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Lindsay Bird Nielsen of the Lindsay Report is a longtime friend of mine who has battled with Lyme disease for most of her life, even before she knew what it was. She has also suffered the loss of both her parents and is married to France Nielsen who also lost both of his parents. Lindsay is someone I look to on how to deal with grief myself, and I learned so much about empathy and compassion for those who have Lyme disease by following her Instagram and listening to her stories of what that challenge is really like. So today, I’m walking with Lindsay through her story of Lyme and what has helped her over the years to understand this disease and take back control of her life despite this ongoing challenge. She also shares with me some of her insights on grief, loss, and how to help others struggling after any kind of loss, and what we can do to really understand and love others who are struggling with any of life’s challenges. Time Stamps:[01:00] - Lindsay Nielsen gives a snapshot of her life and how that led to her becoming known on social media.[03:27] - Social media became Lindsay’s outlet of expression and also a way to advocate for Lyme disease.[05:06] - Lindsay talks about the cycle she goes through with pregnancy and managing her health.[07:23] - How does Lindsay feel about doing her best to manage her health?[09:10] - What prayer did Lindsay say in a low health moment that shifted life for her?[11:58] - This is the moment Lindsay actually found out she had Lyme disease and set her on a personal mission.[13:53] - Why is Lyme disease difficult to diagnose?[16:26] - Lindsay shares a story from the time she had a strong reaction to a treatment.[18:02] - What is the pyramid-like ripple effect caused by the damage of Lyme disease? How can people try to check for Lyme disease?[20:57] - Lindsay shares her perspective on what helps people who deal with Lyme disease. She emphasizes trusting your instincts about your care providers.[22:27] - Lindsay gives her tips on managing inflammation, the power of sleep, and optimizing your living space for better health.[24:47] - How can people assist or support anyone managing Lyme disease?[26:52] - Lindsay talks about the importance of the support system about her and gets candid about the dynamics in her network of relationships.[29:27] - Lindsay and Corrine discuss loss in life and things unfolding the way they are meant to. [32:27] - Listen to Lindsay recall the last moments of talking with her dad. She gives her view of grief.[33:58] - What words from Lindsay’s dad deeply impacted her?[35:52] - Lindsay says that it’s okay to allow yourself to feel loneliness in grief. How does she deal with these feelings?[38:06] - This small habit of Lindsay’s mom still lingers with Lindsay. [40:33] - What role does faith and acknowledgement play in the way Lindsay manages grief?[42:14] - Lindsay encourages people to reflect on what they “want” when dealing with grief one day at a time.[44:13] - Everything about grief can be fragile, so give yourself grace.[46:05] - Advocate for yourself and be relentless in finding the answers to give you the life that you want to live.[48:32] - Life is good. Supporting Resources:Lindsay’s Instagram @thelindsayreportSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Do you know the actual definition of the word priority? I didn't, until I read a book a few years back that taught me! Today we're breaking down what it really means to set a priority and how we make clear priorities in our lives. We share how to make priorities in business, in family, in personal progress, and in every aspect of your life in order to accomplish the things that really matter most. Time Stamps:[00:30] - Do you know the true meaning of the word “priority”?[02:57] - Corrine explores the possible misconception of what is considered a priority.[04:34] - You can choose the number one priority that rises above all other things.[07:19] - Knowing the priority helps guide decision-making and alignment.[09:05] - Each area of life can have its own top priority. [11:53] - Everyone has their own mapping that they use to guide their life and having a shared priority can create common ground.[13:21] - Neil explores the importance behind the idea of priority in spirituality.[15:22] - You can choose some aspects of your life to improve.[17:29] - Corrine and Neil discuss moving family and work around the main priority in life.[20:32] - How can you protect your plans and what you choose as your priority?[22:48] - Corrine and Neil talk about priority balanced by relationships.[24:50] - Are you intentional enough to notice when there’s a crossroad challenging your sense of priority?[27:39] - Keep the “first things” first.[29:32] - Here is Corrine’s method for figuring out the top priority. PART 1.[31:12] - Here is Corrine’s method for figuring out the top priority. PART 2.[33:44] - Listen to Neil’s method for figuring out the top priority.[35:23] - Corrine shares her thoughts on how having a top priority makes everything else work.[37:57] - Corrine and Neil express their takeaways of priority, faith, and spirituality. Supporting Resources:“Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less” Book by Greg McKeown “Make Time for the Lord” Talk by Russell M. Nelson “Three Choices” Talk by Joseph B. Wirthlin “For Him” Talk by Joy D. JonesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sharon McMahon is a former high school government and law teacher who earned a reputation as ‘America’s Government Teacher’ amidst the historic 2020 election proceedings for her viral efforts on Instagram to educate the general public on political misinformation. Through a simple mission to share non-partisan information about democracy, Sharon has amassed hundreds of thousands of followers online, affectionately called the “Governerds", who look to her for truth and logic in a society plagued by bias and conspiracy. I had the absolute pleasure and privilege of hanging out with Sharon for an hour virtually, and today I'm sharing all the wisdom and insight that she shared with me, with you! I personally found Sharon during the height of political unrest in 2020, and she was more than a breath of fresh air for me. I've learned so much from her just by following her on Instagram, and whether you're already a governerd or just hearing about her for the first time today, I guarantee you're about to learn a ton from this episode, too. Time Stamps:[01:08] - Sharon McMahon helps the public understand government and politics. [02:50] - Where did Sharon’s passion for politics and current events come from?[05:26] - Sharon says she decided to make non-partisan videos for educating people instead of engaging with internet arguments. [08:04] - Which news outlets does Sharon look to for information?[11:03] - Corrine and Sharon talk about recognizing polarity and how to help youth develop discernment. [13:22] - Sharon gives a dinner analogy of exercising critical thinking.[15:59] - Which public figures would Sharon have lunch with? [17:44] - Sharon shares her thoughts on flexible thinking, rigid thinking, and distress tolerance.[19:26] - What is the answer to extreme polarization? [21:46] - Most things in life are not zero-sum games, including what we agree and disagree on.[24:31] - Sharon explains her projects of raising money for teacher grants.[26:23] - Sharon discusses the teaching profession and the lack of support that can be experienced in some communities.[28:02] - Teachers are going above and beyond to provide basic and core necessities for children.[30:52] - How did Sharon raise over half a million dollars for Christmas?[33:05] - The principle of giving is important. Intent outweighs the size of the gift.[35:12] - Sharon points out this lesson in US History to keep in mind, since history repeats itself. Why do seemingly harmless moments become the greatest scars?[36:37] - Sharon continues her thoughts on dehumanization. She explains the crossover of thoughts, actions, and mindsets used to justify how we think.[38:44] - Corrine talks about the relation of repeated polarizing experiences globally as she recalls a museum visit during a trip to Rwanda.[40:36] - Sharon says it’s important not to step toward dehumanization. She explains why situations that appear sudden are unconsciously developed.[42:53] - Sharon urges people to not give up hope in doing their part to make the world a little better. Supporting Resources:Sharon Says So Instagram @sharonsaysso Sharon’s blog  Sharon Says So PodcastSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The word hope is sometimes misunderstood. In our everyday language, the word often has a hint of uncertainty. For example, we may say that we hope for a change in the weather or a visit from a friend. In the language of the gospel, however, the word hope is sure, unwavering, and active. Prophets speak of having a “firm hope” (Alma 34:41) and a “lively hope” (1 Peter 1:3).“Happy is he,” said the Psalmist, “that hath the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the Lord his God” (Psalm 146:5). With hope, we can find joy in life. We can “have patience, and bear with ... afflictions, with a firm hope that ye shall one day rest from all your afflictions” (Alma 34:41).These are wise words from a study guide we use called The Bible Dictionary, and I love how it perfectly describes the word and meaning of hope. Today’s podcast is all about step 2 in the 12 steps: hope. We're sharing our personal experiences in finding hope in the midst of addiction in our marriage, and if you're trying to find hope for yourself or someone you love, this is how and where you can find it too. Time Stamps:[01:09] - Today, we’re talking about the second step in the 12 Steps, which is hope.[02:50] - Neil gives his perspective on why he finds beauty in hope being the second of the 12 steps.[04:39] - Why does it not help to tell someone to “try harder”?[07:05] - Corrine and Neil discuss how some traits can influence a person’s response to possible addiction.[09:04] - Corrine speaks from her perspective as a spouse who needed to change her view of drug addiction.[10:51] - Neil explains the gradual process of carrying new principles, like hope, into life when on a recovery journey.[13:07] - It’s remarkable to see someone’s transformation while on their journey to turn life around.[16:00] - How hard is it to stick to addiction recovery when heavy life situations arise? Neil shares his insight.[17:39] - Corrine recalls relatable stories of people staying strong despite the heavy distractions of life.[20:11] - Sometimes people don’t realize that their story is inspiring to others.[22:24] - Neil talks about humanizing the recovery journey and giving grace while in recovery.[24:07] - Sharing your testimony can strengthen your testimony.[25:39] - Sharing your testimony allows for others to learn from your experience.[27:09] - What are actionable steps you can do to cultivate more hope?[30:02] - Hope is about restoration.[32:52] - What is it that you shall hope for?[35:30] - Have strength, courage, and hope to take one step forward. Supporting Resources: Scripture on hope in the Book of Mormon-Moroni 7:41 ARP Manual “Addiction Recovery Program: A Guide to Addiction Recovery and Healing” Mark 9:24 “...Lord I believe, help thou my unbelief”See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

David Butler is a religion teacher, speaker, writer, podcaster, YouTuber and someone who's constantly in my ear teaching me little golden nuggets about the gospel of Jesus Christ! Dave started hosting a YouTube and podcast episode each week with his friend Emily Belle Freeman, where they follow the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints’ scripture study guide called Come Follow Me and tell you what you don't want to miss in the scriptures that week. I got to sit down today and talk all about some of my very favorite topics with David: the Bible, Jesus, the Christmas story, how to connect with the scriptures, and a whole lot more. I'm telling you that this interview just gets better and better so stick around till the end for sure. His insights on the nativity and setting the scene for when Jesus was born were the perfect gift to me this Christmas season and I know it will be for you too. Time Stamps:[00:56] - You may have heard of David Butler. David gives a short story about his evolution of creating content for connecting with the scripture.[02:48] - What started Don’t Miss This for David and Emily?[04:24] - How does David make scripture more interesting for people who feel disconnected?[07:07] - David says people can train themselves to make scripture reading feel more interactive.[08:44] - Listen to this example of interacting with the scripture as David explores why there are no “bad guys” or “good guys” in the scriptures.[11:30] - Is prophecy a set-up? David talks through the different perspectives of the crucifixion.[14:30] - David shares what the cross symbolizes in his life.[16:26] - David discusses knowing sacrifice and love through scripture.[18:56] - Across religion, people choose different contexts for symbols to help connect to the scripture.[21:51] - David says he is a sentimental type that connects with symbolism.[24:44] - How does David invite people to be more connected?[27:10] - David encourages using examples and evidence instead of trying to use convincing and pressuring tactics.[29:35] - Corrine and David reflect on being more relationship-centered when approaching scripture.[32:27] - Here are David’s suggestions for feeling more connected with the scripture and the scene of nativity.[35:13] - Corrine and David talk about Christmas episodes.[37:11] - David gives context to the scene of nativity in a realistic perspective of the people in the story being human like the rest of us.[39:55] - Corrine brings up memories of what David’s descriptions are making her recall. How does this connect to the “lowest of lows”?[41:49] - You can find God in your story, even in a garbage dump. David explains why.[44:21] - What should people do if they can’t get interested in the Old Testament? Here is David’s advice for reading the Old Testament.[46:03] - David warns that when reading the Old Testament, everyone should assume the best in the context.[49:03] - David gives a bonus tip for reading the Old Testament and encourages everyone to know that their personal story is not over.[52:49] - We are here to be happy and to have joy. Supporting Resources: Don’t Miss This Study PodcastDon’t Miss This websiteDon’t Miss This YouTube channel David Butler Instagram Don’t Miss This InstagramThe Chosen “Christmas with The Chosen: The Messengers” VideoSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Has the day of miracles ceased? This is a question posed in my favorite book, the Book of Mormon by the prophet Mormon himself. We've had a couple of miracles ourselves lately that we're going to share in today’s episode, along with the story behind where this mantra came from in my life. I actually finished recording this episode with Neil and was texting back and forth with my mom about the man I mention in this episode, Lamont Ericson. She sent me this text from his wife Debbie, with some of the even more beautiful details about the miracles and impact of Lamont’s life before he passed that I'd like to share with you.“Lamont was told he’d have 3-6 months to live, and he ended up living 15 months. That was of course a tremendous blessing to us, because our kids were only 6 months and 2 years old at the time of diagnosis. Lamont researched his illness, tried several pharmaceutical studies, and remained hopeful and faithful - I think all those things extended his life. It gave us extra months to spend lots of time together and make many home videos, which are the main source of my children’s memories of him.As a side note, he actually sold his medical practice right after his diagnosis so that he would be free to spend every remaining moment with his family and friends. I have vivid memories of going to the zoo together, and he’d get so tired that he’d lay on the benches to rest between exhibits because he didn’t want to stay home and miss even a minute.As his last act as a physician, he sent a goodbye letter out to all his patients, expressing his love and appreciation for their trust. He told them about his illness and how he was praying for a miracle. He explained, though, that if the miracle didn’t go his way that he’d be forever grateful for what he believes about family and other treasured relationships. He encouraged his patients to set their personal finances in order in their lives and tell their families how loved they are, so that they can be at peace with any eventuality in their lives. Over 14 years later, I still receive correspondence from a few of those patients who tell me how much that letter meant to them.Thanks for the chance you’ve provided me to re-walk through this journey today.”Time Stamps:[02:12] - Corrine and Neil share news of their pregnancy journey and talk about the rollercoaster ride of the journey so far.[08:05] - Corrine and Neil describe what brought them to a conclusion of making room for another child.[16:40] - Corrine says she felt off about prematurely speeding up the miscarriage.[18:23] - What did Corrine and Neil’s bishop advise?[20:48] - What did a doctor say that could be seen as practical yet discouraging?[23:30] - Corrine talks about starting a product line in alignment with Mint Arrow Messages.[26:53] - Corrine reminisces about a cancer journey story she knew of during her teen years. This was the origin of “Miracles Happen” for her.[31:11] - Neil recalls a story of a similar cancer story he heard in a talk. What miracle happened in that journey? [36:03] - Sometimes obvious miracles don’t happen and sometimes they do. Corrine talks about a time the desired miracles did happen.[38:48] - Corrine continues with the story of her pregnancy journey. Is there another miracle on the way?[43:26] - Why are trials important? Earthly experiences help us develop.[45:52] - Corrine recalls the miracles she saw over the summer in her own family. Who was sick?[48:51] - Neil encourages everyone to hold on in their own journey, despite things not looking the way they expect. Supporting Resources: “Is There No Balm in Gilead?” Talk by Brent H. Nielsen “Behold I Am a God of Miracles” Talk by Elder Ronald A. RasbandSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Midnight Mission is the oldest continuously operating human service organization in the Los Angeles region. Centered in the Skid Row area of downtown Los Angeles, The Midnight runs one of the most efficient direct service operations in the country. With only five executive managers throughout its 100-year history, The Midnight has been a consistent beacon of light for those with nowhere else to turn.This past summer I went with my church youth group to the Midnight Mission where we provided sack lunches for the people in the Midnight Mission program, and that day I met Andrew Linares, who has worked as the volunteer manager at the Midnight Mission since April of 2018. Andrew went through the program from 2015-2017 after living on the streets of Skid Row himself, struggling with a drug and alcohol addiction. Today I get to interview Andrew about his journey to finding recovery and the start of a new life at The Midnight Mission and how that turned into his life's work. Andrew shares with me all of the inspiring programs and work going on at the Midnight Mission where they help thousands of people get off the streets of LA, find food and shelter and water, learn to work and save money and eventually move on to find work and homes for themselves. I couldn't help but think over and over of when Jesus taught us that when we feed the hungry and clothe the naked, it's just as if we were doing it for the Savior himself. I was so inspired by Andrew's story and his perspective and the work he's doing at the Midnight Mission and I can't wait to share the gift he gave to me by sharing this with you too. Today’s episode is brought to you in part by Troomi Wireless. Get the safe phone that grows with your kids by going to troomi.com and entering in code MINTARROW at checkout for 50% off a Troomi phone.Today’s episode is also brought to you by Away Travel. Explore Away’s full range of all things travel and start your 100 day trial today by going to awaytravel.com/mintarrow. Time Stamps:[01:35] - Andrew Linares says that joining the work at Midnight Mission was luck.[04:14] - Andrew talks about the drug and alcohol relationship that landed him in the program at Midnight Mission before working there.[07:53] - What realization did Andrew have after a relapse?[11:48] - How did Midnight Mission shift Andrew’s perspective of religion?[14:37] - Programs here are meant to empower participants to design a life.[18:54] - Not everyone that lives on the streets starts off as addicts, but they can pick up the tendencies to deal with hardships.[23:34] - What is Andrew’s suggestion on giving to the homeless? Should you give people money?[26:20] - Andrew encourages people to donate time through volunteer work if they think they have nothing to give.[29:05] - Andrew talks about three very specific programs that create a special atmosphere at Midnight Mission.[30:53] - Why is 1-on-1 conversation impactful for those in need?[34:11] - How did the Midnight Mission start? Andrew gives the background of the initiative.[36:20] - When did the Midnight Mission incorporate the 12-step philosophy? Andrew gives the background of Midnight Mission.[37:46] - Eventually, Midnight Mission grew a focus towards family and financial independence.[40:25] - Midnight Mission wants their participants to focus on building themselves up. [41:55] - Here is the lesson Andrew hopes people take away from this episode. Supporting Resources:Website: www.midnightmission.orgOpportunities to support and serve at the Midnight Missionhttps://www.midnightmission.org/get-involved/ POC: Andrew Linares – Volunteer ManagerEmail: alinares@midnightmission.orgPhone: 213.624.9258 ext. 1249 Instagram  Facebook TwitterTikTok YouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A few years ago I stumbled upon a talk called “Gifts of Love” that completely changed the way I think of gift giving during the Christmas season. Today we're sharing some highlights and cliff-notes from that talk and why we feel like it's so powerful and true. We're talking about the calendar system that our family uses to make sure we're keeping Christ in the center of our Christmas each day, by doing very small and simple acts of service. And I'm sharing live with Neil, for the first time this year, the gift that I've tried to give to Jesus, and to my family, by trying to overcome a character weakness of mine and improve personally in this one way to try to become more like Jesus. Today’s episode is brought to you in part by Troomi Wireless. Get the safe phone that grows with your kids by going to troomi.com and entering in code MINTARROW at checkout for 50% off a Troomi phone. Time Stamps:[01:26] - Corrine and Neil are excited for the holiday season. What do these special end-of-year holidays mean to them?[03:42] - Let’s talk about how to know if you’re giving a good gift. Corrine references a talk by Henry B. Eyring.[06:08] - Expert givers let their receivers sense that their sacrifice brings them joy.[08:30] - Neil recalls an amazing gift in a time when his family needed a kind gesture.[10:58] - What does it mean to give your time?[12:30] - Here is where you can find small ideas on giving gifts each day.[14:06] - Corrine and Neil talk about sending cheer through giving machines.[16:43] - Make giving easier by following gift ideas that are laid out.[19:10] - How can you make gift giving special for kids without overdoing it?[21:22] - Some parents create unrealistic expectations around gifts for their kids.[24:04] - Corrine reminisces on the car she got as a gift and compares it to the gifts of her friends.[26:54] - Here is how you can involve kids in gift-giving.[29:01] - Corrine gives an example of her own mother using a strategy to get the family to participate in giving.[31:39] - Corrine explains her feelings about giving a gift to Jesus.[33:24] - Corrine shares what her gift to Jesus was this year. She starts with why she struggled to choose a gift.[36:11] - Corrine shares what her gift to Jesus was this year. What clicked that inspired this year’s gift?[38:34] - Neil gives his thoughts after finding out about Corrine’s gift.[40:20] - Corrine talks about the idea that you can give gifts bit by bit as a reflection of the Savior.[42:44] - Neil reminds everyone that the ability to choose is a gift. What does your gift-giving say about your agency?[44:28] - Do one little thing each day when you can. Supporting Resources: Light the World: Find ways to give and serve on giving Tuesday and in the month of December. Find a giving machine  “Gifts of Love: A Christmas Message” Talk by Henry B. EyringSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Angie Balfour is the Chief People Officer at Weave, a Utah company that just went public last week. She has worked in HR really since high school (more on that in a minute) and before becoming an executive at Weave, she worked as the head of Human Resources at Instagram, a Human Resources Business Partner at Facebook, and before that she worked all over the world for a company called Fairchild Semiconductor in all aspects of their HR, talent and leadership management. Today I'm asking Angie some of the questions that she's helped me with the most over the years when it comes to HR, everything from how to hire well to how to manage teams effectively, how to intentionally invite more diversity, and how to treat others well who go through a health crisis. Angie also shares with me what she's learned personally in her pursuit of success in her career, and what she learned from battling two types of cancer 5 years ago. Angie has been one of my dearest friends for years, the type of person who I call with advice and ALWAYS hang up feeling a thousand times better, more empowered and inspired, and I am certain she'll leave you feeling the same way today too. Today's episode is brought to you by Troomi Wireless. Get the safe phone that grows with your kids. Go to troomi.com and enter code bf50 to get 50% off a Troomi phone. This week’s episode is also sponsored by Better Help. Join over one million people who have taken charge of their mental health. Go to betterhelp.com/mintarrow and get 10% off your first month of counseling. Time Stamps:[01:13] - What led Angie Balfour to be interested in HR? Hint: This involves a high school crush, a competition, and an encouraging stranger.[03:52] - Angie says she took on assignments no one wanted to do in the HR space and this helped move her towards an executive role.[06:18] - Angie explains that she originally turned down the opportunity to Facebook. What changed her mind?[09:09] - When she was young, Angie says her parents were very encouraging towards her taking ownership of her life.[11:56] - Angie points out her HR tips for defining the role and reimagining how new hires fit in a business.[14:45] - Why does Angie suggest paying attention to problem solving questions and on-boarding relationships in HR strategies?[16:51] - What is the “new-employee-lense” that businesses can leverage for their operations?[19:11] - Listen to Angie share a moment of learning how to better communicate with her team members.[20:46] - Angie talks about taking feedback and hiring people who are “smarter” than yourself.[22:27] - A good team focuses on identifying the needs together rather than clashing within the team.[24:50] - Listen to Angie speak about how her job responded after she received her cancer diagnosis.[27:14] - When someone is going through something hard, Angie suggests to support that person in the way that works for them.[28:48] - What did Angie learn about vulnerability during her cancer journey?[30:32] - Angie uses her cancer experience to give insight and offer a listening ear to others going through a similar journey.[33:32] - Angie shares what she felt in the moment that Weave went public.[36:30] - What is Angie’s goal for her life and career?[39:01] - Angie talks about her journey to be more fit, and how she is staying excited for the future.[40:48] - Listen to these tips for stepping up diversity strategies. Angie gets candid about the learning process of diversity in business.[43:42] - Angie shares her thoughts on creating supportive atmospheres for diversity.[45:14] - Reflecting on life experiences, Angie discusses the idea of having privilege and opening opportunities for others.[47:14] - Angie says we can all make a difference wherever we are.[49:23] - Angie congratulates Corrine on her work with Mint Arrow Messages so far. Supporting Resources:Angie BalfourLinkedInFacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever driven down the 5 freeway in San Diego and seen the huge glowing temple from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and wondered what the heck goes on in there, or you've seen us talk about going to the temple weekly on our stories and wondered why we’re so obsessed with hanging out there, or even if you're a member but are struggling with getting to the temple, today we're talking about all these things. We're first breaking down some of the basics of the temple, and then sharing some personal experiences and blessings we've received in the temple, and why it's so vital for us to keep going. Today's episode is brought to you by Troomi Wireless. Get the safe phone that grows with your kids. Go to troomi.com and enter code bf50 to get 50% off a Troomi phone. Today’s episode is also brought to you by Away Travel. Explore Away’s full range of all things travel and start your 100 day trial today by going to awaytravel.com/mintarrow. Time Stamps:[00:40] - Corrine and Neil explain why they go to the temple and what they do during the visits.[02:41] - Corrine and Neil explain the difference between temples and chapels. Is either open to the public?[05:13] - Being part of the church includes following the Law of Tithing, the Law of Chastity, and the Word of Wisdom. Corrine reassures that no one expects you to follow these perfectly.[08:05] - If you’re not prepared to make the covenants, you can move at your own pace. The important part is that you make an effort to follow the covenants.[11:05] - Before being a member of the church or being of age to enter temples, people can attend a temple open house while the temple is not dedicated.[13:24] - What happens inside the temples? Why do people need to be careful of where they get information about temples?[15:13] - Corrine and Neil explain the origin of baptism and temple marriages.[16:49] - Temple marriages for the eternal family unit can happen before or after a family comes together. [19:22] - Endowment is where you learn about the creation of the world, blessings, and more.[20:59] - Corrine retells the story of how the Disney World ride “It’s a Small World” reminds her of the promises of the temple.[22:58] - Don’t feel pressured or overwhelmed by learning about the temple and covenants.[25:25] - What is the Celestial room? Corrine expresses why going to the temple was beneficial for her relationship with Neil.[28:41] - What can you do if there’s resistance, whether internal or external, when you try to go to the temple?[31:19] - Corrine and Neil talk about when they first decided to do weekly temple visits. [33:24] - How did Corrine and Neil keep up with temple visits when real life situations fought for their attention?[34:35] - Being in the temple, so close to heaven, Corrine says she was able to get comfort in those moments.[36:52] - The more you visit the temple, the deeper the connection settles. Neil shares how he was able to simplify his approach to strengthen his spirituality while facing life.[38:31] - Neil says he notices when he does this particular thing life turns out better than he could ever imagine.[41:17] - The promise of happiness is built on agency, but remember that you have a choice.[43:50] - The temple is where you can get the strength to do what you need to do. Supporting Resources: Current LDS temple open houses Video clips about LDS temples and what goes on inside1 Corinthians 15:29 “Else what shall they do which are baptized for the dead, if the dead rise not at all? Why are they then baptized for the dead?” Video about our friends Ryan and Natalie going through the temple for the first time “Becoming Exemplary Latter-Day Saints” Talk by Russell M. Nelson on making an appointment (temple appointment) with the Lord and keeping it with exactness and joy.  “Make Time for the Lord” Talk by Russell M. NelsonSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.