The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Did you know that social media algorithms might be intentionally targeting and sabotaging your marriage? It’s true—while men are being bombarded with sexualized content, women are getting hit with videos about appearance, weight loss, and anything to make them feel “not enough.”It’s not an accident. These platforms know exactly what they’re doing—and it’s devastating on marriages everywhere. From creating trust issues to fueling insecurities, the damage can be deep and often goes unnoticed until it’s too late.In this eye-opening episode, we’re diving into real stories (including our own!) and breaking down how to spot these sneaky tactics. Plus, we’ll share practical tips to guard your relationship and reclaim control over what influences your marriage.This is an episode every couple needs to hear—because your marriage is worth protecting!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the fascinating topic of sex languages and explore how understanding them can transform your relationship. Just as love languages help couples connect emotionally, sex languages reveal how each person experiences and enjoys sexual intimacy.We break down the different sex languages, offering insights into what they mean and how it would look. Whether your sex language is about connection, adventure, fun, or safety, knowing this can bridge gaps in intimacy and reduce misunderstandings in the bedroom. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that might just be the key to unlocking deeper intimacy and connection in your marriage!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In our videos, podcasts, and other things that we do, we sometimes get feedback from people that make comments that leave us wondering "how in the world did they come to that impression?" or "what podcast are they listening to?"  Or they interpret something from the podcast, newsletter or video that in reality had nothing to do with what we were even stating. People see and hear what they want to based upon their experiences, emotions and many times what they are going through.The human brain is wired to interpret information based on past experiences, emotions, and current circumstances. This phenomenon is called confirmation bias — the tendency to search for, interpret, and remember information that aligns with our existing beliefs and feelings.We often do this in our marriages as well which can cause great harm or damage, especially if there is not open communication, or our pride and ego is too high. Also, one of the reasons why this is so serious is Miscommunication is one of the top three causes of divorce, according to a study by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers?In this episode, we discuss this important topic and solutions as well as statistics to help you combat this in you marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

If you’ve been a longtime listener of our podcast, you know that we always emphasize the deep connection between emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy. The two are inseparable—when one is lacking, the other suffers. And when sexual intimacy begins to fade in a marriage, the emotional toll can be devastating.In this episode, we tackle a difficult but necessary conversation: the emotional impacts of a sexless (or nearly sexless) marriage and why, if left unaddressed, it often leads to divorce.We’ll discuss:Why sex is more than just physical—It’s a bonding experience that builds trust, connection, and closeness.How emotional and physical intimacy fuel each other—When physical affection disappears, so does emotional security, leading to loneliness, resentment, and disconnection.What happens to a marriage when one spouse feels rejected—Lack of intimacy can make one or both spouses feel unwanted, unseen, or unloved, creating a wedge in the relationship.Why resentment builds over time—When needs aren’t met, frustration and bitterness take over, making it even harder to reconnect.And much more!But we’re not just here to talk about the problems—we’re here to offer real solutions. If you’re struggling in this area, or you don't want to ever struggle in this area, this podcast episode is for you! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We have been working on this project for nearly a year, pouring our hearts and souls into creating something truly special for married couples—and it’s finally here! 🎉 Our brand-new app, UandI, is officially available for download on both Android and iPhone! This isn’t just another couples app; we’ve designed it with some features we haven’t seen anywhere else—features that we believe will be absolute game-changers for your relationship!Here’s a sneak peek at what you’ll find inside the UandI App:Home Harmony – Say goodbye to the constant back-and-forth about who’s doing what! This feature helps couples sync household responsibilities, create to-do lists, and bring more balance into everyday life. Because when teamwork is strong at home, intimacy naturally thrives!How Well Do You Know Your Spouse? – Think you know your spouse inside and out? This fun and interactive game will put your knowledge to the test! Answer questions about yourself, have your spouse guess your answers, and then compare results to see just how well you really know each other!Intimate Conversations – Deep and meaningful conversations are the foundation of a strong, connected marriage. This section includes thought-provoking, intimate questions designed to spark deeper emotional and physical connection between you and your spouse.Spicy (But Classy) Bedroom Fun – We’ve included non-graphic position matching game, scratch-off positions, and other exciting bedroom games to help you keep the passion alive in a fun and tasteful way!Quizzes - Take our different quizzes to know how your spouse deals with conflict, love language and others.And that’s just the beginning! There is SO much more inside UandI, and we can’t wait for you to experience it.Join us on this episode as we dive into the incredible features that can help enhance your connection, and why we truly believe UandI is the ultimate tool for strengthening your marriage!Download it today and start bringing more fun, intimacy, and connection into your relationship!Download the UandI App.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why almost 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Regardless of whether your marriage is thriving, or just surviving, a Marriage Audit can greatly improve your relationship. It isn’t just a casual check-in—it’s a deep dive into the strengths, struggles, and blind spots in your relationship. What would your spouse really say if they were 100% honest?In this episode, you'll find out how to ask the tough but necessary questions to ask your spouse, how to create a safe space for raw honesty, and why facing the truth (even when it’s uncomfortable) is the key to deeper connection.Are you ready to uncover what’s really working—and what needs attention? Tune in as we break down the why, the how, and the life-changing benefits of a Marriage Audit. Because the strongest marriages aren’t the ones that avoid hard conversations—they’re the ones that embrace them.For the Marriage Audit Free Printable click HERE.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, we continue our conversation about intimacy in marriage—this time from the husband’s perspective. In the previous episode, Amy shared the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew, and now it’s Nate’s turn to reveal the things men wish they could tell their wives—but often don’t know how to say.If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on in your husband’s mind when it comes to intimacy, this episode is a must-listen. Nate dives into helping wives understand what their husbands wish their spouse new.Here’s just a glimpse of what we’re covering:Don’t Use Sex as a Weapon – How intimacy should never be used as punishment, leverage, or control.He Wants to See You – Why visual connection is important for him and how body confidence plays a role.Tell Him Clearly – Husbands aren’t mind readers—here’s why clear communication makes all the difference.Flirt with Him – How small moments of playfulness, teasing, and attraction fuel long-term intimacy.He Wants You to Want It – Why feeling desired (not just obligated) is a game-changer for your marriage.It’s Not You, It’s Him – Understanding how stress, performance anxiety, and external pressures can impact a husband’s intimacy.Many wives assume that men just “want sex” without deeper emotional needs, but the truth is, intimacy is about so much more for husbands. They long to feel wanted, respected, and deeply connected—and when that happens, everything in marriage gets better.This is an episode you don’t want to miss! Whether you’re a wife who wants to better understand your husband or a husband who’s struggling to express what you truly need, this conversation will bring clarity, connection, and maybe even some breakthroughs in your marriage.Get the book Let’s Talk About Sex: 20 Things Christian Husbands And Wives Wish Their Spouse Knew (Or Would Do), But Don’t Know How To Tell You.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Nate Whitson as he and Amy announce the release of their brand-new book:👉 Let’s Talk About Sex: 20 Things Christian Husbands And Wives Wish Their Spouse Knew (Or Would Do), But Don’t Know How To Tell You.Amy and Nate open up about why they felt compelled to write this book together, what they learned in the process, and how it can truly transform your relationship. But here’s where it gets really good—Amy dives deep into the 20 things wives wish their husbands knew about sex, intimacy, and connection.This book will transform your marriage both in and out of the bedroom. If you’ve ever struggled to talk about intimacy with your spouse or wished they just knew what you needed without you having to say it, you won’t want to miss this!If you’ve ever thought:“I wish my spouse just understood me better when it comes to intimacy.”“We struggle with different sex drives—can we ever get on the same page?”“How can we keep our connection strong, even outside the bedroom?”Then this episode (and the next one!) is for YOU.Here are just a few of the 20 eye-opening topics Amy unpacks in this conversation for the chapters she wrote for husbands:🔥 Her Mind Is the Biggest Sex Organ – Why emotional connection is everything for a wife’s desire.🔥 Break Down the Barriers – How past experiences, stress, and insecurities impact intimacy.🔥 Put Her First, Win Big! – Why prioritizing her pleasure changes everything.🔥 Different Drives? No Biggie – How to navigate mismatched libidos without frustration.🔥 The Magic Button – What every husband needs to understand about his wife's body.🔥 Talk It Out, Spice It Up – The power of communication in building a passionate marriage.These episodes aren’t just about sex—they’re about building the kind of trust, intimacy, and connection that makes your entire marriage stronger.Don’t miss this conversation! Tune in now and get ready to change the way you think about intimacy in marriage.Buy the book HERE!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, we dive into a question that isn’t talked about enough—do husbands need romance in their marriage too? We ran a poll asking men if romance is important to them, and the responses might surprise you! Spoiler alert: romance isn’t just for wives.We break down what romance actually looks like for both husbands and wives because let’s be honest—men and women often experience romance in completely different ways. While many women crave thoughtful gestures, words of affirmation, and deep emotional connection, men often appreciate romance in ways that might not be as obvious. Whether it’s physical touch, playful flirtation, or simply feeling appreciated, every spouse wants to feel desired and pursued.And since Valentine’s Day isn’t just a day—it should be a mindset—we’ve created three free printables to help you make the entire month (and beyond) more romantic, meaningful, and exciting for your marriage. These are simple, fun, and designed to bring you closer together, whether you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom, deepen your emotional connection, or simply add more joy to your everyday moments.Tune in to this episode, grab your free printables, and get ready to make this Valentine’s Day (month, year, and marriage) the best one yet! ❤️FREE printableshttps://ultimateintimacy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Valentines.challenge2025.pdfhttps://ultimateintimacy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/datenightjar.pdfhttps://ultimateintimacy.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/HEARTattack.pdfIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We hear from so many spouses who tell us they don’t feel like their spouse respects them. Of course, what respect looks like can look very different for every couple, depending on their unique dynamics, values, and needs. However, one thing remains true: when a spouse doesn’t feel respected in the relationship for ANY reason, it can lead to severe consequences—both emotionally and sexually. Respect is foundational to intimacy, trust, and connection, and its absence can create barriers that are difficult to overcome.To gain deeper insight, we decided to poll our audience and ask them (you!) what respect—or the lack of it—looks like in their marriages. The responses we received were eye-opening and revealed just how differently respect is perceived and experienced in relationships.In this episode, we share the surprising results of our poll and dive into the various ways couples can show respect to one another in meaningful, practical ways. From small daily gestures to deeper acts of consideration, we’ll explore how respect can transform a marriage and create a stronger, more connected bond between spouses.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 800,000 people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!