Still Becoming One

Brad and Kate share their journey of celebrating 25 years of marriage and reflect on the importance of unplugging. The podcast explores the concept of 'kingdom dreams' in England, cherishing each other's passions, and the significance of supporting each other's aspirations in relationships.

Send us a textHave you found yourself staring across the breakfast table at your spouse, the cacophony of children's laughter now a distant memory, and pondering, "What's next for us?" That's the conversation Brad and I wade into this week, navigating the waters of marriage and parenting with an honest look at the empty nest years. We dissect the challenges couples often face as their homes quiet down and they look to explore how to reignite the spark that may have dimmed amidst the parenting hustle. In the epidemic of adult kids cutting off their parents, paying attention to this stage of parenting and your marriage is essential!Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Send us a textRemember when your kids were just a glimmer in your eye, and it was all about you and your partner's adventurous, romantic escapades? Fast forward through a blur of diaper changes and teen drama, and you might find your marriage playing second fiddle to the demanding orchestra of parenting. Join us as we chuckle and commiserate over the journey from child-free coupledom to navigating the choppy waters of raising teenagers without losing sight of our relationship's anchor. As the kids morph into the creatures known as teenagers, the game changes, and so must our strategies. In this episode, we swap stories and strategies for carving out quality time with your significant other, even when the teen tidal wave threatens to engulf every spare moment. Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Send us a textRaising kids isn't just about the ABCs and 123s; it's a complex dance that can trip up even the most in-step couples. In this episode, we open up about the parenting hurdles that can either trip you up or strengthen your stride. We discuss everything from the decision-making behind how many activities to do to disciplining with differing philosophies. Listen as we share our personal reflections and how we strive to maintain unity in our parenting approach, all while keeping the laughter alive and the marriage thriving.Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Send us a textDiscover the secret to keeping your marriage alive and kicking, even when toddlers are ruling the roost. Brad and Kate, with their treasure trove of marriage counseling and relationship coaching wisdom, invite you into a world where your spouse doesn't become a stranger amongst the diapers and tantrums. We're pulling back the curtain to reveal how you can carve out a sacred space for two, amidst the whirlwind of parenting. You'll get a peek into our own journey of transforming our bedroom into a couple's sanctuary and learn how to set boundaries that keep the romance blooming, even when the little ones are just on the other side of that good old door lock.We're not just talking about keeping the spark alive; we're about kindling a bonfire of connection and intimacy that not only you and your partner feel, but your kids witness and learn from. Say goodbye to the myth that date nights are off the table until the children are older. Instead, we're dishing out strategies that make every night an opportunity for reconnection, from at-home dinner dates to sneaking in moments of affection. As we delve into the long-term perks of a robust partnership, you'll be inspired to prioritize your relationship now rather than waiting for a 'more convenient time' that may never come.Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Send us a textWelcome to our marriage and parenting series. This week, we tackle the challenge of adjusting your marriage to pregnancy and infants! Each stage of parenting can tug at the seams of even the most resilient unions. The profound shifts in identity that come with pregnancy and how a new baby can reshape the couple's dynamic underscore the need to cling to each other as life's tides shift around us.Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

A married couple turned marriage counselors discuss the complexities of anger in relationships, exploring stigma and misconceptions. They emphasize understanding triggers, managing intense emotions, and creating safe spaces for expression. The importance of patience and kindness in navigating anger in marriage is highlighted, promoting open communication and constructive expression.

Navigating personal health, family priorities, and individual coaching in marriage. Exploring empathy and accountability in coaching relationships. Addressing betrayal trauma as a foundation in marriage. Balancing empathy and growth in marriage. Fostering individual growth for a healthy marriage.

Brad and Kate discuss the complexities of oral sex in relationships, emphasizing open communication and mutual respect. They explore gender perspectives in Song of Solomon and challenge societal norms. The podcast delves into historical trauma's impact on intimacy and the importance of creating a safe environment for sexual exploration.

Send us a textWe hear it all the time: one spouse desperate for help and the other refusing even to consider going. We peel back the layers of resistance that often shroud the path to relationship coaching, exploring why it might be happening and what you can do to help. Support the showStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries