
Strong Men Strong Marriages
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
Latest episodes

Feb 25, 2025 • 18min
Feeling Burnt Out In Your Marriage? Here's What To Do
Are you feeling burnt out in your marriage?Feel like you’re putting in SO MUCH work, but not getting much back?Not sure if you want to keep going in the marriage anymore?Don’t worry. These are NORMAL feelings to have.It doesn’t mean your marriage is over.It just means it’s time to take some steps to:-Take care of yourself and your emotions-Ask for what you want-See both the good and badWhen you do this, you can release the feeling of “burnt out” and start feeling joy, energy and put your marriage on course for the joyful, fun, intimate relationship it was meant to be.Learn how in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Feb 18, 2025 • 13min
If Your Valentine’s Wasn’t Great
Was your Valentine’s Day… not what you were hoping for?Maybe you’re dealing with separation or divorce.Maybe your wife is interested in someone else.Maybe you were hoping for intimacy that didn’t happen.It’s normal and natural to be disappointed.And, there are ways to deal with that disappointment that will make things WORSE…And ways to deal with it that will help you create more intimacy.Learn what NOT to do.. And what TO do…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Feb 11, 2025 • 21min
How To Stop Making Everything About You
Discover how self-centered behaviors can hinder marital harmony. Learn to shift your perspective from ego to empathy for deeper connections. The discussion highlights the importance of understanding your partner’s feelings rather than focusing solely on your own. Gain insights and strategies to foster intimacy and satisfaction in your relationship. This enlightening conversation reveals how breaking out of selfish patterns can benefit both partners.

Feb 4, 2025 • 19min
How To Have A Healthier Marriage
How healthy is your marriage?Spiritually, do you feel a sense of mission and purpose, individually and as a couple?Mentally do you feel that you are both open to learning from each other, able to challenge your own beliefs, and take an appropriate stand?Emotionally can you name, feel and release emotions in health ways?Physically, are you in good shape with good energy?Financially, do you spend less than you earn, have a safety net of savings, and a clear savings and investment plan?Sexually do you enjoy sex and have a safe and satisfying sex life?If you find yourself, your wife or both lacking in these areas…It’s time to create a healthier marriage!Learn how in today’s episode…Watch on YouTube here.And in the Strong Men Strong Marriages program.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 28, 2025 • 4min
Are You One Of The 500?
This week we are launching the first group of the Strong Men Strong Marriages Membership!This will be The Alpha Group. The group that helps grow us to 500 men. The group that helps shape the membership into something that helps men become the Christ-like, strong and loving leaders of their homes that they were meant to be.The group that leads the charge to making generational changes and is the man that is led by God, the husband his wife loves and can count on, and the father that shows genuine love and strength to his children.At Strong Men Strong Marriages we are:-Strong and loving leaders of our homes as disciples of Jesus-Examples of real, Christ-like manhood to ourselves, our families and the world-Building a stronger world through stronger families-And for my Christian brothers, helping prepare the world for the Second Coming of Jesus ChristIf this mission resonates with you...Come join us!Join our email list at http://strongmen.io for your invitation to join.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 21, 2025 • 16min
How To Be The Ultimate Provider For Your Family
Preside, provide, protect.You may have heard of these are the main roles of the man of the house.And, they are very important.However, we usually just think if providing and protecting physically.While having enough money and protecting the home from invaders is important…There’s something even MORE important to provide to your wife and kids.Learn what it is…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 14, 2025 • 14min
Is Your Wife More Affectionate With The Kids Than With You?
Who gets more hugs from your wife?You or your kids?Who gets more snuggling or even kisses?If it’s your kids, it can be VERY frustrating.Maybe you’ve even brought this up with your wife, only to hear things like “it’s different with the kids” or “I’m just not that into physical touch.”Today you’ll learn the root cause of why your wife is more physically affectionate with the kids than with you…And what to do about it.Watch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

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Jan 7, 2025 • 16min
Is Your Wife Against You?
Feeling like your wife is on the kids' team? You're not alone. This discussion dives deep into the pitfalls of seeing your partner as an opponent and offers fresh perspectives on enhancing your relationship. Learn to turn conflicts into collaborations for a more supportive family dynamic. Plus, discover empowering personal development strategies that help men thrive both in marriage and in life. It's all about transforming challenges into opportunities for growth.

Jan 2, 2025 • 32min
How To Come Alive with Bobby Hulme-Lippert
Today I have a special guest and friend, Bobby Hulme-Lippert.Bobby was a successful pastor, then felt a call to help others find what “helps them come alive.”Check out today’s episode if you’re questioning whether your current career path is exactly what you’re meant to be doing in the world.And learn more about Bobby and his coaching work hereWatch on YouTube here.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157

Jan 2, 2025 • 2min
Join The Email List! [Thursday Challenge]
If you haven't yet, it's time to join the email list!You'll only hear about our updated group program opening at the end of January through our email list.Dr. Mike P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.ioP.P.S. Making $250k+ per year and want to work more intensively with Dr. Mike and his team? Our Intensive Program is only open to a few men each month by invitation after a call with Dr. Mike. Apply here. https://form.jotform.com/230614546765157