

Strong Men Strong Marriages
Mike Frazier, MD
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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May 17, 2022 • 21min
How To Be Vulnerable (Courageous) With Your Wife
What is vulnerability?The dictionary describes it as being easily hurt, influenced or attacked.That doesn’t sound very sexy.But, Brene Brown and others have redefined vulnerability in a way that IS attractive.That is being courageous enough to risk emotional exposure.This week was a hard week for me, and I exposed myself (emotionally) to my wife at a deeper level than I ever have.It took courage, but resulted in more intimacy, more commitment, and a lot of growth from me.Learn the right and wrong ways to be vulnerable with your wife…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube (with me on camera for the first time!) here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let’s get to work my friend! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

May 10, 2022 • 23min
Top Sex Mistakes In Christian Marriage… And How To Correct Them
If you’re not having the passionate sex that you want in your marriage…You’re probably making some of the common mistakes that high achieving Christian men make.There are common, unattractive ways of thinking, feeling and acting towards sex…That IMMEDIATELY turn your wife OFF.Learn what these are…And how to replace them with ATTRACTIVE ways of thinking, feeling and acting…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let’s get to work my friend! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

May 3, 2022 • 33min
How Marriages Fall Apart... And How To Stop It
Many men I talk to are surprised by the problems in their marriage.They just don’t understand why their wife doesn’t want to have sex with them.Why she had an emotional or sexual affair.Why she wants a separation or divorce.This episode will help you know EXACTLY why these things happen…And how to fix the underlying problems.So that you can create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife and have the marriage that God wants for you.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to become the strong, attractive man that God wants you to be.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Because of this, success is inevitable.See results here.Let's get to work! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Apr 26, 2022 • 26min
How To Pass Your Wife’s Tests… Without Even Trying
You’re trying to win your wife back.Whether that’s wanting to have sex more often, avoid or end a separation, or avoid a divorce.And, maybe you’re starting to make positive changes.The changes your wife has asked for from you for a long time.You’re listening more. Prioritizing her. Getting her gifts.But, she’s not impressed.She doesn’t get excited. She doesn’t say thank you. She barely even notices the effort you’re putting in.Or, she’s even negative about these changes.Saying things like “well, I hope it lasts” or “too little too late.”She is TESTING you through these reactions.And, it’s the RIGHT thing for her to do.You’ll NEED to pass these tests if you want to create a strong marriage.Learn how to pass ALL of these tests…Without even trying…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to create deep mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with his wife starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual intimacy you want with your wife.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow.Let’s get to work my friend! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Apr 19, 2022 • 26min
Why Marriage Communication Skills Don't Work
Most high achieving Christian men think that to have a more intimate marriage…They need to DO something different.Communicate better.Buy more gifts. Spend more time. Do the right service for their wife.And if that were the case, then marriage counseling would always work.Because that’s what most marriage counselors focus on.Doing. Action. Skills.But, often, DOING a good thing…Like using marriage communication skills…Actually leads to MORE problems.Find out why in today’s episode.And, find out how to get out of this trap and create consistent and deep mental, emotional and sexual connection with your wife… and a legacy of love for generations.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Apr 12, 2022 • 23min
How To Be More Masculine In Marriage
What does it mean to “be a man?”Today, there’s more confusion than ever about this.There’s even a term, “toxic masculinity,” that makes it seem like it’s toxic to have male character traits.Fortunately, there is a perfect example of manhood that we can follow…Jesus.Learn how to use your God-given male gender and character traits to create the powerful life and intimate marriage that you want in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Apr 5, 2022 • 16min
How To Handle Setbacks In Marriage
As you start to make positive changes in your life and marriage, it’s exciting.You feel better and your wife starts to build some hope.But then, a setback happens.You go back to old patterns.You break her trust.And now it seems that all is lost.But, there’s a way out of this.And actually, these setbacks can be used to create MORE connection with your wife.Learn how in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.It’s in line with Christian principles, so the changes are lasting and set the example for generations to follow. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Mar 29, 2022 • 24min
Martyrs Are Not Attractive
Do you feel like your marriage is unfair?That you’re doing so much, but not getting attention, appreciation or affection from your wife?Do other people seem to notice all the work you’re putting in, but your wife doesn’t?If you’re thinking this way…You’re in the martyr mindset.And, you’re viewing your wife or your marriage as an affliction.As a thorn in your side.As arthritis that you have to deal with.Do you think your wife likes to be compared to arthritis?Learn how to get out of this mindset…So you can create REAL mental, emotional and sexual intimacy with your wife…In today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.And, if you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.Dr. MikeP.S. How long do you want to wait before creating an amazing relationship with your wife? Make today the day you start the journey. If you could have done it on your own, you already would have. Get the coaching and accountability you need to get the marriage of your dreams… fast.CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Mar 22, 2022 • 19min
How To Improve Your Marriage 10x Faster
You want a better mental, emotional and sexual connection with your wife.You’re listening to podcasts, watching videos, reading books.And maybe you’re seeing some changes… but they’re not quite what you want.Or, they’re not happening as fast as you would want.That’s because you’re missing the two key drivers that accelerate improvement by AT LEAST 10x:Accountability and coaching.Learning what to do is important.But following through is more important.And most people (including me and probably you) are much better at follow through when someone is watching and checking.And, once you do follow through, you need coaching to show you what worked, what didn’t work, and what you need to do differently.This is the formula to improve your marriage AT LEAST 10x faster.Learn more in today’s episode.(Watch on YouTube here.) And, if you’re ready to improve your relationship 10x faster TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll get daily coaching and accountability to create the mental, emotional and sexual connection you want with your wife.Dr. MikeP.S. How long do you want to wait before creating an amazing relationship with your wife? Make today the day you start the journey. If you could have done it on your own, you already would have. Get the coaching and accountability you need to get the marriage of your dreams… fast.CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program. P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Mar 15, 2022 • 18min
How To Be Easy To Love
You want your wife to love you more.You want to feel a powerful mental, emotional and sexual connection with your wife.But, there are some obstacles in the way of that connection.Some may be obvious, like an affair or pornography.Some might not be as obvious. Like neglecting your wife over time.Either way, these obstacles need to be removed.And, you may be working to remove them and feel good about that.But, your wife usually responds to your changes with indifference, or even with anger.What’s going on here?And what do you do about it?How do you remove the obstacles to her loving you, and become much easier to love?Find out in today’s episode.Listen on Strong Men Strong Marriages here. Watch on YouTube here.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who wants more intimacy in his marriage…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Love, Intimacy And Legacy program.You’ll schedule a call and fill out an application that we’ll review on the call to see if you’re a good fit for the program. I look forward to speaking with you! P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Able to invest 5 figures and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157


