Her Best Life

You know that feeling when someone who you’ve been friends with for a long time suddenly doesn’t feel aligned to who you are – maybe it feels toxic, draining or maybe they are so negative you no longer enjoy spending time with them. Breaking up with friends is hard and we discuss why it’s OK to evolve and not spend time with people who don’t make you happy and why the best thing we can do it honour ourselves. We also identify a friend we think has broken up with us (and that’s OK we respect that!). Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week we are removing all shame and embarrassment and talking about specific things we accepted from men in our past. We feel like burying these stories from when we didn’t value ourselves, but some are so funny and downright appalling that we thought why not share! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we talk about our embarrassing ego driven choices over the years, vs the authentic ones. It’s time to make choices that reflect who you truly are, not who your ego wants you to be. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We chat about the beauty in your rebirth, how to push past fear and how to navigate the stages you might experience. In preparation for our girls trip to India we discuss what the highlights and lowlights of traveling together are. In true besties style we go off track and cover how to have shower sex and Jackie’s co-dependent needs are uncovered! Happy New Year Besties! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What do we like to talk to our partners about… when we each get one! It turns out we are quite different after all! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Well we’ve found a book that charts your astrological timing – and our partners of destiny are on the way next year, supposedly! So what are we going to have to change or eliminate from our single gal life? Let’s go through the bad habits we have that might not work for a new partner. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We reflect on relationships with narcissists and how debilitating and traumatic it can be. The cycle of love bombing, devaluation, gaslighting and then being discarded. Relationships with narcissists are full of danger and we cover off what you need to be aware of so you don’t end up in a relationship with a narcissist or what to do if you are in one. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sorry poddy listeners because this week we’re all over the place but so much to discuss! We start with the key tip to get through small talk this silly season, we unpack how women perform in negotiations, why women value themselves so low, we face the reality of our travels during our trip to India, Jackie’s poses to Gemma how it would easier to be a couple, we warn about Mercury being retrograde and Jackie’s elf on the shelf flying across Sydney. Just our standard besties chat! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We get a bit deep and spiritual in this episode after getting many messages from people wanting to know more detail on what exactly we do as our meditation and manifestation practice. We talk about the books that have helped us in this space and what we’ve learnt! Jackie also gets a Geography lesson and Gemma puts down the rules for the upcoming girls trip. Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After our episode with sex therapist Chantelle Otton last week, we felt like we wanted to talk about sex more. We touch on how sometimes as women we struggle with talking about our sexual desires and interactions. We also get honest about porn, our learnings with sex and our own sexual fantasies. This episode is very explicit so for 18+ we advise! Follow us @wearebestiesofficial Check out the Red Flag Project here https://www.wearebesties.com/courses Episodes each TuesdaySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.