

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Jul 18, 2023 • 24min
Revisit: Being Your Wife's Bitch
Episode #693 She's taken on the role of an alpha, and it's turned your relationship upside-down. No balance, no boundaries, no activation. Start communicating what is acceptable and not acceptable in a calm and firm way. Establish boundaries. Staying connected while maintaining those boundaries is very important. It's how you build respect and admiration. When you realize that you've become "deactivated", take immediate and massive action. Being activated is being an alpha. Get tuned in and turned on to yourself and get fired up about who you are as a man. In this episode, we are going to talk about what to do to stop being your wife's bitch, and how to get ACTIVATED and be an ALPHA in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 15, 2023 • 30min
What To Do When Your Wife Has Been Emotionally Hijacked
Episode #692 What happens when emotions take control and derail your relationships? In this episode of The Powerful Man Show, Tim and Doug explore the concept of emotional hijacking and its profound impact on your interactions with loved ones. They dive into the dynamics of emotional hijacking, providing valuable insights into how it can disrupt communication, hinder problem-solving, and create distance between partners. By examining this phenomenon, you can gain a deeper understanding of the challenges you may face in your relationships and the importance of actively addressing emotional hijacking to foster healthier connections. In this episode, you'll learn practical strategies to navigate emotional hijacking and restore harmony in your relationships. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 13, 2023 • 18min
How To Have Financial Conversations With Your Wife
Episode #691 Are you struggling to find common ground with your partner when it comes to managing your finances? Turning financial discussions into fun and lighthearted "finance dates" rather than serious meetings can make a big difference. It is important to have open communication and flexibility when it comes to setting financial goals together. By exploring your own relationship with money and implementing these practical steps, you can create a solid foundation for managing finances as a couple and achieve greater harmony in your financial decisions. In this episode, Tim and Doug provide valuable insights and practical tips on how to navigate the challenges of financial discussions within a relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 11, 2023 • 42min
The Ranch Recap!
Episode #690 The Powerful Man is dedicated to making a positive IMPACT on men worldwide, transforming their lives for the better. Tim and Doug's investment in The Ranch, a sprawling 106-acre land, aims to establish a sanctuary where men can embark on a journey of healing, personal growth, and self-actualization. Their unwavering commitment lies in creating a secure and nurturing environment, allowing men to thrive and become catalysts for change in the global community. In this captivating episode, Tim and Doug narrate their extraordinary encounter with the remarkable TPM team within the awe-inspiring grounds of The Ranch. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 8, 2023 • 29min
How A Wrecked Car Went From Frustration To Connection
Episode #689 What if rushing through life is causing you to miss out on precious moments? How often do we succumb to frustration when faced with situations that appear to be unfavorable to us? Slowing down, appreciating the journey, and fostering deeper connections with loved ones can enhance your relationships, personal well-being, and overall fulfillment in life. Our mindset shapes our thoughts, beliefs, and actions, ultimately influencing the outcomes we experience in life. By consciously choosing to adopt a positive and growth-oriented mindset, we can unlock tremendous potential, overcome obstacles, and achieve greater success. In this episode, you will learn how to prioritize the present moment and find gratitude in everyday experiences. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 6, 2023 • 30min
Revisit: Is It Jealousy Or A Boundary?
Episode #688 If you find yourself feeling uncomfortable with your wife's behavior or the actions of other men, it's important to distinguish whether it's rooted in jealousy or if it poses a threat to the well-being of your relationship. To begin, it is crucial to gain clarity on your personal boundaries. Take some time to reflect on what is acceptable and what crosses the line for you. Once you have a clear understanding of your boundaries, have an open and constructive conversation with your partner. Make this discussion enjoyable and engaging, rather than approaching it from a place of jealousy. Remember, both of you share the responsibility of safeguarding your relationship. If your partner is unwilling to participate in this process, it might be necessary to reconsider the relationship or reevaluate your role within it. In this episode, we will delve into the topic of setting boundaries. We will explore various examples of pure jealousy, identify boundaries that need to be established, and recognize instances where boundaries have been breached. Additionally, we will discuss effective approaches for communicating with your partner regarding these situations. Finally, we will offer guidance on how to ensure these boundaries are firmly established and maintained. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 4, 2023 • 22min
Revisit: The Death of Needing Your Wife's Permission
Episode #687 How did you get into a position where you have to ask your wife's permission for everything? And how can you regain leadership in your relationship? Being in a position where you have to ask your wife's permission is a major red flag. Men often think they are doing the right thing. They think they are asking their wife for permission as a show of respect. They are terrified because maybe the marriage isn't going too well or the connection isn't there or there are "warning shots" of separation. Stop asking for permission to live your life. Stop asking permission to lead your family. Stop asking for permission to be you. If you know that your decision is right for you and your family, just step into it. In this episode, we are going to talk about how you may have gotten into this position where you have to ask your wife's permission - and how to regain leadership in your relationship, take control, and prove yourself in your decisions. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 1, 2023 • 24min
Revisit: Your Wife Can Never Love Again
Episode #686 Do you feel like your wife can't express her love because of her past trauma? The way you show up within the marriage will have a huge impact on how she feels she can show up and express herself within the marriage. Ask yourself.... are you providing a space where she can share her struggles? In this episode, we're going to discuss why she can't express love in the relationship and what to do to win her heart again. Be conscious of how you show up for your partner even on her worst days. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 29, 2023 • 23min
Revisit: How To Avoid The Pitfalls Of A Dominant Wife
Episode #685 Is your wife controlling your marriage? What are you going to do to reclaim your masculine frame? Figure out a routine on how to help her surrender to you and execute it consistently. Be more confident in managing her moods. In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about how to maintain your masculine frame in your marriage. Guide her - because you are an unshakeable lighthouse. Decide for the family and have fun. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 27, 2023 • 25min
Revisit: Can Your Wife Be Your Best Friend?
Episode #684 Is your relationship getting boring over time? Are you relying on your wife to solve your issues? It might be stressful for her if you're expecting her to carry your relationship. You should be responsible for leading the marriage. In this episode, Doug and Franco talk about the consequences of treating your woman like a best friend and how to stop yourself from being a burden in a relationship. Reach out to your amazing guy friends who will motivate you to reactivate yourself. Rebuild the excitement with your partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.