The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Sep 1, 2020 • 30min

The Power of Being Needy

Episode #243 Is it wrong for you to feel bad if your needs are not being met? As human beings, we need other human beings to survive. And in a relationship, it's important to be able to articulate what your needs are and take a stand for your needs, not coming from a place of neediness but coming from the place of leadership. There is power in understanding what your needs are in the relationship. There are certain things that you must do for yourself to bring your best self into the relationship. If you are not doing those, then you become needy in an unhealthy way. In this episode, we're going to go deeper into the power and pitfalls of need, and how to fulfill your needs for yourself and for your relationship. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Aug 29, 2020 • 22min

What's Your Biggest Complaint?

Episode #242 What is the thing you complain about the most?   You will have different complaints from different people. All complaints are a level of victimhood. You are complaining about something that you don't have control over.   Ask yourself what your biggest complaints are, and ask the people you spend most of your time with. See what they say. Dig deeply and create a safe space for people to answer you, to better see what your focus is. Your complaint is your focus.   When you chose to complain about something, often it means you are focusing on it.   Gather some data and start looking at it. Use your wisdom and judgment to determine your biggest complaint.   Take it lightly and do something different. This may be an area that you need to work on for the betterment of yourself. Take a massive action to do something about it.   In this episode, we are going to talk about how to know your biggest complaint and how to deal with it. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Aug 27, 2020 • 25min

The Importance of Decompression

Episode #241 How well do you take care of yourself? Do you find time to relax and reset after a busy work-week? A lot of times, what happens for us, guys, is we get our identity from what we are able to provide and produce. We're working our tails off to be able to provide for our families. You go to work. You bust your butt. You build an empire. Hoping you can retire in your 60's or maybe 50's, but it doesn't happen. In that journey of working so hard, you get disconnected from the people you love and lose them along the way. In this episode, we will learn how decompression can help us work and provide for the people we love without sacrificing time and connection with them. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Aug 25, 2020 • 37min

Text Game With Franco Burrows

Episode #240 How do you get back in the dating game with your partner? In this episode, we are going to talk about text games and modern ways to flirt with your partner. Women are looking for a lot more than they used to because they can take care of themselves, so we get to bring more value to the conversation. There is a lot of distraction out there, so we need to be on our game and keep the attraction going. Text game works. The goal is to keep your wife interested, attracted, and keep her attention on you. Be aware of the words you are going to send. Think of what effect you like and what are the things that you want to bring out in her. A lot of men have lost connection with their wife and this is a great way to get playfully reconnected. Girls wanna have fun. Bring the fun into your text exchanges and make it light and playful. ————- ATTENTION: MARRIED BUSINESSMEN Give us 4 days and we'll show you how to save your marriage & reconnect with your wife without having to go to marriage counseling or therapy...even if you're on the brink of divorce. Discover more here: https://thealphareset.com/ ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Aug 22, 2020 • 24min

How To Say Sorry Without Giving Away Your Balls

Episode #239 How can you say sorry without giving up your power? Apologizing to our women is one of the hardest things for us men to do. Usually, we don't apologize when we feel that we haven't done anything wrong. However, if we really think that we have done something wrong, we tend to do everything we could and lower ourselves just to make it up to her. This is not healthy. One thing you could do is explain to her why you've gotten angry in the first place. Tell her how did you feel and in return, ask for her side of things. In this way, both of you can learn from each other's shoes and will be more mature when conflicts arise in the future. Listen to this episode and learn more from Doug Holt and Ryan Peach and stop your old ways of apologizing. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Aug 20, 2020 • 31min

How To Be A Magnetic Leader At Home And In The Office

Episode #238 What makes a great leader in business AND at home? A great leader is a person that is always in the front drawing their team to where they are going to and inspiring others through their action and their communication. The first step to becoming a great leader is to take inventory of yourself. The best way to do this is to have smart people around you give you honest feedback. You need to understand where you are succeeding and where you are failing both as an individual and a leader. Once you have that feedback, you then get to take massive action and be the inspired leader that you know you can be. You get to take care of yourself and put yourself first. When you are sacrificing yourself for others, that will put a lot of pressure on your life. The secret to being a great leader is to be a great self leader first. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Aug 18, 2020 • 35min

How To Get Your Power Back

Episode #237 How can you get your power back? How much do you have to do for her to trust you? In this episode, we are going to talk about how men give away their power in their relationships and the six power tips to reclaim your power not only in your business but also in your relationship. A few of the tips: Keep your word. Show up as a man in such a way that your son is going to learn from you and treat his lady like a Queen and in such a way that your daughter is going to learn from you and expect nothing less from her man. Put yourself in a position where you are strong, resourceful, calm, loving, and have the space and capacity to share and show up fully. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Aug 15, 2020 • 30min

Revisit: You Can Never Win An Argument With Your Wife

Episode #236 Do you argue a lot with your wife or your partner? Are you tired of arguing with her? Typically women argue to connect, while men argue to win which is why it’s very difficult to win in an argument with your wife. Persuasive communication is the key to avoid being the bad cop in the conversation. If you do this, you will be able to not only get what you want in that situation but also get connection and intimacy with your partner during the communication. As a man, it is very more important that you validate what your partner feels, make her understand that she is your priority and that you don’t want her to feel otherwise. Hold your ground and communicate calmly. State what you don’t want and what you do want in that situation but at the same time, understand what outcome she wants in that situation so that she will feel seen, heard, and understood. In order for you to be able to hold your ground in these situations, you must have a strong foundation first. Focus on yourself, know who you are as a man, and know that there is a powerful man inside you. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Aug 13, 2020 • 33min

Establishing Boundaries with Your Woman

Episode #235 How do you establish boundaries with your woman? In this episode, we are going to talk about how to maintain peace without giving up your leadership and sticking to your boundaries.  It is important to have mutual respect for each other's boundaries and give each other time to do what is important, allowing each other to fill your own cups. Be more vulnerable, open, and transparent to each other and you will have no problem setting boundaries that allow you to be the powerful man you are.  ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. 
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Aug 11, 2020 • 25min

How to Not Be Needy In A Relationship

Episode #234 Should every woman have to fulfill all her man's needs? What most of us men don't realize is that not all our needs can be fulfilled by our wives or our women. It is unfair to give your woman the burden of fulfilling all your needs. The reality is, there are certain needs that can only get fulfilled by being around other men. In this episode, we will learn how we can achieve a much stronger and healthier relationship with our women without sacrificing our needs as men. ————- Hungry for more? Head over to our BONUS page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. 

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