Charis Your Life with Charis Santillie

JD Messinger is 1 of 37 Distinguished Graduates from the U.S. Naval Academy class of 1981; a nuclear submarine officer; former CEO of Ernst & Young Consulting, TV and CNN radio show producer and host. He is a 5-time award-winning #1 Amazon best-selling author of 11 Days in May and is currently the CEO of The Messinger Institute.In this episode, I welcome back JD for the second part of our insightful conversation series. We go deeper into his experiences, focusing on his book ‘11 Days in May.’ I highlight key moments from his book, showcasing his courage in sharing deeply personal experiences and beliefs. What You’ll Learn:- Insights from JD's book ‘11 Days in May’ and the impact of his authenticity on others- The challenges JD faced as a highly regarded corporate executive in sharing his deeply personal experiences- Practical techniques to enhance mindfulness, even in the midst of challenging situations- The difference between mindfulness and being present and their significance in personal evolution- Insights into the scientific foundations of intuition, exploring the energy spectrum and how our brains process intuitive information- How to trust your intuition and decipher the signals your body and heart provide, guiding you toward authentic choices and a fulfilling life- Understand the internal struggle between the conscious mind and the subconscious and how this conflict manifests in everyday lifeResources: - You can also watch the video of this interview on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/ncVWrWGwElE- Episode #79 Charis Chats with JD Messinger Part 1 - Listen here: https://pod.fo/e/1f84ac; or watch it here: https://youtu.be/m9IXCimzHW0- The Messinger Institute's website: https://www.themessingerinstitute.com/- The Messinger Institute's Harmony Retreat in September 2024: https://www.themessingerinstitute.com/HarmonyRetreat - Book '11 Days in May' by JD Messinger: https://amzn.to/46jEAE2 (affiliate link)- Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Remember the 80s movie, “Romancing the Stone” with Michael Douglas and Kathleen Turner?Today I’m sharing how a scene from that film provides a vivid metaphor for the process of change. I explore the challenge of breaking away from patterned thoughts and behaviors, likening it to Michael Douglas's character, Jack, when he was hacking through a jungle in a storm with his machete. Understanding this visual can offer perspective and compassion when you’re struggling with change.What You'll Learn:- The significance of neural pathways and their role in shaping our behaviors.- Why breaking away from familiar patterns can feel as challenging as carving a path with a machete through a dense jungle.- How intuition plays a vital role in navigating change.- The importance of compassion for yourself and others when facing the difficulties of transformation.Resources: - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

In this episode, I reflect on a powerful insight inspired by Esther and Abraham Hicks, who often say, "Get ready to be ready to be ready to be ready." Sometimes, you’re not immediately ready to address certain issues and have uncomfortable conversations, and that's perfectly fine. There’s value in considering your own readiness when it comes to timing, self-trust, and giving yourself permission to prepare.What You’ll Learn:- The significance of the phrase "Get ready to be ready to be ready to be ready"- The value of acknowledging when you're not ready to address certain situations- Balancing your need to express yourself and considering potential reactions- How to give yourself permission to take the time you need to be ready, yet not using that as an excuse to not speak up and get your needs metResources: - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Here’s a transformative concept: Contrary to what culture tells you, the most important person in your life should be YOU. I explore the liberating impact of putting yourself first, debunking misconceptions around selfishness. Let’s look at how your mental, emotional, and physical well-being, have a ripple effect impacting your relationships and the world around you.What You’ll Learn:- Why considering yourself the most important person in your life is not selfish, but essential- Learn how self-importance leads to stability, contentment, and genuine lasting fulfillment that transcends fleeting happiness- The impact of paying attention to your thoughts, emotions, and physical well-being on your authenticity- How authenticity and self-importance are interconnected and together form a solid foundation for more genuine connections with othersWhat would be possible if you prioritized yourself? What impact would it have on your well-being and relationships? What if you put yourself first and learn the art of balancing self-focus with genuine care for others? 🌱✨Resources: - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

JD is 1 of 37 Distinguished Graduates from the U.S. Naval Academy class of 1981; a nuclear submarine officer, former CEO of Ernst & Young Consulting, TV and CNN radio show producer and host. He is a 5-time award-winning #1 Amazon best-selling author of 11 Days in May and is currently the CEO of The Messinger Institute. In this introductory episode of my series with JD, we explore the parallels in our lives, including his twice-broken neck and my father’s broken neck, the pursuit of external success, and the realization that true happiness was eluding us. JD shares his incredible story of resilience and transformation, from his days as a nuclear submarine officer to becoming a CEO and ultimately, his life-altering experiences of breaking his neck not once, but twice.What You’ll Learn:- JD's miraculous recovery story after breaking his neck two times- Gain insights from JD's spiritual journey, including his transformative experience with his son, Grant- Explore diverse gifts such as intuition, empathic abilities, insights, creativity, and innovation- Discover the importance of removing Faulty, Limited, or Outdated Programs (“FLOPS”) to enhance personal growth- Discover the impact of labels and boxes in shaping identity and learn how to break free from limiting beliefs- Reflect on the importance of inner change for creating lasting life transformationsJD Messinger and I embark on a powerful conversation about life's synchronicities, challenges, and the hero's journey. Discover the power of belief, energy, and the call to adventure that shapes our lives. 🌟✨You can also watch the video of this interview on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/m9IXCimzHW0Resources: - The Messinger Institute's website: https://www.themessingerinstitute.com/- The Messinger Institute's Harmony Retreat in September 2024: https://www.themessingerinstitute.com/HarmonyRetreat - Book '11 Days in May' by JD Messinger: https://amzn.to/46jEAE2 (affiliate link)- Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

When I’m really stuck on making a decision, I have a "magical six-month question" that really gets to the core of what I truly want. I ask myself if I only had 6 more months to live, what decision would I have no regret about making, and what decision would I regret making? This question, seemingly simple yet incredibly powerful, reveals your true desires, often hidden beneath layers of fear. Once you identify those desires, you have the opportunity to find the courage to face your fears and make choices aligned with your deepest wishes.What You’ll Learn:- Understand the transformative potential of my "magical six-month question" - Recognize the common fear that hinders decision-making and learn to overcome it, paving the way for new choices- Explore the profound impact of aligning decisions with genuine desires, leading to transformative life changes- Embrace the idea of living a life that brings more joy, free from regretsJoin me as we embark on a journey of self-discovery through the lens of my "magical six-month question." Unravel the layers of uncertainty and fear, and choose to find the courage to make decisions that align with your truest self. 🌟✨Resources: - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

In this episode, I introduce you to the unique and deeply personal mantra that has transformed my approach to life: Flow for it™ "Flow for it" is my personal adaptation of the common phrase, "Go for it." I explain how this motto has helped me become open to new perspectives, allowing me to embrace the natural flow of life and find more inner peace. I invite you to consider integrating "Flow for it" into your own life, providing a fresh lens through which to navigate your journey.What You’ll Learn:- Discover my motto "Flow for it" and its origin- Understand the distinction between "Go for it" and "Flow for it" in terms of mindset and approach- Explore the concept of being present and embracing the flow of life- Consider how adopting the motto "Flow for it" can lead to more peace of mind and a calmer lifeTake a moment to reflect on how this new approach could positively impact your life and how this simple shift could lead to more inner peace. 🧘‍♂️🌿Resources: - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

The day I’m recording this episode is my late mother's 74th birthday. During the recording, you’ll hear me decide, right as I’m talking to you, that I want to change my language around her passing and choose to shift the narrative from "losing" her to saying she “moved on.” Words have tremendous power, and you’ll hear me practice what I teach as I decide to reframe something that didn’t feel supportive to me.You’ll also hear me explore the emotional challenges that business owners face when they exit their businesses, and the significance of each of us embracing (sooner than later) a CEO role in our lives…the role of the Chief Emotional Officer.™What You’ll Learn:- The profound impact of reframing our words to reshape our emotional experiences positively- Insights into the emotional struggles that business owners commonly encounter as they exit their business, including the misconception of retirement as a seamless transition- The concept of adopting the role of Chief Emotional Officer in our lives and the central role of emotions in achieving balance and fulfillment- How a coach can serve as a supportive guide through the emotional landscape, facilitating transformative growthDiscover the intrinsic connection between our feelings, desires, actions, and decisions, as I highlight the pivotal role emotions play in our lives.Resources: - Go here to see the fun photo I describe during the episode, of my Mom laughing, surrounded by bags and boxes of Pasta Mama’s pasta (she was Pasta Mama!) This photo captures how much she loved that business. https://www.charisyourlife.com/blog/be-the-ceo-of-your-life-chief-emotional-officer - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

I recently discovered beautiful and inspirational messages by artist Morgan Harper Nichols. Morgan recently posted a thought-provoking message on Instagram about her acoustic guitar. She compared the music created by an acoustic guitar to life's beauty emerging from darkness, and I also learned something about guitars that I didn’t know before! Her unique perspective highlights the idea that even in challenging times, there's a hidden source of beauty and creativity waiting to emerge.What You’ll Learn:- Discover the inspiring artist, Morgan Harper Nichols- Explore Morgan's analogy of music emerging from the darkness behind an acoustic guitar's strings- Reflect on the concept that beauty and creativity can arise from life's challenges- Find a link in the show notes to Morgan's Instagram page to join me in following her and enjoying her inspiring artwork and messagesLearn from Morgan and see how her analogy of music behind an acoustic guitar's strings can help you appreciate the hidden beauty in your own life. 🎶🌑Resources: - Morgan Harper Nichols on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/morganharpernichols/And the specific post by her that inspired this episode: https://www.instagram.com/p/CwsxnTCJCWu/?img_index=1- Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

In this episode, I'm excited to share 10 random and fun facts about myself as I celebrate my 48th birthday. From growing up in Washington State to my entrepreneurial journey and love for Broadway shows, this episode provides a unique insight into my life. I'll also touch on topics like intuition, wildlife photography, and the joy of listening to birds.What You'll Learn:- Get to know me on a personal level through 10 intriguing and fun facts.- Learn about my childhood hobbies and favorite school subjects.- Hear about my adventurous life experiences, including skydiving and traveling across the world.- Find out how I connect with nature through wildlife photography and birdwatching.This episode offers fun glimpses into all aspects of my life journey so far. 🌟📷Resources: - Podcast Ep. 065: Think of Your Age as Levels – https://pod.fo/e/18af96- Podcast Ep. 010: Life Lessons from My Time as a Dancer – https://pod.fo/e/133a6a- Podcast Ep. 020: Life Lessons from Drawing and Painting (for non-artists too) – https://pod.fo/e/1426e4- Podcast Ep. 015: Leap of Faith: I went Skydiving 1 Year after Hot Air Balloon Accident – https://pod.fo/e/13b56b- Podcast Ep. 016: My Birthday Story – https://pod.fo/e/13d11f- Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/