Self-Helpless
Crossover Media Group
Self-care with a conscience for everyday activists, but ya know, fun.Described by fans as "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores all things (ethical) personal growth and practical activism—alright, with the occasional episode about Delanie's favorite sweet, sweet treats. Featuring a variety of changemakers including specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show aims to close the gap between one-dimensional self-help and advocacy. Self-Helpless garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, Babette Davis, and more.Hosted by resident homebody Delanie Fischer, co-author of MockTales, Comedy Writer, and Creative Activist, themes include conscious consumption, holistic health, cognitive neuroscience, exploring social conditioning, creativity, spirituality, and purpose. Fischer's recognized by listeners for her sharp, organic, and fluff-free hosting style that skips the small talk and gets to the substance we crave.New episode every Monday!
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Oct 18, 2021 • 49min
Why You Became A People-Pleaser
Kelsey Cook and Delanie Fischer are discussing people-pleasing. They cover signs that you’re a people-pleaser, how individuals develop these tendencies, why these patterns are hard to break, and offer tips for setting boundaries and prioritizing your needs. Plus, they share some shocking stories about how people-pleasing has impacted their own lives.
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Oct 11, 2021 • 1h 7min
UTIs, Interstitial Cystitis, and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction with Dr. Rena Malik
The girls are joined by urologist and sexual health expert, Dr. Rena Malik, to debunk UTI myths, discuss interstitial cystitis, and offer tips and treatment options for pelvic floor dysfunction. If you’ve been experiencing pain during sex, feel a stinging sensation when you pee, or suffer from chronic constipation or back pain, the answers you need might be in this episode! Plus, Taylor Tomlinson is back to chat about her theatre tour!
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Oct 4, 2021 • 39min
Wintering by Katherine May
Kelsey and Delanie are discussing, "Wintering," by Katherine May. This book is about the winter seasons of life (literal and metaphorical), why slowing down during tough times is necessary and important, and how we can learn to accept challenges instead of resist them. Plus, the girls share some of their go-to comforts when they find themselves “wintering.”
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Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Sep 27, 2021 • 1h 4min
ADHD in Adults: Signs, Symptoms, and Misconceptions with Dr. Stephanie Sarkis
We are joined by psychotherapist, American Mental Health Counselors Association Diplomate, and ADHD expert, Dr. Stephanie Sarkis. Dr. Sarkis shares the signs, symptoms, types, and treatment options for people who have ADHD, the biggest misconceptions about this disorder (these blew our minds), why young girls are often overlooked and not diagnosed until adulthood, as well as what partners of people with ADHD experience in their day-to-day. Plus, the shocking link between emotional abuse and ADHD.
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Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Sep 20, 2021 • 32min
The 3 Types of Empathy
This week the girls discuss empathy. They cover the 3 different types of empathy (did you know there were 3??), how empathy can impact us physically and emotionally, and things we can all do to become more empathetic. Plus, Kelsey shares a story that includes all 3 types!
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Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Sep 13, 2021 • 50min
Cancel Culture vs. Accountability with Sonya Renee Taylor
We are joined by social justice activist and founder of "The Body is Not An Apology" movement, Sonya Renee Taylor. Sonya shares the difference between “cancel culture” and accountability, what a sincere apology includes vs. what is just absolution, whether “getting canceled” is actually a real thing, and how we can hold ourselves (and others) accountable while keeping in mind that we all make mistakes. Plus, the ONE requirement of true accountability. Grab your notebook, this episode is packed with practical tips and takeaways that can make us all better listeners (and humans!).
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Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Sep 6, 2021 • 36min
Have You Questioned Your Social Conditioning?
The girls are discussing social conditioning - what it is, its impact on us, and how to question the parts of it that don’t feel right. They also share some early memories around their own conditioning, how it’s shaped who they are, and how each of them continue to challenge the status quo.
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Aug 30, 2021 • 42min
How To Stay Informed with Noor Tagouri
We are joined by award-winning journalist and activist, Noor Tagouri. Noor explains how we can ensure the information we receive and share is credible, who benefits (and profits) from our fear and the divisiveness created in traditional media outlets, and what changes would have a positive impact on the media industry as a whole - and therefore on us. Plus, practical tips for getting involved in causes you care about without the overwhelm!
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Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Aug 23, 2021 • 50min
50 Weird Facts (Seriously WTF)
The girls are dishing out some strange facts this week. Everything from the origin of the term "spam mail," a terrifying skill that wasps have, the one family dynamic no U.S. president has ever had, why pigeons are underappreciated, and how jellyfish are probably going to take over the world at some point. Plus, some weird exercises and fun facts about Delanie and Kelsey!
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Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Aug 16, 2021 • 32min
How To Improve Your Relationship With Uncertainty
The girls are discussing uncertainty, and all of the anxiety that can come with it. They share some tips for coping, what tools have helped them the most, offer some personal experiences, and encourage you to audit your own perspective on uncertainty. Plus, what they feel has been the BIGGEST silver lining when it comes to uncertainty in their own lives.
For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless
Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com
Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
