

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App
Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
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Jul 29, 2025 • 40min
387. The Best Conflict Resolution Advice For Married Couples We Have Ever Heard!
Tamara Fackrell, a divorce attorney and PhD in Marriage & Family Relationships, shares her passion for helping couples thrive. She offers transformative conflict resolution strategies that can be easily implemented, emphasizing the naturalness of conflict in relationships. Tamara discusses the ABCDE rule, the importance of regular communication, and introduces tools like the 'talking square' for effective discussions. She highlights the balance between intimacy and independence and stresses the need for boundaries to foster lasting love.

Jul 25, 2025 • 43min
386. How To Make Your Date Night A "Great" Night!
Is Your Date Night Falling Flat? Or… are you skipping it altogether?In this fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into how to turn your average date night into a great night! They’ll share real answers from couples in their latest poll, fresh ideas for planning unforgettable nights, and the dos and don’ts that can make or break your time together.If your date nights have become routine (or nonexistent), this episode is your game plan for bringing back the fun, passion, and connection.Don’t miss it, because your next date night might just be your best yet!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Jul 22, 2025 • 23min
385. How To Shift From "Parent Mode" To "Lover Mode" And Why You Need To!
Balancing marriage and parenting can feel overwhelming at times. Between work, childcare, and household responsibilities, it’s easy for intimacy to take a backseat. However, transitioning from “parent mode” to “lover mode” is crucial for maintaining a strong emotional and physical connection with your spouse. But it is extremely hard for some women (and men) to do. In fact, in our recent poll we took, 60% of women stated it was hard for them to switch from mom (parent) mode to lover mode.In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share answers from our audience about how they shift from parent mode to lover mode, and of course we will share our insight as well.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Jul 18, 2025 • 19min
384. Spicy Game Night Ideas (normal games turned 🔥)
In this really fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re turning up the heat on your typical date night with some spicy game ideas for couples, and the best part? You probably already own everything you need!This is one of our favorite things to do, because after all, the Ultimate Intimacy App bedroom game was developed because of one of the games we were playing to spice things up!Think you need to buy fancy products or plan a big night out to connect intimately with your spouse? Think again. We’re sharing our favorite creative and playful ways to turn common household and classic games into something that sparks laughter, connection, and major chemistry.From intimate twists on card games, dice games, and even things like truth or dare, and Jenga, we’ll show you how to reimagine game night as something that brings both fun and fire into your relationship. 🔥If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Jul 15, 2025 • 19min
383. Old-School Romance: How Chivalry Strengthens Marriage
In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we’re bringing back the charm, romance, and respect that make marriages thrive, starting with a deep dive into chivalry and what it actually looks like in modern-day marriage. Chivalry not as outdated gestures or grand displays, but as small daily, intentional acts of love and respect, like opening the door, protecting your spouse’s heart, putting their needs first, and showing up with kindness and thoughtfulness, even when life gets crazy. This episode will leave you inspired to bring more old-school romance into your everyday life, which your wife will love.Spoiler alert: chivalry isn’t just for husbands. Wives can be chivalrous too! And when both spouses step up, the result is a marriage full of warmth, safety, admiration… and yes, intimacy.If you're ready to bring the “wow” back into your relationship and lead with love in the little things, this episode is for you.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Jul 11, 2025 • 21min
382. All The MANY Benefits Of Marriage... Survey answers!
In today’s episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the amazing benefits of being married, and we’re not just talking about tax breaks and shared chores! In fact we don’t even mention either of those! We discuss emotional security and companionship to better health and deeper intimacy, marriage brings a unique kind of fulfillment that singles just don’t experience the same way.But this episode isn’t just our opinion, we asked you, our incredible audience, to tell us what YOU think the biggest perks of marriage are, and today we’re sharing your honest, heartfelt, and even hilarious answers!Whether you've been married for two years or twenty, this episode will remind you why you said "I do"—and might even inspire you to appreciate your spouse a little more today.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Jul 8, 2025 • 31min
381. Top 10 Foreplay Tips From Our Wives Poll
Dive into the top ten foreplay tips gathered from wives, revealing desires that go beyond physical touches. Emotional connection takes center stage, emphasizing the importance of communication. Explore how integrating foreplay into daily life can strengthen relationships. Discover the art of gentle touch and the role of all five senses in enhancing intimacy. With practical advice and anecdotes, couples are encouraged to nurture connection and explore desires thoughtfully, making intimacy more meaningful.

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Jul 4, 2025 • 23min
380. The 7 Stages Of Marriage... And How To Find Passion During Each Of Them
Marriage is a journey with distinct stages that can surprise and challenge couples. The hosts discuss their own experiences through the passionate beginnings, the busy realities of parenthood, and even the rebellious phases. They emphasize the need for communication, teamwork, and humor to maintain intimacy. As couples navigate these ups and downs, prioritizing their relationship becomes crucial. Ultimately, building a strong foundation of friendship and shared experiences is key to lasting connection and passion.

Jul 1, 2025 • 28min
379. Ask Yourself These VITAL Questions Before Going To A Marriage Therapist
Are you thinking about going to a marriage therapist? Or maybe you're just listening to podcasts (like ours), reading books, or getting advice from influencers in hopes of improving your relationship? We wanted to share some vital questions you should ask yourself to make sure you're getting the kind of support that will actually help your marriage—not hurt it.In today’s conversation, Nick and Amy share some of the most important lessons they’ve learned in their own journey, including why not all advice is good advice—even when it’s coming from a “professional.”They discuss:Why lived experience matters just as much (if not more) than credentialsHow to discern if someone truly has your marriage’s best interests at heartWhat red flags to watch for in therapists, counselors, and even social media “marriage experts”How some therapists have unknowingly (or even knowingly) kept couples stuck or sick for yearsThe power of shared values and how that influences the direction of the advice you receiveThis episode isn’t about bashing therapists—it’s about helping couples make informed, wise decisions when it comes to who they trust with "their" most important thing in their life, which is their relationship! Tune in for a conversation that will challenge you to think deeper and choose more intentionally when it comes to who you allow to speak into your marriage.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

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Jun 27, 2025 • 24min
378. How To Avoid The "Death By Comparison" Trap In Marriage
This discussion dives into the perils of comparing marriages to idealized images on social media, revealing how 86% of couples feel negatively affected by it. The speakers share their personal journey toward appreciation and gratitude, emphasizing how these elements can transform marital satisfaction. They explore the dangers of comparing material possessions and the emotional toll it takes on relationships. Strategies are offered for couples to focus on shared goals, cultivate intimacy, and escape the detrimental comparison trap.