
Strong Men Strong Marriages
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
Latest episodes

Nov 26, 2024 • 14min
How To Enjoy Your Marriage More
If you find yourself unhappy in your marriage…Resentful..Frustrated…Wondering if you married the right person…This episode is for you.You’ll learn how to start feeling better right away…And by doing that…Become more attractive to your wife.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 21, 2024 • 2min
Partner With God In Being Generous [Thursday Challenge]
Ask yourself today:How can I partner with God to use the time and money He’s given me to bless others?Then go do it!Let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 19, 2024 • 17min
How To Stop Worrying About What's Fair
If you’re like me, you’re very concerned about things being fair.You work hard for the money and respect you get…And you expect others to do the same.When they don’t work as hard as you…But still get money or respect…You can get upset. Jealous. Angry. Frustrated.Are those fruits of the Spirit? Are they part of the Abundant Life God wants for you?Learn how to stop worrying about what’s fair and join with God in His generosity…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvqlewvkPhMDr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 14, 2024 • 2min
Self-Check: Am I Trusting God Or Money More? [Thursday Challenge]
Ask yourself a few quick questions:-Do I spend more time thinking about money… or about God?-Do I feel more security from my money and investments… or from trusting God to provide for me?-If my assets were stolen, what would my reaction be?If you find that you are trusting money for your sense of safety and security more than God…There’s a quick fix.Shift your thinking to trust in Him more! Pray for that help, remind yourself of the scriptures that remind you of his care for you.And let me know how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 12, 2024 • 17min
Trusting God vs Trusting Money
I’ve had a personal shift that I wanted to share with you today.I realized that I was trusting money for my security vs trusting God.Since I’ve made the shift, I feel:-Much more peace-Much lighter-Much more gratefulAnd, God is blessing me financially as well.Learn how to check if you’re trusting money too much…And what to do about it…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 7, 2024 • 22min
31 Days To Become A Better Man with Joel Gandara
Joel has become a good friend of mine over the past few months.Today you’ll learn about his story…And his program, 31 Days To Become A Better Man…That has helped men apply business, financial, physical and relationship principles…To create BIG transformations in just 31 days.Hear some of the inspiring stories in today’s episode…Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’d like to join the group with me for the November 20th 31 day challenge, visit this link and when you use the code “strongmen” you’ll get $19.99 off!https://31dailychallenges.com/ P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Nov 5, 2024 • 21min
How To Respond To Negativity
I had a big failure as a husband and father a few days ago.I met negativity with negativity… and damaged relationships badly in the process.I spent the day with God yesterday and He helped show me a better way…And how to accomplish it…Learn how in today’s episode…Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 31, 2024 • 2min
Reverse The Hurt [Thursday Challenge]
Today, find a way to reverse the invalidation triple threat.Let your wife know you did something wrong (invalidated her)...That you can understand how she would feel (unheard, unseen, unsafe)...And that you can understand how she could think a certain way (that she’s not important to you, that you think you’re better than her, etc.)...And let me know how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 29, 2024 • 11min
How To Reverse The Hurt In Your Marriage
A few weeks back we talked about the Invalidation Triple Threat.That’s when you tell your wife:-She’s wrong for what she’s thinking-She’s wrong for what she’s feeling-You’re rightThis causes her to close her heart… and body… off from you.We all do this sometimes, and luckily we can reverse it by reversing those 3 steps:-Tell her how you were wrong for responding the way you did-Understand how she could feel that way-Understand how she could think that wayThis helps her feel safe and open her mind, heart and body more to you.Watch on YouTube here.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MytcPIKG2xkDr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 24, 2024 • 1min
Stop A Marriage Fight This Week [Thursday Challenge]
Tuesday you learned how to stop a marriage fight by…Step 1 - Notice the angerStep 2 - Release the angerStep 3 - Listen or walk awayNow, try it and see how it goes!Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157