It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
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To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.
Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!
A Sony Music Entertainment production.
Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts
To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com
To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.
And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
Episodes
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Sep 20, 2023 • 38min
How The Russell Brand Allegations Have Revealed Social Media Misogyny
Lala delivers a special episode discussing the mainstream narrative around sexual assault and celebrity. She looks at the harmful reactions to rape allegations, particularly within online platforms, dissecting the disturbing trend of blaming victims and the culture that enables abusers, whilst also shedding light on the painful reality for those victims.
TRIGGER WARNING - This episode discusses rape and sexual abuse.
DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions.
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Russel Brand’s YouTube channel - So, This is Happening - SOURCE - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGr_PVUHn2I Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Sep 18, 2023 • 24min
Track Your Cycle to Change Your Life
Lala is talking all about periods, looking at her personal experiences along with the historical and societal stigmas surrounding menstruation. She’s exploring the emotional, physical and mental effects of the menstrual cycle along with the spiritual power periods can hold.
Got a question, for Lala? She’s all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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TED - The Power of the Period – Lucy Peach. Source -
https://www.ted.com/talks/lucy_peach_the_power_of_the_period
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Sep 15, 2023 • 23min
Polyamory Red Flag and The Power Of Forest Gump
Ever been in a relationship where you noticed something slightly off? That your gut is trying to tell you something? Luckily for you Lala is here, the aunt to your agony. In this episode she’s exploring potential red flags that occur through the nuances of physical intimacy, chatting with other people whilst in a relationship, and the mysterious case of deleted messages.
Plus, Icks return featuring armpit hair and crying whilst watching Forest Gump!
Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Sep 13, 2023 • 20min
Lost in Translation, Love Bombing and Navigating Infidelity
How do you differentiate between someone that’s really into you or someone that’s love bombing you? Have you ever had a flirty joke not land and result in a communication break down? Is it possible to forgive infidelity whilst managing the challenges of dating someone in the military? Lala gives her insights and advice on navigating these complex situations.
Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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Sep 11, 2023 • 17min
'Slut Shaming' Her To Get To Him – Logan Paul vs Dillon Danis
Lala looks at the toxic culture and conversations around slut shaming women, in the wake of the recent internet feud between Logan Paul and Dillon Danis.
In the lead up to their boxing match Dillon Danis has been posting photos of Logan Paul’s fiancée, Nina Agdal with other men, in an attempt to shame and humiliate Logan Paul, whilst perpetuating the harmful narratives of women's sexuality. This isn't just about a celebrity boxing match; it's a glaring reflection of the double standards and damaging accounts about women's sexuality that persist today.
DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas.
And to keep across the conversation head to @lalalaletmeexplain on Instagram.
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Clip 1 Strawberry Park YouTube Channel. The Logan Paul Dillon Danis Situation Just Got Worse… Source https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGuW10ZxQT4
Clip 2 JAMARI YouTube Channel. The Logan Paul Situation Gets MUCH WORSE. Source https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrOdDcb0Ci0 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Sep 8, 2023 • 24min
Untamed Bush and Bringing Lube To a First Date
The amazing Grace Campbell is back for round two!! Grace joins Lala to dissect some juicy dating dilemma’s. Does penis size matter? Is turning up to a first date with lube a red flag and when should you have 'the relationship label' conversation?
Plus Grace tells us her Icks and delivers her Friday night reminder to set you on the right path this weekend.
Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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Sep 6, 2023 • 24min
Feeld, Female Misogynist and an Overly Familiar Ex
How do you play the ‘Feeld’? Feeld is a non-monogamous dating app. Is it possible to have fun on there and stay safe? Ever found yourself at odds with a friend whose views have drastically diverged from yours? Would you let your partner carry on a friendship with his ex? Lala gives her insights and advice on navigating these complex situations.
Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly
OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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Sep 4, 2023 • 19min
Two Banana’s, A Blood Bath And a Trip to A&E
La La recalls a hilarious and unnerving encounter from her twenties. Hear how a simple festival meetup and a seemingly innocent picnic date took a shocking turn, taking in drugs, sex and more than a little bit of blood. Enjoy this ‘eye’ opening tale that almost ended in an emergency visit to the hospital and a potential man(hood) slaughter charge!
If you’ve got any dating horror stories you’d like to share please get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram.
Let's use our experiences to educate and protect each other as we navigate this journey together!
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Sep 1, 2023 • 23min
The Lighthouse Family Ick, Misogynist Red Flags and The Lasagne Virgin
The Icks are back and this week La La has ‘Lifted’ the hopes of a Lighthouse Family super fan and tackles a new love interest who has never tried lasagne!!?? Plus, the body count discussion is back in this week’s listener Red Flag.
Got a question, an ick story or a red flag you need help with? We're all ears! Get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!
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OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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Aug 30, 2023 • 23min
Is Porn Making Men Bad in Bed?
Your cousin’s older partner makes a move on you, how do you deal with it!? How would you help a friend in an abusive relationship and how do you recognise the red flags? What affect does porn have on sexual computability and can you change a partner’s sexual habits? Lala answers all these question in this episode!
DM Lala on Instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain with your questions and dating dilemmas. No topic is off limits or too embarrassing. Lala is here to shed light on those areas of life we’re questioning.
And to keep across the conversation head to @lalalaletmeexplain on Instagram.
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