

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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Nov 2, 2021 • 26min
Do It Yourself vs Do It With Jesus
Jesus said:“"I am the true vine...Remain in me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:1-5In The Strong Man System, we are trying to build strength across these areas:Spiritual (self-worth, mission, purpose and integrity)MentalEmotionalPhysical andSexualThe changes or good works we do in these areas are the “fruit” of the program.And, the tools you learn in the program will help you bear some fruit.But, you’ll be able to do much MORE…And avoid the inevitable burnout of trying to make these changes on your own…If you attach yourself to the “true vine” through this process.See how Jesus can help you with building these areas of strength, ESPECIALLY your sense of self-worth, in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to join The Strong Man System to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself (ideally by deciding to connect with Jesus)… giving yourself the BEST chance of saving your marriage? CLICK HERE to join. It will be worth the $2500, or you get your $2500 back. Or, if you’d like to ask a few questions first, CLICK HERE to schedule a 20 minute consultation with my team. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 26, 2021 • 28min
How To Stop Acting Like A Baby
Men come to me in very difficult situations.They are in a separation or in the divorce process.Their wife has been unfaithful to them.They have been unfaithful to their wife and feel terrible about it.These are MAJOR issues and VERY difficult.They are the equivalent of being hit by an emotional bus.And when this happens, we ARE in a younger emotional state.In a way, we are babies.But how do high achieving men respond?They tell themselves to “just deal with it.”They “just keep moving forward.”But unfortunately, by not acknowledging and taking care of the “baby…”They start acting in negative and self-destructive ways…And become MORE reliant on others to care for them emotionally.Learn how to respond APPROPRIATELY to your emotional “baby” when hard things happen…So you can trust yourself and become LESS reliant on others to care for you.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to join The Strong Man System to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself… giving yourself the BEST chance of saving your marriage? CLICK HERE to join. It will be worth the $2500, or you get your $2500 back. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 19, 2021 • 29min
How To Ask For What You Want In Marriage... In 3 Simple Steps
We all have things we would like our wife to do for us.We want more attention, appreciation or affection.We want to have sex more often.We want our wife to spend less money, cook more, clean more, or spend more time with our family (or less time with hers).Why isn’t our wife doing the things we want?Often it’s because we’re not ASKING for what we want in an EFFECTIVE way.We either don’t ask at all... Try mosquito mode (doing nice things for her and HOPING she returns the favor)...Or we COMPLAIN about what we DON’T like.All of these are immature and unattractive…And not EFFECTIVE in getting what we want.Instead, use the pattern established by Aristotle to create an effective, persuasive request.Ethos, pathos, logos.Learn how to do this in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to join The Strong Man System to become the STRONGEST and MOST ATTRACTIVE version of yourself… giving yourself the BEST chance of saving your marriage? CLICK HERE to join. It will be worth the $2500, or you get your $2500 back. Or, if you’d like to ask a few questions first, CLICK HERE to schedule a 20 minute consultation with my team. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 12, 2021 • 35min
What The Strong Man System Can Do For You
Most men come to The Strong Man System wanting to change their outside situation.They want their wife to come back.They want to stop a separation or divorce.They want to restore trust after infidelity.They want a better sex life.And, The Strong Man System CAN help them do this.Just not in the way they think at first.Here’s what a few graduates of the program have said:The Strong Man System is a “revamp of your heart and brain.”It teaches you to become the “best version of yourself.”It teaches you to “have the best communication you’ve ever had.”Through the program, you’ll build up your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and sexual strength.You’ll develop excellent communication skills.And you’ll learn how to create passion, fun, and intimacy.You’ll learn to live in a world where, in your important relationships, you BOTH feel like you’re winning.Once you experience it, you’ll never accept anything less.Today is the LAST CHANCE for 2021 to join The Strong Man System for $2500 and get 90 days of support included.That includes my help with your apology letter, 90 days of access to my hand-picked mentor, 90 days of unlimited Q&A with me, and 90 days of access to office hours with me.CLICK HERE to join The Strong Man System.And to learn more about what the program includes and does…Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/3_s3s-eHnz8Dr. MikeP.S. If you wait to join until after today, you’ll pay $4000 or more for the program plus 90 days of support and help with your apology letter. CLICK HERE to join The Strong Man System now. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Oct 5, 2021 • 27min
Marriage Counseling vs Marriage Coaching
Counseling and coaching are often confused.When would you choose a marriage counselor vs a marriage coach?For the most part, it’s about choosing an approach that fits with your beliefs, values and preferences.In this episode, we cover some of the main marriage counseling schools of thought…As well as the coaching method…And finally my personal approach to marriage coaching.Watch on YouTube here.To me, it’s about learning a particular set of skills that allows you to have an outstanding marriage.My job is to teach you what those skills are, have you practice them, and then coach you to improve those skills.I’m a good fit for high achievers who want to learn a skill, are ready to work 1.5 to 2 hours per day to learn it, and are looking for expert feedback to speed up their progress.If that’s you, for this week only I’m making a special offer to podcast listeners and email subscribers.Normally you get 90 days access to The Strong Man System for $2500, with the option to add additional services (apology letter help, Q&A, mentors, and office hours) for $500 per month.But, from now until next Tuesday, October 12th at midnight Pacific time, for your $2500 investment, you’ll get LIFETIME access to the online materials, my help with your apology letter, PLUS 90 days of access to my hand-picked mentors, UNLIMITED Q&A with me, and access to my office hours to talk and coach 1 on 1.You will pay $1500-$2500 for these bonuses if you wait until after the deadline.So, CLICK HERE to join now.I’m looking forward to working with you.Dr. MikeP.S. For more information, visit http://mikefraziermd.com P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 28, 2021 • 25min
Fixing Marriage Communication: A Real Life Example
Most people say the biggest problem in their marriage is communication.But, most people can’t figure out how to FIND and FIX their marriage communication problems.Today I’m going to share with you my favorite tool to fix marriage communication…And share a real life example so you can see how to use this tool.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. Ready to join The Strong Man System? Restore trust, improve communication, and ignite intimacy… in just 30 days. It’s the best $2500 you’ll ever spend. CLICK HERE to join, or if you’d like to ask my team a few questions about the program first, CLICK HERE.P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 21, 2021 • 26min
How To Manage Your High Achieving Brain
What do you want to accomplish in your marriage?In your career?With your money?As a high achieving man, you’re used to setting goals and reaching them.But why is it that when you reach them, you STILL don’t feel fulfilled?Why do you immediately start seeking the NEXT big goal?Why do you tend to spend money or pick a fight with your wife or get mad at your kids…Right when things seem to be going well?You’ll find answers to these questions in today’s episode, which is a summary of some of the concepts from the book Driven by Douglas Brackmann.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/savemymarriage P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 14, 2021 • 18min
Don't Ask: What Do You Do For Me?
Have you ever asked your wife… “What do you do for me?”So have I. And so have most of my clients.How did it go for you?Did your wife become more loving and connected?Or angry, hurt or guilty?Learn why this question is terrible…And what to do instead to have your wife start doing more for you…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. Interested in joining The Strong Man System but want to chat first to see if it’s a fit? Schedule a 20 minute Marriage Assessment here. We’ll talk about where you are in your marriage, where you want to go, and if we’re a fit to work together. Whether we work together after or not, I want this to be the best 20 minutes you’ve spent on your marriage. CLICK HERE to schedule your Marriage Assessment.P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. https://mikefraziermd.mykajabi.com/savemymarriage P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Sep 7, 2021 • 35min
LDS Faith Crisis In Marriage
My wife and I were both born and raised members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.A few years back, my wife started to have some questions about the Church.This was VERY hard on me… to the point that I thought if she wasn’t going to be a member of the Church, it would be better if we got divorced.Fast forward to now, we have both evolved in our faith and belief in God…And have a STRONGER marriage because of our “faith crisis.”This is more of a personal episode, sharing what helped us get through it and build MORE intimacy because of our LDS faith crisis.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. Interested in joining The Strong Man System but want to chat first to see if it’s a fit? Schedule a 20 minute Marriage Assessment here. We’ll talk about where you are in your marriage, where you want to go, and if we’re a fit to work together. Whether we work together after or not, I want this to be the best 20 minutes you’ve spent on your marriage. CLICK HERE to schedule your Marriage Assessment.P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Aug 31, 2021 • 20min
Why You Need To Rest
When you lift weights, you create small tears in your muscles.If you keep lifting weights without resting, these tears just get bigger, making you WEAKER over time.That’s why it’s IMPERATIVE that you REST and eat well if you’re trying to build muscle.The muscle REGROWS bigger and stronger while you REST.The same is true of building spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength…And the interpersonal skills of trust, communication, and intimacy.You need to work to build the strengths and skills.But you ALSO need to let yourself REST and RECOVER for optimal results.Learn some of my favorite tools to rest and recover in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving man trying to save his marriage, you’re probably making one of the 3 FATAL MISTAKES that will drive your wife away instead of ATTRACTING her to you. CLICK HERE to watch the free training. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157