

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Jun 24, 2023 • 22min
Revisit: When Drinking Is Destroying You
Episode #683 What exactly are you getting from all that drinking? And what do you think it's doing to your relationship? Remember those moments when liquor put you in danger - and remember how often that's happened. It's a wake-up call to know your limits and change your drinking habits. In this episode, we're examining the effects of liquor in your life and what to do to reexamine your relationship with it. Enjoy drinking more and don't allow it to control your life. Stay out of trouble and take the challenge right now. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 22, 2023 • 19min
The Need For Every Man To Have A Mission And Purpose
Episode #682 What is the deeper motivation that drives successful men beyond the pursuit of money and external validation? For many men, early success is often defined by chasing external markers of achievement, such as wealth, status, and security. However, as you mature and accumulate these external trappings, a void can emerge. The pursuit of more money no longer satisfies their inner longing for meaning and contribution. This realization prompts a shift in focus towards mission-based work, where the emphasis lies on making a positive impact on others and finding fulfillment through helping and connecting with people. In this episode, Tim and Arthur discuss the importance of finding a mission and purpose beyond your financial achievements. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 20, 2023 • 26min
Mastering The Art Of Receiving
Episode #681 Why is it important to cultivate the ability to receive? How many men struggle with receiving compliments, acts of kindness, and support from others, often stemming from feelings of unworthiness or a need to control situations? By learning to receive, men can establish a healthy cycle of energy exchange, foster deeper connections, and experience a sense of equality with others. Moreover, practicing self-love and acknowledging one's own accomplishments is crucial in order to fully embrace and enjoy what has been created. Ultimately, the ability to receive requires introspection and a willingness to let go of guilt and the need for constant action. In the latest episode, Tim and Arthur discuss the significance of allowing oneself to receive to have a more balanced and fulfilling life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 17, 2023 • 27min
The Need For Spontaneous Action
Episode #680 Have you ever felt the need for more spontaneity and adventure in your life? In the world of business, it is not uncommon for owners and entrepreneurs to become consumed by the principles of rigidity and discipline. With the constant demands of running a company and the need to adhere to strict strategies and timelines, spontaneity often takes a backseat. However, this dedication to order and control can sometimes hinder your ability to embrace spontaneity in your personal life. The fear of deviating from established plans or the perception of losing focus can make you resist the idea of unpredictability and the joy that comes with it. As a result, the pursuit of adventure and excitement becomes an unexplored territory, preventing you from experiencing the serendipitous moments that can bring inspiration, growth, and renewed energy. In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss the power of embracing spontaneity and how it can enhance relationships and bring excitement to your daily routine. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 15, 2023 • 32min
Is Your Wife Going Through The Menopause?
Episode #679 How can a married couple navigate the struggles that arise when the wife enters the menopausal phase? The impact of menopause extends beyond the physical symptoms, affecting the couple's relationship dynamics. The wife may experience a loss of identity and self-esteem as she confronts aging and a shift in her reproductive capacity. This emotional journey can lead to self-doubt, anxiety, and a sense of loss, which the husband may find challenging to comprehend fully. However, by fostering open communication, empathy, and a willingness to adapt, couples can navigate this phase together, finding new ways to maintain intimacy, support each other's emotional well-being, and strengthen their bond. In this episode, we'll take a deeper dive into the topic of the menopausal stage and what you can do to help your wife navigate through the changes it brings. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 13, 2023 • 31min
Stop The Self-Deprecation
Episode #678 What are the potential effects of self-deprecating humor on a person's self-image? Self-deprecating humor involves making jokes or humorous remarks about oneself, often focusing on perceived flaws or shortcomings. While it can serve as a coping mechanism or a means of connecting with your wife and other people you know, it is essential to strike a balance to avoid damaging self-esteem. It is crucial to ensure that self-deprecating humor remains within healthy boundaries, as persistent self-criticism may perpetuate feelings of inadequacy and undermine self-confidence. In this episode, Tim and Doug discuss the topic of self-deprecating humor and how to stop doing it to have a better relationship with your wife and other people around you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 10, 2023 • 23min
Does Your Inner Dialogue Hinder You Or Help You?
Episode #677 How do you respond to challenging situations? Are you looking at different perspectives to achieve your goals? The impact of inner dialogue depends on its content, balance, and how individuals manage and interpret their thoughts. Developing self-awareness, practicing mindfulness, and seeking support when needed can help individuals navigate their inner dialogue more effectively. In this episode, we'll learn how your inner voice can make or break you and what you can do to help you develop healthier thought patterns in order to empower yourself. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 8, 2023 • 26min
The Need For Men To Have 'Sparring Partners'
Episode #676 Is your wife testing your boundaries? Are you aware of your emotional triggers? Being aware of your triggers empowers you to take control of your emotional responses, understand yourself better, and improve your communication with your partner. In this episode, we'll learn the impact of having sparring partners in life and what you can do to be comfortable about showing up as your authentic self. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 6, 2023 • 46min
The Innate Gift That All Men Should Tap Into
Episode #675 Today we're going to talk about tapping into and listening to your intuition as well as what happens when you ignore your intuition. Following your intuition often requires stepping outside your comfort zone and embracing new challenges in life. This willingness to explore and take risks can lead to personal growth and self-discovery. In this episode, Tim and Mark discuss why you’re ignoring your intuition and what you can do to tap into your instincts so you can navigate your life in a way that feels authentic. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 3, 2023 • 20min
Revisit: What To Do When Your Relationship Is 'Tit-For-Tat'
Episode #674 Are you aware of what's going on in your relationship? Or are you ignoring the problem? Does this sound familiar? "Whatever the reason, she feels the need to defend herself." How can you avoid misunderstandings with your wife? In this episode, we'll get into the three levels of a relationship, and some methods on how to convey your message to her in a better way. Make her understand that you want to stay connected with each other and grow together. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.