Enneagram in Real Life

Today's podcast features Michael Shahan! Michael is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist located in Kansas City, MO. He specializes in trauma and identity work with his clients, seeing individuals as well as couples. He is passionate about helping people get unstuck, and allowing them to become the best version of themselves. Michael uses the Enneagram with almost all of his clients, allowing it to help guide them on their own road to healing in amazing ways.You can find Michael's course for therapists here: https://michaelshahan.com/enneagram-course-for-therapists-and-mental-health-professionalsBe sure to follow him on Instagram at @michaelshahan_therapy or checkout his selection of E-books at https://michaelshahan.comDo you want to ask a question? Send a voice memo to hello@ninetypes.co. Tell me your first name, location, & your question. We’ll play these on the podcast!Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

This episode is all about types 1, 2, 3, & 4! On today’s episode, we'll cover the following questions:What does it mean that the core desire of a four is “to find themselves” or “find their identity”? Or I guess it’s better put as “how does this core motivation show up in feelings, thoughts, or actions?” Maybe just some real life examples that can help me wrap my head around it.I have gotten my boyfriend very involved in the enneagram as well and it has really helped us learn about each other and ourselves! I am a 2W3 and he is a 3W2 and I was wondering if you could give me a summary on a 2/3 relationship? (I've already read your book and loved it!)My husband is a type one, he struggles with himself being the best that he can be, and he will hold on to any regret for a long time and let it tear him apart. Even if what happened wasn't his fault, or in the moment he didn't know better. I'm a type 9 and all I want to do is help him not hurt. How can I help him process his regrets correctly?Support us by using these sponsored links!Visit Enneagram Coffee for fantastic coffee for your Enneagram type & get 5% off your order with code NINETYPESCO https://www.enneagramcoffee.com/ Sign up for therapy from anywhere with BetterHelp! Do you want to ask a question? Send a voice memo to hello@ninetypes.co. Tell me your first name, location, & your question. We’ll play these on the podcast!Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Today's podcast features Michael Shahan! Michael is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist located in Kansas City, MO. He specializes in trauma and identity work with his clients, seeing individuals as well as couples. He is passionate about helping people get unstuck, and allowing them to become the best version of themselves. Michael uses the Enneagram with almost all of his clients, allowing it to help guide them on their own road to healing in amazing ways.You can find Michael's upcoming course for therapists here: https://michaelshahan.com/enneagram-course-for-therapists-and-mental-health-professionalsBe sure to follow him on Instagram at @michaelshahan_therapy or checkout his selection of E-books at https://michaelshahan.comQuote from the episode:"Those who have come from highly dysfunctional families can take heart in knowing that the Essential self within us is completely intact and always looking for ways to manifest itself. Initially, we may have to spend a great deal of time and effort working on the gaps in our development, but the core of our Being is always there to support us. Again, no matter how painful our early experiences were, our Essence cannot be harmed." The Wisdom of the Enneagram by Don Richard Riso & Russ Hudson, pg. 35Do you want to ask a question? Send a voice memo to hello@ninetypes.co. Tell me your first name, location, & your question. We’ll play these on the podcast!Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Today's podcast is short and sweet!Today’s podcast covers the common question:What are the best jobs for each Enneagram type?Do you want to ask a question? Send a voice memo to hello@ninetypes.co. Tell me your first name, location, & your question. We’ll play these on the podcast!Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Today's podcast is about Harmonic Groups (also called Conflict Styles or Coping Styles). This is another way to look at the Enneagram's triadic groupings and can be helpful for understanding and working through conflict.Today’s podcast also covers the following questions:Why do type 4 and 6 mistype so often? And how can I know which type I am?Are types 3 & 7 compatible?Do you want to ask a question? Send a voice memo to hello@ninetypes.co. Tell me your first name, location, & your question. We’ll play these on the podcast!Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

More Enneagram questions! Today’s show is packed with information, and the notes are filled with links! If there was something in the show you wanted to know more about, it’s probably linked below, so be sure to peruse these notes. PLUS, the start of the show features a brand new segment.Today’s podcast covers the questions:I’ve noticed as a 7 that I have a lot of 2ish tendencies like wanting to make sure that everyone in the room feels like they’re having a good time and just being obsessed about wanting everyone to feel cared for, is there a reason why a 7 would feel that way or have I mistyped myself as a 2?How can 8s learn to be more aware of how their words affect others?Is it possible to be one type in your professional life and another in your personal life?What is the difference between type 6 & type 9?Can you explain growth & stress arrows?ADSerious about saving or improving your relationship? Today I’d love to share ReGain Couples & Marriage counseling with you. Using this online tool, you can get professional counseling from a licensed therapist, specifically designed to help you thrive in your relationships. When you visit Regain.us, you can choose between individual and couples counseling to get started. In my personal experience, both individual AND couples therapy have been super valuable for me to gain the tools, self-understanding, and personal support I need to be my best in my relationship. I love that Regain.us offers therapy online so that you can have access to your counselor anytime, anywhere.I’m so grateful to all who listen to the podcast, and if you’re interested in this offer, I would really love it if you would use this link to book! As a BetterHelp affiliate, I may earn from qualifying bookings. Get the counseling you need to improve your relationship: https://hasofferstracking.betterhelp.com/SHgCOTHER MENTIONSAmanda Steed’s Foundations of the Enneagram (4 Hour Course) is one of the most informative and well-done courses I’ve taken on the Enneagram! Check it out: https://enneagramunfolding.teachable.com/Get your own Chamomile & Peppermint tea, 20% off with code MYTYPE20 https://www.dripden.com/enneagram-teas/typeeightStretch & Release Points Instagram Post https://www.instagram.com/p/B_TJbAuB4QK/Movement Points Blog Posthttps://ninetypes.co/blog/enneagram-movement-pointsDo you want to ask a question? Send a voice memo to hello@ninetypes.co. Tell me your first name, location, & your question. We’ll play these on the podcast!Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

There are about as many paths to becoming a coach as there are coaches. Today, I talk about my path in particular and give you some ideas on how to pursue your coaching dreams! Since recording, Integrative9 has added an August online option.Today’s podcast covers the questions:What is an Enneagram coach?How did you become an Enneagram coach?International Coach Federation (ICF) Credentialhttps://coachfederation.org/icf-credentialBecome an Enneagram Coach ONLINE * affiliate link *https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/a/21463/RhYsodeUIntegrative9 Accreditation ONLINE AVAILABLEhttps://www.integrative9.com/events/calendar/The Narrative Enneagram Programhttps://enneagramworldwide.com/Chestnut Paes Enneagram Academyhttps://cpenneagram.com/about-the-academy/International Enneagram Association (IEA) Accredited Traininghttps://www.internationalenneagram.org/find-a/accredited-training-program/To ask a question and support the show, visit https://www.patreon.com/askanenneagramcoachorSupport the show (https://ko-fi.com/askanenneagramcoach)Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Thanks so much for listening! Today's episode explores these common Enneagram questions:What are some ways for a three to tell whether they are actually feeling their feelings or just performing their feelings? Could my significant other understand my personality better from learning my enneagram type?Is there any correlation between Enneagram Type, Astrology, MBTI, etc.?What would you tell each type when they’re in that mental space of “I really don’t like my type”? https://www.instagram.com/p/B9E6IPch2Xf/Tips to help threes relax when there’s nothing to do?Do 7s usually struggle with anxiety? I know 6s do but is that a thing for 7s?National Alliance on Mental Health (NAMI) Resource Directory Thank you to Drip Den for sponsoring this episode of Ask an Enneagram Coach. Get 20% off your first custom tea using the code MYTYPE20 at checkout on https://www.dripden.com/To ask a question and support the show, visit https://www.patreon.com/askanenneagramcoachorSupport the show (https://ko-fi.com/askanenneagramcoach)Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Thanks so much for listening! Today's episode explores these common Enneagram questions:If I had only one takeaway from learning my type, what should it be?What's the deal with 9s and anger?What about 9s and expectations?I'm a 1 AND an 8 - what does that mean?Why do 1 and 6 mistype so often?To ask a question and support the show, visit https://www.patreon.com/askanenneagramcoachorhttps://ko-fi.com/askanenneagramcoachSupport the show (https://ko-fi.com/askanenneagramcoach)Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Thanks so much for listening! Today's episode explores four common Enneagram questions. It's pretty long, but this is a great episode to share with people who are unfamiliar with the Enneagram and would like to learn more about each type & how to find their own type. I talked through questions like,How do you find your core motivation?Can your type change?What are the nine core motivations?What do you do when you really can’t figure out your type?Thank you to Nine Shapes for sponsoring this episode! To get your own Nine Shapes card deck, visit https://nineshapes.co/.To ask a question and support the show, visit https://www.patreon.com/askanenneagramcoachWant to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.