
Strong Men Strong Marriages
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
Latest episodes

Oct 22, 2024 • 19min
3 Steps To Stop A Marriage Fight... And Create More Intimacy
My wife and I got in a fight last night…And it reminded me of 3 steps I can take in the future to step out of the “who’s right” pattern…Creating less safety and closed hearts…And step into a pattern that allows more connection and intimacy….Step 1 - Notice the angerStep 2 - Release the angerStep 3 - Listen or walk awayWatch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjjxlpDd52ADr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 17, 2024 • 2min
Respond To Your Wife's Anger In A New Way [Thursday Challenge]
So you learned that getting mad back, the invalidation triple threat and trying to make your wife happy won’t work.Instead, try…Responding with kindness…Serving her because you want to (going the extra mile)...Or just saying “no.”And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 15, 2024 • 14min
How To Respond To Your Wife's Anger
When your wife gets mad at you for something, most men either…Get mad back…Tell their wife she’s wrong and justify themselves (invalidation triple threat)...Or tuck tail and just try to make her happy.Unfortunately, all of these lead to disconnection and lack of intimacy.Learn what to do instead… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4DTUrjjLcoDr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 10, 2024 • 3min
Build Your Relationship With Jesus
Relationships are built by…Talking to peopleSpending time togetherDoing things togetherTo build a relationship with Jesus, you need to do the same things.Choose 1 to do this week.And let me know how it goes.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 8, 2024 • 21min
The Recipe To Be Blessed In Your Life And Marriage
Do you feel like you’re doing what God wants you to do in your marriage…Putting your wife first, serving her, losing so she can win…But you don’t feel blessed by God for those efforts?In fact, you just feel resentful?Learn today what Jesus was REALLY saying in his Beatitudes (according to The Divine Conspiracy by Dallas Willard)So you can find joy, healing and love NOW in your life and marriage.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 3, 2024 • 2min
Acknowledge The Hurt… And Stop Hurting Her [Thursday Challenge]
Your wife’s heart has closed to you because it’s been hurt.By you.Today, recognize a way you have hurt her heart.Apologize.And stop doing it.As a bonus, do the opposite to help her start healing and opening her heart.Let me know how it goes.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/Watch on YouTube here.(Lorena new links here)https://youtube.com/shorts/U3zdkBBU-JU (Lorena new links here)Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 1, 2024 • 13min
How To Get Your Wife’s Heart To Open To You
How To Get Your Wife’s Heart To Open To YouIf you feel like roommates in your marriage…If you’re getting one-word answers from your wife…If you feel disconnected emotionally and sexually…Your wife has closed her heart to you.How do you get it to open back up, so you have the connection, looks of love and physical intimacy you want?Learn in today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 26, 2024 • 2min
Serve Your Wife In Her Language [Thursday Challenge]
There’s something important to your wife that isn’t important to you.Maybe it’s the way towels are folded. The way counters are wiped. Leaving the toilet seat up.Instead of dismissing this as stupid…See this as a chance to serve her in her language.Put the toilet seat down.Not as a way of “caving in,” but as a way to speak love to her in her language.Let me know how it goes!Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 24, 2024 • 17min
Why Being Right Causes Problems In Marriage
As high achieving Christian men, we like to be right.And, it’s important to be right in some things, particularly in our work.But, when we focus on being right in our marriage…And our wife being wrong…We create disconnection, lack of trust, and low intimacy.Learn what to do instead…To create deep connection, intimacy and the look of love in your marriage…In today’s episode.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 19, 2024 • 2min
Plug Into The Power! [Thursday Challenge]
Now we know that the easy way to feel more love for your wife, your kids, yourself and everyone…Is to PLUG INTO the Kingdom of God that is at hand… meaning AVAILABLE right now.Pray to plug in and feel it…Think of Jesus a few extra times today…Imagine Jesus with you…And let me know what kind of difference you feel.Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast.Watch on YouTube here. [Lorena new links here]https://youtube.com/shorts/EaYEZ3b_PyM [Lorena new links here]Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157