Strong Men In God

An emotional affair does major damage to a marriage. Your wife feels angry, depressed and betrayed.You feel guilty, but are not sure what to do to fix it.You’ve broken off the relationship, but your wife still brings it up often.Fortunately, there are steps you can take to recover after an emotional affair.You need to:-Identify and change the reasons why you had the emotional affair-Rebuild trust-Improve communication-Restore intimacyLearn how to take positive steps forward after you had an emotional affair in today’s episode.We'll cover emotional affair definition, emotional affair signs, emotional affair stages and emotional affair recovery.In next week’s episode we’ll be talking about what to do if your wife had an emotional affair.You’ll want to listen to that one as well because it will help you understand her perspective much better.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is looking to rebuild his marriage after an emotional affair…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program.  P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

Justin felt like he needed to change or he was going to lose all connection with his wife and end up as roommates.Nikki felt like she “didn’t need Justin” and “couldn’t count on him to do anything.”Their relationship felt co-dependent and strained, and their physical connection was not where either one wanted it to be.Justin decided to join the program (without telling Nikki at first).Nikki was surprised by how fast and how extensive Justin’s changes were.Justin feels more confident, honest, and closer to God than ever.Nikki feels she can trust Justin and feels more loved, admired and valued by Justin than she ever has before.Their physical connection is “exponentially better” according to Nikki.Tune in to hear their story today. I recommend watching the video to see how loving their interaction is.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you want yours to be the next success story… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

Infidelity breaks the main foundation of a great marriage: trust.So, how do you rebuild trust after infidelity?Some men think that it’s by apologizing, moving forward, and having her decide to trust you again.But it’s actually the opposite.You need to really dig into her pain for as long as it takes.You need to understand it completely before you can move forward.And you have to understand that she can’t trust you. It’s not something she can give. It’s something that you have to build.Learn more in today’s episode.You absolutely can rebuild trust after infidelity.But you have to avoid the common mistakes and take the right steps to do it.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife (even after infidelity)...CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

If you’re not having the amount or type of sex you would like with your wife…You are doing things that are turning her off.As I’ve worked with high achieving Christian men, there are three main ways that men turn their wife off.Being an emotional terrorist.Acting like a baby.And being a parasite.Learn what these mean…How to stop doing them…And what to do instead…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants a better sex life with his wife…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

Right now you want your marriage to change.You want more attention, appreciation, affection and sex for your wife.You feel like you’ve tried lots of things, and maybe they’ve helped some.But, you’re still not where you want to be.Here’s the problem.You’re not using the 3 keys to transform your marriage.You need to commit to changing yourself NO MATTER WHAT your wife does.You need to commit to getting outside help to see your blind spots and treat the “personality cancer” that is destroying your relationships.And, you need accountability to make sure that your changes are consistent over time.Without these three keys, you will:-Fall into the mosquito cycle and try to change so that your wife changes. This will lead to you being anxious and manipulative, which will drive her away.-Miss your blind spots, so you will continue to do problematic things that you don’t even realize you’re doing-Make changes for a while, then stop doing them because you don’t have the accountability to keep them upLearn more about these ideas on today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you are a high achieving Christian man and are ready to commit to: -Changing NO MATTER WHAT-Getting coaching to see your blind spots and treat your “personality cancer”-Having accountability to make sure your changes are consistent and permanentCLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

You’re trying to get your wife’s attention, appreciation and affection.You’re cooking, cleaning, making the money, and helping with the kids.You’re shutting down activities that you enjoy to spend more time with her.And despite all your sacrifices…It’s not working!You don’t have the mental, emotional and sexual intimacy you want with your wife.There’s good news.You’re a guy who puts in the effort.You’re just directing that effort incorrectly.A passionate marriage is built on 3 pillars:TrustCommunicationAnd Intimacy.Learn how to build all three in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…And get the coaching and accountability to help you get there much FASTER…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

You’re working hard to change your marriage.You’re listening to podcasts, reading books, and learning as much as you can.And you’re seeing some changes.But you’re not where you want to be.Why is that?When it comes to changing your behavior in relationships…You have blind spots.Just like everyone else.And you can either humble yourself enough to get the help to see them…And make changes in days or weeks that would take you years on your own…Or you can keep chasing your tail, making little steps…But never quite getting the results you want.I know this first hand.I tried “do it myself” for YEARS.Until I finally humbled myself enough to get coaching.And made monumental shifts in just a few weeks.And you’ll hear my story… and how it turned out…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…And get the coaching and accountability to help you get there much FASTER…Starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to speaking with you! P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

What does your dream marriage look like?For most of the guys I talk to, it involves being great friends, aligned on big goals, supporting each other, having fun together, and enjoying a great sex life.Being connected spiritually, mentally, emotionally and sexually connected.But, you’re probably not spending much time envisioning that marriage.Probably because you think it’s just not possible.That with your situation, with your wife, it’s just not going to happen.So you start escaping into pornography or fantasizing about other women… Or turning to food or work or alcohol or social media to numb your disappointment.What I’ve learned recently is the power of our dreams.That sounds cheesy, but there’s actual research behind it.Right now you’re picturing (dreaming of) a negative future for yourself. So subconsciously, you’re CREATING that negative future.Instead, you need to actively create the future relationship that you want in your mind…And spend time there each day.Then ask yourself… What kind of husband do I need to be to create that kind of relationship?Then picture yourself becoming that man.That vision will pull you towards it, helping you become the man that creates an amazing marriage.Learn more about these ideas in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to build yourself into the man that God wants you to be… So you can have incredible mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…And create an amazing legacy for your family to follow…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call. I’m looking forward to working with you! P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

This weekend was powerful for me.As I went through significant struggles recently, a workshop I attended reminded me of my main job.To align myself with God and do His work.To use my skills in alignment with how God wants me to use them.For myself. With my wife. With my kids. And in my business.As a simple and powerful exercise, ask yourself:What’s God’s message for me today?Then write that down. And share it as appropriate.The message and podcast today I feel are the message God wanted me to share.And that feels great.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to build a strong relationship with God so you can be a strong, attractive leader and create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.If this calls to you, CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.We’ll talk soon. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.

What is vulnerability?The dictionary describes it as being easily hurt, influenced or attacked.That doesn’t sound very sexy.But, Brene Brown and others have redefined vulnerability in a way that IS attractive.That is being courageous enough to risk emotional exposure.This week was a hard week for me, and I exposed myself (emotionally) to my wife at a deeper level than I ever have.It took courage, but resulted in more intimacy, more commitment, and a lot of growth from me.Learn the right and wrong ways to be vulnerable with your wife…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube (with me on camera for the first time!) here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let’s get to work my friend! P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. You’ll receive exclusive updates, and you’ll be the first to know when our community programs and other opportunities open up. That’s StrongMen.io. I’ll see you there.