

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Oct 31, 2024 • 20min
Revisit: Love's Battlefield: Navigating Disagreements Without Losing Connection
Episode #895 Ever felt like arguments at home spiral out of control, leaving you and your wife feeling more like disconnected roommates? You're not alone—and it's time to revisit a powerful approach to break the cycle. In this throwback episode, we’ll dive into how you can turn heated disagreements into opportunities to strengthen your relationship. I'll walk you through practical strategies to lead through conflict, so your wife feels truly heard, respected, and safe. You’ll discover how to transform tension into intimacy and reignite the passion you both want. If you missed it the first time, now's the perfect chance to learn how to go from conflict to connection—and build a stronger, more intimate bond. Tune in! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 29, 2024 • 18min
Revisit: Trading Your Suit For A Tent: Why Adventure Can Save Your Marriage
Episode #894 Have you ever been publicly embarrassed by your wife and felt powerless to stop it? It's not uncommon, but it's something you can change. This episode dives back into one of our most popular topics: how to handle public put-downs and turn those moments into opportunities for growth. We’ll revisit why these situations happen and, more importantly, what you can do about it. You'll get refreshed on how to set boundaries effectively, address hurtful comments with confidence, and stop resentment from building in your marriage. In this episode, you'll rediscover: Why public put-downs are more common than you think Proven strategies for calmly pulling your wife aside and setting clear boundaries How to distinguish between harmless jokes and damaging disrespect Tips for creating a more respectful and supportive marriage dynamic It’s time to reclaim your voice and strengthen your marriage by setting the standard for how you deserve to be treated. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 26, 2024 • 16min
Revisit: How To Deal With Difficult Conversations
Episode #893 Have you ever wondered if trust can truly be restored after infidelity? Whether it's an emotional or physical affair, the question of rebuilding trust is tough. Can a person who cheats ever change, or is the relationship doomed to repeat past mistakes? In this episode, we revisit one of the most pressing topics—how to deal with difficult conversations, especially after infidelity. We discuss setting firm boundaries, recognizing when they’re crossed, and understanding the work both partners need to do to move forward. From owning your role in the relationship to ensuring your spouse takes responsibility, we get straight to the heart of the issue. If you're in the trenches of doubt and pain, listen in for actionable advice to help you make the right moves for yourself and your marriage. Tune in to hear how to take massive action and turn this situation around. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 24, 2024 • 26min
Revisit: Why Doesn't She See That I've Changed
Episode #892 Have you ever thought, Why doesn’t my wife see how much I’ve changed? Even when you’ve done the work and made big improvements, it can feel like your efforts go unnoticed. That disconnect can leave you frustrated, questioning your progress, and unsure what to do next. In this revisit episode, we dive back into the story of a successful businessman who seemingly has it all, yet feels completely unfulfilled. We revisit the powerful concept of shifting from being "pushed by pain" to "pulled by pleasure" and how it can transform your marriage and life. In this episode, you’ll be reminded of: Why your external success may not reflect inner fulfillment How the "not enough" mindset keeps you stuck in your marriage The steps you can take to stop forcing change and start embracing it with ease The difference between living a life of force and one of power Journaling exercises to help reset your internal narrative If you’ve been feeling like your efforts to improve your relationship aren’t being recognized, this episode will help you reframe your approach and take action. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 22, 2024 • 18min
Revisit: This Is A Key Need For A Masculine Man
Episode #891 Ready for a refresher on one of the most important keys to masculine growth? We're revisiting the power of solitude. If you missed this the first time or need a reminder, this episode dives deep into why alone time is essential for men looking to stay grounded and strengthen their relationships. In this revisit, we break down how embracing solitude builds confidence, helps you connect with yourself, and ultimately fuels the masculine energy your wife craves. Whether you’re feeling lost, disconnected, or just looking for a way to become more present in your marriage, this episode covers practical steps to reclaim your personal space and power. Join us as we revisit this vital practice and rediscover how spending time alone can transform both your inner world and your relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 19, 2024 • 45min
Revisit: Did You Marry The Wrong Woman?
Episode #890 Ever find yourself asking, "Did I marry the wrong woman?" You're not alone. But is it really her, or are you just not showing up as the man you need to be? In this episode, we're revisiting one of the most popular topics: when men question their choice of partner. Tim and I dig deep into how many guys get stuck blaming their wives without realizing the real issue might be with them. We’ll share personal stories, explore excuses like "she’s just not sexual," and offer straight-shooting advice on how to step up and reignite the spark in your marriage. If you’re ready to take responsibility and transform your relationship, this one’s for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 17, 2024 • 25min
Revisit: Work-life Balance For The Married Businessman
Episode #889 Are you struggling to find the perfect balance between work and family life? Many married businessmen face the same challenge. But what if the idea of equal balance is actually a myth? In this episode, Doug and Tim dive into the reality of work-life balance and why striving for equal time between work and home might be leading you down the wrong path. Instead, they explore the concept of creating rhythms and seasons that shift based on your personal and professional needs. You’ll hear personal stories and learn how to set clear expectations with your wife, communicate effectively, and establish non-negotiable habits that support both your career ambitions and your relationship. Doug and Tim also share insights on managing your time, prioritizing health, and avoiding burnout during those busy seasons. They offer practical tips for incorporating flexibility into your routines, so you can maintain a sense of balance that actually works. If you’re looking for realistic strategies to align your work and home life, this episode is for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 16, 2024 • 34min
Revisit: Reignite The Passion In Your Marriage
Episode #888 Is your marriage starting to feel like a routine? Do you and your wife feel miles apart, even while lying next to each other in bed? In this episode, we dive into the common issue many men face: losing passion and connection in their marriage. You'll hear why predictability kills desire, and how a lack of personal fulfillment might be affecting your relationship. Learn why reigniting your own passions and hobbies can be the key to reconnecting with your wife and bringing back that spark. In this episode, we break down practical steps for reigniting passion, including how to bring mystery back into your relationship, communicate more effectively, and why seeing your wife through the lens of a lover—not just a partner—can make all the difference. Listen in to learn how to move from a passionless marriage to one that’s full of desire, connection, and excitement! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 12, 2024 • 28min
Revisit: Why Financial Transparency In Your Relationship Is Important
Episode #887 Are you keeping money secrets from your wife? In this episode, we get real about how financial transparency can make or break your marriage. Too many guys hide their finances, thinking it’s a way to protect themselves—but it’s only adding stress and distance in the relationship. We share stories of men who felt trapped by their own money fears and the toll it took on their marriages and mental health. You'll learn how to start the tough conversations, set clear financial goals together, and why opening up about money leads to more trust, connection, and even better intimacy. If you're ready to stop hiding and start leading in your relationship, this one's for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Oct 10, 2024 • 29min
Unlocking the Secrets to Trust and Connection in Marriage
Episode #886 Is your lack of trust pushing your wife away? Ever feel like the more you try to keep your relationship in check, the more distant things get? In this episode, we dive into how unresolved trust issues can lead to the very problems you fear most in your marriage. Doug Holt and guest, Christopher, unpack real-life scenarios where men unintentionally drive their partners away by letting fear and mistrust take over. They explore the ripple effects that mistrust has in other areas of life—business, friendships, and self-growth. In this episode, you'll learn why trust issues are often a reflection of deeper insecurities, how skepticism can show up in multiple aspects of your life, and how to take massive action toward creating a healthier marriage. Stay tuned for practical steps you can start applying today to break this damaging cycle and rebuild connection. Take control before it's too late! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.