The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

It is so easy to react swiftly to conflict and we often say things in the heat of the moment we regret or wish we could take back after. Often this quick reaction can magnify the situation even more. How many arguments have you had that have blown up to where you haven't spoken to each other in days... and you can't even remember what the argument was about?Sometimes it is just best to take a pause and think before engaging with your spouse.In this episode Nick and Amy talk with Nadine and Duane with A Purpose Driven Marriage about the "5 questions to ask yourself before raising an issue with your spouse" If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!Christmas is coming quickly! Check out the AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP HERENeed help in the bedroom? The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Our 100th episode! It has been an amazing ride and we are so excited to share this episode with you. We recently listened to a comedian talking about sex and titled this episode after his comedy routine as it rang so true "If you want to make love to me in the bedroom, you have to first make love to me in the kitchen". What does that mean to men and women? For men, they would love to make love in the kitchen. For women, making love starts much earlier than getting to the bedroom (or making love in the kitchen). What things do men want and what things to women want when it comes to love making?Listen to this podcast episode to find out what it means to make love to her first in the kitchen. Nick and Amy also share the social media polls and questions about what YOU think. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

It is common to think there are certain roles in marriage for males and females. For many years, traditional roles were common where the woman was responsible for raising the kids and keeping the house in order.  The men would typically provide financially for the family. While this may still be the case for a lot of families, roles have shifted into modern marriage roles and couples are often both working now and providing income, taking care of the chores more equally, and raising kids together. Which roles do you have in your marriage? Was the way you were raised cause conflicts with marriage roles?  Have you and your spouse found a balance with household responsibilities?  Listen to this episode as Nick and Amy share their thoughts on the different roles in marriage, how to communicate about marriage roles and not let chores and household responsibilities cause a divide in your marriage. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!The holidays are fast approaching and what better than a product you both with love! Check out Ultimate Intimacy Products HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We are bombarded from every conceivable angle portraying that if we don't have a certain lifestyle, car, money, marriage, house, or body,  then we cannot be happy. The constant lies can build a lot of envy and jealousy if we allow it to do so. We see on social media that our friends are going on vacation, or they just bought a new house or car. Maybe their husband got promoted to a great job. Whatever is presented to us, we can begin to think "why don't I have that house, or why don't we travel to those places, or why is that not happening to me..." and because there is everything out there, something will hook us in. What we don't see is behind the curtain. We don't see the debt people are in for that new car, or house. We see a mirage of things, but these mirages cause us to have envy and jealousy. When we start down that path of getting jealous of someone, or envying what others have, it can slowly destroy you, and your relationship like a cancer.  People with envy and jealousy often become resentful, ungrateful, and bitter and think they can't find happiness unless they achieve what others have, and even then they won't be fulfilled. In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss how jealousy and envy for others can destroy you and your marriage if you allow it to do so. We also share experiences we have had and things you can do to keep from allowing this to creep into your life. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We talk often about how communication is probably the most important aspect in marriage and how couples can resolve almost any issue with open and honest communication. But so many couples have a hard time communicating. Not necessarily because they don't want to communicate, but because each spouse might have a different "communication style" which is "how" they communicate (or don't communicate). It is vital to know each others communication style so you can better learn how to effectively communicate with each other. In this episode Nick and Amy interview Denise and Oliver Marcelle about an article they wrote called "Communication Styles - What's yours?" and dive into the different styles and how to address them in a relationship. As communication is VITAL to a healthy and happy marriage, this is an episode will won't want to miss. Find out your communication style as well as your spouses to learn how to communicate better and more effectively.You can learn more about Oliver and Denise HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Marriages are being attacked from every angle in this day and age and people give up so easily when things aren't going right. We see this with the divorce rate around 50%, which tells us statistically only about half of all marriages will make it. This is very sad! But there is some good news... the divorce rate among couples who were recently polled in a Gallup poll THAT DID THIS ONE THING TOGETHER EVERY DAY had a divorce rate of 1%. That means a 99% success rate! What is this one thing couples do to divorce proof their marriage? You will have to listen to the episode to find out. In this episode Nick and Amy interview Julie and Greg  Gorman with Married For A Purpose about how to divorce proof your marriage and share the 3 secrets that you can easily implement in your marriage.Check out more about Married For A Purpose HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

As a culture, many Christians are often very uncomfortable talking about sex in their marriages (and families). In many households, sex is not talked about, and if it is, it is often in a negative light. For many Christians, this causes problems when they grow up and get married. Spouses might feel shame, fear or other negative feelings about sexual intimacy, or don't communicate about sex together because of their upbringing. For many couples, they are taught sex is bad, and to refrain from it. Then the moment they get married, it is now ok. This is hard for a lot of Christian couples. So how can Christian couples learn to communicate about sex more openly? How can couples realize sex is from God and to be enjoyed to the fullest extent together as a couple?In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Alana and Kyle with Kingdom Sexuality Ministry about what Christian couples can do to better their sexual intimacy and get past the barriers that keep them from having a fulfilling sex life together.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We often think that to transform our marriage into something great requires a lot of effort, or big changes to be implemented, but the truth is, it is the small and simple things that have such a great impact and make a difference in marriages. In this episode, Nick and Amy have O.L. and Sway Buckley with Marriedpreneurlife.com on the podcast to discuss they ways you can find more fun in your marriage. Finding the "fun" again in your marriage is a key to a long and happy relationship... and more fun in your marriage equals more sexual intimacy :)Having fun is a choice, and is something you need to decide to doYou need to make the time to have fun in your relationship Find fun games and things you can to togetherSet a budget aside for the fun things in lifeTry and experience new things togetherBe spontaneous and surprise each otherGet physical together and have fun in the bedroomLaugh and be silly togetherYou can learn more about Marriedpreneurlife.com HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Most of us probably have people in our lives that are toxic to us and bring us down. Not only do they have a negative impact on us individually, but often that travels home with us and can impact our marriage in a bad way. Toxic people could be in-laws, brothers, sisters, relatives, friends, co workers and other people we associate with. In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss how to identify someone who is toxic, the difference between a healthy person and a toxic person, and why it is some important to recognize how the toxic behavior is impacting you and your relationship, and how to distance yourself from them for not only your happiness, but also your marriage and its long term happiness. They also share personal experiences they have had in their lives.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

You've heard the saying "laughter is the best medicine" and for many reasons, that is true. There are a lot of physical, emotional and mental benefits of laughing together as a couple. Laughing in marriage also  helps keep those exciting feelings of being in love alive and it helps you feel happier (of course).  Couples who laugh have a better perception of life and also have better romantic and sexual marriages.  This isn't just our opinion, the stats show it!  In this episode, we discuss all the ways laughter can help your marriage and share some funny experiences of our own :). We also share some of your experiences you shared on our social media poll with our audience.   If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP?  WHO DOESN'T? CLICK HERE for Ultimate Intimacy products to experience sexual intimacy like you never have! Enter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US) Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more. If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!