The Powerful Man Show

Episode #1016 We’re bringing this conversation back because it still hits home for so many men. On the outside, Stu had everything. Successful business. Healthy kids. Good marriage. But behind closed doors, he was quietly falling apart. No one could tell, and he didn’t know why. He just wasn’t happy. In this episode, Stu sits down with Tim to revisit what life looked like before joining The Activation Method, the hidden cost of having it all, and the slow unraveling that almost broke everything. He shares what finally helped him pull out of that place and how he rebuilt his connection with himself and his family. It all started with one simple decision. If you're a business owner, high performer, or just a guy who feels like he's quietly losing the spark, this one is worth a listen. It's a reminder that you're not broken. You're just stuck. And there’s a way forward. If your relationship feels off but you can't quite put your finger on it, this free training will help you figure out what's missing and how to fix it. https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales 

Episode #1015 A lot of guys feel stuck in their relationships but don’t know where to start. They wait, overthink, or say things like, “I need to check with my wife first.” Sound familiar? In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt sit down to talk about what really makes a man attractive to his partner and it's not about being perfect or waiting for permission. They get honest about what women actually want from their men, why leading yourself first is key, and how personal growth (done the right way) can totally shift your marriage. Whether your relationship feels like it's hanging by a thread or you just know there’s more potential waiting, this is a real conversation that gives you clarity and a path forward. You’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of what leadership looks like in a relationship, how to break out of a rut, and why taking action, even small steps, can make all the difference. Want to know exactly what's off in your relationship and how to fix it without guessing? Get access to a free training that breaks it all down. Go to https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and start turning things around today.

Episode #1014 In this episode, Doug sits down with Scott to unpack what it really means to emotionally connect with your partner. And no, it’s not about talking more or trying harder. It’s about presence, vulnerability, and learning how to show up fully as a man. They talk openly about midlife struggle, emotional safety in relationships, and how most guys are chasing sex when what they’re actually craving is connection. You’ll hear personal stories from Scott’s transformation, going from emotionally reactive to grounded and intentional, and how that shift brought his wife closer than ever. If you’ve ever felt like something’s “off” in your marriage but couldn’t quite name it, this one’s worth your time. You’ll walk away with real insights on what it means to truly penetrate your woman, not just physically, but emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. If you’re ready to rebuild connection and leadership in your marriage, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. No fluff—just real, actionable tools to help you step up and lead from the front.

Episode #1013 Ever find yourself wondering why you're always the one apologizing in your relationship? You’re not alone. In this episode, Doug and Tim dig into a question that comes up all the time in coaching sessions: why is it so rare for women to apologize—and what does it really mean? They break down the emotional weight behind apologies, how gender differences shape communication, and why “I’m sorry” might not come as easily for your partner as it does for you. More importantly, they walk you through what you can do about it. You’ll get practical ways to create more understanding, reduce resentment, and open up honest conversations in a way that builds connection instead of conflict. If you've ever felt frustrated or confused by this dynamic, this episode gives you insight and next steps you can actually use. Want more clarity in your relationship? Get your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales You’ll learn exactly what’s been missing and how to fix it—without guessing, overthinking, or waiting for your partner to go first.

Episode #1012 In this episode, Doug and Coach Neil break down what it really means to “eat your own cooking”—doing the work you expect others to do. It’s not about having all the answers or reading the next book. It’s about actually getting in the arena and being willing to trip, fall, and course correct. If you’re tired of analyzing your life but still feeling stuck, this conversation is for you. Doug and Neil get honest about the fears that hold men back—especially husbands, fathers, and business leaders—and they lay out a no-fluff path to real progress. Whether it’s your marriage, your health, or your mindset, they challenge you to stop waiting and start moving. Vision, accountability, action. That’s the path. You don’t need more motivation. You need to take the first step. Ready to get out of your head and back into action? Get your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It’ll show you exactly what’s not working in your relationship and what to do about it—step by step. No fluff. No theory. Just tools that work.

Episode #1011 Doug and Coach Neil get into a real, grounded conversation about what it looks like to lead at home when things are shifting—whether it’s your kid pulling away for the first time or your marriage feeling a little off. They talk through the quiet stuff most men don’t say out loud: feeling alone, second-guessing yourself, and wondering if you're really showing up the way you want to. This isn’t about fixing your wife or your kid. It’s about you. Are you actually leading, or are you hoping things sort themselves out? Doug shares a moment that stopped him in his tracks, and Neil opens up about what his son—and his ex—are still teaching him about how to show up as a man with purpose and presence. If you’ve been coasting or caught in blame, this episode’s a chance to reset. You don’t need to be perfect. But you do need to be honest. That’s where change actually starts. If your marriage feels off and you're tired of guessing what to do, grab the free training at fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It’s direct, clear, and gives you a real starting point without needing to bring your wife into it right away. Just you, leading from the front.

Episode #1010 Most guys don’t realize they’re wearing a mask. Maybe it’s the “successful one,” the “nice guy,” or the “always-in-control” version of you. These masks usually start out as protection—but eventually, they just make life heavier, less real, and more exhausting. In this episode, Tim, Grant, Arthur, and Jared get honest about the masks they've worn, how those masks formed, and what it takes to actually let go of them. If you've ever caught yourself saying “Why did I just react like that?” or “Why does this keep happening to me?”—there’s probably a deeper layer at play. This isn't about perfection. It’s about awareness, small steps, and being surrounded by people who will tell you the truth—especially when you’re slipping back into old patterns. 🎙️ You’ll walk away with practical ways to recognize when you're showing up as someone you're not—and what to do about it. 👉 If you're realizing you've been showing up with a mask—and it’s costing you connection, trust, or respect in your relationship—it's time to make a shift. Check out this free training: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It walks you through exactly how to rebuild trust, lead with authenticity, and start showing up as the man you actually want to be—without losing yourself in the process. Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #1009 What do you do when trust has been broken in your relationship—especially if you were the one who caused the pain? In this episode, Doug and Chris have a raw, no-fluff conversation about what it really takes to heal after betrayal. They unpack how long is “long enough” to sit in guilt, when it’s time to start setting boundaries, and why beating yourself up won’t rebuild connection. This isn’t about quick fixes or fake apologies—it’s about doing the real work: owning your part, creating a new path forward, and protecting your self-respect while also holding space for your partner’s pain. Whether you’re the one who broke trust or you’ve been betrayed, this one’s going to hit home. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in the cycle of shame, anger, or not knowing how to move forward—this is the conversation you need to hear. 👉 Ready to rebuild trust and stop walking on eggshells in your relationship? Check out the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It breaks down the exact steps to shift your relationship out of survival mode and back into connection, respect, and intimacy—without losing yourself in the process. Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #1008 Ever find yourself resisting the very tools you know will help you? In this episode, Doug Holt sits down with fellow TPM coach Christopher Hansen to answer a powerful question from the community: “What part of the program do you struggle to live out in real life?” The conversation is refreshingly honest. They talk about slipping on routines like the Alpha Rise & Shine, avoiding conflict cleanup, and the very human reasons why even experienced coaches still fall short sometimes. It's not about being perfect - it’s about being real, showing up, and staying in the work. Whether you're deep into personal development or just trying to get back on track, this one’s a reminder that growth is messy, personal, and always worth it. Ready for a gut-check? Give me five minutes and I’ll show you where you’re really standing - no blind spots, no B.S. 👉 Grab the free training and start tipping the scales back toward your wife and kids.

Episode #1007 In this raw and honest conversation, Tim sits down with Justin McAuliffe - TPM brother, coach, and long-time volunteer at the Alpha Reset - to talk about what real change actually takes. Justin opens up about the traps so many men fall into: chasing external validation, hiding behind success, or numbing out just to get through the day. He shares how the TPM process helped him stop pretending, start feeling, and finally come home to himself - not by fixing everything overnight, but by taking small, intentional steps forward. They also unpack what happens at the Alpha Reset (without giving too much away), and why volunteering as a leader doesn’t mean you’ve “arrived” - it just means you’re still growing. If you’re stuck, spinning your wheels, or secretly feeling empty despite checking all the boxes, this episode is your sign to take a deeper look. Ready to Get Unstuck? If you’ve been trying to “think” your way out of the frustration, the distance, or the disconnection - and it’s just not working - it might be time for something different. Check out the free training at fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. You’ll see exactly why most men stay stuck (even when they’re doing all the “right” things) and what it actually takes to lead change - without begging, fixing, or forcing it. It's simple, honest, and it works.