

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Sep 7, 2024 • 11min
Why Marriage Is More Important Than The Wedding Day
Episode #872 In this episode, we explore an often-overlooked truth: the wedding day is just the beginning, but it’s the marriage that really matters. While so much energy, time, and resources are poured into planning the perfect wedding, many couples miss the real work that starts after the vows. We discuss how the excitement and passion that once came so easily can fade into routine, leaving many husbands feeling disconnected from their wives. We shares personal stories and practical insights on how to reignite that lost spark by focusing on shared goals, vision, and daily efforts to nurture the relationship. You’ll hear actionable advice on how to communicate more effectively, lead with intention, and keep the passion alive—even during tough times. Whether you’re feeling stuck in your marriage or just want to ensure it continues to grow, this episode is packed with real-world strategies to turn your marriage into a powerful, lifelong partnership. It’s not about the wedding day—it’s about what comes after. Listen in and learn how to take your marriage from surviving to thriving by making every day together count. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 5, 2024 • 34min
Why Cheating Changes Everything: The Unseen Scars of Infidelity
Episode #871 In this episode, we confront one of the toughest topics in marriage: infidelity. When cheating happens, it doesn’t just break trust—it reshapes the entire relationship. We’ll uncover how infidelity creates deep, unseen wounds that go far beyond the act itself, affecting both partners in ways that can feel impossible to overcome. Join us as we talk about the real impact of betrayal and the emotional scars it leaves behind. Whether you’ve experienced this pain yourself or want to understand how to protect your marriage, this episode offers honest conversations and insights about what happens when trust is shattered. We’ll share stories, explore the reasons behind infidelity, and discuss the paths to healing that can lead to a stronger, more connected relationship. If you’re dealing with the fallout from cheating or simply want to safeguard your marriage, tune in to learn why infidelity changes everything and how you can begin to heal, rebuild trust, and move forward together. This is about facing the pain, understanding the damage, and finding a way to turn the page. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Sep 3, 2024 • 15min
Become the Man You'd Want Your Daughter To Marry
Episode #870 In this episode, we dive deep into what it truly means to embody the qualities of the man you’d want your daughter to marry. Join us as we explore how to break free from the cycle of feeling like just a paycheck, disconnected from your family, and struggling to find respect and intimacy in your marriage. Doug Holt share personal stories and actionable insights on how to regain your power, reignite the passion in your marriage, and become the leader your family needs. This episode is a must-listen for any married business owner feeling overwhelmed and ready to take a stand for their marriage, their family, and their personal growth. Tune in to learn how to shift from being reactive and frustrated to becoming the confident, decisive man who leads by example—creating a legacy of love and respect that will last for generations. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 31, 2024 • 16min
The Importance of Investing In Your Team
Episode #869 In this episode, Doug and Tim dive deep into a topic that resonates with every successful business leader: the critical importance of investing in your team. They explore why creating a culture of trust, support, and personal development not only boosts productivity but also strengthens the loyalty and commitment of your employees. You'll hear real-life examples and actionable strategies on how to foster a work environment where everyone feels valued and motivated to contribute their best. Whether you're a seasoned entrepreneur or just starting out, this episode offers valuable insights on how to turn your team into a powerhouse of innovation and success. Don't miss it! Key Takeaways: Why a thriving team is the backbone of a successful business. Practical steps to build a culture of trust and growth. How investing in your team's development pays off in the long run. Tune in and learn how to take your leadership and your business to the next level! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 29, 2024 • 25min
Power of Letting Go: How Our Stories Keep Us From Being Free
Episode #868 In this episode, we delve into the often-overlooked power of the stories we tell ourselves—and how these narratives can become chains that hold us back from living a truly free and fulfilling life. They explore the subtle ways these self-imposed stories seep into our minds, dictating our actions, shaping our beliefs, and ultimately, limiting our potential. Through candid personal anecdotes and actionable advice, Doug and Tim unravel the complex web of how these stories are formed, why we cling to them, and most importantly, how we can begin to let them go. They discuss the impact of these narratives on different areas of our lives, from relationships and marriage to business and personal growth, offering practical steps to break free from these mental constraints. If you’re feeling stuck—whether in your marriage, your career, or your personal journey—this episode is a must-listen. It’s not just about identifying the stories that are holding you back, but about learning to rewrite them, empowering you to reclaim your power, and step into a life of greater purpose, peace, and joy. Tune in and start your journey towards true liberation and self-mastery. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 27, 2024 • 29min
Grounded Masculinity: Embracing Strength, Stability & Authenticity
Episode #867 In this episode, we delve into grounded masculinity—a powerful blend of strength, stability, and authenticity. Discover how to break free from societal expectations and embrace your true self. Are you a married businessman feeling disconnected from your purpose, overwhelmed by the pressures of life, or struggling to maintain meaningful relationships? You're not alone. Doug and Tim offer a refreshing take on what it means to be a strong and present man today, guiding you to reconnect with your inner power and lead from a place of genuine confidence. They'll cover how to navigate challenges, from relationship hurdles to career demands, and provide actionable strategies to help you stay grounded in your values. This episode isn't just about reclaiming your strength—it's about cultivating a sense of stability that allows you to be fully present for your family, your business, and most importantly, yourself. Learn how to turn vulnerability into a source of power, how to remain calm in the face of adversity, and how to create a life where you are fully engaged and alive. Tune in for this enlightening conversation that will inspire you to take action, redefine your path, and embrace a version of masculinity that is as compassionate as it is powerful. This is your chance to step into your role as the leader of your life and create the future you’ve always envisioned. Don't miss this opportunity to transform your life and relationships by embracing grounded masculinity! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 24, 2024 • 33min
Get Unstuck & Get Clear: Stop Spinning Your Wheels And Actually Get What You Want
Episode #866 In this episode, we dig into why you’re feeling trapped in that same old loop and, more importantly, how to break free. Whether it's your marriage, career, or personal goals, it all comes down to one thing: clarity. Or more specifically, the lack of it. You’ll walk away with practical strategies to get yourself unstuck and start moving forward with purpose. We’ll cover the common pitfalls that hold men back from hitting their goals and how to take back control by zeroing in on what truly matters. If you’re tired of spinning your wheels and ready to start getting real results, this episode is for you. Tune in and take that first step towards living a more powerful, purposeful life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 22, 2024 • 44min
SMV 2.0: Advanced Strategies to Maximize Your Sexual Market Value
Episode #865 Ever wondered how to elevate your Sexual Market Value (SMV) and become the best version of yourself, whether you're single or in a committed relationship? In this episode, we dive deep into advanced strategies that go beyond the basics. Doug Holt and Tim Matthews discuss how to avoid falling into the routine traps that can lower your SMV and how to leverage your appearance, confidence, and social status to become magnetic. You'll learn actionable steps to refine your grooming, enhance your physical fitness, and build a strong social network. Plus, discover how your mission and purpose play a crucial role in boosting your SMV and, ultimately, your relationship. Tune in to learn how small changes can make a big difference in how you show up in the world and in your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 20, 2024 • 17min
Dual Perspectives: Feminine and Masculine Feedback Decoded
Episode #864 In this episode, we dive deep into the dynamics of male and female communication, particularly how feedback is received and delivered differently between genders. Ever found yourself puzzled by your partner's reaction, feeling like it’s way out of proportion to the situation? You're not alone. Join Tim Matthews, Mark Hainsworth, and Mo Parks as they explore the nuances of how men and women interact when emotions are high and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. We discuss why women might deliver feedback with a bite and how men can respond in a way that fosters understanding and respect rather than conflict. Whether it's the unintentional harshness in a woman’s words or a man's need for appreciation and acknowledgment, this episode offers insights into how these differences play out in relationships—and what you can do to ensure they don’t drive you apart. Perfect for married male business owners who are struggling with communication in their relationships, this episode provides actionable advice on how to manage these situations better. Listen in to learn how to navigate these tricky dynamics and bring more harmony into your marriage. Tune in and discover how to transform these challenging moments into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 17, 2024 • 44min
The Burden of Masculinity: Understanding Men’s Struggles
Episode #863 Ever feel like the world is bearing down on you, and it’s all on you to carry the load? You’re definitely not alone in that. Today’s society heaps a ton of expectations on men—be the breadwinner, the protector, stay in shape, be emotionally available—the list goes on. But what happens when it all gets too heavy to carry? In this episode, we’re digging into the challenges men face right now. We’ll be discussing a powerful story about a woman who lived as a man for a year, only to find the experience so crushing that it ended tragically. This story serves as a stark reminder of the immense pressure men face, and we’re also going to talk about how these rising expectations in relationships, work, and society are leading to increased stress, anxiety, and even suicide among men. We’re bringing in some real heavy-hitters to help us break this down—Mo Parks and Mark Hainsworth. Together, we’ll dive into how men can navigate these modern demands, redefine their roles, and find the support they need in a world that too often expects them to be invincible. So, tune in. You’ll learn practical steps to redefine what it means to be a man today and how to tackle these challenges without losing who you are in the process. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.