The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

In this episode, Nick and Amy talk with Alex Boye who is a world renowned singer and song writer. Alex shares so many amazing things in this podcast from his incredible experiences in life and humble beginnings, battling depression, overcoming adversities, and his secrets to finding happiness in life!  You can hear the passion and the happiness he has through every minute of this podcast. Alex turned to music as a teenager because some of the life experiences he was going through and depression he was experiencing.  He talks about how the words we use and the tone we use in our life, can literally change us and the people around us.  He also talks about how the things we choose to put into our lives (like social media) and into our minds literally can change our perspectives about how we feel towards others, life and ourselves. This episode is so powerful and will inspire you to want to make changes in your life and look at things from a different perspective! This podcast episode might be one of the most influential listens you have for your own self love, and for your marriage. Also, stay tuned for his new book launching in May that is going to be a life changer for everyone who picks it up! If you want to donate to his great cause, you can click HERECheck out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We get so many messages from husbands that make comments like:"I feel like my wife just want's me for the paycheck"There are husbands that feel like their only purpose is to provide financial support.As we have talked many times before, a husband feels loved, needed and appreciated through physical affection and intimacy from his wife. Many husbands feel like they are in relationships where all their spouse wants is to be taken care of financially. They express that they feel lonely and unappreciated. **This goes both ways. We also recognize that many women feel this way as a stay at home mom or even working a job as well and we will discuss how women feel in a future episode.In this episode Nick and Amy discuss this topic and share some thoughts on what a couple can do to get out of this mind frame and find Ultimate Intimacy in their relationship. So if you are a husband that feels this way, or a wife that intentionally, or unintentionally treats your husband this way, then this episode is for you.Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

A pet peeve is a relatively minor annoyance that provokes a strong negative reaction in your spouse (or other person). We all have little things that we do that drive our spouses insane (and vice versa). Many of these things are so small and non existent to even the people around us, but to us, they drive us or our spouse crazy!Pet peeves are things like:A spouse checking their phone while you are trying to talk to themLeaving lights on around the houseChewing loudlyClothes on the floorAnd...the list goes on. In this episode, Nick and Amy have a blast sharing pet peeves they have, and experiences in their relationship, but more importantly, how they got over them and resolved them (or deal with them). They also share the social media poll from our audience to hear what you had to say!If you have pet peeves that are driving you crazy, but want to know how to resolve them and find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship, then this episode is for you!Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

You hear us constantly talk about how almost everything can be resolved with communication, which is absolutely true. But what happens when you have a spouse that doesn’t want to communicate (or won't communicate) because they are afraid it will turn into a fight, or they don’t want to talk because it is uncomfortable?We hear from MANY couples that they try to communicate with their spouse, but their spouse doesn’t want to. They tell us that “my spouse just won’t listen to me" or my spouse says they don't want to talk about it when I bring it up”Here are the reasons why a spouse may not want to communicate:They don’t want it to end up in an argument.They get uncomfortable talking about difficult things, so they shy away from talking about them.They have a different communication style.In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss what a spouse can do when the other one doesn't (and won't) talk to them. They share an experience from a listener that was giving up, and then did something that completely transformed their marriage almost overnight! Nick and Amy will share what you can do to hopefully have a similar experience and change things in your marriage if you are experiencing this.Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We all go into marriage with expectations of what we think it should be like, and are often disappointed when things don't go as we expect. So, are expectations in marriage good or bad? Is it healthy to have expectations? In this episode Nick and Amy talk about expectations in marriage and share experiences in their relationship.Communication is key when it comes to holidays.  Having some expectations can be healthy but it is important to always talk and express them to your spouse!  We give some tips for communicating and working with expectations in marriage!We also share all of our poll answers from our Valentines survey we took on instagram stories! We wanted to know how many couples celebrate Valentines, what husbands and wives want most, and what they would love to be surprised with most. We also asked if Valentines Day causes contention in some marriages.  The answers will shock you, and give you ideas of what your spouse might love to be surprised with!Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Marriage is meant to be full of passion, excitement, connection and intimacy! But it is really quite scary how easy it is for relationships to slowly slip away if we are not doing everything we can to work on our relationships on a daily basis. Many couples find themselves growing apart and don't realize what is causing the disconnect, and end up just being two people living together.Marriage doesn't need to be this way, and it shouldn't! In this episode Nick and Amy share some of their experiences and the things they did to help their marriage come back to an amazing place after slipping away.  They share 11 things couples can do to find the Ultimate Intimacy they desire in their relationship.Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Is pride hurting your marriage? Chances are, it is at some level. It has been said that pride is the silent killer of relationships!Pride is something we all deal with at some level and it can fluctuate in our lives depending on where we are at and what we are going through. There may be some times in our live when our pride is high, and other times when we are humble. However... when left unchecked pride can destroy good relationships.In this episode Nick and Amy identify how to know if pride is negatively impacting your relationship, AND things you can do to reduce it in your life.Check out the 2023 Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat April 14th- 16th to transform the sexual intimacy in your marriage HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

We always talk about how important it is to have frequent sexual intimacy in marriage, and let's face it, most couples are probably not having as much sexual intimacy as they should. But have you ever thought about if there is such a thing as too much sex? As you know, every year or so we do a 7 day sex challenge where we challenge couples to have sexual intimacy for 7 days in a row, and then share their experiences. We call it a "challenge" because it is a challenge to have sexual intimacy for 7 days even when both of you are committed to doing it.In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the results of the 7 day sex challenge, if they were able to complete it,  and the impact it had on their relationship. They also answer the question "Is there such a thing as too much sex".Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Of course there are many good reasons why a wife may not enjoy or want to have sexual intimacy. Some of the reasons could include past trauma, relationship issues, conflict, depression or stress, or various other reasons. We understand these are real and need to be addressed.However, in this episode, we are talking about the wives who have good marriages... but just aren't interested in sex. We have heard many women make the statement that they would be totally fine with never having sex again! Or that they only do it for their husband. This is so sad to hear as sexual intimacy is something that should be (and can be) greatly satisfying for both spouses!For those of you who have listened to the podcasts, you know how important sexual intimacy is in a relationship, and not just for the husband. So if you are a women that just isn't interested in sex, or doesn't find it enjoyable for whatever reason.. or you are a husband married to a wife that doesn't enjoy sexual intimacy, then this episode is for you.In this episode, Nick and Amy share the simple steps, and ways women can learn to find great enjoyment, satisfaction and fulfillment with sexual intimacy again (or for the first time)! Check out the 2023 Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat April 14th- 16th to transform the sexual intimacy in your marriage HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

There are so many things that can cause issues in a relationship and if not addressed, or handled properly, they can have devastating consequences on the relationship. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss the common relationship issues that couples deal with and how to address them before they become a huge issue in the relationship.Check out the Adventure and Intimacy Retreat April 14-16th in St George Utah! Learn how to communicate better, and have better sexual intimacy in your relationship HEREIf you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREEnter promo code UIAPP for 10% off your purchase (and free shipping in the US)The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!