The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Marriage is a journey with distinct stages that can surprise and challenge couples. The hosts discuss their own experiences through the passionate beginnings, the busy realities of parenthood, and even the rebellious phases. They emphasize the need for communication, teamwork, and humor to maintain intimacy. As couples navigate these ups and downs, prioritizing their relationship becomes crucial. Ultimately, building a strong foundation of friendship and shared experiences is key to lasting connection and passion.

Are you thinking about going to a marriage therapist? Or maybe you're just listening to podcasts (like ours), reading books, or getting advice from influencers in hopes of improving your relationship? We wanted to share some vital questions you should ask yourself to make sure you're getting the kind of support that will actually help your marriage—not hurt it.In today’s conversation, Nick and Amy share some of the most important lessons they’ve learned in their own journey, including why not all advice is good advice—even when it’s coming from a “professional.”They discuss:Why lived experience matters just as much (if not more) than credentialsHow to discern if someone truly has your marriage’s best interests at heartWhat red flags to watch for in therapists, counselors, and even social media “marriage experts”How some therapists have unknowingly (or even knowingly) kept couples stuck or sick for yearsThe power of shared values and how that influences the direction of the advice you receiveThis episode isn’t about bashing therapists—it’s about helping couples make informed, wise decisions when it comes to who they trust with "their" most important thing in their life, which is their relationship! Tune in for a conversation that will challenge you to think deeper and choose more intentionally when it comes to who you allow to speak into your marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

This discussion dives into the perils of comparing marriages to idealized images on social media, revealing how 86% of couples feel negatively affected by it. The speakers share their personal journey toward appreciation and gratitude, emphasizing how these elements can transform marital satisfaction. They explore the dangers of comparing material possessions and the emotional toll it takes on relationships. Strategies are offered for couples to focus on shared goals, cultivate intimacy, and escape the detrimental comparison trap.

Is Your Marriage Truly Intimate? It’s Not About Frequency—It’s About Fulfillment.Intimacy isn’t a scoreboard. It’s not about how often you’re having sex compared to other couples, it’s about whether it’s meeting the emotional, physical, and relational needs of both spouses.Sex in marriage goes far beyond the physical. It’s neurological. It’s hormonal. It’s deeply emotional. Science shows that regular sexual intimacy literally rewires your brain to feel more love, more trust, and more connection with your spouse.In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into eye-opening stats, surprising research, and real talk about what makes a marriage truly intimate. and how to know if yours is. We even have a quiz to help you find out.Don’t miss this one, it might just change everything.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

If you sat your kids down and asked them what they think about your marriage, what would they say? Would they describe a relationship filled with love, kindness, respect, and affection—or would they notice tension, distance, or disconnection?In this thought-provoking episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore the powerful impact your marriage has on your children. Whether you realize it or not, your kids are watching, learning, and forming beliefs about love, commitment, and connection based on what they see between you and your spouse.We dive into the intentional choices couples can make to model a healthy, loving relationship—one that teaches your children what a strong marriage truly looks like. From the way you communicate and resolve conflict to how you prioritize time together, this episode is a must-listen for couples who want to leave a lasting legacy of love.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Discover why a good spouse deserves intimacy and how it is a fundamental part of marriage—not a luxury. Explore the vital balance of emotional and physical connections and the pitfalls of neglecting intimacy. Learn how daily responsibilities can strain relationships and the importance of communication in reigniting emotional bonds. The conversation emphasizes mutual care and understanding, encouraging couples to revisit past passions to strengthen their connection and combat feelings of disconnection.

Trust is the foundation of every strong marriage—but when it’s broken, it can feel impossible to get back. In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into five essential steps couples must take to truly rebuild trust and connection after betrayal or hurt. We talk about what it really means to take full responsibility, why complete honesty and transparency are non-negotiable, and how emotional vulnerability can heal even the deepest wounds. We also explore the importance of patience, consistency, and daily reassurance—and why couples must go beyond “fixing” things and instead create a brand new foundation for their relationship.We share our personal experience and the things we had to do to build back the trust after almost ending our marriage.Whether you're trying to rebuild after a breach of trust or simply want to strengthen your marriage, this episode offers hope, guidance, and real tools to reconnect.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Listeners share their best marriage advice, emphasizing real-world wisdom that nurtures relationships. Key topics include prioritizing marital harmony for family well-being and the humor in unconventional advice like 'fighting naked.' Personality types play a crucial role in conflict resolution, while embracing gender differences fosters intimacy. Finally, the art of thoughtful communication is highlighted, stressing kindness and shared experiences, with personal growth as a cornerstone for a thriving marriage.

We had a listener reach out after one of our episodes and share something her husband said that really stuck with us:“Why do I need to keep dating you? We’re already married.”And of course, we had to do a full episode on it.In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we talk about why dating your spouse is not just important—it’s essential. Marriage doesn’t mean the pursuit ends. In fact, that's when the real pursuit should begin.We share:The reasons why dating your spouse is so important. Our most memorable dates :) How dating each other again literally turned our marriage aroundWhether you're in a dry spell or just need a little inspiration to bring fun and connection back, this episode is for you.Because the truth is: dating isn’t something you stop doing when you’re married—it’s what keeps the marriage alive and thriving.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

The discussion dives into why men and women view marriage differently. Men often focus on sexual intimacy and companionship, while women prioritize love, security, and emotional connection. Survey results reveal love and shared goals as key motivations for marriage. The hosts explore the importance of romance and ongoing affection, cautioning against the pitfalls of neglecting intimacy. They highlight the value of partnership, teamwork, and shared visions in revitalizing passion, encouraging couples to communicate and invest in their relationships.