The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Oct 15, 2020 • 25min

Do You Turn To Business for Validation?

Episode #262 Are you getting the validation and significance at home that you desire? Will you be able to choose between business and your relationship with your wife? Why choose if you can have both? Men tend to spend most of their time at work because it's where they can demonstrate their control, exercise their power, and feel their significance. Unfortunately, this often leads to broken relationships at home. Men must work to rebuild the harmony in the relationship and learn to fulfill their wife's needs. Then she will see the man that you are. She will see your significance. In addition, you'll find that you can have more of what you want in your business. In this episode, learn more about how you can find your significance both in your workplace and at your home, rescuing your relationship from the brink of collapse. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 13, 2020 • 24min

How White Lies Take Their Toll

Episode #261 Are you doing things that your wife isn't aware of? Is it because you know in your heart that she will not approve it? You're micro-dosing, hanging out with your friends, drinking, or going out to places that your wife probably wouldn't approve of. We are so used to telling 'white' lies when we're doing things that our wives won't agree with or which might cause conflict with them. It's okay to tell 'white' lies occasionally, but if you're doing it constantly...Houston, we have a problem. What kind of distance does it put in a relationship when you're constantly having to lie? It's different when you're trying to create mystery and intimacy in your relationship by not saying something. Like date nights, or if you're working hard to surprise her. However, if your intent is to just lie and to avoid getting into conflict, then there's a problem inside of you. In this episode, join Tim and Doug in discussing one of the most common problems in every relationship that most of us are facing. Stop being a LIAR. Don't fall into the trap of lying constantly because one way or another, it will create chaos in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 10, 2020 • 21min

Revisit: Do You Feel Empty?

Episode #260 No matter how much money you have or how successful your business is…if you are not clear on who you want to be, you will still end up feeling empty. We become blinded by the norms set by society and end up following somebody else’s guidance on how we should be living our lives instead of finding our own way. We end up striving for somebody else’s ideas of what it means to be a man and have success. Until we determine our own definition of success and being a man, we will feel incomplete...like we are not good enough. We become trapped in this belief that when we have more money we can solve everything, and THEN we can be happy. We get to work, keeping ourselves busy making money, and end up losing our connection with our loved ones along the way. In this episode, we dive deep into HOW we can take control of our self-beliefs and shift them to create a happier and more fulfilling mindset. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 8, 2020 • 19min

Revisit: Giving Up The Crutch - A Life Without Coffee or Alcohol

Episode #259 Are you a certified coffee addict or an alcohol lover? Reducing the intake of caffeine and alcohol, or totally getting rid of both, could make a great impact on your life. Especially in terms of large decision-making and how you perform in your business. Being dependent on coffee & alcohol tends to make people more unstable and anxious all the time. It also reduces your alpha brainwaves that you need most when it comes to decision-making, especially for high-performing men. One way to increase your alpha brainwaves is by reducing your caffeine and alcohol intake. It will make you less anxious, more present, more centered, and you will achieve your flow state as a powerful man. It is difficult for most people to give up these two. But in order to do it, you can try using coffee and alcohol alternatives just to get the stimuli that you need. As a result, you will become more focused and in your flow state more often.  In this episode, Doug shares his personal experience and journey with coffee & alcohol and why you might want to consider limiting your consumption. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man.
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Oct 6, 2020 • 17min

To Porn Or Not To Porn

Episode #258 Is your wife or your partner getting enough sex from you? Or are you just getting it off from your phone or your computer? How do you know when you're consuming too much PORN? Why do you watch porn in the first place? How does it affect us, men, really? One of the things a lot of people don't think about porn is the inhibiting effects it brings to us. For a lot of guys, it becomes HABITUAL. It becomes what they do every night, every morning, every day, in the office, etc. It becomes a compulsive habit for them. And with that habit, like for any compulsion, you're always needing more. This oftentimes can cause issues with your partner. Because now, you're leaking energy outside of the relationship. EXCESSIVE porn creates a false reality about how relationships really are. A lot of men forget that porn is done by actors, who only act out peoples' fantasies rather than the realities. In this episode, we'll have a deeper discussion on the topic of PORN. And at the end of the podcast, ask yourself if you're consuming too much porn. Remember that too much of anything is bad. Don't let porn control you. Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Oct 3, 2020 • 30min

8 Ways To Increase Your Masculinity

Episode #257 Do you feel like you're losing your masculinity? Here are 4 ways you can get it back, and increase your masculinity. 1. Physical Activity such as running, biking, swimming, and lifting weights helps you raise your testosterone levels and can make you push yourself beyond your normal boundaries. 2. Get Out Of Your Head & Get Into Your Body. Bang on your chest. Slap your faces. Do intense breathwork. Get inside your body. 3. Getting Primal. Surround yourself with other men. Be with your pack regularly, like having a weekly activity with them. Feed on each other's energy. 4. Getting Focused. Are you the type of man that starts on a project, then eventually dropped it? This signals your wife about what integrity you have. Be focused and finish what you've started. Want to know more about these four, and get four more? In this episode, you'll learn all about these eight ways to increase your masculinity, and be the better man that we wanted to be for ourselves, for our relationship, for our family, and for our society. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Oct 1, 2020 • 21min

How To Know When To End Things

Episode #256 How do you know when to STOP? When you're reading a book, at what point will you stop reading if you feel like it's not what you're expecting? If you're in a relationship, when are you going to stop doing things that are hurting your partner and your bond? If your business is failing, when should you quit? People are so used to living a life where they feel obligated to say 'yes' to things or self-sacrifice...not because they want to, but because they feel they have to. But most of us don't realize that there are deeper questions underlying this: Why are we doing these things in the first place? Are there patterns and behaviors shaping your life where you just continue to quit? In this episode, we're going to talk about how to identify the signs in your life that it may be time to stop...and make a change. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man.
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Sep 29, 2020 • 20min

What If A Film Crew Followed Your Every Move?

Episode #255 Imagine one day, a man from a film crew suddenly appeared at your home and has to film your everyday life for a week. How would you change? How would you represent yourself? Would you behave differently? Every day, try to act as if you are being filmed. Be the man you want to represent, a man who walks the walk. A man who is living his purpose with passion and excitement. If you live that way every day, it will soon become your standard behavior. It will become your discipline, and you will soon realize that you are already representing yourself the way you want to be represented, without really changing anything. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man.
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Sep 26, 2020 • 21min

Are You The Partner That You Want?

Episode #254 Are you complaining about your partner? Do you wish your partner would be nicer? Do you wish your partner to appreciate you more? Or do you wish your partner could be better at giving you pleasure? Maybe you should ask yourself first. Are you being the kind of partner that you want your partner to be? In other words, are you stepping to the line being that ideal partner? Are you treating your partner the way you want your partner to treat you? When we ask these questions to most people, 9 out of 10, the answer we get is NO.  What should we do to flip the script? In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about some insights on how we can be the partner that we most want to be. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man.
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Sep 24, 2020 • 20min

Revisit: Why Marriages Break Down

Episode #253 We live in a society where we're taught that money can solve everything. As a man, we think that we need to make more money to keep our marriage or relationship going. We become addicted to work because we always feel that the money we’re making is not enough. So, we grind even more...leaving us never satisfied. When we’re too focused on making money, we forget to switch off and end up working even more when we get home. We tend to forget our other responsibilities to our partner, which creates a gap in the relationship. The marriage then begins to break because the man loses himself along the way. He identifies himself as a businessman or business owner and that becomes his identity. Since he thinks that it’s his identity, it is difficult for him to switch off. The gap in the relationship becomes bigger and bigger until you don’t know your wife anymore...you don't even know yourself. In this episode, we talk about how to switch off from work, reclaim your identity, and know who you really are. We also talk about the importance of knowing who your wife is, not the woman you married but who she is becoming in the relationship. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we’ve developed at The Powerful Man. 

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