

The Powerful Man Show
Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
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Aug 15, 2024 • 27min
Woman's POV: Why Don't Women Apologize?
Episode #862 Have you ever wondered why it seems so hard for women to apologize, even when it's clear that something went wrong? In this episode, we take a closer look at the reasons behind this common relationship issue. Through a candid conversation, we explore the deep-seated psychological and societal factors that often prevent women from saying those simple yet powerful words, "I'm sorry." We’ll discuss how upbringing, cultural norms, and emotional dynamics play a significant role in shaping how women approach conflict resolution. But it doesn’t stop there—we also provide actionable advice for men who find themselves frustrated by the lack of apologies in their relationships. Discover how to create a safe space that encourages open communication and mutual understanding, ultimately leading to a stronger, more connected partnership. Whether you’re dealing with ongoing tensions in your marriage or you’re just curious about the intricacies of male-female communication, this episode is packed with insights that can help you navigate the complex world of relationships. Don't miss out on this deep dive into one of the most puzzling aspects of male-female dynamics. Listen now and start transforming the way you interact with your partner. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 13, 2024 • 21min
Becoming Your Own Best Friend: The Path to Self-Compassion and Personal Growth PT. 2
Episode #861 In this episode, we dive deeper into the journey of self-compassion and personal growth. If you've ever felt like your worst critic or struggled with negative self-talk, this episode is for you. We continue our conversation on how to become your own best friend, exploring practical steps to shift your mindset and embrace self-kindness. Through relatable stories and actionable insights, you'll learn how to foster a healthier relationship with yourself, which in turn, can transform your personal and professional life. Tune in to discover how self-compassion is not just a buzzword but a powerful tool that can lead to profound changes in your life. Whether you're navigating challenges in your marriage, business, or personal life, this episode offers the guidance you need to move forward with confidence and compassion. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 10, 2024 • 24min
Becoming Your Own Best Friend: The Path to Self-Compassion and Personal Growth PT. 1
Episode #860 Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be your own best friend? In this episode, we explore the transformative power of treating yourself with the same kindness and compassion you offer others. Discover how to shift from being your harshest critic to your biggest supporter. Tim Matthews and Mo Parks delve into the practical steps of self-compassion, from practicing positive self-talk to setting healthy boundaries. Learn how these small changes can lead to improved relationships, greater resilience, and enhanced personal growth. In this episode, you will learn: The importance of treating yourself with kindness and understanding. How to practice positive self-talk and self-respect. The impact of self-compassion on personal growth and happiness. Practical tips to become your own best friend. Tune in to start your journey towards self-compassion and personal growth! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 8, 2024 • 28min
Softening A Strong Woman: Unlocking True Connection
Episode #859 Do you ever feel like your wife has built a wall around herself, making it hard for you to connect? Are you struggling to understand why she seems critical or distant, despite your efforts? In this episode, we explore the dynamics of how women can become "hard" and how this impacts marriages. Our guest, Mo Parks, shares her insights on the subtle and not-so-subtle ways women develop protective barriers and how men can help soften these defenses to rebuild intimacy and trust. In this episode, you'll learn: The signs of a "hard" woman and the underlying reasons behind her behavior. How men may unintentionally contribute to their wives' emotional walls. Practical strategies for husbands to take the lead in softening their wives and fostering a more emotionally safe environment. The importance of consistency and owning past mistakes in breaking down barriers. Join us for an insightful discussion on creating deeper, more meaningful connections in your marriage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Aug 6, 2024 • 20min
The Unhappy Entrepreneur: Breaking the Chains of Success
In this engaging discussion, Stu opens up about his journey from feeling empty despite his successful business and loving family. He reveals the hidden struggles entrepreneurs face, like emotional turmoil and the pressure of societal expectations. Stu shares breakthrough moments that helped him confront his unhappiness and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and community support. He provides practical steps to break free from the invisible chains of external validation, guiding listeners toward genuine fulfillment and joy.

Aug 3, 2024 • 29min
Overcoming Guilt: Empowering Men to Prioritize Self-Care and Personal Fulfillment
Guilt often overwhelms men trying to juggle family and work, impacting their mental health and personal growth. The hosts explore how self-care is not selfish but essential. They delve into real-life stories that highlight the emotional struggles men face, especially in entrepreneurial roles. Understanding covert contracts and their effects on relationships is crucial. Listeners gain practical strategies for setting boundaries, prioritizing personal needs, and fostering better connections with loved ones. Embracing self-care leads to a more fulfilling life.

Aug 1, 2024 • 36min
Keeping Connections: The Importance of Maintaining Friendships as You Get Older
The podcast highlights the crucial role of friendships in maintaining mental and physical health as we age. It discusses the dangers of relying solely on romantic relationships for emotional support and the benefits of strong social connections, particularly in Blue Zones. Listeners hear about the emotional comfort male friendships provide during tough times like separation or divorce. The conversation emphasizes actionable steps for nurturing these bonds and overcoming societal pressures, reminding us that community and connection are vital for a fulfilling life.

Jul 30, 2024 • 29min
Breaking the Cycle: Understanding and Healing the Root of Repeating Patterns
This discussion delves into the reasons men often find themselves in repetitive relationship troubles, exploring their psychological roots. Personal stories reveal how emotional traumas can affect connections with partners. The Alpha Reset is introduced as a transformative method to tackle deep-seated issues. Practical strategies for emotional regulation are highlighted, showing that expressing repressed feelings can lead to healthier relationships. Listeners are encouraged to recognize their negative patterns and take actionable steps toward personal growth and fulfillment.

Jul 27, 2024 • 26min
Why Don't Women Apologize? Understanding the Dynamics of Apologies in Relationships
Episode #854 Join us for a deep dive into the complex world of apologies in relationships in this insightful episode of The Powerful Man podcast. Hosts Doug Holt and Tim Matthews explore why women often struggle with saying "I'm sorry," and how this dynamic affects marriages and partnerships. In this episode, we uncover the psychological and emotional factors that contribute to this phenomenon, discussing real-life examples and expert insights. We also offer practical advice for men on how to navigate these challenging situations, fostering better communication and deeper connections with their partners. Whether you're experiencing difficulties in your marriage or simply want to understand the intricacies of relationship dynamics better, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways. Tune in and discover how to create a more harmonious and loving relationship, even when apologies are hard to come by. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Jul 25, 2024 • 27min
Unlocking the Power of Attention: The #1 Secret to Deepening Your Connection with Your Wife
Episode #853 Welcome back to another episode of The Powerful Man Show! Today, Tim Matthews and I dive into the ultimate relationship currency: attention. Discover how giving your wife the right kind of attention can make her feel cherished and valued, leading to a deeper and more fulfilling relationship. We'll unpack the facets of attention that go beyond just being present, and reveal how simple shifts in your daily interactions can reignite the passion and connection with your spouse. From active listening to prioritizing your wife even in the presence of your kids, we'll cover practical tips and real-life examples that have transformed countless marriages. Join us as we explore why attention is the number one currency for women and how you can leverage this to not only make your wife feel seen and appreciated but also to become the husband she admires and desires. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.