

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Feb 16, 2021 • 15min
Would You Fire Yourself?
Episode #315 Would you fire yourself as the CEO of your life? You are the CEO of your own life. Decide if you are going to "promote" or "demote" yourself by evaluating how did you perform in the Five Territories of your life: Self, Health, Wealth, Relationship, and Business. There is a gap between where you are today and where you want to be. Reflect on that and be real with yourself. Write down your plans and the things that you want to do differently. You deserve to live a good life. If you are struggling, reach out to the community, step up, and get activated. Take action. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to evaluate yourself in the Five Territories of your life, and how to take action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 13, 2021 • 28min
The Other You
Episode #314 If I were to ask your wife if she thinks you show up as your authentic self every day....what would she say? Would those closest to you say that you are fully living out who you are.....or would they say that they can see you trying to be someone you're not? We have this perceived idea of who we "SHOULD" be and who we think our loved ones around us "WANT" us to be...but the reality is, those who truly love us want us to be the highest and most authentic version of ourselves. In this episode, Doug and Tim touch a bit on The Gap and what it looks like when we aren't showing up as our true selves and where we can start to step into that person. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 11, 2021 • 19min
Dropping Everything for Your Wife?
Episode #313 How do you gain admiration and respect from your wife? You begin by respecting yourself and your own time. Don't let her take the dominant role and don't let yourself be sacrificed for her. In order to gain admiration and respect from your partner, always take care of yourself and take a stand for who you are and what you want. Put yourself first and honor your boundaries. If you put yourself last, you are going to get drained and emptied out. You'll feel depressed, angry, lonely, resentful...eventually, you'll explode. So stop dropping everything for your wife! You only have one shot at this game called life. Get activated and take charge. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to stop dropping everything for your wife and the key steps on how to do it carefully and gracefully. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 9, 2021 • 23min
Become Dominant with the Dopamine Surprise
Episode #312 How do you become dominant using "the dopamine surprise"? How do you take back your Alpha role? Surprise her and snap her out of the routine for her to realize that you are the true Alpha. When she gets surprised, she has a choice subconsciously to either fight with you or submit to you. If she submits, dopamine is released and there is an excitatory response that allows her to fall into her feminine, putting you naturally in the Alpha role. How can you do this? Try planning something that keeps her guessing and gets her excited. Lead the journey and be in control. In this episode, we are going to talk about steps to spice up your relationship while maintaining your dominant frame, and how to add an element of excitement and submission that will put you in the Alpha driver's seat. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 6, 2021 • 34min
Be Playfully Mean
Episode #311 How do you keep the sexual chemistry and the spark alive in your relationship through the years? One of the things women are fond of us men for is our sense of humor. But over time, when we receive rejections from our wives after teasing them, there will come a point when we deactivate our sense of humor. We stop teasing and making jokes. We become afraid of rejection and become timid. We become attached to the negative outcome, thus lowering our confidence when dealing with our wives. One way to overcome it is to be playfully mean. Start joking to your wife and laugh at it even if your wife won't give the reaction you're expecting. Be confident with your approach. Be the Alpha once again. In this episode, learn how you can bring back the excitement in your marriage, reactivate your sense of humor, and win your wife back. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 4, 2021 • 19min
Bringing Eroticism Back Into The Bedroom
Episode #310 When was the last time you had sex with your wife where the two of you really enjoyed each other? Eroticism comes from the savoring of the moment. You can eat the meal or taste the meal. Are you the type of person who eats fast, and only for the sake of getting food into your stomach? Or are you that type who eats slowly, enjoy every bite you take, savoring the flavor of what you are eating? The secret to bringing back that eroticism in bed is to be present, physically and emotionally, with your wife. Start by having fun. For some guys, maybe you forget how to have fun in the bedroom. Explore each part of her body and just enjoy yourself. In this episode, you will learn the importance of being there with your wife. Savor every moment when you're making love. Bring back the fun of having sex with your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Feb 2, 2021 • 26min
Is This A Scam?
Episode #309 Is this a SCAM? Is The Powerful Man movement a scam? Is The Activation Method a scam? It's normal to be hesitant about things that we aren't fully aware of, especially if it involves any kind of monetary value. It's normal to be scared of investing in something, especially if your investment could help you change your life. In this episode, Tim and Doug reaffirm that this program isn't fake. If your relationship needs help, then take action. You'll wish you'd have started sooner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 30, 2021 • 36min
The Gap
Episode #308 Be honest with yourself. Where are you today? Where do you want to be? The distance or space between where you are now and where you want to be is called "The Gap". How are the Five Territories of your life? What's the state of your Self, your Health, your Wealth, your Relationships, and your Business? Get real with yourself. Identifying where you really are today and where you want to be are important, but what you need to focus on is bridging The Gap between them. Take action. Take massive action. In this episode, Tim and Doug will share some tips on how we can bridge The Gap that separates where we are now and where we want to be. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 28, 2021 • 28min
Revisit: Owning Where You Are
Episode #307 Where are you in your life right now? Where are you in your Self? ...in your Wealth? ...in your Health? ...in your Relationships? ...in your Business? Take a snapshot of where you are at this very moment. Knowing where you are will help you figure out where you're going. When you delay your happiness until some time in the future, you will miss the entire point of the process...which is to enjoy it. Be mindful of any judgment or comparison, or labeling something as good or bad, because it will prevent you from owning where you are. In this episode, we are going to talk about how important it is to own where you are, and how to know where you are today. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jan 26, 2021 • 32min
How To Get The Spark Back In The Bedroom
Episode #306 Has your marriage gone cold? Are you missing those steamy sex nights? Has it been a few days, weeks...or even months? How can you reignite that spark? The most effective way in bringing back that spark is simple: COMMUNICATION. Are you still having deep conversations with your wife? Or are you letting your business or your job consume all your energy? Prioritize that regular connection time. Spice things up. Create a sense of mystery. Cultivate an environment, an atmosphere, for sex. Make an effort. Seek out opportunities to give her compliments, and always remember that first moment you and your wife made love. In this episode, listen to Tim and Doug and learn what they have to say about how you can reignite your relationship in the bedroom. Don't let your relationship continue to be cold. Man up and win back your wife. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.


