

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Mar 8, 2022 • 23min
The Beatitudes Vs The High-Achieving Personality
My date night started off bad.But, I was able to use the skills that I’ve learned to turn it around.Learn how at the beginning of the episode.As part of our date night, we took a personality test.I found that I have a “powerful choleric” personality (and you probably have some of it too).This personality is driven, productive and gets a lot done.But, they are also prone to being proud and judgmental.Learn what Jesus taught about this…And how to use the positive elements of your personality, while controlling the negatives…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Next week I’m opening up the Love, Intimacy And Legacy program. It’s for you if you are a Christian man who wants to create a loving, intimate connection with his wife so you can leave a legacy of Christ-like love and leadership for your children, grandchildren and future generations. It can start with you. CLICK HERE to apply. I’ll review your application and contact you with next steps. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Mar 1, 2022 • 28min
How To Have A Drama Free Marriage
Do you feel like you’re doing everything you can to have a great marriage…But it’s just not happening?You’re making the changes your wife wants you to make, but she still doesn’t want to have sex with you?Or she isn’t forgiving you for your mistakes, isn’t willing to end a separation or divorce?You may be caught in what Stephen Karpman called “The Karpman Drama Triangle.”Learn how to step out of this so that you can…-Feel loved and confident in your marriage-Communicate to get a deep mental and emotional connection with your wife-Create incredible intimacy in your marriageFind out what to start and stop doing in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Are you a self-motivated, goal-oriented man (or couple) with Christian values who wants to create love, connection and intimacy in your marriage? CLICK HERE to apply to work with me. I’ll review your answers and reach out for next steps.P.P.S. Want more love, connection and intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/more-intimate-marriage P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Feb 22, 2022 • 24min
How To Be Truly Happy In Your Marriage
What will make you happy in your marriage?If your wife has sex with you more?If she forgives you and comes back?If she stops the divorce?Most men think this way. That they will be happy when their wife does something different.But, what if she didn’t have to do anything for you to be truly happy?And what if your happiness is what led to her opening up to you and connecting with you emotionally and sexually?Fortunately, you CAN be happy in your marriage BEFORE your wife changes anything.And your happiness is exactly what will lead to the changes you’re hoping for.Find out how this works in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Interested in working together to improve your relationship with God, yourself and your wife? Schedule a marriage assessment call with me here. P.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/more-intimate-marriage P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Feb 15, 2022 • 30min
My #1 Secret For Loving Relationships
Would you like to know how to have loving relationships for the rest of your life?I recently realized that my main goal in life is to have loving relationships with God, myself, my wife, and each of my kids.If I can do that, then I will have lived a great life.I was reminded this week of a secret that can help me reach that goal.And that, in fact, puts that goal 100% within my reach.Learn the secret that makes this possible in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/BP6C7uZy9UcDr. MikeP.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be opening up my program for new members. It’s going to be the best and most effective version of the program yet.P.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/more-intimate-marriage P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Feb 8, 2022 • 26min
Should You Try To Be The Best?
This week I got upset with my kids again for beating me in a game.This time, though, I took the time to really sit with my emotions and understand why this has been such a problem for me.What I uncovered was a deep issue with my identity.That identity was: I am the best.While this may seem like the kind of affirmation that would get you everything you want in life…For me it caused a lot of problems. With myself, my wife, my kids and my business.Learn why focusing on “being the best” can be a problem…And a more freeing, but still motivating, identity and purpose you can use instead…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be opening up my program for new members. It’s going to be the best and most effective version of the program yet.P.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Feb 1, 2022 • 31min
Intimacy Intensive 3 - Attractive And Unattractive Reasons To Build Strength
If you’ve been following along with the intimacy intensive series, you’ve learned that women are attracted to strength.So, you may be wanting to build your strength.But, that strength needs to be built on a solid foundation.If you want to build strength mainly so that you can save your marriage or have more sex with your wife…You are built on a sandy foundation.At its core, this reason is still manipulative and controlling. You’re changing to change her behavior.And, therefore, building strength for her is very unattractive.And, if your wife has already separated from you, she knows that if she comes back, you’ll be back to your old self. Because your motivation to change (getting her back) is now gone.On the other hand, deciding to build strengths because that’s who you want to be as a man is strong and attractive.You have control over this outcome, where you have no control over the other (your wife’s decisions).And, if you anchor who you want to be as a man and husband to who God wants you to be, you are building on the ultimate strong foundation (in my Chrisitan beliefs and opinion).You feel good about your decision and who you are, and that feels strong and is attractive.Learn more about building strength and making changes for attractive vs unattractive reasons in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be launching the updated version of The Strong Man System. It’s going to be the best and most effective version yet.P.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/more-intimate-marriage P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 25, 2022 • 18min
Our Marriage Is Good... Except For The Sex
Last week I attended a writing workshop through Scribe. It was an amazing experience, but one of the most meaningful parts was getting clear on who I can help best.In this episode, I describe clearly the type of person with the type of problem I feel especially able to help with.I call him John.John is a professionally successful Christian man who has a good marriage… except for the sex.But, if you dig a little deeper, you’ll see that it’s really a deep sense of feeling trapped.He tries so hard to make his wife happy, but it never translates to sex.He feels he’s getting all the responsibilities of marriage with none of the benefits.He wants to be committed to his wife sexually, but since she won’t have sex with him, what is he supposed to do?He sometimes turns to pornography, then feels guilty about this. He sometimes thinks he’d be better off with another woman (like maybe women at work or even at church who admire him), then feels guilty about those thoughts.He’s asked his wife to have more sex, but it never results in lasting change.What is John to do? He wants to be a good man, and he feels like he’s being a good husband. Checking off the boxes of what should result in him having a great marriage and a great sex life.But it’s not working. And leaving his wife or turning to pornography or another women don’t line up with his Christian values.He feels extremely frustrated and trapped.Learn more about John’s struggles in today’s episode.If John sounds like you, then I can help you.If he doesn’t, you’re probably better off finding another coach who can help you better.Watch on YouTube here. Fortunately, there’s a way out of this. You can feel free and have an amazing sex life with your wife.That’s what I help men do and we’ll talk more details in the next episode.Dr. MikeP.S. In the next few weeks, I’ll be launching the updated version of The Strong Man System. It’s going to be more fun and better than ever.P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

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Jan 18, 2022 • 35min
Intimacy Intensive 2 - What Are Women Attracted To?
Last week we learned about the common mistakes men make when trying to have more intimacy with their wife.The main problem is that these methods are NEEDY, WEAK and SELFISH.Women always have been and always will be attracted to…STRENGTH.In old times, physical or financial strength was enough.But, now that women can provide for themselves financially, they are looking for men who are strong in ALL areas.Physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and sexual.Today we’ll talk about what I believe is the MOST important strength…And how you can start developing it TODAY to have more intimacy with your wife.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 11, 2022 • 18min
Intimacy Intensive 1 - The 3 Mistakes You’re Making
Over the next few weeks we’ll be doing a short “intimacy intensive” course.This will help you to start the new year with improved intimacy with your wife.Today we’re going to talk about the 3 problematic approaches that men take when they want more intimacy with their wife.-The Mosquito Method-The Pout Method-The “You Owe Me” MethodAll three of these are based on neediness and weakness, and will eventually lead to LESS passion and intimacy in your marriage.Learn what these methods are, and how to stop them, in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 4, 2022 • 4min
COVID
I’ve been sick in bed with COVID all this week, so today I’m going to refer you to a different podcast.The Joe Rogan Experience - #1747 - Dr. Peter A McCullough Dr. McCullough is a renowned physician and has testified in congress regarding COVID treatment.In this episode, you’ll hear Dr. McCullough’s concern about the glaring lack of treatment for COVID-19.You’ll also hear why he believes masks don’t really make sense, and how you can not get COVID twice.His solution to beat the pandemic is focusing on natural immunity and treatment for the virus to avoid hospitalization and death.If you want to hear me say basically this in a sick voice, Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/H6CVWbAZm9wDr. MikeP.S. Want a better, more intimate marriage with your wife? Come join The Strong Man System. It will be worth your $2500, or you get your $2500 back. CLICK HERE to join. P.S. Want more intimacy in your marriage? Watch my free training. CLICK HERE to watch now. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157


