The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast 393. The 6 Mistakes Couples Make After Being Intimate Together
Aug 19, 2025
Many couples overlook the importance of what happens after intimacy. Common mistakes can lead to hurt feelings and disconnection. Discover the value of post-intimacy routines, communication, and expressing appreciation to deepen your relationship. The hosts stress how vital it is to replace distractions with genuine bonding activities and open dialogue. Prioritizing these moments can significantly enhance emotional closeness and overall intimacy.
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Compliment Right After
- Say something positive immediately after intimacy to reinforce connection and boost confidence.
- A quick compliment or appreciation can change how your spouse feels and encourage future intimacy.
Match Love Language
- Use words of affirmation after intimacy when it matters to your spouse's love language.
- A brief 'that was amazing' can deeply satisfy partners who value verbal appreciation.
Give Gentle Feedback
- Share what you liked and what didn't work in a gentle, constructive way after intimacy.
- Use post-intimacy conversations to remove pressure and guide better future experiences.