
The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
Latest episodes

Jun 13, 2025 • 31min
374. 5 Steps To Rebuilding Trust In Your Marriage - We Share Our Personal Story
Trust is the foundation of every strong marriage—but when it’s broken, it can feel impossible to get back. In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into five essential steps couples must take to truly rebuild trust and connection after betrayal or hurt. We talk about what it really means to take full responsibility, why complete honesty and transparency are non-negotiable, and how emotional vulnerability can heal even the deepest wounds. We also explore the importance of patience, consistency, and daily reassurance—and why couples must go beyond “fixing” things and instead create a brand new foundation for their relationship.We share our personal experience and the things we had to do to build back the trust after almost ending our marriage.Whether you're trying to rebuild after a breach of trust or simply want to strengthen your marriage, this episode offers hope, guidance, and real tools to reconnect.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

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Jun 10, 2025 • 27min
373. Survey Answers: What Is The Best Marriage Advice You Have Ever Been Given That Actually Works In Your Marriage?
Listeners share their best marriage advice, emphasizing real-world wisdom that nurtures relationships. Key topics include prioritizing marital harmony for family well-being and the humor in unconventional advice like 'fighting naked.' Personality types play a crucial role in conflict resolution, while embracing gender differences fosters intimacy. Finally, the art of thoughtful communication is highlighted, stressing kindness and shared experiences, with personal growth as a cornerstone for a thriving marriage.

Jun 6, 2025 • 31min
372. My Husband Says "Why Do I Need To Keep Dating You? We're Married"
We had a listener reach out after one of our episodes and share something her husband said that really stuck with us:“Why do I need to keep dating you? We’re already married.”And of course, we had to do a full episode on it.In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we talk about why dating your spouse is not just important—it’s essential. Marriage doesn’t mean the pursuit ends. In fact, that's when the real pursuit should begin.We share:The reasons why dating your spouse is so important. Our most memorable dates :) How dating each other again literally turned our marriage aroundWhether you're in a dry spell or just need a little inspiration to bring fun and connection back, this episode is for you.Because the truth is: dating isn’t something you stop doing when you’re married—it’s what keeps the marriage alive and thriving.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Jun 3, 2025 • 25min
371. Why Men Get Married vs. Why Women Get Married - Do You Agree?
The discussion dives into why men and women view marriage differently. Men often focus on sexual intimacy and companionship, while women prioritize love, security, and emotional connection. Survey results reveal love and shared goals as key motivations for marriage. The hosts explore the importance of romance and ongoing affection, cautioning against the pitfalls of neglecting intimacy. They highlight the value of partnership, teamwork, and shared visions in revitalizing passion, encouraging couples to communicate and invest in their relationships.

May 30, 2025 • 27min
370. How Can I Make My Husband Feel Like He's My #1
A wife’s quest to prioritize her husband in their marriage sparks a lively discussion about love and support. Small gestures can make a significant impact, reminding husbands they are valued. Communication and emotional connection are crucial, as is making time for intimacy amidst life's busyness. The role of technology in potentially detracting from marital bonds is explored, along with practical tips to enhance romance and affection. Prioritizing a spouse not only strengthens the partnership but also sets a positive example for children.

May 27, 2025 • 18min
369. What Are The Things A Wife Expects Of A "Good Husband" - And Is It Good To Have Expectations In Marriage? - Poll Answers
Dive into a heartwarming discussion about what wives expect from their husbands, featuring real insights from couples. Discover the humorous and often candid communication gaps that arise in marriage. The conversation also tackles the mental load women carry, likening it to multitasking on a computer. Explore how shifting expectations can impact intimacy and the importance of balancing societal standards with open dialogue. This raw and relatable talk offers valuable lessons for strengthening partnerships.

May 23, 2025 • 35min
368. How Finances Can Impact The Intimacy In Your Marriage
In this can't-miss episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving into one of the biggest sources of stress—and connection—in marriage: finances. Whether you're newlyweds or 20 years in, money matters can make or break intimacy and trust.We’re joined by Dan and Kay Ockey, financial experts who specialize in helping couples thrive in their financial journey together. They break down the real talk around money—how to get on the same page, why most couples avoid the topic, and simple yet powerful steps you can take to build a strong financial foundation without the stress.From practical budgeting advice to tools for healthy communication, this episode is packed with wisdom, laughs, and eye-opening moments.Ready to replace tension with teamwork when it comes to money?Tune in now and start turning your finances into one of your marriage’s greatest strengths.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.www.centseifinance.comEnjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

May 20, 2025 • 31min
367. The Secrets To Unlocking Female Orgasm - With Cindy Scharkey
Cindy Sharkey, a nurse and author focused on female sexuality, dives deep into the complexities of female pleasure. She debunks common myths about female orgasms and highlights the importance of communication and understanding anatomy. The discussion covers the significant role of the brain in arousal and introduces tools like a vibrating ring to enhance intimacy. Cindy empowers women to embrace their desires, transforming sex from a duty into a source of personal joy, all while providing practical tips for partners to foster deeper connections.

May 16, 2025 • 29min
366. Is Perimenopause Or Menopause Wrecking Your Intimate Life In Your Marriage? It Doesn't Need To - With Cindy Scharkey
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re joined by one of our favorite guests, Cindy Sharkey—a nurse and expert on the female body. Cindy dives into the topic of perimenopause, sharing essential information every couple (both husbands and wives) should know, along with practical tips to navigate this season of life while keeping intimacy strong. Statistics show that sex can actually become even better for couples over the age of 50, so don’t let this stage hold you back. There’s so much hope—and potential—for an amazing intimate life during and after perimenopause!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

May 13, 2025 • 30min
365. How To Not Just Initiate, But "Successfully" Initiate Sex With Your Spouse
Have you ever initiated with your spouse only to be denied time and time again? In this fun lighthearted episode, we share the ways to "successfully" initiate with your spouse, and the fun ways to do so!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!