Mint Arrow Messages

The word hope is sometimes misunderstood. In our everyday language, the word often has a hint of uncertainty. For example, we may say that we hope for a change in the weather or a visit from a friend. In the language of the gospel, however, the word hope is sure, unwavering, and active. Prophets speak of having a “firm hope” (Alma 34:41) and a “lively hope” (1 Peter 1:3).“Happy is he,” said the Psalmist, “that hath the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the Lord his God” (Psalm 146:5). With hope, we can find joy in life. We can “have patience, and bear with ... afflictions, with a firm hope that ye shall one day rest from all your afflictions” (Alma 34:41).These are wise words from a study guide we use called The Bible Dictionary, and I love how it perfectly describes the word and meaning of hope. Today’s podcast is all about step 2 in the 12 steps: hope. We're sharing our personal experiences in finding hope in the midst of addiction in our marriage, and if you're trying to find hope for yourself or someone you love, this is how and where you can find it too. Time Stamps:[01:09] - Today, we’re talking about the second step in the 12 Steps, which is hope.[02:50] - Neil gives his perspective on why he finds beauty in hope being the second of the 12 steps.[04:39] - Why does it not help to tell someone to “try harder”?[07:05] - Corrine and Neil discuss how some traits can influence a person’s response to possible addiction.[09:04] - Corrine speaks from her perspective as a spouse who needed to change her view of drug addiction.[10:51] - Neil explains the gradual process of carrying new principles, like hope, into life when on a recovery journey.[13:07] - It’s remarkable to see someone’s transformation while on their journey to turn life around.[16:00] - How hard is it to stick to addiction recovery when heavy life situations arise? Neil shares his insight.[17:39] - Corrine recalls relatable stories of people staying strong despite the heavy distractions of life.[20:11] - Sometimes people don’t realize that their story is inspiring to others.[22:24] - Neil talks about humanizing the recovery journey and giving grace while in recovery.[24:07] - Sharing your testimony can strengthen your testimony.[25:39] - Sharing your testimony allows for others to learn from your experience.[27:09] - What are actionable steps you can do to cultivate more hope?[30:02] - Hope is about restoration.[32:52] - What is it that you shall hope for?[35:30] - Have strength, courage, and hope to take one step forward. Supporting Resources: Scripture on hope in the Book of Mormon-Moroni 7:41 ARP Manual “Addiction Recovery Program: A Guide to Addiction Recovery and Healing” Mark 9:24 “...Lord I believe, help thou my unbelief”See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

David Butler is a religion teacher, speaker, writer, podcaster, YouTuber and someone who's constantly in my ear teaching me little golden nuggets about the gospel of Jesus Christ! Dave started hosting a YouTube and podcast episode each week with his friend Emily Belle Freeman, where they follow the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints’ scripture study guide called Come Follow Me and tell you what you don't want to miss in the scriptures that week. I got to sit down today and talk all about some of my very favorite topics with David: the Bible, Jesus, the Christmas story, how to connect with the scriptures, and a whole lot more. I'm telling you that this interview just gets better and better so stick around till the end for sure. His insights on the nativity and setting the scene for when Jesus was born were the perfect gift to me this Christmas season and I know it will be for you too. Time Stamps:[00:56] - You may have heard of David Butler. David gives a short story about his evolution of creating content for connecting with the scripture.[02:48] - What started Don’t Miss This for David and Emily?[04:24] - How does David make scripture more interesting for people who feel disconnected?[07:07] - David says people can train themselves to make scripture reading feel more interactive.[08:44] - Listen to this example of interacting with the scripture as David explores why there are no “bad guys” or “good guys” in the scriptures.[11:30] - Is prophecy a set-up? David talks through the different perspectives of the crucifixion.[14:30] - David shares what the cross symbolizes in his life.[16:26] - David discusses knowing sacrifice and love through scripture.[18:56] - Across religion, people choose different contexts for symbols to help connect to the scripture.[21:51] - David says he is a sentimental type that connects with symbolism.[24:44] - How does David invite people to be more connected?[27:10] - David encourages using examples and evidence instead of trying to use convincing and pressuring tactics.[29:35] - Corrine and David reflect on being more relationship-centered when approaching scripture.[32:27] - Here are David’s suggestions for feeling more connected with the scripture and the scene of nativity.[35:13] - Corrine and David talk about Christmas episodes.[37:11] - David gives context to the scene of nativity in a realistic perspective of the people in the story being human like the rest of us.[39:55] - Corrine brings up memories of what David’s descriptions are making her recall. How does this connect to the “lowest of lows”?[41:49] - You can find God in your story, even in a garbage dump. David explains why.[44:21] - What should people do if they can’t get interested in the Old Testament? Here is David’s advice for reading the Old Testament.[46:03] - David warns that when reading the Old Testament, everyone should assume the best in the context.[49:03] - David gives a bonus tip for reading the Old Testament and encourages everyone to know that their personal story is not over.[52:49] - We are here to be happy and to have joy. Supporting Resources: Don’t Miss This Study PodcastDon’t Miss This websiteDon’t Miss This YouTube channel David Butler Instagram Don’t Miss This InstagramThe Chosen “Christmas with The Chosen: The Messengers” VideoSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Has the day of miracles ceased? This is a question posed in my favorite book, the Book of Mormon by the prophet Mormon himself. We've had a couple of miracles ourselves lately that we're going to share in today’s episode, along with the story behind where this mantra came from in my life. I actually finished recording this episode with Neil and was texting back and forth with my mom about the man I mention in this episode, Lamont Ericson. She sent me this text from his wife Debbie, with some of the even more beautiful details about the miracles and impact of Lamont’s life before he passed that I'd like to share with you.“Lamont was told he’d have 3-6 months to live, and he ended up living 15 months. That was of course a tremendous blessing to us, because our kids were only 6 months and 2 years old at the time of diagnosis. Lamont researched his illness, tried several pharmaceutical studies, and remained hopeful and faithful - I think all those things extended his life. It gave us extra months to spend lots of time together and make many home videos, which are the main source of my children’s memories of him.As a side note, he actually sold his medical practice right after his diagnosis so that he would be free to spend every remaining moment with his family and friends. I have vivid memories of going to the zoo together, and he’d get so tired that he’d lay on the benches to rest between exhibits because he didn’t want to stay home and miss even a minute.As his last act as a physician, he sent a goodbye letter out to all his patients, expressing his love and appreciation for their trust. He told them about his illness and how he was praying for a miracle. He explained, though, that if the miracle didn’t go his way that he’d be forever grateful for what he believes about family and other treasured relationships. He encouraged his patients to set their personal finances in order in their lives and tell their families how loved they are, so that they can be at peace with any eventuality in their lives. Over 14 years later, I still receive correspondence from a few of those patients who tell me how much that letter meant to them.Thanks for the chance you’ve provided me to re-walk through this journey today.”Time Stamps:[02:12] - Corrine and Neil share news of their pregnancy journey and talk about the rollercoaster ride of the journey so far.[08:05] - Corrine and Neil describe what brought them to a conclusion of making room for another child.[16:40] - Corrine says she felt off about prematurely speeding up the miscarriage.[18:23] - What did Corrine and Neil’s bishop advise?[20:48] - What did a doctor say that could be seen as practical yet discouraging?[23:30] - Corrine talks about starting a product line in alignment with Mint Arrow Messages.[26:53] - Corrine reminisces about a cancer journey story she knew of during her teen years. This was the origin of “Miracles Happen” for her.[31:11] - Neil recalls a story of a similar cancer story he heard in a talk. What miracle happened in that journey? [36:03] - Sometimes obvious miracles don’t happen and sometimes they do. Corrine talks about a time the desired miracles did happen.[38:48] - Corrine continues with the story of her pregnancy journey. Is there another miracle on the way?[43:26] - Why are trials important? Earthly experiences help us develop.[45:52] - Corrine recalls the miracles she saw over the summer in her own family. Who was sick?[48:51] - Neil encourages everyone to hold on in their own journey, despite things not looking the way they expect. Supporting Resources: “Is There No Balm in Gilead?” Talk by Brent H. Nielsen “Behold I Am a God of Miracles” Talk by Elder Ronald A. RasbandSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Midnight Mission is the oldest continuously operating human service organization in the Los Angeles region. Centered in the Skid Row area of downtown Los Angeles, The Midnight runs one of the most efficient direct service operations in the country. With only five executive managers throughout its 100-year history, The Midnight has been a consistent beacon of light for those with nowhere else to turn.This past summer I went with my church youth group to the Midnight Mission where we provided sack lunches for the people in the Midnight Mission program, and that day I met Andrew Linares, who has worked as the volunteer manager at the Midnight Mission since April of 2018. Andrew went through the program from 2015-2017 after living on the streets of Skid Row himself, struggling with a drug and alcohol addiction. Today I get to interview Andrew about his journey to finding recovery and the start of a new life at The Midnight Mission and how that turned into his life's work. Andrew shares with me all of the inspiring programs and work going on at the Midnight Mission where they help thousands of people get off the streets of LA, find food and shelter and water, learn to work and save money and eventually move on to find work and homes for themselves. I couldn't help but think over and over of when Jesus taught us that when we feed the hungry and clothe the naked, it's just as if we were doing it for the Savior himself. I was so inspired by Andrew's story and his perspective and the work he's doing at the Midnight Mission and I can't wait to share the gift he gave to me by sharing this with you too. Today’s episode is brought to you in part by Troomi Wireless. Get the safe phone that grows with your kids by going to troomi.com and entering in code MINTARROW at checkout for 50% off a Troomi phone.Today’s episode is also brought to you by Away Travel. Explore Away’s full range of all things travel and start your 100 day trial today by going to awaytravel.com/mintarrow. Time Stamps:[01:35] - Andrew Linares says that joining the work at Midnight Mission was luck.[04:14] - Andrew talks about the drug and alcohol relationship that landed him in the program at Midnight Mission before working there.[07:53] - What realization did Andrew have after a relapse?[11:48] - How did Midnight Mission shift Andrew’s perspective of religion?[14:37] - Programs here are meant to empower participants to design a life.[18:54] - Not everyone that lives on the streets starts off as addicts, but they can pick up the tendencies to deal with hardships.[23:34] - What is Andrew’s suggestion on giving to the homeless? Should you give people money?[26:20] - Andrew encourages people to donate time through volunteer work if they think they have nothing to give.[29:05] - Andrew talks about three very specific programs that create a special atmosphere at Midnight Mission.[30:53] - Why is 1-on-1 conversation impactful for those in need?[34:11] - How did the Midnight Mission start? Andrew gives the background of the initiative.[36:20] - When did the Midnight Mission incorporate the 12-step philosophy? Andrew gives the background of Midnight Mission.[37:46] - Eventually, Midnight Mission grew a focus towards family and financial independence.[40:25] - Midnight Mission wants their participants to focus on building themselves up. [41:55] - Here is the lesson Andrew hopes people take away from this episode. Supporting Resources:Website: www.midnightmission.orgOpportunities to support and serve at the Midnight Missionhttps://www.midnightmission.org/get-involved/ POC: Andrew Linares – Volunteer ManagerEmail: alinares@midnightmission.orgPhone: 213.624.9258 ext. 1249 Instagram  Facebook TwitterTikTok YouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A few years ago I stumbled upon a talk called “Gifts of Love” that completely changed the way I think of gift giving during the Christmas season. Today we're sharing some highlights and cliff-notes from that talk and why we feel like it's so powerful and true. We're talking about the calendar system that our family uses to make sure we're keeping Christ in the center of our Christmas each day, by doing very small and simple acts of service. And I'm sharing live with Neil, for the first time this year, the gift that I've tried to give to Jesus, and to my family, by trying to overcome a character weakness of mine and improve personally in this one way to try to become more like Jesus. Today’s episode is brought to you in part by Troomi Wireless. Get the safe phone that grows with your kids by going to troomi.com and entering in code MINTARROW at checkout for 50% off a Troomi phone. Time Stamps:[01:26] - Corrine and Neil are excited for the holiday season. What do these special end-of-year holidays mean to them?[03:42] - Let’s talk about how to know if you’re giving a good gift. Corrine references a talk by Henry B. Eyring.[06:08] - Expert givers let their receivers sense that their sacrifice brings them joy.[08:30] - Neil recalls an amazing gift in a time when his family needed a kind gesture.[10:58] - What does it mean to give your time?[12:30] - Here is where you can find small ideas on giving gifts each day.[14:06] - Corrine and Neil talk about sending cheer through giving machines.[16:43] - Make giving easier by following gift ideas that are laid out.[19:10] - How can you make gift giving special for kids without overdoing it?[21:22] - Some parents create unrealistic expectations around gifts for their kids.[24:04] - Corrine reminisces on the car she got as a gift and compares it to the gifts of her friends.[26:54] - Here is how you can involve kids in gift-giving.[29:01] - Corrine gives an example of her own mother using a strategy to get the family to participate in giving.[31:39] - Corrine explains her feelings about giving a gift to Jesus.[33:24] - Corrine shares what her gift to Jesus was this year. She starts with why she struggled to choose a gift.[36:11] - Corrine shares what her gift to Jesus was this year. What clicked that inspired this year’s gift?[38:34] - Neil gives his thoughts after finding out about Corrine’s gift.[40:20] - Corrine talks about the idea that you can give gifts bit by bit as a reflection of the Savior.[42:44] - Neil reminds everyone that the ability to choose is a gift. What does your gift-giving say about your agency?[44:28] - Do one little thing each day when you can. Supporting Resources: Light the World: Find ways to give and serve on giving Tuesday and in the month of December. Find a giving machine  “Gifts of Love: A Christmas Message” Talk by Henry B. EyringSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Angie Balfour is the Chief People Officer at Weave, a Utah company that just went public last week. She has worked in HR really since high school (more on that in a minute) and before becoming an executive at Weave, she worked as the head of Human Resources at Instagram, a Human Resources Business Partner at Facebook, and before that she worked all over the world for a company called Fairchild Semiconductor in all aspects of their HR, talent and leadership management. Today I'm asking Angie some of the questions that she's helped me with the most over the years when it comes to HR, everything from how to hire well to how to manage teams effectively, how to intentionally invite more diversity, and how to treat others well who go through a health crisis. Angie also shares with me what she's learned personally in her pursuit of success in her career, and what she learned from battling two types of cancer 5 years ago. Angie has been one of my dearest friends for years, the type of person who I call with advice and ALWAYS hang up feeling a thousand times better, more empowered and inspired, and I am certain she'll leave you feeling the same way today too. Today's episode is brought to you by Troomi Wireless. Get the safe phone that grows with your kids. Go to troomi.com and enter code bf50 to get 50% off a Troomi phone. This week’s episode is also sponsored by Better Help. Join over one million people who have taken charge of their mental health. Go to betterhelp.com/mintarrow and get 10% off your first month of counseling. Time Stamps:[01:13] - What led Angie Balfour to be interested in HR? Hint: This involves a high school crush, a competition, and an encouraging stranger.[03:52] - Angie says she took on assignments no one wanted to do in the HR space and this helped move her towards an executive role.[06:18] - Angie explains that she originally turned down the opportunity to Facebook. What changed her mind?[09:09] - When she was young, Angie says her parents were very encouraging towards her taking ownership of her life.[11:56] - Angie points out her HR tips for defining the role and reimagining how new hires fit in a business.[14:45] - Why does Angie suggest paying attention to problem solving questions and on-boarding relationships in HR strategies?[16:51] - What is the “new-employee-lense” that businesses can leverage for their operations?[19:11] - Listen to Angie share a moment of learning how to better communicate with her team members.[20:46] - Angie talks about taking feedback and hiring people who are “smarter” than yourself.[22:27] - A good team focuses on identifying the needs together rather than clashing within the team.[24:50] - Listen to Angie speak about how her job responded after she received her cancer diagnosis.[27:14] - When someone is going through something hard, Angie suggests to support that person in the way that works for them.[28:48] - What did Angie learn about vulnerability during her cancer journey?[30:32] - Angie uses her cancer experience to give insight and offer a listening ear to others going through a similar journey.[33:32] - Angie shares what she felt in the moment that Weave went public.[36:30] - What is Angie’s goal for her life and career?[39:01] - Angie talks about her journey to be more fit, and how she is staying excited for the future.[40:48] - Listen to these tips for stepping up diversity strategies. Angie gets candid about the learning process of diversity in business.[43:42] - Angie shares her thoughts on creating supportive atmospheres for diversity.[45:14] - Reflecting on life experiences, Angie discusses the idea of having privilege and opening opportunities for others.[47:14] - Angie says we can all make a difference wherever we are.[49:23] - Angie congratulates Corrine on her work with Mint Arrow Messages so far. Supporting Resources:Angie BalfourLinkedInFacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever driven down the 5 freeway in San Diego and seen the huge glowing temple from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and wondered what the heck goes on in there, or you've seen us talk about going to the temple weekly on our stories and wondered why we’re so obsessed with hanging out there, or even if you're a member but are struggling with getting to the temple, today we're talking about all these things. We're first breaking down some of the basics of the temple, and then sharing some personal experiences and blessings we've received in the temple, and why it's so vital for us to keep going. Today's episode is brought to you by Troomi Wireless. Get the safe phone that grows with your kids. Go to troomi.com and enter code bf50 to get 50% off a Troomi phone. Today’s episode is also brought to you by Away Travel. Explore Away’s full range of all things travel and start your 100 day trial today by going to awaytravel.com/mintarrow. Time Stamps:[00:40] - Corrine and Neil explain why they go to the temple and what they do during the visits.[02:41] - Corrine and Neil explain the difference between temples and chapels. Is either open to the public?[05:13] - Being part of the church includes following the Law of Tithing, the Law of Chastity, and the Word of Wisdom. Corrine reassures that no one expects you to follow these perfectly.[08:05] - If you’re not prepared to make the covenants, you can move at your own pace. The important part is that you make an effort to follow the covenants.[11:05] - Before being a member of the church or being of age to enter temples, people can attend a temple open house while the temple is not dedicated.[13:24] - What happens inside the temples? Why do people need to be careful of where they get information about temples?[15:13] - Corrine and Neil explain the origin of baptism and temple marriages.[16:49] - Temple marriages for the eternal family unit can happen before or after a family comes together. [19:22] - Endowment is where you learn about the creation of the world, blessings, and more.[20:59] - Corrine retells the story of how the Disney World ride “It’s a Small World” reminds her of the promises of the temple.[22:58] - Don’t feel pressured or overwhelmed by learning about the temple and covenants.[25:25] - What is the Celestial room? Corrine expresses why going to the temple was beneficial for her relationship with Neil.[28:41] - What can you do if there’s resistance, whether internal or external, when you try to go to the temple?[31:19] - Corrine and Neil talk about when they first decided to do weekly temple visits. [33:24] - How did Corrine and Neil keep up with temple visits when real life situations fought for their attention?[34:35] - Being in the temple, so close to heaven, Corrine says she was able to get comfort in those moments.[36:52] - The more you visit the temple, the deeper the connection settles. Neil shares how he was able to simplify his approach to strengthen his spirituality while facing life.[38:31] - Neil says he notices when he does this particular thing life turns out better than he could ever imagine.[41:17] - The promise of happiness is built on agency, but remember that you have a choice.[43:50] - The temple is where you can get the strength to do what you need to do. Supporting Resources: Current LDS temple open houses Video clips about LDS temples and what goes on inside1 Corinthians 15:29 “Else what shall they do which are baptized for the dead, if the dead rise not at all? Why are they then baptized for the dead?” Video about our friends Ryan and Natalie going through the temple for the first time “Becoming Exemplary Latter-Day Saints” Talk by Russell M. Nelson on making an appointment (temple appointment) with the Lord and keeping it with exactness and joy.  “Make Time for the Lord” Talk by Russell M. NelsonSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A couple months ago, I found myself in Mexico COVERED in bug bites! They were so bad I literally couldn't sleep. So I asked my Instagram besties for advice...like the kind you ask when you're desperate for any solution. And one girl told me to go to the Instagram account Phil's My Pharmacist to look up his bug bite hack. And the next thing I knew, I was mixing up some really random stuff in my hotel bathroom and putting this pink paste all over my body. But it worked!! So I posted a little thank you video to Phil on Instagram, and that was the start of an awesome friendship with Phil's My Pharmacist.Today I sit down with Phil to ask him all about his journey to becoming a pharmacist, why he wanted to do this as a career, and what some of the most rewarding things are about being a pharmacist. He talks to me about mental health, not judging others, how a good pharmacist will present you with over-the-counter options and education and let you decide, and some really solid advice about self-love and acceptance. He also talked to me about the best plan for taking opiates (after a surgery or when absolutely necessary) if you know you're prone to addiction, and how to safe-guard yourself from going into a dangerous situation that could lead to addiction. If you're not already Insta-friends with Phil and he's not your pharmacist yet, he probably will be by the end of this interview. Today's episode is brought to you by Troomi Wireless. Get the safe phone that grows with your kids. Go to troomi.com and enter code bf50 to get 50% off a Troomi phone. Time Stamps:[01:20] - Corrine talks about how she became friends with Phil's My Pharmacist.[02:50] - Phil says he originally pursued being a doctor. He says this incident was a sign that he should seek another path.[05:43] - Once Phil switched over to pharmacy school, did he love the programs?[07:45] - Phil values an approach of telling people “what they can do” instead of “what to do”.[10:26] - Being accessible to the community as a pharmacist helps everyone be informed. What are Phil’s thoughts on the generous interactions between pharmacists and community members?[12:25] - Corrine shares a story about the time during her pregnancy where a pharmacist helped her address a bad cold.[14:11] - What are Phil’s thoughts on the usage of essential oils?[15:59] - Phil shares his encouraging thoughts on why people should let go of stigmas surrounding mental health.[17:38] - Corrine opens up as she reflects on her journey of including medicine in her mental health care.[20:04] - Corrine and Phil admire the strength and courage required to take ownership of mental health.[21:48] - Different from a few decades ago, kids of today are exposed to a lot more, which impacts the mental health of youth. [23:57] - How can we help kids deal with anxiety? Can kids move past anxiety by acknowledging the feeling is there?[26:48] - Accept all feelings, and teach people to deal with the feelings.[28:08] - Connecting a mental health approach to addressing drug addiction is the way that Phil imagines we can “rehumanize” how individuals are treated.[30:56] - Addiction is more connected to escapism than euphoria.[34:11] - Phil breaks down his suggestions for painkiller management for people concerned about possible addiction.[36:34] - What is the backstory that influences painkiller usage and pain tolerance in the medical field?[39:34] - As a community pharmacist, Phil knows a lot of personal information on his community members. Does it ever get awkward with his friends?[42:34] - Did Phil figure out a new remedy for keratosis pilaris? [45:22] - Phil gives his list of items every household should have in relation to health and medicine.[48:22] - No one can like you more than you like yourself.[49:46] - Keep a look out for Phil's My Pharmacist! Supporting Resources:Phil’s Pharmacy in Cache Valley Utah Pharmacist IG  Phils My Pharmacist on YouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you heard Robert Downey Jr’s comeback story? If not, you're in for a treat because it's a good one. We're sharing that and some of our other favorite examples and thoughts on how to overcome your rock bottom places in life and that it's never too late to go where you need to go and become who you need to be. This week’s episode is sponsored in part by Ana Luisa Jewelry. Treat yourself and your loved ones to beautiful sustainable jewelry. Go to shop.analuisa.com/mintarrow and use code MINTARROW for 10% off.This week’s episode is also sponsored by Better Help. Join over one million people who have taken charge of their mental health. Go to betterhelp.com/mintarrow and get 10% off your first month of counseling. Time Stamps:[00:24] - What inspired today’s topic?[02:09] - From an early age, Robert Downey Jr’s environment exposed him to drugs and fame.[04:07] - In the early 2000s, Robert Downey Jr’s tumultuous relationship with substances and arrests drove him to his rock bottom.[05:32] - How did Mel Gibson help Robert Downey Jr. secure a chance to show he changed for the better?[07:38] - Neil talks about the realistic dynamics of a comeback story. It’s not always quick like the triumphant stories in movies.[09:58] - Age can seem like a limiting factor, but it’s actually not much of a factor at all.[11:37] - A comeback story can be gradual and occur day by day. Neil reads an excerpt that explains how subtle change is still a real experience.[13:12] - Here is context on great figures used as examples of powerful stories.[14:43] - How do Corrine and Neil resonate with the idea of a gradual comeback story?[16:04] - Corrine mentions her grandfather who experienced a major positive change later in life. [18:43] - What can you do if you find yourself running into the same mistakes?[20:58] - Most people go through a lot of trial and error before “hitting it big”. Keep this in mind before giving up.[23:38] - Corrine expresses her thoughts about refocusing our personal perspective of life. Neil reminds everyone to not get caught in the entitlement trap of thinking about what “should” happen.[26:29] - What can keep someone motivated to take the most helpful and efficient actions?[28:57] - Corrine shares how she gets through the day with intention and what helps her make decisions.[30:28] - Corrine reflects on understanding her habit of being future-orientated.[33:17] - Corrine talks about being a superwoman as she balances family and business.[35:54] - When did Corrine stop trying to fight for control of things that were out of her hands?[38:25] - What are the positives Corrine remembers that came around during and after her divorce process.[41:22] - How did Corrine gather strength when trying to move forward in her life?[42:51] - There will always be hard times. Here is the choice we all have to make them better.[45:21] - Corrine and Neil discuss how you can make your journey easier or tougher depending on your choice.[48:02] - Look at the future knowing it’s all going to be okay.[50:33] - It’s okay if you’re taking the tiniest baby steps in your comeback story. You’re still progressing. Supporting Resources:Book “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill  “Give Us This Day OUr Daily Bread” Talk by D. Todd ChristoffersonSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Terah Belle is the mother of a very special little girl named Indy Llew, who stole the hearts of thousands of people across the globe. Indy was born with down syndrome in May of 2016, and although it was a scary and unexpected diagnosis at first for Terah, she says it turned out to be the best thing about Indy. Terah shares what it's like to have a daughter with down syndrome, and then what it was like watching Indy go through chemotherapy to stop early stages of Leukemia, only to have it return later and her to fight cancer for a second time. Indy's earthly life ended far too early, in June of 2021 just after her 5th birthday, but her story and her light and joy and courage continues to inspire and touch the lives of thousands of people. This interview felt like a sacred gift, a tender and raw and heart-felt journey between a mother and a daughter. Terah shared with me so many miracles and tender mercies and little ways that she sees Indy all the time in her life, and I felt the warmth and truthfulness of that as we talked about her sweet Indy. I wish we could've had Indy speak today too, but this next sound clip will give you a tiny piece of the magic of Indy Llew.Time Stamps:[01:10] - Listen to this next sound clip that gives you a tiny piece of the magic of Indy Llew. [04:08] - Terah Belle shares the moments right after Indy Llew’s birth when she learnt of her daughter having Down syndrome.[06:10] - How long did it take for Terah and her husband to accept the Down syndrome diagnosis?[08:44] - Terah talks about the travel adventures of mommy, daddy, and joyful Indy Llew.[10:57] - Why did Terah get the feeling she needed to share the story of Indy Llew as the family developed on this journey?[13:12] - These were the first signs that there may be more going on with Indy Llew. Terah shares her thoughts about the red flags she noticed.[15:12] - After moving to a new location for Indy Llew’s health, Terah says Indy Llew showed signs of Lukemia.[18:08] - Terah describes the back and forth of trying to confirm Indy Llew’s cancerous diagnosis.[20:33] - What did the family do to make the hospital like a home?[22:20] - Terah talks about the blessings and pleasant surprises in the middle of Indy Llew’s journey.[25:01] - What kind of big sister was Indy Llew after Terah gave birth to new baby girl Birdy?[27:34] - Terah and her family are very intentional about protecting Indy Llew’s presence and memory.[29:33] - Terah agrees that the ones who are no longer with us on Earth are able to be present with us in a whole new way.[31:17] - Terah recaps the two years before Indy Llew’s passing and describes the sequences of events that no one could predict.[34:04] - What happened when a seemingly successful transplant procedure took a turn?[35:42] - Terah says this was the moment she realized Indy Llew had one foot on either side of life.[37:58] - People pulled together to support Indy Llew and her family. Terah describes the miracle her daughter experienced as others kept Indy Llew in their thoughts.[39:59] - Indy Llew became a light for others during the global pandemic.[42:42] - Terah talks about the shock of a drastic turn in Indy Llew’s health.[45:14] - Listen to Terah share the mindset behind a tough decision right before the final moments of spending time with joyful Indy Llew.[48:13] - What moments made Terah feel less alone? How did Indy Llew’s story impact people who followed her journey?[50:58] - Here is the ultimate reason Terah shares the legacy of Indy Llew.[52:39] - Remember, the veil between either side of life does not separate us as much as we think. Terah says her journey with her family brought her closer to heaven.[55:10] - The journey of Terah and her family continues. Supporting Resources:Instagram @terahbelle Facebook @terahbelleTerah Belle See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.