The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

We all know marriage can be hard at times, but have you ever considered what makes it hard through those times? Sure, we can have financial difficulties, health issues, and many other things that can cause significant impacts on our marriage, but at the end of the day, we get to determine how we react.Just because life can really kick our butts sometimes doesn't mean that marriage is hard. It is life that is hard that often causes significant issues the bleed into our marriages.In this episode, Nick and Amy share past experiences they have gone through and outline the things couples can to do NOT make their marriage hard :)If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

You hear us talk about "Ultimate Intimacy" all the time! We even branded our company that. But what exactly is ultimate intimacy, and how can you obtain it in your relationship?In this episode Nick and Amy dive into what Ultimate Intimacy means and how couples can find it in their relationship.  And yes, it is possible for couples to obtain it!If you are in a marriage where there is a high desire and low desire spouse and it's hard to find the balance, then this episode is for you.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Social Media is destroying peoples marriages, and on average, it can be more addictive to women than to men.  Although porn and social media are quite different, they both are very addictive and can cause a lot of the same consequences. Many people believe social media is the porn for women.In this episode, Nick and Amy pose the question "is social media the porn for women" and discuss statistics as to how it impacts women, they share poll answers from the audience to find out what all of you feel, and they discuss the things that can be done to break the addiction (for both men and women.)Social media and phone addictions are one of the leading issues in marriages, and improving in this one area can make all the difference in having a happy and fulfilling relationship.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

So often in marriage it is the higher desire spouse that is ALWAYS initiating sex with the lower desire spouse. However, it is so important for the lower desire spouse to also initiate sex in the marriage to show their spouse how much they love and care about them.In this episode, Amy (and Nick) share 12 fun ways the lower desire spouse can initiate sex with the higher desires spouse. Nick shares the reasons sexual intimacy (and the lower desires spouse initiating) is so important. Nick and Amy also share the "connection challenge" instant download to help couples connect on a deeper level. This challenge can be found in the resource section of the Ultimate Intimacy App under "Coupons and Printable's." You can download the app for free HEREIf you are in a marriage where there is a high desire and low desire spouse and it's hard to find the balance, then this episode is for you.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We were sitting in the marriage retreat talking about sexual and emotional needs in marriage and a husband asked, "How do I emotionally connect with my wife? What does that even mean?"We all looked at the wife to hear her answer and she says "I don't know!"  Which is actually a typical answer.  A lot of husbands want help in this area, and many women don't even know what they need! What is emotional intimacy and how do we do better at connecting in this way if it is so important to a marriage?In this episode Nick and Amy discuss the best ways a husband can connect emotionally with his wife. Personal examples from their marriage, and tips to bring back the connection that every marriage needs to have! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the typical stereotypes of men and women when it comes to sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy differences.  We know that not all couples fall into the typical stereotypes, but we feel that yes, we are created completely different, but at the same time we are so much more alike than we sometimes think we are.Both husbands and wives want to feel emotionally connected, spiritually connected, and sexually connected to each other, we are just different in the ways we feel and show that desire.  Filling that gap can be tricky in marriage. Nick and Amy share their tips on how finding that balance between sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy in marriage can be a little bit easier! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We just finished the Intimacy And Adventure Retreat we hosted with Married For A Purpose and had an incredible experience that was life changing for the couples (including us) that attended the retreat.In this podcast episode, Nick and Amy share their thoughts and takeaways from the retreat and the ways it helped so many marriages.. including ours.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

There have been many polls done on this subject and it is interesting that for most men, they value being respected more than they value being loved. This shows how important respect is in marriage and that marriages can't survive (or flourish) without it. However, there are often times in marriage where the respect fluctuates and can be lost, based upon certain things that happen. In this podcast episode, we discuss how important respect is in marriage (for both spouses), and the ways, and things couples do to loose respect. We also discuss the things couples can do to gain respect back. Nick and Amy share their personal experience with this subject as Nick did some things that caused Amy to loose respect for him for a time. They also discuss the things Nick had to do (and is still doing) to earn that respect back.This is a big issue for a lot of couples.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

The other day we were laying in bed (after making love) and talking and laughing at all the ways women can loose focus when making love. Amy was joking that she was close! Then lost it. Then close again... then lost it and stating all the reasons why. Her leg fell asleep, she heard a dog barking outside. She had congestion from allergies.It's funny how a nuclear war could be going on outside and it wouldn't affect the husband, but how every little thing can often impact a woman. We thought this would be a great podcast subject to talk about how husbands need to be patient with their spouse while making love, and the things a couple can do to help with the distractions. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Couples that have happy and successful marriages do a very good job at managing their time and priorities in their relationship. They prioritize the important things and put the less important things last on the list.This is the opposite of what most couples do! Most couples fill their time with everything else and put their relationship last. Maybe they don't do this intentionally, but it happens. They fill their day with all the other things and then are too tired to connect physically or emotionally.It is amazing how many couples use the excuse that they are just too busy to spend time together, or too busy to fit sexual intimacy in their relationship. However, if you looked at the time they spent on their devices or doing other "time wasters" there would be plenty of time for the more important things. For most couples, balancing their relationship and managing their time is a problem. In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the basic things couples can do to manage their time more efficiently and connect more as we couple.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!