Trying To Figure It Out

This week on TTFIO, Sierra Boudreaux joins me for a candid conversation about the experience of losing a parent. Sierra received the call in January that her mom passed away unexpectedly and she shares the rollercoaster of feelings she's experienced since then. She says her grief is unpredictable, but explains how her friends help her through the rough times. She also gives tips about what *not* to do when a friend is grieving. Hint: Don't make it about yourself! Sierra tells the story of her sober curious journey, how her mom's death upended her sobriety, and how she comfortably incorporated alcohol back into her life. The 26-year-old content creator from Texas drinks now, but we discuss the rules she's created to keep her drinking in check. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Executive Producer: Annie Gottlieb Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

Charli Burnett joins Trying To Figure It Out this week for an episode you won't want to miss. Charli, a former Vanderpump Rules cast member, is here to break down her time on the show, and even reveals who she still keeps in touch with. We discuss where she is now both professionally, and personally, and she divulges some major life updates (spoiler alert, she's engaged).

 We dive into where she grew up and how that drastically impacted her image on the show. Charli shares the story of how she ended up working in reality television and where that path might lead her next. We debunk major Vanderpump fan misconceptions (yes, we talk pasta), and how starring on the show completely changed her relationship with her now-fiancee. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Executive Producer: Annie Gottlieb Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

We're back with some bonus content! A little ask-me-anything for your pleasure. I love supporting our listeners on the journey to ‘figure it out' … and this mini-episode is here to dole out all the advice. ENJOY! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Executive Producer: Annie Gottlieb Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

I'm launching Season 4 with a solo BIRTHDAY episode. Today it's just you and me - and I am officially 27. We are no longer rounding down, I am in my late 20s and I can sit here and say that I've finally figured some things out. But first, life updates. I'll let you know where the f I've been for the last 10 months. I've missed you guys. Also in this episode, we'll talk about the absurd life timeline I set for myself when I was younger, and how I have met absolutely zero of these “milestones.” STORYTIME! The Clarins Icons Event was my first brand event in a long time, and I can actually report that we had a blast. We'll talk managing friendships, finding your confidence, and, of course, I'll offer a gentle reminder to be fucking nice to yourself. ENJOY! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Executive Producer: Annie Gottlieb Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

We're back this week with a solo episode! Get cozy with me and dive into the mid-twenties scaries. I've had some time to reflect since the last solo episode and I share with you how I've been feeling recently about my childhood home selling. What do you do when your home is no longer your home? With the house being gone, I've had to tackle the challenge of changing my address on EVERYTHING – IDs, credit cards, bills, you name it. Life has been coming at me fast lately now that I'm 26 and apparently it's all thanks to my frontal lobe maturing. Welcome to my fully-formed brain. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

Lily Rosenthal joins me on Trying To Figure It Out this week for SUCH a fun episode. Lily is the queen of the LA food scene and she dishes out recommendations that would make any foodie drool. Lily and I take a trip back to her childhood and she shares what it was like growing up on the set of Everybody Loves Raymond. Lily's dad, Phil Rosenthal, was the creator, writer, and executive producer of the show, and Lily gets real about the influence her dad has had on her and her career path. You'll hear all about her family's infamous Sunday movie nights where actors, writers, and directors across Hollywood join the Rosenthals at their home for homemade pizza and a movie. And Lily also tells the story of her and her boyfriend's amazing meet cute; he's a chef, of course. We finish with a rapidfire segment of some of Lily's top recommendations throughout Los Angeles. You'll learn which restaurant has the best smashburger, what her absolute favorite bagel is, where to celebrate your next birthday, and what her Erewhon hot take is. Get excited, I know you're going to love this one. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Additional Support: Jillian Himmelwright

Addie McCracken joins Trying To Figure It Out this week for her very first public interview. Opening up like never before, Addie shares some of the challenges she faced in high school and what went through her head when she found out she was pregnant with Rustyn at 19 years old. Brady and Rustyn join us as well and Rustyn is as chatty and adorable as ever. You'll learn all about Addie and Brady's parenting style and how Rustyn became so talkative at such a young age. Addie shares how social media has changed her family's life for the better and we get a sneak peek at Addie and Brady's upcoming wedding plans! I loved getting to meet the whole family – Addie, Brady, and Rustyn bring so much joy with them and I know you'll feel that through this episode too. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Research: Jillian Himmelwright

This week's episode is a Disneyland vlog! Check it out on the Trying To Figure It Out with Ally Petitti YouTube channel. Tune in for all my insider tips, can't-miss rides, and where you have to eat. Enjoy! Watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSUmrSWFfbo Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock

Kristi Howard, the Queen of Getting Banned, joins me this week on Trying To Figure It Out for an incredible conversation. Kristi gets real about her anxiety and explains how she's working on saying “yes” to more social outings, even though she might rather stay at home in bed. Kristi also opens up like never before about the loss of her older sister to addiction. Kristi shares what it was like watching her sister succumb to the disease all because of one decision she made at 14 years old. We have a very raw and candid conversation about addiction and I am so grateful to Kristi for being so open with me. This episode discusses adult subject matter, including descriptions of drug abuse and addiction, and is intended for adult consumption only. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is struggling, free, confidential support is available 24/7 through SAMHSA at 800.662.4357 and online at samhsa.gov. Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier Research: Jillian Himmelwright

Real-life Gossip Girl Kristi Cook joins TTFIO this week. It's been six months since Kristi revealed that she is the woman behind the ultra-popular celebrity news account Spill Sesh. For the past five years, Kristi has been running Spill Sesh on YouTube and bringing fans all the celebrity gossip they could need. After we hash out all our thoughts on the Met Gala, Kristi shares what went into her decision to start her account anonymously and how her content has changed since she revealed her identity. We talk about how to deal with internet hate and the pressure that comes with posting online. As usual, we wrap up with Al P's Three and Kristi has some true bops to add to the playlist. Enjoy! Also available as a video podcast on YouTube. Out now on all podcast platforms. Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allypetitti?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allypetitti/ Al P's Three: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/27My1AtDVYwrb7kM0Ilqm2?si=2a70434127aa4519&nd=1 Follow Kristi/Spill Sesh on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SpillSesh Follow Kristi/Spill Sesh on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spillsesh_yt?lang=en Host: Ally Petitti Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Anshul Shankhdhar Research: Jillian Himmelwright