape personal growth.

26 snips
Oct 21, 2024 • 29min
EPISODE 6: Love, Death, and Parisians
Tom Rosenthal chats with an anonymous stranger about the invigorating feeling of quitting a job to embrace freedom, encapsulating the essence of spontaneity. They discuss the thrill of urban life in Paris, savoring intimate moments amid the anonymity of a vibrant city. The conversation delves into love's complexities, comparing cultural attitudes across London and Paris, intertwined with reflections on family legacies and personal routines that provide solace. Wrapping up, they explore the pursuit of artistic freedom versus traditional security.

7 snips
Oct 14, 2024 • 28min
EPISODE 5: Michael's Tree
In this candid conversation, Tom Rosenthal chats with an anonymous stranger, sharing insights about life and personal experiences. They discuss the camaraderie of weekends and the transformative power of love and loss, particularly in relation to the HIV and AIDS crisis. Travel tales emerge, highlighting the joy of retirement adventures, and childhood memories from industrial Glasgow provide a backdrop for resilience amidst challenges. The discussion wraps up with reflections on setting boundaries and personal growth.