
The Blueprint
Welcome to The Blueprint Podcast with Jason Smith.
Struggling with relationships, self-doubt, or old patterns? You’re not alone—and you’re in the right place.
This show is about real personal growth through The Pivot Path™, The 5 R’s, and The Self-Discovery Blueprint. We cover healing attachment patterns, building secure relationships, and creating sustainable change.
I’m Jason Smith—coach, speaker, and former law enforcement officer. I help people untangle the past, reconnect to who they are, and move forward with clarity and confidence.
If you’re ready to stop surviving and start becoming—subscribe and Take a Walk With Me.
Latest episodes

Jun 29, 2023 • 5min
Ep.28 Journaling and Knowing You Can Do More
In today’s episode we discuss The Daily Stoic Journal and pieces of My Story of Resilience
If you’re not familiar with the daily stoic journal this a great opportunity to get acquainted with journaling, managing your mind, and cultivating emotional resilience.
So what is it? Written by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman the Daily Stoic Journal is 366 days of writing and reflection on the art of living.
The journal provides you with 52 stoic disciplines or practices, one for each week of the year and the authors provide a little guidance on the significance and application of those practices and follow it up with quotes from the Stoics.
What stoics you may ask? Seneca, Epictetus, Diogenes, and Marcus Aurelius
I first started using this journal and it’s prompts on September 29th, 2021. I was physically and mentally going through a difficult time with two injuries that resulted in shoulder surgery and on-going neck pain that I’m still dealing with today.
This isn’t a a poor me story, if you’ve seen my home gym then you know I’m in it every day and will keep working to regain mobility in my neck, but this is a part of my story of resilience.
The daily stoic journal helped guide from a place of why this is happening to me to everything is happening for me.
You see, without that injury, I never would have created a platform on social media where I help others build a better relationship with themselves so they can have the types of relationships with others that they desire.
Here’s the funny part, I had no idea how to journal. It’s true, you hear me talk about how wonderful it is but like you I procrastinated using this tool because I didn’t understand it’s value or how to use it effectively. So I looked online and searched for videos on how to journal, benefits of journaling, best ways to journal, and the answer was always the same in the few videos I found. There is no right way, you just start.
The year prior I had a gratitude journal that I struggled with because I was unable to tap into any other parts of me, so it quickly became, I have gratitude for my dog Chloe, my house, my home gym, the opportunities I’ve been given, air.
The daily stoic offered something different. It tapped into my thoughts, feelings, and emotions. The first journal prompt was on September 29th and it goes like this “Where are my eyes bigger than my stomach?”
I didn’t know what to write so I put that I had physical therapy and went to Panera for coffee and a bagel but that quickly shifted into my role as a police officer was fun and fed a part of my chaotic soul until I began unlearning decades of negative emotional programming.
A shift happened in my writing, and I tuned into or attuned to my inner being, that inner knowing, that piece of me that was dormant for so long that I felt emotionally closed off to the world around me. What came out on the page was it’s time to start growing again, to stop living small, and what I was doing for a career isn’t small, but I had an inner knowing that I could and should be doing more to help others.
Inside the daily stoic underneath the daily prompt, you have space for a morning and evening reflection. My evening reflection that night was an experience I had earlier in the day where group think was of guilt, fear, shame, rumor and gossip. I easily could have been pulled into it but I stepped back and reminded myself that is outside of me, (None of my business) I cannot control how others react, but I can control how I respond and what emotions I absorb from others.
The mantra for that evening I created for myself was Breathe, Be Free, and Let Go!
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Jun 28, 2023 • 35min
Ep. 27 Bringing Well Being Into the World with Wellness Consultant and Behavioral Health Coach Leighanne Gerstbrein
Join us for an inspiring podcast episode of The Blueprint Podcast featuring Leighanne Gerstbrein, a former Division I college athlete, with a passion for well-being. With over 8 years of experience in the health and wellness field, our guest noticed a common trend: people know what they should do for their well-being, but struggle to take action. This led Leighanne to a profound realization that transformation is about understanding one's behavior and thoughts and that understanding is the catalyst for sustainable change. Leighanne's qualifications include a Master of Arts in Health Studies, a Bachelor of Science in Exercise Science, and certifications as a Certified Health Education Specialist (CHES), ACSM Exercise Physiologist, and PN Level 1 Nutrition Coach. Prepare for an enlightening conversation as we delve into mindfulness, wellness, and human behavior, and discover how you can create lasting change in your life. https://lgbwell.com https://www.instagram.com/lgbwell

Jun 20, 2023 • 1h
Ep. 26 Nathan Mansfield Special Warfare Veteran turned CEO on Men's Mental Health and Personal Growth
Welcome to an extraordinary episode of The Blueprint Podcast! Join us for an insightful conversation with Nathan Mansfield, an exceptional entrepreneur, military veteran, and CEO who has greatly impacted the fitness & mindset industry with his foundation building program, "33 Hours." As the owner of a successful nutrition company, Nathan's expertise and leadership have propelled him to create a special fitness program tailored specifically for men. Discover the captivating journey behind the development of "33 Hours," as Nathan shares his experiences, challenges, and the transformative impact this program has had on countless lives. Prepare to be inspired by his unwavering dedication, resilience, and commitment to unleashing the true potential within individuals. Tune in now for an empowering episode that will leave you motivated and ready to embrace your own fitness revolution! https://www.instagram.com/nathanmansfield If you or someone you know needs someone to talk to use the link below or dial 988. https://988lifeline.org/current-events/the-lifeline-and-988

Jun 12, 2023 • 5min
Ep. 25 Frustrated with the Avoidant
Today's episode is a short burst of information designed to get you thinking, answer your questions, or provide you with my personal perspective on various topics relating to personal development, fitness, attachment styles, and all the things that can make our daily lives just a little bit better.

Jun 5, 2023 • 49min
Ep. 24 Jennifer Sherlock Interviews me!
On this episode Jennifer Sherlock of the Live without a Net Podcast interviews me. Make sure you connect with Jen on her IG @jennifersherlock and her communications company @jennacomm.

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May 31, 2023 • 42min
Ep. 23 Masha Kay Nervous System & Breathwork Coach
Masha Kay, a nervous system and breathwork coach, discusses the transformative power of breath and its impact on the nervous system. She shares practical techniques to harness the benefits of conscious breathing, from calming the mind to enhancing mental clarity. They explore the role of breathwork in managing stress, anxiety, and trauma. The importance of self-regulation and co-regulation in relationships is also addressed. Masha highlights the significance of hugging and offers a special discount on her coaching services.

May 28, 2023 • 26min
Ep. 22 Jessica Baum, Author of Anxiously Attached
Jessica Baum is a psychotherapist, author, and founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach, a group practice providing couples therapy, family counseling, and addiction therapy in South Florida for over 10 years. Jessica has helped thousands of clients with her unique approach to healing called the Self-full® Method for those struggling with anxiety, relationship conflict, marital issues, and codependent relationships. She is also a certified Imago therapist, has extensive training in psychodrama and experiential therapy, and is skilled in cognitive behavioral therapy and dialectical behavior therapy. Through her sister company, Be Self-full®, Jessica offers transformational courses and online coaching to support individuals and couples form healthy, long-term relationships. She is also the author of Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love, having received worldwide praise by several experts in her industry. Born and raised in Manhattan, she now lives in Palm Beach, Florida. You can find Jessica on IG @jessicabaumlmhc and at beselffull.com

May 25, 2023 • 30min
Ep. 21 Diana Rodgers, RD - Sacred Cow, Lab Meat, & Sustainability
Welcome to The Blueprint Podcast with your host Jason Smith! In this captivating episode, we are joined by the extraordinary Diana Rodgers, the brilliant mind behind the groundbreaking book and film, Sacred Cow. Get ready for an insightful conversation as we delve into the intricate world of sustainable farming, regenerative agriculture, and the vital role of animal products in our diets. Diana Rodgers, a renowned creator, speaker, and advocate, brings her expertise to the forefront as we explore the intersection of nutrition, environmental sustainability, and ethical considerations. With her wealth of knowledge and captivating storytelling, Diana sheds light on the importance of embracing a holistic approach to food production and consumption. Throughout this thought-provoking episode, we'll dive deep into the fascinating concepts presented in Sacred Cow, challenging conventional wisdom and exploring the ways in which our food choices impact not only our health but also the planet we call home. Join us as we uncover the truth behind the misconceptions surrounding animal agriculture and discover how regenerative practices can transform our food system. If you're curious about the future of farming, passionate about sustainability, or simply seeking a fresh perspective on the role of animal products in a healthy diet, this episode is a must-listen. Jason Smith and Diana Rodgers provide a captivating dialogue that will leave you inspired and empowered to make informed decisions that positively impact both your well-being and the environment. Tune in now to The Blueprint Podcast, and join us on this transformative journey as we unravel the threads that connect our food choices to the blueprint of our world. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity to gain invaluable insights from the remarkable Diana Rodgers, and be sure to subscribe for more enlightening conversations with thought leaders, entrepreneurs, therapists, and relationship experts. https://www.instagram.com/sustainabledish

May 18, 2023 • 1h 40min
Ep. 20 Spirituality, Divine Feminine, & Relationships w/ Paola Michelle
In this week's episode of "The Blueprint" Podcast, join host Jason Smith and special guest Paola Michelle as they delve into spirituality, the divine feminine, and the transformative power of relationships. Prepare for a thought-provoking journey of self-discovery and enlightenment as Paola explores the depths of our spiritual existence. Paola, a renowned spiritual guide and intuitive mentor, shares her wisdom and insights on unlocking the secrets of spirituality. Through engaging conversations and personal anecdotes, she unravels the mysteries of the divine feminine, empowering individuals to embrace this energy and reach their fullest potential. Additionally, Paola explores the dynamic nature of relationships and the tremendous growth they can facilitate. Whether it's romantic connections, friendships, or family ties, she provides guidance on nurturing healthy, meaningful relationships that foster personal and spiritual growth. "The Blueprint" is more than just a podcast; it's an immersive experience that encourages reflection, expands consciousness, and taps into your innate spiritual power, all while healing your insecure attachment style. Tune in now to join the journey of transformation with "The Blueprint" and its insightful hosts. https://www.instagram.com/paolllamichellle https://www.tiktok.com/@paolllamichellle?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

May 12, 2023 • 58min
Ep. 19 Tiktok's Cloetalk on Dating in L.A.
Welcome to the latest episode of our The Blueprint Podcast! This time, we're excited to have a special guest, Cloetalk from TikTok, joining us for a discussion on some juicy topics. https://www.tiktok.com/@cloetalk?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc In this episode, we dive deep into the world of dating and relationships, exploring the nuances of attachment styles and the challenges of finding love in the fast-paced city of Los Angeles. Cloetalk brings her unique perspective to the conversation, drawing on her personal experiences and insights from her popular TikTok account. From navigating the complexities of modern dating to learning how to overcome insecurities and build stronger connections, this episode is packed with practical advice and fascinating insights. Whether you're a seasoned dater or just starting out, this episode is sure to offer plenty of food for thought. So sit back, relax, and join us for an entertaining and insightful conversation with Cloetalk on all things dating and relationships!
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