The Powerful Man Show

Explore the concept of upper limiting and the setbacks that often follow personal progress. Dive into the dynamics of relationships, including emotional triggers and the balance between space and closeness. Learn how to communicate needs effectively and avoid self-sabotage in both marriage and business. Discover the importance of emotional intelligence and prioritizing family energy over external demands. Plus, tips on using humor to defuse conflicts and the significance of apologies in restoring connection.

Episode #1056 Your wife tells you she needs space, and you're left wondering what that actually means and what you're supposed to do next. Do you back off completely? Do you hold her close? How do you know the difference? In this episode, Doug brings in his wife Erin, a coach who works with married women, to break it all down from her side of the relationship. They talk openly about what's really going on when a woman says she needs space, why those words usually have more emotion behind them than logic, and how to handle it without losing yourself or making things worse. You'll hear how to stay grounded, how to lead with calm strength, and how to know when to give her breathing room and when to pull her back in with love. This one's honest, direct, and full of the kind of insight most men never get. If you've ever felt stuck trying to read her signals or unsure how to show up in these moments, this conversation will give you a solid place to start. Want more clarity on how to lead in your relationship without chasing or shutting down? Get the free training that's helping married businessmen create real connection again. Go here to watch it: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

Episode #1055 You've been putting in the work. Morning routines are in place. You're communicating better. You're staying calm instead of reactive. But your wife still doesn't seem to notice. Or worse, she says nothing has changed. In this revisit episode, Doug sits down with his wife Erin, a coach for women, to talk about why your efforts might not be landing the way you think. Erin shares what she sees on the other side of the relationship and why some women stay guarded even when their partner is making progress. They get into the fear, hesitation, and uncertainty that can show up and how to lead through it. You'll hear how to show up in a way that feels consistent and grounded, what kind of communication actually helps, and why you need to go all in if you want real change. This is a conversation every married man should hear. Want to take the next step Grab the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It gives you the exact process to start shifting your marriage without needing her to go first.

Episode #1054 A lot of men feel like they're doing everything they're supposed to do, working hard, showing up for their families, keeping it together, but still feel empty, burnt out, or disconnected. In this episode, Doug sits down with master coaches Neil and Mark to talk about why so many high-performing men hit a wall and what finally gets them moving again. You'll hear honest stories from men who've spent years in therapy without results, the surprising stats around male loneliness, and why doing more isn't the answer. This isn't a motivational pep talk. It's a grounded, straight-up look at how to reconnect with your power, your purpose, and your people, starting right where you are. We also talk about what most men get wrong about asking for help, the slow death of becoming the nice guy, and how to stop pushing everyone away without even realizing it. If you've ever felt like you're carrying the load alone or just running on fumes, this conversation is for you. Want a better way to get started? Get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It breaks down exactly why your relationship feels off and gives you the tools to start leading again, without more talking, guessing, or fixing things by force.

Drew opens up about hitting rock bottom and how it transformed his life. He shares his journey from nearly losing his marriage to discovering powerful tools for personal growth. The conversation explores the difference between actionable change and traditional therapy. Drew emphasizes leading with heart instead of force, and how community support accelerated his transformation. He talks about redefining masculinity as heart-centered leadership and the importance of taking bold steps toward change without fear. This is an inspiring tale of finding clarity and connection.

In this insightful discussion, Christopher Hansen, a TPM advisor and coach specializing in men's relationship challenges, explores the pivotal role of masculine leadership in marriage. He highlights how stepping back can undermine trust and intimacy. Hansen shares that financial tensions often reflect deeper relational issues and emphasizes the importance of setting firm boundaries. He also discusses how 'nice guy' behavior can backfire, advocating for practical tools to rebuild connection and emotional safety. This conversation provides clear steps to empower men for stronger marriages.

Episode #1051 We're bringing this one back because it's one of the most important conversations you'll hear if you're a married man wanting deeper connection and real intimacy with your wife. Doug is joined by his wife Erin, a seasoned coach for women, to talk about something most guys miss. How emotional safety and real presence outside the bedroom shape what happens inside it. If you've ever felt stuck in the same cycle where sex feels like a reward you have to earn or where connection feels out of reach, this is your episode. Erin breaks down what women really want and why so many men unknowingly kill the spark by skipping past the emotional part. They also get into what it means to actually lead in a relationship. Not in a controlling way, but by showing up with consistency, presence, and trust. If your wife doesn't fully trust your leadership, chances are she won't fully open up either. This episode walks through what that looks like in day-to-day life and what to shift starting now. This isn't about becoming someone else. It's about getting back to who you've always been, the grounded, present man your partner deeply wants to trust and be with. Want to learn how to build that kind of connection and leadership in your marriage? Go here to get free access to our training: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales No fluff. No gimmicks. Just straight-up insight and a proven process that works.

Episode #1050 In this episode, we talk about what it actually means to let go and why it might be the one thing standing between you and the life you want. Doug shares a real story about a man whose marriage, business, and family were falling apart. Nothing was working. Then everything changed when he stopped holding onto the stories he believed were true. This isn't about pretending things are fine. It's about being honest with yourself and asking where you might be holding on too tightly. If you've ever thought your wife just doesn't get it or that nothing will ever change, this conversation is going to challenge you. The hardest part for most men is realizing that control and certainty are often just ways to avoid the truth. Letting go isn't weakness. It's leadership. And it takes a level of strength most guys don't talk about. But once you get it, you start showing up differently in your marriage, at home, and in the way you carry yourself every day. Want a real plan to turn things around in your marriage without losing yourself in the process? Get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and see how other men are doing it.

Episode #1049 If you're the kind of guy who puts everyone else first and leaves yourself last, this episode will hit home. Doug and Chris unpack why self care isn't optional if you want to lead well at home, in business, and in life. This isn't about pampering yourself. It's about learning how to consistently show up as the grounded, confident man your family needs. They walk through how putting yourself last often leads to burnout, resentment, and a quiet victim mindset. You think you're doing the right thing by pushing through and putting others first, but over time it starts to wear you down. And your wife, your kids, your team—they feel it too. You'll hear personal stories and examples of what real self care looks like for high performing men. From simple shifts like lifting weights or taking time to reset, to understanding how your wife views your self investment as a signal of leadership. This is about setting a new standard and leading by example. If you're tired of running on empty or just know you're capable of showing up better, this is your call to take action. Want to start now? Get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It gives you practical tools you can use right away to reconnect, lead with clarity, and get your energy back.

Episode #1048 If it feels like you and your wife have drifted apart, like you're just going through the motions or living as roommates, this episode is for you. Doug and Chris unpack one of the most common issues men bring up: how to bring back the spark and get the intimacy flowing again in your marriage. Most guys think the problem is sex. But the real issue usually starts way before the bedroom. Emotional safety is what creates the space for connection, attraction, and fun to come back. Without it, you're stuck in a loop of frustration and distance. In this conversation, you'll get a clear look at what's actually going on and what to do about it. Doug shares practical tools that help you shift the dynamic fast, like the Hidden Motives Technique and how to make intimacy something your wife actually wants to initiate. He also walks through how to create an environment where both of you can open up, have more fun, and rebuild that spark without needing long, uncomfortable conversations. This isn't about games or being someone you're not. It's about stepping into the role of a grounded, confident man who leads with clarity and strength. That's when everything changes. Want to go deeper? Get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's packed with simple tools you can start using right away to reconnect and lead your marriage forward.