

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Jun 3, 2023 • 20min
Revisit: What To Do When Your Relationship Is 'Tit-For-Tat'
Episode #674 Are you aware of what's going on in your relationship? Or are you ignoring the problem? Does this sound familiar? "Whatever the reason, she feels the need to defend herself." How can you avoid misunderstandings with your wife? In this episode, we'll get into the three levels of a relationship, and some methods on how to convey your message to her in a better way. Make her understand that you want to stay connected with each other and grow together. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jun 1, 2023 • 19min
The Dynamic At Play With Power & Control
Episode #673 What is the biggest issue in a relationship? What is the idea of cover contracts in marriage? Power play in relationships can be unhealthy and lead to issues like resentment, lack of trust, and emotional distress. Recognize any power imbalances or manipulative behaviors that may arise and step up. In this episode, we'll talk about signs of power playing in marriage and what you can do to address power imbalances in order to promote a healthier relationship dynamic. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 30, 2023 • 23min
Are You Doing This One Thing That Moves The Needle?
Episode #672 Do you feel disconnected from your wife? After working with thousands of men, we've discovered a tool that you can do on your own (without having to involve your wife) that will help. It's called the Chart of Intentional Living (COIL). The COIL will help you reflect on your wins which is an excellent way to acknowledge your accomplishments, gain perspective, and maintain a positive mindset. Embrace the process of growth and development, and enjoy the fulfillment that comes from playing at your best. In this episode, we're discussing how to play at a higher level in life and what you can do to reward yourself so you can find ways to win more. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 27, 2023 • 29min
Get to Know Your Customer and You’ll Get to Know Your Wife
Episode #671 Do you want to get more leads for your business? Do you want to serve your wife better? One way of solving both circumstances is to ask questions, moreover, asking deeper questions and questions that really matter. Building a strong foundation of mutual understanding and support will help you enter and navigate each other's worlds in a fulfilling and meaningful way. It‘s time to move forward because faulty assumptions can create misunderstanding. In this episode, we'll learn why having deeper conversations in a relationship, whether in business or marriage is important. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 25, 2023 • 20min
Revisit: Finding Other Men Who Are Doing The Work
Episode #670 Are you having a hard time finding and connecting with men who are doing the work, like you? What conversations are you starting with people? If you're growing secretly or growing behind closed doors, obviously you will not meet anybody. They will not recognize you. There are tons of guys out there who are doing the work, you just have to show up and let them know that you exist. Exercise courage and take action. Stop complaining and just do what you know you know you should be doing. Show up and start the conversation. In this episode, find out more about how you can find men with the same interests and values as you and help yourself grow. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 23, 2023 • 22min
Revisit: Director Of First Impressions
Episode #669 What is your presence online like? Do you have social media profiles - Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram...maybe even some of the newer ones? If so, are you active there? Do you regularly check them? Update them? Post to them? Your social media shows how you as a man are represented in the world before you get there. Do not be fake. There is nothing worse than meeting somebody who's been lying and misrepresenting themselves. Be a complete version of yourself. Share the lifestyle and the philosophies that you live by. People find this kind of genuineness very appealing. The more you share the more it strengthens your identity. In this episode, we are going to talk about being The Director of First Impressions, what your social media is doing for you, how to have the assurance that your reputation is being upheld above and beyond what is needed, and how important it is to audit your first impressions. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 20, 2023 • 31min
Revisit: Winners Want The Ball
Episode #668 "Winners don't just want the ball they demand the ball". Why do certain people succeed in life? Is it because they have more talent? Is it because they have more opportunities? No. In this episode, Doug and Tim talk about the one factor that separates the winners from those who watch on the sidelines. They talk about how you can see this factor show up in sports, in business, and even in relationships. If you're tired of watching other people succeed from the sidelines, then this episode is for you - time to step it up and demand the ball. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 18, 2023 • 19min
Revisit: When I Solve This Business Problem, Then I'll Focus On My Marriage
Episode #667 We think that we need to be focused on making money, in our business because we are told that when we have the money THAT'S when we can enjoy life with our family, and THAT'S when we'll have time for them and be present for them. In reality, when we make more money we continuously want for more until we realize that we already missed the most important things in life which is the opportunity to build a connection with our family and enjoy simple things with them. Can you relate? As business leaders, we must also lead our own lives. We get to prioritize being a role model to our kids and being someone who prioritizes family over business. Don't wait until you reach the destination before you enjoy and have fun with yourself and with your family. Choose to enjoy the journey now and have fun along the way so that when you reach your destination there will be no regrets. In this episode you will learn : The importance of leading your own life How to reach the destination without having regrets How to build a connection with your spouse and family __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 16, 2023 • 32min
Revisit: Why Do Business Owners Make It Hard?
Episode #666 Why do business owners make it hard to move forward with their visions? Part of being a powerful man is creating a life that you really want to live. Building that life gives you freedom and fulfillment pushed by pleasure rather than pushed by pain. You can run your entire business in just one dashboard to keep track of the health of your company. Some just don't know that these things are possible. There are systems that allow you to reconnect with yourself, your wife, and your kids. In this episode, we are going to talk about how to have the freedom to create the space to do the things you wanted to do, and how to move forward with your visions in each of the Five Territories. Make it happen! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

May 13, 2023 • 21min
Revisit: Setting Boundaries In Your Business & Life
Episode #665 "When you constantly make and break promises to yourself, your worth can start to become kind of meaningless to yourself." Have you made a lot of promises to yourself? How many of those promises have you not kept? Why didn't you keep your promise? Is it because you don't have time? In this episode, we discuss some tips on how to manage boundaries in business and relationships. This is an opportunity for you to recognize the things you really want to do in life and make them happen - because you are a man of integrity. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.