Enneagram 4 Motivation, Type 2 & 3 Relationship, & Navigating Regret as a Type 1

This episode is all about types 1, 2, 3, & 4! 

On today’s episode, we'll cover the following questions:

1. What does it mean that the core desire of a four is “to find themselves” or “find their identity”? Or I guess it’s better put as “how does this core motivation show up in feelings, thoughts, or actions?” Maybe just some real life examples that can help me wrap my head around it.
2. I have gotten my boyfriend very involved in the enneagram as well and it has really helped us learn about each other and ourselves! I am a 2W3 and he is a 3W2 and I was wondering if you could give me a summary on a 2/3 relationship? (I've already read your book and loved it!)
3. My husband is a type one, he struggles with himself being the best that he can be, and he will hold on to any regret for a long time and let it tear him apart. Even if what happened wasn't his fault, or in the moment he didn't know better. I'm a type 9 and all I want to do is help him not hurt. How can I help him process his regrets correctly?

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