The Powerful Man Show

Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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Jan 23, 2021 • 29min

Alpha VS. Beta Traits

Episode #305 What's the difference between Alpha traits and Beta traits? What does it mean to be an Alpha? An ALPHA is someone who leads his own life, leads his own family, and leads his business. An Alpha is someone who takes charge, someone whose words are powerful and everyone will listen to. An Alpha leads by example. A BETA is mostly the opposite of the ALPHA. A Beta is someone who likes to just go with the flow, someone who just does what he was told, and someone who is stuck at playing as "The Nice Guy". And when you're the Beta in your relationship, chances are, your wife will be the Alpha, which is dangerous. Both of you being Betas isn't good, either. A relationship with two Betas is like driving a car without any destination. Who would like to have that kind of relationship? In this episode, you will learn the importance of being an Alpha in your relationship. Having that kind of ownership in your relationship will help your marriage to last. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 21, 2021 • 32min

How To Know Whether To Save Your Marriage

Episode #304 What if your wife is attracted to, or flirting with, someone else? How to know whether to save your marriage? Remember, don't fix your marriage just because of your kids. You don't want your kids going through life watching a relationship like yours, a shitty one. That's the worst thing you can do for your kids. You should show your kids how to value themselves, love themselves, and that they should be in a loving, caring, and intimate relationship. If you are struggling with the decision to try and fix your marriage or not, you have to first figure out how things got to this broken place, and what you can begin to do about it. Invest in yourself. Go to The Activation Method. Work on bettering yourself and raising your value to bring your woman back. Women are attracted to physical appearance and growth, women find that incredibly sexy. If your love her, if you are in love with her, and if you are willing to work on it, you should fix your marriage. But she has to stop looking outside your marriage immediately. If not, tell her you're out. End it. In this episode, let's have a deeper conversation about your relationship...about your marriage. Learn if it's worth saving, or if it's better to move on. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 19, 2021 • 23min

How To Spot The Warning Signs

Episode #303 Is your wife connecting with her family more now? Is she meeting with her friends more now without you? She's starting to build a relationship with them without you now probably because she feels lonely or unhappy. Probably she's scared that you might get a divorce. She's doing it so that she knows she has a safe landing spot. You have to know the situation. Your wife probably wants more attention from you...that's why she's creating that space away from you. She wants to feel connected, desired, and listened to. You need to look at the energy that you're bringing in, or else she's going to fill that void with her friends, with her family, or with another guy. You have to make sure you understand the warning signs. Be a man, you need to take action now. In this episode, you will learn the importance of understanding the warning signs of a drifting marriage so you can act on them right away. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 16, 2021 • 26min

One Thing You Can Do To Break A Sexless Marriage

Episode #302 When you get married, it's not always going to be perfect. So when things don't exactly go the way you want them to, always remember that repairing a marriage is easier than going through a divorce and going back to the marketplace. Consider who you want to become. What are you going to do to better yourself? What are the things that you will change to attract your wife? There are many things that you can do to be a great husband. Show your wife how you focus on your personal development. Grow and upgrade yourself. Make an action plan for yourself. Think about your goals. Share all of this with her. Getting out there and pursuing your passion is attractive and sexy for women. Find like-minded men who share your goals. Consider The Activation Method. Change your style and take care of yourself. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 14, 2021 • 17min

Groundhog's Day - Repeating The Past

Episode #301 Are the complaints you have the same as the ones you had last year, or 2 years ago? Are you repeating patterns of the past? Where are we? Until we get honest with ourselves, we're not going anywhere. Change should start within you. It starts with being honest about where you are currently. Take an assessment to see if you're repeating mistakes of the past. Einstein said, "You can't solve a problem with the same level of thinking that creates it." If you want to make sure this year is different, change your filter and shift your thinking. The fastest way is to hire somebody, find a coach or a mentor to give that outside perspective. In this episode, you will learn the importance of being honest with yourself as to where you are currently, and the value of getting a fresh perspective from a coach or mentor in order to change your thinking. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 12, 2021 • 36min

Drink A Little Drink... Smoke A Little Smoke

Episode #300 What role does alcohol play in your life? What triggers you to drink alcohol? The potential problem here is not the drink. It's what you're using the drink for. When drinking becomes unconscious or a way to "hide out" and you repeat that pattern, that's when it becomes a problem. Women use alcohol to open up and receive, while men do it to release. Men drink to liberate their egos. When you're doing it unconsciously, you'll soon lose your perspective...and before you know it, your edge. You have to be conscious about it, recognize your triggers, get clarity around it, and do something. In this episode, you will learn the importance of knowing the triggers of why you drink alcohol and the importance of being conscious of doing it. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 9, 2021 • 24min

SMV

Episode #299 Have you ever tried rating your sexual market value? How about your partner? How much gap do you have when it comes to your SMV's? If there's too much of a gap between you and your wife's SMV, if your wife's SMV is higher than yours, other men tend to notice it and they start to step in. When gaps happen, affairs take place. Be honest, and see if there is a gap. Take immediate action and invest in yourself. Get into the Alpha Rise and Shine, get into a workout program or a personal growth program. Do something to raise your value. In this episode, you will learn how to ascertain your sexual market value and how you can raise it to a higher level. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 7, 2021 • 30min

Revisit: When Your New Year's Resolution Seems to Repeat Itself

Episode #298 Today is the 7th day of the year. A week has already passed us. And for most of us, this is the time where we set our new year's resolutions. Every year, we're making promises to ourselves about the things that we want and don't want to achieve. The sad thing is, most of the time, we achieve what we don't want to achieve and failed on things that we want to reach. Every year has been the same. What should you do differently? This episode might just answer that question - How NOT to repeat the same mistakes with your new year's resolutions. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 5, 2021 • 44min

A Look Back On A Challenging Year 2020

Episode #297 The Powerful Man pivoted big time in the year 2020. The movement brought alumni together and tackled topics about thriving during the pandemic instead of merely surviving it. This helped the men discover how they could serve their business, relationships, and communities better. While other people binged on Netflix, hiding out elsewhere, men from this group focused on how to thrive in 2020 and stepped up their game in their business and relationship. One of the highlights is The Powerful Marriage Reset. Coaches provided information and tools on how men from this group could save their marriages and how to have their best year in business. Another highlight was the virtual retreat, which got everyone following the Alpha Rise and Shine Protocol. Through the movement, men realized that showing up in a big way is the best thing they did, and allowed them to go from the impossible to a new reality. In this episode, let's review what happened in 2020 learn how the men from The Powerful Man were able to thrive, and how the movement was able to help business owners to show up and step up their game in order to better serve not only their business but also their families and communities. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
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Jan 2, 2021 • 30min

How To Reclaim The "Sex Frame" In 2021

Episode #296 Have you ever felt like you constantly have to ask your wife for sex and never know when you'll be having sex? Maybe it feels like sex is always on HER terms and you're constantly left feeling like your needs aren't being met and have no idea what to do about it? In this episode, we talk about what it means to be in the woman's frame around sex (when you're living in HER reality) and what to do to reclaim that frame for yourself. Like most things, it starts with YOU. You get to do the work with yourself, which will allow you to flip the script and reclaim the "sex frame" within your relationship __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

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