The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

About 10% of all women have never had an orgasm. And more than 80% of women cannot have an orgasm from intercourse alone. Bottom line, it is hard for many women to orgasm.For women who have never experienced an orgasm, or have a hard time having one, sex can feel like a chore. It can be un-enjoyable and even something they distance themselves from. They may feel guilt, shame or as if something is wrong or broken with them which in turn makes things even more difficult and just creates more pressure and anxiety, and less interest in sexual intimacy.The good new is, nothing is wrong or broken and it doesn’t have to be that way. Virtually ALL women can learn to orgasm and enjoy sexual intimacy. Once they learn more about their bodies, how they work, and can remove the barriers that are keeping them from having that amazing experience.In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the 6 steps to orgasm if you have never had one, or find it very difficult to have one. Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Is sex really a good indicator of how good (or bad) your marriage is? In this episode Nick and Amy talk about this and also share the poll answers we received from our audience to find out how others view this as well. We believe sexual intimacy and overall satisfaction in marriage do go hand in hand. Couples that have good sexual intimacy where both spouses are satisfied, usually have good marriages. Couples that have infrequent sexual intimacy are much more likely to feel disconnected, and possibly end up in divorce.There is a reason that the at the top cause of divorce is due to sexual intimacy issues (or lack of it) in the relationship.Want to get back the sexual intimacy and connection in your marriage? Want to learn how to communicate about sex? Then check out the Intimacy and Adventure Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In a previous podcast episode (81) we talked about how to know if something is ok or not ok in the bedroom. The question we presented for everyone to ask themselves was "Does it bring you closer together as a couple?"We have thought about this a lot and how it can apply to pretty much every aspect of your marriage whether is emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, hobbies, family, finances and every other aspect. If couples could ask themselves this question before many of the decisions they make, it could help their marriage and relationship tremendously. In this episode, we discuss how asking yourself the question "Does it bring you closer together as a couple" can help you make important decisions to bring you closer together as a couple.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe 2023 Intimacy and Adventure Retreat information is HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Want to know what is just as important as goal setting as a couple? Getting rewarded for accomplishing your goals as a couple! At the beginning of each year, people all over the world set new goals they want to accomplish individually.   Many people don't realize how important it is to set goals as a married couple, and set them together.  Setting goals can be fun and a great way to bring more passion and intimacy into your marriage. We came up with a great outline to help you set goals together for 2023 in the areas of emotional, sexual, spiritual intimacy as well as financial goals, adventure and fun, and connecting more in your marriage goals.  In this episode we discuss goals you should set as a couple and rewards you can give to yourselves as a couple. We even provide a goal sheet to help you keep them! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe 2023 Intimacy and Adventure Retreat information is HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In our relationship, we have had funny intimate experiences that we continuously laugh about and we were certain many of our audience have had the same. In this episode, we took a poll on social media and asked our audience:Are you adventurous in your love making?What is the craziest place you have made love?Have you ever been caught during the act?What was your reaction after being caught?The answers are hilarious.The purpose of this podcast is to inspire our audience to find fun in their marriage and to make lovemaking fun and exciting and do things to bring back the passion and excitement into the bedroom (or out of the bedroom :)If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and PLEASE leave us a review on our podcast!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We recently did a video on social media for the men titled "the reasons your wife doesn't want to make love to you." We have heard a lot of the women state it is because their emotional needs are not being met. In one of the comments from the video, a husband stated: “A man’s emotional needs are linked to his wife making love to him, which she won’t do unless her emotional needs are met first, Thus the man becomes responsible for his and his wife’s emotional needs."This was a powerful statement which caused us to do this podcast, and reflect on this in our marriage as well.Most women want an emotional connection before having a physical connection with their husband. And for most men, they need to have the physical connection before they will feel safe enough for the emotional vulnerability and connection with their wife.So for MANY marriages it looks like this: The wife will withhold sexual intimacy (and sometimes use it as a weapon) as a punishment to try to get the emotional intimacy she wants from her husband. The husband is usually upset and doesn't meet his wife's emotional needs because his wife won't meet the physical needs in the relationship (because a husband needs the physical connection first). Sound familiar? This toxic game is played in many relationships.. and in this game, no one ever wins and the marriage suffers from it, many times ending in divorce. In this episode, we discuss the games that are played and the things couples can do to get both of their needs met so they can have a fulfilling marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We have all heard the stories from women complaining their husbands want sex ALL THE TIME! But what seems to be a lot less common is complaints of their husband not interested in or wanting to have sex. We have never done a podcast on this topic until now because we never thought it was an issue, but after having several women reach out to us about this, we realized it was more prevalent than we thoughts. Although this episode is geared towards women who have husbands who don't want to have sex, this topic can apply for both spouses. In this episode, we discuss the reasons why a husband would not want to have sexual intimacy with his wife and provide solutions on how to discuss and resolve this issue together as a couple.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Nick and Amy do alot of research and studying for their blog posts, podcasts and information for the app and come across a lot of very good information. They have put together some great marriage advice from various marriage therapists and experts on their top advice they have for married couples. In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the top things that marriage experts have shared for couples to help their marriages, and share experiences they have had in their marriage as well. These things have helped them and they know they can help your marriage as well!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

The other night we were having a deep conversation that was sooo good. We were assessing our marriage and talking about how this time period in life can get boring and stagnate and feel like we do the same thing every day over and over again (like Groundhog Day). We were also discussing why we think this time frame in life is the hardest on marriages. After discussing these things, we wanted to see if our assessment was right and so we looked at stats on the internet and did a social media poll and realized our assessment was right!In this episode, we (Nick and Amy) share the answers from our poll we did and discuss why this time of life can often feel so boring and repetitive, and of course things that couples can do to make their marriage more exciting during this time period in life. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

After doing the AMAZING episode 111 with Tamara Fackrell, we felt like that was one of the best episodes we have had and the information in it could help just about EVERY couple. As we could have spent hours on the podcast with her, we just didn't have the time. So we wanted to dive into the things that she talked about a little bit deeper and share our thoughts, insight and experiences in our marriage. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!