

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Oct 7, 2023 • 18min
The 30-Day Challenge: Catch The Right - Not The Wrong
Episode #728 Have you ever wondered how catching people doing things right could transform your relationships, both personally and in business? Do you think recognizing and appreciating positive actions can lead to more of them, or is it a shift in our own perspective? Join this insightful discussion where Tim and Doug explore the profound effects of this approach and share personal anecdotes and insights. They highlight the significance of starting with small gestures and making it an easily integrated practice, even in challenging relationships. In this episode, you'll learn about the 30-day challenge of catching your wife in the act of doing something right and offering genuine praise and appreciation. By committing to this journey, you can not only alter your view of others but also foster a more positive perception of yourself and the world around you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 5, 2023 • 28min
Why Financial Transparency In Your Relationship Is Important
Episode #727 Are you struggling with financial transparency in your relationship? Are you avoiding discussions about money, which might be impacting your connection with your partner? In this insightful episode of the Powerful Man Show, Doug and Tim address the importance of open and honest conversations about your finances within your relationship. In this episode, you'll learn valuable strategies to improve financial transparency, set mutual goals, and hold regular meetings to align your financial future with your personal and relationship aspirations. Discover how addressing your money mindset can lead to greater intimacy and overall well-being in your marriage. Don't let financial secrecy hold you back from experiencing a thriving, abundant partnership. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 3, 2023 • 23min
The Prevalence Of Porn
Episode #726 Are your expectations of intimacy influenced by idealized portrayals in pornography? Are you turning to porn as an escape from addressing relationship issues? In this intriguing episode, Tim and Doug delve into the complexities of modern relationships and the impact of the adult entertainment industry on intimacy. This candid discussion explores how these dynamics can hinder the pursuit of meaningful connections within marriages. In this episode, you'll learn about the prevalent role of pornography in contemporary society and its potential consequences for relationships. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 30, 2023 • 25min
Why Couples Both Need To Put In The Work
Episode #725 Are you and your partner both on the path of personal growth within your relationship? Are you ready to take your relationship to new heights by embracing change and development together? For many couples, the dynamics of growth and transformation play a pivotal role. The ideal scenario is when both partners actively participate in personal growth, rising together to strengthen their bond. However, challenges can arise when one partner advances while the other remains stagnant, leading to potential conflicts. In this episode, you'll learn about the importance of mutual growth within relationships, the delicate balance of supporting one another's ambitions, and the power of bringing newfound enthusiasm back to your partnership. Join us as we explore the dynamics of personal growth, shared aspirations, and how to maintain a healthy, evolving relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 28, 2023 • 28min
How To Deal With Difficult Conversations
Episode #724 Are you struggling with difficult conversations in your personal and professional life? Ever wondered how to navigate these challenging interactions successfully? In this enlightening podcast episode, Tim and Doug delve into their experiences with handling tough discussions, offering valuable insights into the art of effective communication. In this episode, you'll learn how to approach difficult conversations with a sense of curiosity and an assumption of the best intentions. Discover the power of removing emotional charges and setting the stage for a safe, productive exchange. Whether you're facing a sexless marriage, a tense business situation, or any other challenging discussion, these tips will help you build stronger relationships and achieve better outcomes. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 26, 2023 • 22min
Why Doesn't She See That I've Changed
Episode #723 Have you ever felt frustrated when your efforts to become a better person aren't immediately recognized by others, especially, your wife? Do you find it challenging to maintain authenticity and avoid seeking external validation during personal growth? If so, this podcast episode explores these common dilemmas and offers valuable insights on how to approach such situations. Discover why expecting instant recognition can lead to disappointment and how to navigate the complexities of relationships as you evolve into a more empowered version of yourself. In this episode, you'll learn about the challenges many face when striving for personal growth and how authenticity plays a crucial role. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 23, 2023 • 14min
Are You Hiding Out?
Episode #722 Have you ever wondered why some men seem to hide out in their lives, avoiding facing their true selves and responsibilities? What happens when a man's desire for avoidance overtakes his ability to be authentic and present in his relationships and endeavors? Men often hide out in various aspects of their lives, from immersing themselves in work to seeking solace in their man caves, all in an attempt to avoid confronting the uncomfortable truths they face. They may use excuses like a lack of clarity or feeling stuck to justify their actions. However, this evasion often leads to a sense of being trapped and unfulfilled, both for the men themselves and their loved ones who see their untapped potential. The key to breaking free from this pattern lies in getting real with oneself and seeking help when needed. Recognizing that you're hiding out is the first step toward positive change. Whether it's through professional guidance or personal reflection, addressing this behavior can lead to a more authentic and fulfilling life, benefiting not only the individual but also their relationships and overall well-being. In this episode, you'll learn the impact of "hiding out" on your relationships and personal growth, and how to recognize and address this behavior. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 21, 2023 • 26min
Effective Ways To Communicate With Your Partner
Episode #721 Have you ever wondered how effective communication can transform your relationships, whether it's with your partner or colleagues? Do you want to know the secret to making your loved ones feel truly understood and valued? Effective communication is the key to fostering understanding and connection with the people you care about. It starts with validating their feelings and experiences, allowing them to feel seen and heard. By cleaning the metaphorical "mud" off the glass that separates you from others, you can cultivate authentic relationships built on trust and empathy. In this episode, you'll learn the essential elements of effective communication that can deepen your connections and create meaningful relationships. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 19, 2023 • 25min
Work-Life Balance For The Married Businessman
Episode #720 Are you struggling to find the elusive work-life balance? Wondering if it's even possible to have it all without equal time distribution between work and personal life? In this episode of Powerful Man Show, Tim and Doug delve into the concept of work-life balance, debunking the myth that it's about achieving a perfect equilibrium. They emphasize the importance of clear communication with your partner, setting priorities, and boundaries, and regularly reviewing your schedule. In this episode, you'll learn valuable strategies for creating a work-life balance that suits your unique circumstances. Discover how to set realistic expectations, allocate your time wisely, and involve your family in the process. Don't miss out on the wisdom shared in this episode, and take a step towards achieving a more harmonious life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 16, 2023 • 34min
Reignite The Passion In Your Marriage
Episode #719 Are you struggling to reignite the passion in your marriage? Do you find that the spark you once had has dimmed over time, leaving you feeling distant from your spouse? In this episode, you'll learn how to rekindle the spark in your marriage and build a deeper connection with your spouse. You'll also learn how to break free from the patterns that may be stifling the passion in your marriage. We'll explore the importance of keeping things fresh, staying curious about each other's desires, and embracing a more intentional and playful approach to love and connection. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.


