

The Mark Groves Podcast
Mark Groves
The Mark Groves Podcast is for heart-led humans eager to expand perspectives, explore HARD truths, and break old patterns while cultivating deeper, more honest connections with self, our relationships, community, and the world. Tune in twice a week for powerful guest interviews and solo episodes that deliver real talk, fresh insights, and practical tools to transform (y)our relationships — because relationships are how we truly connect — and supercharge (y)our personal growth.
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Jun 19, 2023 • 1h 32min
#290: Why We Need Discomfort To Thrive with Michael Easter
Themes: Comfort, Discomfort, Mental Health, Technology, Parenting, Cancel Culture, Media, Journalism, Mortality, Belonging, Transformation, Purpose
Summary:
Today I am jamming with the bestselling author of The Comfort Crisis, Michael Easter! As an author, professor, and adventurer, he writes and speaks about how humans can leverage modern science and evolutionary wisdom to perform better and live healthier and more meaningful lives.
Join us today as we jam about the surprising idea that our cozy, comfortable lives may be at the root of our major physical and mental health issues. Michael shares his powerful experiences from his adventure in Bhutan and the Alaskan Arctic, where he uncovers the power and benefit of sitting with discomfort and silence. Tune in to learn why you need discomfort and how to navigate it to help bring more happiness into your life!
Discover:
How and why should you disrupt your comfort and why staying too long in your comfort zone could affect your physical and mental health
What the Japanese practice called Misogi is and why it’s so powerful
The power of silence and how it affects your creativity
How we can challenge the discomfort of boredom
The process of hunting and how it will teach you to value life and mortality more
00:00 Intro
01:11 Why should you disrupt your comfort?
05:37 New generations and lack of discomfort
10:25 Misogi
18:53 Being alone
24:02 The power and influence of silence
30:30 Writing a book in a world full of distractions
33:18 Choosing discomfort vs comfort
35:59 Remerging with the cycles of the planet
41:11 The discomfort of boredom
46:26 Addictive technology
49:32 The process of hunting
54:24 Life and death
1:01:15 Younger generation taking responsibility
1:03:56 Cancel culture and freedom of speech
1:15:09 Are journalists left-wingers?
1:22:37 Psychological media manipulation
1:27:02 Differences in political views impacting relationships
Links:
The 2% Newsletter: https://unique-painter-9003.ck.page/441934d2f0
Website: http://eastermichael.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michael_easter/
The Comfort Crisis: https://easterm.square.site/product/TCCSigned/1?cs=true&cst=custom
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Jun 12, 2023 • 1h 14min
#289: Unleash Your Brain’s Full Potential with Dr. Patrick Porter
Themes: Power of Mind, Brainpower, Meditation, Trauma, Mental Health, Technology, Beliefs, Health, Transformation, Biohacking, Neuropsychology
Summary:
Today I am jamming with award-winning author, speaker, and the founder of BrainTap®, Dr. Patrick K. Porter! Dr. Porter pioneered the use of brainwave entrainment to improve clarity, sleep, and energy and remains at the forefront of scientific research. He founded BrainTap, offering over 1800 original audio sessions in 12 languages and serving a worldwide user base with its mobile app and headset.
Tune in to hear Dr. Porter unleash loads of fascinating information about the power our brains hold, and how we can use neuropsychology to change our emotions, reactions, nervous systems, bodies, brainwaves, and so much more - way beyond what we ever imagined our brains could do. If you want to feel more regulated, release your victim mentality, stop letting fear dictate your life, or just to better grip your emotions, this episode is for you!
Discover:
How our brains are wired for repetition and comfort and create our narratives and beliefs, plus how we can change that
How you can rewrite your memory just by changing the way you perceive your past experiences
How the frequency of our environments dictate our energy and wellbeing
What Brain Tap is and how it can help hack our mind’s potential and improve our health
00:00 Intro
00:54 What is Neuropsychology?
05:31 Our brain is making it all up
09:06 How to change a belief
15:09 How to rewrite and change your memory
24:53 Three phases to brain fitness
29:21 The frequency of your environment changes you
34:50 What is Brain Tap?
43:17 See past experiences as learned experiences
47:33 Psychoimmunology
48:57 What happens when you think of fear?
49:44 Confusion
50:21 Hacking the brain
55:22 Retinal flashing
1:00:26 Effect of music on your brain
1:03:45 Types of sessions with Brain Tap
Links:
Brain Tap: https://braintap.com?afmc=DrPorter
Dr. Patrick Porter: https://drpatrickporter.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpatrickporter/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrPatrickPorter/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZZ2tOyICABoDsExUuz9n7A
Sponsors:
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Jun 8, 2023 • 1h 4min
#288: Life Force Energy, Medicine, and Physics with Dr. Beth McDougall of Manna Vitality
Themes: Energetic Signatures, Health, Physics, Healing, Energy, Vitality, Radical Healing, Holistic Healing, Food, Spirituality, Transformation
Summary:
Today I’m welcoming Dr. Beth McDougall to the show, who is an internationally recognized Integrative physician with a specialty in multifactorial degenerative disease. She is the founder of CLEAR Center and the co-founder and medical director of the cutting-edge, bio-optimization lab, JYZEN in Mill Valley, CA. Long known as a medical detective, Dr. McDougall excels at unraveling complex, multi-factorial conditions.
She is advancing a new medical paradigm, one at the intersection of medicine and contemporary physics, to transform the practice of medicine. Dr. Beth discusses the magical benefits of Manna Vitality - a combo of the highest quality minerals, amino acids, fulvic and humic acid, and nutrients gathered from both the Earth and the Sea. Listen in on this fascinating episode where we jam on health from an energetic point of view, and how physics and holistic medicine can unlock the secrets to radical healing.
Discover:
What are energetic signatures, and what could ours be?
The effect of relationships, environment, and food on our body
How we can hack aging and vitality
The correlation between food and fertility
00:00 Intro
00:51 Intersection of Physics and Medicine
05:44 Discovering energetic healing
11:01 Discovering healing patterns beyond the physical approach
18:48 Energetic signatures in our lives
21:33 Impact of dysfunctional relationships on health
24:27 Why are people sicker than they’ve ever been?
26:26 Finding an antidote
28:32 Correlation of food stress on fertility & testosterone production
33:57 Remineralizing your body
37:29 Aging and vitality
44:28 Nature is the answer
48:36 Choose the life that you want
51:06 Effects of Manna Vitality
57:12 “We’re intersecting waves of energy…”
59:18 Journey to liberation
Links:
Manna Vitality: https://mannavitality.com/
Manna Vitality Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mannavitality/
Manna Vitality Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mannaelements
Dr. Beth’s Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@bethmcdougallm.d.4704
Dr. Beth’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bethmcdougallmd/
Dr. Beth’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drbethmcdougall
Jyzen labs Website: https://jyzen.com/
Innovative Medicine: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1eW2p7SfVlU&list=PL5rXEjDCSV03yt440eVIm9wd41Ey_2gi3
The Pristine Blueprint - The Secret to Full Spectrum Vitality and Health on All Levels: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZvuYWXsZhyo&t=14s
The Pristine Blueprint Book: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Pristine-Blueprint-Longevity-Transforming/dp/B09PMH14GZ
Sponsors:
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Jun 5, 2023 • 54min
#287: Breaking Free from Codependency with Melody Beattie
Themes: Codependency, Addiction, Relationships, Boundaries, Technology, Social Media, Spirituality, Self- Love, Healing, Authenticity, Belonging, Transformation, Mental Health, Grief
Summary:
Today I am jamming with self-help pioneer, Melody Beattie! Melody is the author of many bestselling books—including The Language of Letting Go, Playing It by Heart, The Grief Club, Beyond Codependency, and The Codependent No More Workbook. In 2009, Codependent No More was named one of the four essential self-help books of all time by Newsweek.
Melody Beattie’s compassionate and insightful look into codependency—the concept of losing oneself in the name of helping another—has guided millions toward the understanding that they are powerless to change anyone but themselves and that caring for the self is where healing begins. Join us today as we jam about the ins and outs of codependency in relationships, the challenges faced by those stuck in addictive or enabling cycles, the importance of setting boundaries, and how to break free.
Discover:
Melody's incredible journey of overcoming codependency and how she turned her life around, finding freedom and happiness along the way
What codependency actually means, and how people can unknowingly fall into its trap
The importance of setting boundaries with technology and social media, and why connecting with real people is where it's at for our well-being
Tips and tricks to break free from addictive and enabling cycles, empowering yourself to make positive changes and embark on a journey of personal growth and healing
00:00 Intro
00:33 The fine line between being human and a codependent
04:06 How writing ‘Codependent No More’ saved her life
12:31 The role of men and women in relationships
17:58 Healing the division
24:00 Choose your own circumstance
28:21 Boundaries for tech and social media
32:42 Unveiling collective codependency
38:02 Trauma reflecting in present-day anxiety
40:22 How to break free
46:38 Learn to love yourself unconditionally
49:26 There’s nothing human about technology
Links:
Book: Codependent No More (2022 updated edition!) https://melodybeattie.com/books/codependent-no-stop-controlling-others-start-caring/
Website: https://melodybeattie.com/
Sponsors:
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May 29, 2023 • 1h 5min
#286: Wake Up to Your Best Life with Hal Elrod
Themes: Morning Routine, Personal Development, Habits, Adversity, Mental Health, Meditation, Affirmations, Curing Cancer, Authenticity, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Health, Transformation
Summary:
Today I’m welcoming Hal Eldrod to the podcast! Hal is on a mission to elevate the consciousness of humanity, one morning at a time. He teaches about The Miracle Morning – his powerful method to transform your life by simply changing how you start your day. Tune in to hear all about Hal’s proven successful morning routine, how he used it to get out of depression and change his life, and how you can jump on the Miracle Morning train to change your life starting tomorrow morning!
Discover:
How to build the perfect morning routine that will elevate your life and health
The two problems with affirmations and how can we manifest the life that we want the right way
The connection between emotions and inflammation, and how if you do the work, you achieve total wellness
00:00 Intro
02:13 Mediocrity
04:26 The Miracle Morning origin
07:07 What’s your level of personal development?
10:50 Learn to get excited about waking up
16:51 Starting a morning routine
20:05 The problem with affirmations
27:44 Commitment in the face of fear
37:52 The correlation between emotion and inflammation
42:22 How do you become a morning person?
57:11 Every adversity is an opportunity
1:01:08 Transforming relationships with the Miracle Morning
Links:
Movie: http://miraclemorningmovie.com/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07B5RD8MK?ref_=dbs_dp_rwt_sb_tpbk&binding=paperback
Speaking: https://halelrod.com/speaking/
Podcast: https://miraclemorning.com/category/podcast/
Community: http://miraclemorningcommunity.com/
Sponsors:
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May 22, 2023 • 1h 25min
#285: Why Cold Plunging is the Hottest Thing with Ryan Duey
Themes: Business, Health, Social Media, Technology, Mortality, Death, Grief, Change, Self-Development, Mental Health, Purpose, Transformation
Summary:
Today I’m jamming with Ryan Duey, CEO of Plunge, one of the most affordable cold plunge tub manufacturers on the market. Cold plunge benefits include nervous system regulation, boosting energy, greater recovery/performance, increased immune support, increased motivation, mood improvement, pain relief, stress relief, better sleep, and so much more! If you know me, you know I love the benefits of cold showers and cold plunges, and I was stoked to get my hands on one of their amazing plunge tubs. (P.S. I got you a discount—code below in the links!)
Join the conversation as we deep dive (no pun intended!) into the fascinating story of how Plunge was created as a business thriving out of the pandemic and the challenges their company faced with growth. We also jam everything you need to know about cold plunging—how it affects your brown fat, how it can help you regulate your nervous system and tackle your biggest fears—and muse about death, mortality, fears, and emotions that cold plunging can help you regulate.
Discover:
Discover the surprising benefits of cold plunging for optimal physical and mental health
How cold plunging is an amazing tool to regulate your nervous system in a word filled with stress, anxiety, and overstimulation
The post-pandemic shift to digitalization and social media affecting everything from our nervous systems, to analog life, to business operations in today's world and how cold plunging can help us deal better
00:00 Intro
01:15 Why should you try cold-plunging?
06:53 Doing business during the pandemic
11:11 Digitalization in business
17:33 Cold-plunging is a +gym for your nervous system
20:09 Benefits of cold-plunging
22:27 The growth of Plunge
30:27 Using social media in business
41:25 Analog to digital shift
43:18 Recalibrate your nervous system
46:38 Mortality and death
59:40 Rejecting the concept of aging
1:02:10 It’s important to question everything
1:05:03 Maturing and processing change better
1:12:02 Start with small changes, don’t go big
Links:
Plunge: https://thecoldplunge.com - Use code CREATETHELOVE for $150 off!
Instagram: @plunge
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/coldplunge
Sponsors:
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May 18, 2023 • 1h 20min
#284: Breaking Free from Toxic Friendships with Violet Benson
Themes: Friendships, Boundaries, Toxic Relationships, Trauma, Childhood Patterns, Healing, Mental Health, Authenticity, Belonging, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Codependency
Summary:
Today I’m welcoming back my friend Violet Benson, comedian, motivational speaker, creator of Daddy Issues, and podcast host of the largest self-love podcast and movement for women, Almost Adulting. Tune into this episode to learn how to navigate toxic friendships, set healthy boundaries, stop giving others power over you, and reframe your past traumas to stop repeating patterns. Violet offers valuable advice for anyone looking to improve their relationships, and friendships, and prioritize self-love.
Discover:
How to navigate toxic friendships and set healthy boundaries
The importance of not giving others power over you and how to reclaim your own power in relationships
How discovering your patterns and choosing to stop the cycle can help you heal and chose a new path forward
00:00 Intro
00:54 Friendships aren’t always easy
05:19 Handling negative comments online
07:16 Letting go of toxic friendships
10:36 How the pandemic changed our identities
13:17 Posting for likes vs business
19:02 Prioritizing yourself over social media popularity
27:47 Creating the “Daddy Issues” Identity
32:29 The problem with idolization
35:54 Reinventing yourself and cutting ties with people who hold you back
39:57 Stop giving others power over you
46:07 The “I can change him/her” mindset
49:26 Repeating a pattern with friends
52:20 Childhood patterns shape our lives
57:48 Not everyone is a villain
1:00:47 Stop crossing your own boundaries
1:02:47 The reason we choose emotionally unavailable people
1:08:13 Children are our teachers
1:13:43 Generational traumas are passed down
Links:
Podcast IG - https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/
Personal IG - https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
Meme IG - https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissues
Almost Adulting on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7IY1Gjc1uktmDCmNLA0HXo
Sponsors:
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May 15, 2023 • 59min
#283: Say it Out Loud and Set Yourself Free with Vasavi Kumar
Themes: Inner Voice, Trauma, Self-Talk, Inner Child, Healing, Authenticity, Belonging, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Transformation, Mental Health, Purpose, Bi-Polar
Summary:
Today I welcome back my good friend, the “Queen of Saying It Out Loud,” Vasavi Kumar!
She has relentlessly searched to find her own voice, access the freedom of her creative spirit, and help others along the way… out loud. When she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder at the age of 19, she made it her life’s purpose to understand how her mind works, starting with making room to hear herself think. Her mission is to share everything—the good, bad, and ugly—in order to teach a more mindful, practical, and simple way of running every aspect of your life.
In this episode, Vasavi teaches us the importance of “saying it out loud” - how to talk to yourself to build self-trust, heal from past traumas, and gain greater clarity about who you are and your calling. Vasavi shares practical tips for cultivating a discerning, gentle, and firm inner voice and unlocking the power of your inner child's voice. She also shares some of her powerful exercises to help guide our self-talk. Don't miss this powerful jam sesh!
Discover:
The difference between writing down what you feel and actually saying it out loud
Explore how the tone of your inner voice affects your mental health, and find out how to speak to yourself in a positive and empowering way
How unspoken trauma can manifest in your life, and how to heal from it and move toward a more fulfilling life
How you can trust yourself again and let your inner child's voice be heard
00:00 Intro
01:12 Writing Say It Out Loud
08:22 Difference between saying and writing what you feel
11:04 The power of talking to yourself out loud
18:21 Importance of the tone of your voice
21:51 Have trust in yourself
31:39 Your inner child wants to be heard
33:35 Exploring unspoken trauma
39:45 Practice and prepare
43:15 Overcoming fear and embracing visibility
53:57 The healing power of writing
Links:
Book: sayitoutloudbook.com
Instagram: https://instagram.com/mynameisvasavi
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vasavikumar1/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VasaviKumarUnfiltered
YouTube: https://youtube.com/vasavikumar
Sponsors:
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May 8, 2023 • 1h 10min
#282: Unlock Your Life Purpose Through Heart Healing with Dr. Kevin Preston
Themes: Health, Traditional Medicine, Healing, Transformation, Alignment, Belonging, Spirituality, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Mental Health, Grief
Summary:
Today I’m jamming with Dr. Kevin Preston, a Doctor of Traditional Chinese Medicine, herbalist and acupuncturist, trained in biological medicine. Known for his experience treating toxicity, chronic illness, and mystery syndromes, Kevin has served thousands of patients across North America, by combining extensive education and experience with intuition and heart connection, letting compassion rise to the forefront of all he does. He’s passionate about activating the inherent medicine within each of us, unlocking the true potential of the DNA and cellular network.
Kevin shares his fascinating journey through Traditional Chinese Medicine and breaks down the mind-body connection to show how our emotions (especially stored/unprocessed ones!) play a massive role in our health. Kevin also talks about the intuition and heart connection and how our heart center often stores the greatest potential for setting us free, and how we can gain greater clarity around our life purpose when we create more awareness around the energy in our body and our environment.
Discover:
The importance of identifying the root cause of pain for effective healing
How our emotions impact our health
How our environment(s) impact our overall well-being
The transformative power of processing our emotions and how it creates greater clarity in our lives
00:00 Intro
01:14 Getting into Traditional Chinese Medicine
05:54 Importance of identifying the root cause of pain
09:51 The connection between physical pain and emotions
15:21 How do autoimmune diseases start?
20:12 Toxicity in our environment
28:42 Connection between environment and health
34:21 Creating change and transformation
36:51 Frequency and energy
43:25 Being disconnected to your intuition
47:11 It’s okay to not be okay
51:55 Living the heart path
55:07 Alignment with yourself
59:22 The transformation after pain
Links:
The New Human Event: https://drkevinpreston.com/the-new-human/
Website: drkevinpreston.com
Instagram: @drkevinpreston
Sponsors:
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May 4, 2023 • 13min
#281: Don't Give Up on Great Love – Solo Episode
Themes: Relationships, Dating, Personal Values, Beliefs, Transformation, Authenticity, Boundaries, Codependency, Conflict
Summary:
Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where you feel like you're constantly sacrificing your true desires to meet your partner at their level? Mic drop: you shouldn’t have to compromise your own happiness to make a relationship work. Join me in this solo episode as I talk about the importance of prioritizing your desire for great love and how to communicate your deal breakers effectively in dating and relationships.
Discover:
The most common misconception in relationships when it comes to shared desires
The importance of choosing what you really want and why we don’t often know what that is
The biggest deal breaker in a relationship
00:00 Intro
01:25 Why doesn't everyone seek great love?
03:27 Navigating differences in a relationship
04:41 You must question the system
06:47 We choose lives and circumstances that we don’t actually want
07:31 Prioritize your desires in a relationship
11:25 The biggest deal breaker in a relationship
Links:
How to Be a Better Partner with Jillian Turecki
Hilary Jacobs Hendel – Why You Can’t Just “Get Over It”
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