

Still Becoming One
Brad & Kate Aldrich
We longed for a marriage where two people truly connect as “one flesh,” but we had no roadmap. After years of missteps, hard seasons, and questions about when real closeness would begin, we discovered that building a thriving marriage takes time, intention, and guidance. Now, more than 26 years later, our marriage is stronger than ever. Brad is a licensed counselor, and Kate is a relationship coach, and together we help couples and individuals explore what it means to build a deep connection, uncovering the stories and patterns that keep them stuck. Join us as we continue the journey of growth, healing, and intimacy. We are still becoming one, and we want to walk this path with you.
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Oct 29, 2024 • 39min
Politics Is Killing Our Family: Building Bridges or Boundaries
Send us a textHow do you keep the peace at Thanksgiving dinner when political differences arise? As we approach the pivotal 2024 election, we dive into the divisive topic of how to engage in compassionate and understanding discussions, even when opinions clash.Family dynamics during politically charged times can be tricky to navigate. We've seen too many families torn apart by the enmity and contempt of rival politics. Sometimes, we need to build bridges of compassionate listening and other times; we need to build boundaries. Join us from both sides of the aisle as we navigate this tricky situation. (mentioned in this episode- The Power of Saying No: 5 Steps to Set Up Boundaries that Stick)Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Oct 9, 2024 • 43min
Faith, Marriage, and the Story of Uncle Nearest with guests Fawn and Keith Weaver
Send us a textFawn and Keith Weaver take us on an unforgettable journey through their love story to becoming the CEO of the most-awarded American whiskey for 5 years running. Celebrating over twenty years of marriage, they share how their partnership was built on a foundation of deep connection, mutual respect, and connection with the Lord. Fawn's book, "Love and Whiskey," weaves their personal narrative with the rich history of Uncle Nearest, the first Black master distiller, and his friendship with Jack Daniel. Together, the Weavers are dedicated to preserving this incredible legacy through the Uncle Nearest Distillery and the Nearest Green Foundation, showcasing the power of love, faith, and a shared mission.Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Oct 2, 2024 • 38min
Asking for More Sex: Becoming Sexually Confident
Send us a textYou've been stuck feeling like roommates and don't know how to ask for more sexual intimacy. OR maybe your spouse is the one asking but in ALL the wrong ways. This episode promises to equip you with the tools to understand and navigate sexual frequency concerns that both partners often experience. Tune in as we share candid insights and anecdotes about setting realistic expectations, fostering open communication, and addressing awkward yet essential conversations about intimacy. You'll leave with practical strategies to find a middle ground that works for you and your partner.Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Sep 25, 2024 • 49min
The Sexually Confident Marriage: With Special Guest Shannon Ethridge
Send us a textTune in as we welcome the phenomenal Shannon Etheridge, a million-copy bestselling author who shares her transformative journey and the evolution of her work on sexual confidence. Discover the inspiration behind her book, "The Sexually Confident Wife," and how it has evolved into helping couples discover their sexual confidence together. Shannon's insights shed light on what it takes to grow sexual confidence and its profound impact on nurturing stronger, more connected marital relationships.Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Sep 4, 2024 • 35min
The Power of Saying No: 5 Steps To Set Up Boundaries that Stick
Send us a textEvery "yes" you give is actually a "no" to something else- usually without you realizing the cost at the time, which means we NEED to learn how to put up boundaries! Join us while we explore the art of setting boundaries in relationships and give you 5 steps to find and hold the necessary boundaries in your life!Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Aug 21, 2024 • 37min
Breaking the Silence: Healing from Sexual Abuse Together
Send us a textHow long have you been carrying a secret too heavy to bear? Today, we address one of the most silent yet pervasive issues: the trauma of sexual abuse. Drawing inspiration from our former guest, Lindsay Lautsbaugh's stirring sermon, we uncover the heartbreaking reality that the average age of disclosure is 51, underscoring the critical need for understanding and support.Sexual abuse steals more than just innocence; it strips away safety and trust. We emphasize that healing is gradual and requires unwavering support. We focus on the importance of kindness and self-compassion. Healing from such trauma is not a linear path but an ongoing process that requires resilience and continuous effort. By sharing our own experiences and those of others, we illustrate how challenging negative self-beliefs and understanding our stories can lead to profound personal growth. Don't miss Lindsay's Message: Straight Lines Crooked Sticks: Dinah and The Samaritan Woman.Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Jul 31, 2024 • 36min
In Anxiety and In Calm: When Anxiety Invades Your Marriage with Abby Foster, LCSW
Abby Foster, a licensed clinical social worker from Lancaster Therapy Center, dives into the impact of anxiety on marriage. She clarifies the difference between normal and disruptive anxiety, and when couples should seek help. The conversation highlights effective strategies to support a partner with anxiety, emphasizing communication and shared activities. Abby also encourages couples to balance family time with personal self-care, revealing how individual hobbies can strengthen marital bonds amid challenges.

Jul 17, 2024 • 44min
Overcoming Relationship Hurdles Together with Lindsey Lautsbaugh
Send us a textDiscover the hidden challenges young married couples face today with our special guest, pastor Lindsay Lotzbaugh, who brings her wealth of experience from pastoring, missions, and motherhood. Lindsay opens up about sensitive topics like pornography, communication issues, and the critical lack of support systems that many newlyweds encounter. We explore how the generational gap in churches often deprives young couples of much-needed spiritual mentors, forcing them to turn to peers, sometimes with less-than-helpful results. Lindsay’s insights remind us of the urgent need to build strong, supportive communities within our churches to nurture healthier marriages.Still Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Jul 10, 2024 • 40min
Navigating the Mission Field and Family Life with Chris Lautsbaugh
Send us a textWhat does it take to navigate marriage and family life while serving as a missionary? Get ready to glean invaluable insights from seasoned missionary and pastoral minister Chris Lautsbaugh, who brings three decades of experience to our discussion. We promise you'll learn about the unique challenges and rewards of raising children in a foreign culture, dealing with financial stresses specific to missionary life, and the crucial role of maintaining regular connections and good communication within the family. Chris’s wisdom on adapting to various seasons of life and ministry will leave you inspired, especially as he talks about the grace found in persevering through tough times.God's Whole Story PodcastStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries

Jun 26, 2024 • 48min
Turning Dark Years into Light: Lessons from Barb and Mark Case
Send us a textWhat if understanding your partner's childhood wounds could transform your marriage? Join us as we sit down with Barb and Mark Case, a couple who have spent 35 years navigating the ups and downs of life together. They share their candid journey from the blissful early days of their marriage to the financial strains and significant life changes that marked their challenging "dark years." Through their experiences, they uncovered critical insights that now fuel their passion for Storied Marriages a community-based approach to marriage mentoring.Barb's Coaching InformationStoried MarriagesStill Becoming OneFacebookInstagramAldrich Ministries


