The Powerful Man Show

Episode #995 In this Revisit episode, Doug and Brad Holt unpack a tough but necessary topic: what really happens when men keep secrets in their relationships. Whether it's hiding money, covering up past mistakes, or just not being honest about getting help, these lies—big or small—start to build walls. The conversation is real and direct. They share stories from the men they’ve coached and talk through what it actually looks like to come clean. The hard part isn’t just the confession—it’s facing the fear of what comes next. But if you’ve been carrying something around and it’s starting to feel heavy, this episode might help you see another way forward. This one’s not about shaming anyone. It’s about getting honest, stepping into leadership, and choosing connection over control. If something in your gut says it’s time to stop hiding, this is the episode to listen to. Ready to stop carrying the weight of secrets? Take the quick Relationship Scale assessment to see exactly where things stand—and what’s keeping you from real connection. It’s free, takes just a few minutes, and gives you a clear starting point. 👉 Start the assessment now __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #994 Are you coasting through life, thinking things are “fine”—but wondering deep down if there’s more? You’re not alone. A lot of men come into our programs thinking they’ve already done the work. Marriage is solid. Business is moving. Life looks good on paper. But something still feels... off. That’s the power of choosing growth when everything seems okay—before it’s not. In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of the latest Rising event—a next-level experience built for men who’ve already done the foundational work and are now asking, What’s next? You’ll hear how breakthroughs happened not because of a crisis, but because the guys leaned into the discomfort of growth—even when things were already going well. From coaches stepping up with no ego, to micro-adjustments that unlocked massive shifts, this conversation reveals what’s really possible when you stop settling for “good enough.” We talk about how real transformation comes from precision, presence, and the courage to go deeper—not just wider. And why waiting until things fall apart is the slowest path to where you really want to go. If you’ve ever thought, “I’m doing fine, I don’t need that right now,” this episode might just change your mind. If you’re coasting in your marriage thinking “it’s fine,” that’s exactly when you need to act. __________ Grab your free copy of The Married Businessman’s Guide to Saving His Marriage… Without Talking About It. It’s the same proven framework that’s helped thousands of men go from “fine” to fully connected—without the awkward convos. 👉 Claim your copy here. You just cover shipping—I’ll buy the book.   Think your marriage is solid? Let’s find out. Take the free Married Businessman’s Assessment to see exactly where you stand—and what’s silently holding you back from the connection you really want. 👉 Start the assessment now. It takes 2 minutes and it’s free.   Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.  

Episode #993 Ever feel like you’ve checked all the boxes—career, family, success—but something still doesn’t feel right? You’re not alone. And more importantly, you're not broken. In this episode, Tim Matthews is joined by Gregory “Dynamite” and Derek “The Redwood” for a down-to-earth conversation about what it really means to feel lost as a man. They get honest about the times in their lives when they realized they were completely off track—and what it took to admit it, face it, and find their way forward. This isn't about having a breakdown. It's about having a breakthrough. They share what it feels like to build a life that looks great on the outside, but doesn’t feel right on the inside. The pressure to have the answers. The temptation to sedate with work, alcohol, or just staying busy. The fear of admitting you’re not sure who you are anymore. But they also dive into the shift that happens when you stop fighting that feeling—and start listening to it. In this episode, you’ll hear how spending time in nature, reconnecting with purpose, and leaning on brotherhood helped each of them move from feeling trapped to truly alive again. If you’ve ever wondered, “How did I get here?”—this conversation is for you. Sometimes being lost isn’t a problem. It’s a wake-up call. And it might be exactly what you need to finally find yourself. Feeling lost in your marriage too? Just like in life, the first step to fixing a relationship is admitting you're not where you want to be. This free training shows you exactly how to get clarity, connection, and that spark back. 👉 Watch it here It's time to stop drifting and start leading—at home and in life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.    

Episode #992 Are you doing everything “right” in your marriage—and still watching the connection fade? In this special revisit episode, we’re bringing back one of our most downloaded conversations that hits hard for a reason. We break down the five subtle but damaging “nice guy” habits that well-intentioned men fall into—habits that quietly kill attraction and connection over time. From being indecisive… To constantly checking in with her emotions… To overgiving while your own tank runs dry… These behaviors might feel like love, but they’re often rooted in fear, insecurity, or hidden expectations. In this episode, you’ll hear why trying to please your wife isn’t the same as leading her… and why true intimacy starts with getting honest about where you’ve been playing small or playing safe. This one’s for the man who’s tired of walking on eggshells and is ready to show up with purpose, clarity, and strength—without losing his heart in the process. If you’ve ever said, “I do everything for her, and it’s still not enough,” this revisit is exactly what you need to hear. Not sure which of these “nice guy” habits might be holding you back? Take the free Activation Method Marriage Scale and get clarity fast. 👉 Start the assessment __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #991 What if selling your business doesn’t bring the freedom you expected—but instead leaves you feeling lost? It happens more than you'd think. Too many business owners stay in the game too long, clinging to stress, burnout, or an outdated identity because they’re unsure of what’s next. Others rush into an exit thinking it’ll solve everything, only to realize the money didn’t bring clarity—or peace. In this episode, you'll hear from Gary and Derek—two men who’ve navigated the emotional dynamics of exiting their businesses. One built his company from the ground up and sold it after more than 30 years. The other has gone through four exits and knows what it's like to buy in with the clear intention of getting out. They talk openly about the warning signs they ignored, the personal toll of hanging on too long, and the surprising relief that came from admitting, “I’m done.” You’ll also hear how The Powerful Man played a crucial role in helping them step into what’s next—with intention, confidence, and clarity. In this episode, you’ll get a behind-the-scenes look at what it really takes to leave a business well. Not just with a solid deal—but with your marriage, your health, and your purpose intact. If you’ve been quietly wondering, “Is it time to let go?”... this conversation is your answer. Want to save your marriage without endless talking or therapy? Grab your free copy of A Man's Guide to Saving His Marriage — just cover shipping. 👉 Get the book here Feel like you're carrying all the weight in your marriage? Take the free Activation Method Marriage Scale and find out where you really stand. 👉 Take the assessment __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #990 In this honest, no-fluff episode, Tim, Gary, and Mark open up about something most men never talk about—sexual abuse. They unpack how silence and shame shaped their lives, relationships, and how they saw themselves as men. But this conversation isn’t about staying stuck in the past. It’s about what happens when you finally tell the truth. You’ll hear how opening up became the turning point—not just for healing, but for building real connection, trust, and confidence again. If you’ve ever felt like there’s a part of your story you can’t share, or if you’re carrying something heavy and silent, this one might hit home. This is for the guy who needs to know he’s not alone—and that there's a path forward, even if it doesn’t feel like it yet. Ready to stop carrying it alone? If this episode stirred something in you—if you're tired of hiding, tired of feeling stuck—there’s a next step. Check out this free training that breaks down why so many men feel disconnected in their relationships and how to start rebuilding that trust and connection—starting with yourself. You’re not broken. You just haven’t had the right tools—until now. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #989 Can you stay calm and confident—even when your wife is testing your limits? We're bringing this one back for a reason. If you've ever found yourself defending, explaining, or reacting in frustration during conflict… this episode is for you. Because how you show up in those moments—especially when your buttons are pushed—is the difference between a marriage that grows and one that keeps falling into the same fight. In this episode, Doug and Brad break down what it really means to practice "engaged indifference." This isn't about being cold or checked out. It's about being fully present, fully grounded—and totally unshaken by someone else's emotional storm. When you lead this way, you become the lighthouse your wife can count on, no matter how rough the waters get. They also dig into why being reactive turns your wife into your mother (yep, it happens), how to lead with curiosity instead of control, and how to stop tying your self-worth to your wife’s mood. You’ll hear personal stories, practical tools, and the exact mindset shift that makes deep intimacy—and real leadership—possible again. Revisit this one. Because showing up as the lighthouse isn’t just about avoiding drama. It’s how you earn trust, spark connection, and lead from a place of strength—even when it’s hard. Think you're showing up—but not sure it's enough? Take the free Hidden Motions in Marriage assessment to find out where you're really at. ⚖️ Start here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #988 What if the reason you're burned out, disconnected, or stuck isn't because you're doing too much—but because you're saying yes to all the wrong things? Most high-achieving men are secretly overwhelmed. They’ve built successful businesses, provided for their families, and checked all the boxes… yet deep down, something feels off. In this episode, you’ll hear how one man’s struggle to say “no” led to decades of hidden pain, poor decisions, and relationships that never quite fit. In this episode, you'll hear a raw and powerful conversation between Tim Matthews, Mark Smith, and David Mason as they explore what happens when you stop hiding behind productivity and finally start honoring what you really want. They unpack how unresolved childhood trauma shows up in your “yes,” how saying no can feel dangerous when you were never taught it was safe—and how learning to say “yes” without a “but” can radically shift your business, marriage, and life. You’ll also hear how David went from working 90-hour weeks to taking 3-day weekends—without losing momentum. And the surprising shift that made his business more successful while he finally felt at peace, connected, and fully alive. If you’re ready to stop chasing validation and start leading with purpose, this is your episode. Listen now. Your “yes” might be waiting. Feel like you're doing everything right but still drifting from your wife? This free book will show you how to reconnect—without long talks or therapy. 📘 Get your copy here (just cover shipping): https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/freebook Think you're showing up—but not sure it's enough? Take the free Hidden Motions in Marriage assessment to find out where you're really at. ⚖️ Start here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #987 What if the key to stronger connection isn’t about trying harder—but simply remembering who you are? Fresh off The Rising, Tim Matthews sits down with Mark Smith and Chris Cameron—aka “The Love Power”—to unpack some of the biggest personal breakthroughs that came from shutting out the noise and tuning in to what really matters. They dive into the messy, beautiful process of self-discovery, and what happens when you finally stop running from your own patterns. You’ll hear how something as simple as saying “I love you” can completely shift a relationship—even in the middle of a heated disagreement. In this episode, they talk about how knowing yourself can expose hidden triggers, like emotional eating, and how those subtle shifts can create massive change. They reflect on why real connection often gets lost in the day-to-day grind—and how men can reclaim it by owning their truth and leading from love. This is one of those conversations that reminds you: the work isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being honest. With yourself first. Then with the people who matter most. 👉 Feeling disconnected in your marriage? Watch this free training to learn what’s really missing—and how to lead with love, clarity, and confidence. 🎯 https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #986 You’re trying to move forward. You’ve apologized. You’ve changed. But the past keeps showing up in your marriage like it just happened yesterday. Every time things start to feel good again, she brings up the affair, the betrayal, or whatever broke the trust—and it knocks the wind out of both of you. In this episode, Doug walks through exactly why that keeps happening and what you can do about it. Not with quick fixes or guilt trips, but with real tools that help her feel safe again. You’ll learn how to create the kind of emotional safety that allows her to finally exhale—and how to stay grounded when the past gets brought up, again. This isn’t about defending yourself. It’s about leading the relationship forward, even if you're the one who caused the pain. If you're serious about rebuilding connection, this conversation is where you start. Want to rebuild trust and stop living in the shadow of the past? Grab the free book and learn how to fix your marriage—starting with emotional safety and real connection. 👉 https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/freebook __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.