

Charis Your Life with Charis Santillie
Charis Santillie
The Charis Your Life® Podcast will help you live a thriving life. Are you a busy entrepreneur and love your work, yet you’re tired of feeling frenetic and out of control, trying to keep all of the balls in the air, with little time for yourself? Or are you now seeking a new purpose as the seasons in your life transition? Wherever you’re at right now, you know in your gut that there is more for you, and you want to become a better version of yourself. To the outside world, it looks as though you have it all together, but you know inside that you're craving more.
This show shares how to move into a more relaxed and calm place as you handle life’s inevitable twists and turns with grace and purpose, improving your health, your relationships, and your happiness. Hosted by Fearless Transitions Coach Charis Santillie (Speaker, Certified Fearless Living® Coach, Certified Fearless Trainer, and Positive Intelligence® Trainer), you'll learn actionable tips and deep inspiration to heal your life, take back control, and change your energy. This podcast is the one to listen to if you're ready to Charis Your Life.
This show shares how to move into a more relaxed and calm place as you handle life’s inevitable twists and turns with grace and purpose, improving your health, your relationships, and your happiness. Hosted by Fearless Transitions Coach Charis Santillie (Speaker, Certified Fearless Living® Coach, Certified Fearless Trainer, and Positive Intelligence® Trainer), you'll learn actionable tips and deep inspiration to heal your life, take back control, and change your energy. This podcast is the one to listen to if you're ready to Charis Your Life.
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Sep 4, 2023 • 16min
The Doorways to Choosing your Own Adventure
Instead of making decisions based on what “makes sense,” I invite you to tap into your other senses to help you live the life you secretly crave. Often, we rely solely on our analytical minds to make choices, but doing so usually limits our understanding of the opportunities that truly align with our desires. In this episode, we consider a hallway of doors, as I encourage you to embrace your senses, trust your gut feelings, and acknowledge your intuition in decision-making. There is so much power available to us when we listen to our other senses and not just our minds.What You’ll Learn:- Understand the concept of using multiple senses, intuition, and gut feelings to make choices.- Discover the value of embracing decisions that don't always make sense on paper.- Explore the idea of a "choose your own adventure" life where various doorways are available for exploration.- How science has recently proven that we have a sixth senseUncover the secrets to more mindful and intuitive decision-making. Join me as we navigate a hallway of doors, embracing choices that resonate with our senses and open up new, exciting pathways. 🚪✨Resources: - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Aug 28, 2023 • 22min
Pulling the Weeds from Your Life
In this episode, I draw inspiration from more gardening metaphors — this time, they are specifically connected to weeding and cleaning up our outdoor potted succulent garden. As I removed dead leaves, uprooted weeds, and trimmed spent flower stalks, simple lessons emerged around decluttering our lives, addressing intrusive elements of our lives, and embracing the cyclical nature of our own growth.What You'll Learn:- Discover the meaningful insights that some more (yep! I just can’t stop finding these!) gardening metaphors can offer for personal growth and addressing life's challenges- Understand the significance of decluttering while embracing our natural phases- Learn valuable lessons about addressing the “weeds” of our lives and the deliberate, gradual effort required to remove them- Gain insights into the importance of slowing down, listening to your intuition, and embracing life's ebb and flow- Discover the value of coaching in navigating life's complexities and applying these lessons effectivelyExplore the wisdom of the garden as I share insights from tending to outdoor potted plants. Resources: - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Aug 21, 2023 • 14min
How to Adjust after Life-Changing Events
In this episode, I'm excited to share some insights that surfaced during the recent monthly call inside my Busy to Balanced™ program. One of my members had asked for guidance with finding balance after a life-changing event. A beautiful metaphor spontaneously emerged, and I'm eager to share it with you. This episode highlights the importance of nurturing ourselves during times of significant change, drawing a comparison to transplanting plants and offering valuable tips for embracing new life circumstances.What You’ll Learn:- Discover a powerful metaphor of transplanting plants and how it relates to navigating significant life changes- Understand the need for extra care and self-nurturing when facing life-altering events- Learn practical strategies to find your way in any new “environment,” just like a transplanted plant- Gain insights into exploring core values during periods of transformation- Get a glimpse into the interactive and supportive environment of my Busy to Balanced program's monthly calls- Explore a limited-time special offer to join the program and experience transformative coaching firsthand here: https://charisyourlife.com/videoLooking to find balance and peace during life's shakeups? Join me as I unveil the plant-inspired metaphor that sheds light on nurturing ourselves through change. 🌱✨Resources: - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Aug 14, 2023 • 46min
Reflections on My 30 Year High School Reunion
In this episode, I take you on a journey through the nostalgic experience of attending my 30-year high school reunion in Richland, Washington. I also share poignant details of my senior year back in 1993 and how my community’s connection to the Hanford site, a significant piece of history tied to the ending of World War II, influenced our senior class gift back to the school...As President of my senior class, I led a project to raise $21,000 for a massive 3,200 sq. ft. mural to be painted and affixed to the exterior wall of our gymnasium to commemorate the “Day's Pay” B-17 airplane. Listen in to hear a touching story of unity by 51,000 Hanford site workers during World War II as they gave up a day’s pay in order to donate a B-17 to the war effort. The mural, painted by artist Pablo Soto, unveiled the legacy of the “Day's Pay” and served as a symbol of both our community’s and school's history.Transitioning to the reunion, I recount the emotional rollercoaster of reconnecting with classmates after three decades. From reminiscing about my 10-year and 20-year reunions to the newfound authenticity and camaraderie felt this time around, each reunion has marked a checkpoint in our lives. I explore the deep connections that bind us to our childhood classmates and the growth we've experienced over the years.What You’ll Learn:- The historical significance of the Hanford site and its connection to my high school- Creating a commemorative mural honoring the “Day's Pay” and its symbolism- The emotional journey of attending a 30-year high school reunion- Embracing vulnerability, authenticity, and gratitude from reconnecting with childhood friends- Another legacy moment that happened just this year in connection with the “Day’s Pay” and the local police department’s uniformsJoin me as we dive into a whirlwind of emotions, laughs, and life lessons from a reunion that's about way more than just reminiscing. It's all about the connections that bind us and the legacy we leave behind.Resources: - To see some pics of me in high school, the “Day's Pay” mural, and my 30 year high school reunion, go here: https://www.charisyourlife.com/blog/reflections-on-my-30-year-high-school-reunion- Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Aug 7, 2023 • 1h 6min
Charis Chats with Dr. Eben Alexander and Karen Newell – Living in a Mindful Universe
In this episode, I am joined by the co-authors of “Living in a Mindful Universe,” neurosurgeon Dr. Eben Alexander and Karen Newell.You may recognize Dr. Alexander as a prior guest on this podcast when he shared in detail about his remarkable NDE (near-death experience) that he wrote about in his New York Times #1 bestseller “Proof of Heaven.”Dr. Alexander was an academic neurosurgeon for over 25 years, including 15 years at the Brigham & Women’s Hospital, Children’s Hospital, and Harvard Medical School in Boston. In 2008, he experienced a transcendental Near-Death Experience (NDE) during a week-long coma from an inexplicable brain infection that completely transformed his worldview. A pioneering scientist and modern thought leader in the emerging science that acknowledges the primacy of consciousness in the universe.Karen Newell is an author and specialist in personal development with a diverse body of work that rests upon the foundation of heart-centered consciousness. As an innovator in the emerging field of brainwave entrainment audio meditation, Karen empowers others in their journeys of self-discovery by demonstrating how to connect to inner guidance, achieve inspiration, improve wellness, and develop intuition. She is co-founder of Sacred Acoustics. What You’ll Learn:- Understanding of the relationship between science and spirituality and how they are intersecting more than you may have realized- Dr. Eben Alexander's near-death experience and his transformational insights on life, death, and consciousness- Karen Newell's personal development story and her experiences with brainwave and audio meditation- The benefits and science behind using binaural beats to enhance meditation and induce deeper states of relaxation- The concept of daily life reviews and how they can help uncover important life lessons and enable personal transformation- Exploration of the fascinating scientific research into reincarnation, the evolution of consciousness, and the ultimate purpose of lifeSo join us, open your mind, and let's wander together into the depths of consciousness, life, death, and everything in between.You can also watch the video of this interview on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/7n7mJR5qugMResources: - Book "Living in a Mindful Universe" by Dr. Eben Alexander and Karen Newell: https://amzn.to/3KfAiVf (available via Kindle, Audiobook, or Hardcover) (affiliate link)- Prior Episode #061 Charis Chats with Neurosurgeon Dr. Eben Alexander – Proof of Heaven: Listen here: https://pod.fo/e/18370f or watch it here: https://youtu.be/CHTmDGBn0xA- Sacred Acoustics website: https://www.sacredacoustics.com/?ref=zWHl2v5h-Od_u (affiliate link) And use this Coupon Code for 10% off: CHARIS- Dr. Eben Alexander’s website: http://ebenalexander.com/- Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Jul 31, 2023 • 18min
Time to Cut Some Cords
In this episode, I dig into the powerful concept of cutting energetic cords. Drawing from a recent personal experience with a guided meditation by Gabby Bernstein, I share insights into what cord cutting entails and how it can positively impact our lives. Energetic cords represent connections we have with people, situations, or even past versions of ourselves. By visualizing the cutting of these cords, we can free ourselves from negative influences and gain a sense of liberation.What You’ll Learn:- The concept of energetic cords and their effect on our well-being. - How cutting these cords can release us from emotional burdens and transform our lives- How to embrace the power of visualization as a tool for letting go of negative attachments and making space for personal freedom- Experience a guided meditation with to help you cut some cordsJoin me on this transformative journey of cord cutting and explore the profound impact it can have on your life. Together, we can cut the emotional tethers that hold us back so that we feel more empowered and free to live the lives we really want..Resources: - Cord-cutting meditation episode #117 of the Dear Gabby Podcast, "10-Minute Guided Meditation That Will Transform All Your Relationships!" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-gabby/id1561694805?i=1000598993042- Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Jul 24, 2023 • 45min
Charis Chats with Tarla Makaeff – Hypnotherapy
Tarla Makaeff, the Copy Queen and Beverly Hills Hypnotist, is a bestselling author, digital course creator, online business and life coach, and certified hypnotherapist, who helps creative, heart-centered women start their own purpose-filled business online and scale their brand with copy that converts, while increasing their self-love.In this episode, Tarla chats with Charis specifically about all aspects of hypnotherapy.What You’ll Learn:- Tarla's personal healing journey and her mission to help others heal and create the life they desire- The role of hypnotherapy in addressing unconscious blocks and traumas that hinder personal growth- Clarification of common misconceptions about hypnosis, debunking ideas of mind control, and stage hypnosis- Understanding hypnotherapy as a natural, relaxed state of focused awareness, similar to daydreaming or reading- Differentiating guided meditation from hypnotherapy, highlighting the induction process and regression techniques used in hypnosis sessionsYou can also watch the video of this interview on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/D1LGQxK-9-0Resources: - Get Tarla's Free Pure Self Love Audio Hypnosis Recording and other free gifts here: https://tarlamakaeff.com/pages/free-gifts- Visit Tarla's websites: www.TarlaMakaeff.com and www.TheBeverlyHillsHypnotist.com- Connect with Tarla on Instagram/Facebook: @TheTarlaMakaeff- Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life’s Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Jul 17, 2023 • 14min
3 Life Lessons from Hollywood's Art of Sound Making
In this episode, I stumbled upon a fascinating YouTube video about Warner Bros. Foley artists, the masterminds behind sound art in filmmaking. These artists create the sounds we hear in movies and TV shows, bringing visual experiences to life through cleverly fabricated sounds. By delving into their work, I uncovered three valuable life lessons.What You’ll Learn:- The 3 life lessons I learned from the art of sound making- What exactly a Foley artist does inside a sound studio- My exploration of finding life lessons in everyday occurrences- The impact our individual perception can have on our experiences- How Foley art relates to the importance of emotional awareness and effective communicationBy drawing parallels between Foley art and life, I aim to provide you with thought-provoking insights and a fresh perspective on personal development. Join me in exploring how these intriguing examples can be incorporated into life lessons for your own journey.Resources: - “The Magic of Making Sound” on the YouTube channel ‘Great Big Story’ (Video about Warner Bros. Foley artists creating “natural” sounds for TV and movies): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UO3N_PRIgX0- Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life’s Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Jul 10, 2023 • 10min
Think of Your Age as Levels
In this episode, I talk about the immense pressure we put on ourselves based on our age, plus the expectations society imposes on us. Many of us have regrets, guilt, and self-criticism connected with our age. However, there's a fresh perspective that can liberate us. I was recently introduced to the concept of considering age as levels rather than ‘years old.’ Drawing inspiration from video games, I cover how we can choose our experiences and progress to higher levels in life. This reframe can help shed the heavy weight associated with age and allow us to embrace a more empowering and enjoyable journey.What You’ll Learn:- The impact of societal expectations and personal judgments tied to age- Embracing the idea of age as levels for a more empowering mindset around aging- The analogy of life as a video game- Overcoming patterned, negative thoughts about aging through a playful and lighthearted approachWe’ve heard the phrase “age is just a number;” what if you now view it as an opportunity to level up and embrace new experiences, like we would in a game? Resources: - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (Ditch Life's Guilt & Anxiety — Finally Find More Peace of Mind) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/

Jul 3, 2023 • 9min
How to Literally Shake It Off
In this episode, we delve into the concept of how to "shake it off,” both literally and metaphorically. Shaking is a natural way for animals to process adrenaline and cortisol during fight or flight states, and it can be applied to help us move emotions through our bodies. We discuss how fear can get trapped within us, leading to long-term tension and anxiety. By incorporating intentional shaking and movement, we can give our nervous system a cue to shift our internal energy. This practice can support your overall well-being and help you transition from stressful moments to a calmer state.What You’ll Learn:- The importance of acknowledging and processing emotions in our bodies- How shaking and intentional movement can help release emotions and tension- The benefits of incorporating regular physical movement into our sedentary lifestyles- Practical tips for shaking it offResources: - Get my FREE on-demand video training: How to Live Life on Your Own Terms & Timeline (And Stop Sacrificing Your Sanity, Personal Space, or Social Life) https://charisyourlife.com/video- Follow me on Instagram: https://instagram.com/charisyourlife - Follow me on Facebook: https://facebook.com/charisyourlife/ - Follow me on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/charisyourlife/- Follow me on YouTube: https://charisyourlife.com/youtube/- Follow me on Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/charisyourlife/- My website: https://charisyourlife.com/