
Self-Helpless
Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless. Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more.Hosted by Delanie Fischer, Co-Author of MockTales, Creative Activist, and resident homebody, Self-Helpless has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad. New episode every Monday!
Latest episodes

Feb 24, 2020 • 52min
Emotional Labor
Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer discuss emotional labor this week on Self-Helpless. What is emotional labor? Which jobs require the most of it? And how the hell do you take care of yourself when you realize it’s a requirement of you? The hosts also share their personal experiences with emotional labor, as well as some of the more “unconventional” ways they’ve managed it.
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Feb 10, 2020 • 54min
Atomic Habits by James Clear
The hosts discuss, "Atomic Habits," by James Clear. They share the strange methods they've used to change their own habits, their favorite tips from the book, and how they plan to implement new habits moving forward.
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Feb 3, 2020 • 1h 14min
Live from San Francisco Sketchfest with Ahamed Weinberg
This week's episode was recorded live from The San Francisco Sketchfest with comedian, Ahamed Weinberg. Ahamed shares his experience as a Muslim, how he feels about Transcendental Meditation, and receives a feng shui audit for attracting a new relationship.
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Jan 27, 2020 • 55min
Our Ideal Daily Self-Care Routines vs. Our Real Ones
This week Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer discuss their current self-care routines - what they actually do daily, what they wish they did, and what gets in the way of their self-care practice most.
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Jan 20, 2020 • 1h 19min
Netflix Documentary Review: Game Changers
This week the hosts are joined by Kelsey's husband and comedian, Kane Holloway, as they discuss the Netflix documentary, Game Changers. This documentary follows James Wilks, elite Special Forces trainer and The Ultimate Fighter winner, as he travels the world on a quest to uncover the optimal diet for human performance.
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Jan 13, 2020 • 53min
How I Had The Best Year Ever with Helen Hong
This week the girls are joined by comedian, Helen Hong. Helen shares how she had the best year ever, what steps she took to become a new version of herself, and they all discuss their current vices and which ones have been the hardest to kick.
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Jan 6, 2020 • 51min
10 Strategies To Conquer Procrastination
This week, Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer discuss the 15 most common reasons why people procrastinate, their personal experiences with procrastination, and 10 strategies to conquer it.
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Dec 30, 2019 • 55min
5 Questions To Ask Yourself About Your Goals
This week, it's our 2019 end of year wrap up. The girls discuss the goals they set for 2019, what they did vs. didn't accomplish (and how they feel about it), and ask themselves 5 questions to help guide next year's goals.
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Dec 23, 2019 • 55min
Girl, Stop Apologizing by Rachel Hollis
This week the hosts discuss, "Girl, Stop Apologizing," by Rachel Hollis. The book explains why women typically apologize more than men, what they should stop apologizing for, and actionable tips for pursuing your dreams.
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Dec 16, 2019 • 44min
Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming by Stephen LaBerge
This week the girls discuss, "Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming" by Stephen LaBerge. They describe what lucid dreaming is, how you can induce it, and their most memorable dreams to date.
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