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Jun 12, 2024 โ€ข 16min

Your Triggers Might be WRONG! Rethinking what your triggers REALLY mean.

Melanie Studley discusses redefining triggers, sharing personal insights and analogies. She delves into a client case study and a transformative moment to challenge listeners to rethink triggers for healthier relationships.
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Jun 6, 2024 โ€ข 11min

Take Life by the Horns!

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Welcome to Anatomy of Us! ๐ŸŽ™๏ธIn todayโ€™s special mini-episode, Melanie takes the reins solo to share some transformative insights that have been floating around in her mind. ๐Ÿ’ญ She dives deep into the empowering concept of Taking Life by the Horns and how you can direct your path with intention and strength.๐Ÿ”น Empowerment through Choice: Learn how to make deliberate choices about your reactions, instead of letting life push you around.๐Ÿ”น Proactive Preparedness: Discover the power of deciding in advance how you'll handle lifeโ€™s challenges to maintain stability and reduce stress.๐Ÿ”น Consistent Behavior Standards: Find out why making declarations about your behavior in relationships can transform how you interact with your loved ones.๐Ÿ”น Emotional Regulation: Melanie shares tips on staying calm and regulated, even when those around you are not.๐Ÿ”น Intentional Living: Embrace intentional living by choosing your responses and actions, shaping your future with proactive and thoughtful decisions.Tune in for practical advice and powerful strategies to help you navigate lifeโ€™s ups and downs with confidence and purpose. Letโ€™s take life by the horns together! ๐Ÿ‚โœจ๐Ÿ‘‰ Want to dive deeper? Check out our coaching at anatomyofus.com. We love helping you create the life and marriage you want! ๐Ÿ‘ซ๐Ÿ’ฌThanks for llistening, you're amazing!Peace! โœŒ๏ธ๐Ÿ”— Links and ResourcesWe have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! shop.anatomyofus.com/collections/free-pdf-resources๐Ÿ‘ฅ Connect with Us:Subscribe to our show for more insightful episodes.TikTok @anatomyofuspodIG @anatomyofuspodFacebook @anatomyofusWebsite anatomyofus.comThank you to our sponsors!๐Ÿ“Œ Keywords:Empowerment, Intentional Living, Proactive Preparedness, Emotional Regulation, Life Challenges, Relationship Advice, Marriage Tips, Personal Growth, Stability, Behavior Standards, Mental Resilience#AnatomyOfUs #TakeLifeByTheHorns #Empowerment #IntentionalLiving #ProactivePreparedness #EmotionalRegulation #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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May 29, 2024 โ€ข 13min

Is this Anxiety REALLY Mine?! Examining Inherited Anxiety

๐Ÿ‘‹ Welcome to Anatomy of Us! Today Melanie Studley is flying solo to dive into a topic that's been on her mind: Inherited Anxiety. ๐ŸŒŸIn this episode, Melanie explores how we often unknowingly inherit anxieties and fears from our families and claim them as our own. ๐Ÿ˜ฒJoin Mel as she breaks down the importance of examining and distinguishing between inherited anxieties and our own true feelings. This concept doesn't just apply to anxiety but to other inherited traits like prejudices and assumptions. ๐Ÿง โœจLet's untangle these knots together and transform our lives by identifying what's truly ours. ๐Ÿ’ชโค๏ธIf you're ready to examine your own anxieties and make a positive change, this episode is for you. Don't forget to like, comment, and share your thoughts!๐Ÿ“บ Subscribe for more episodes ๐Ÿ’ฌ Leave us a review and share your experiences!Thanks for listening, you're amazing! Peace! โœŒ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‰ Want to dive deeper? Check out our coaching at anatomyofus.com. We love helping you create the life and marriage you want! ๐Ÿ‘ซ๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿ”— Links and ResourcesWe have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! shop.anatomyofus.com/collections/free-pdf-resources๐Ÿ‘ฅ Connect with Us:Subscribe to our channel for more insightful episodes.TikTok @anatomyofuspodIG @anatomyofuspodFacebook @anatomyofusWebsite anatomyofus.comThank you to our sponsors!๐Ÿ“Œ Keywords:Anxiety, Mental Health, Stress Management, Family of Origin, Generational Trauma, Self-Care, Personal Growth#AnatomyOfUs #InheritedAnxiety #SelfDiscovery #PersonalGrowth #FamilyOfOrigin #AnxietyRelief #MarriageTransformation4o Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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May 15, 2024 โ€ข 1h 7min

Building a Non-Anxious Life with Dr. John Delony

Welcome to the latest episode of the Anatomy of Us podcast, where Melanie Studley and Seth Studley are joined by special guest and friend, Dr. John Delony, for an enlightening discussion on his new book "Building a Non-Anxious Life." This episode kicks off with a laid-back conversation featuring personal anecdotes and even some pet stories, setting a relatable tone for what follows. Dr. Delony, drawing from his experience as a therapist, delves into the normalization of anxiety and the challenges faced in diagnosing mental health issues. He shares invaluable insights on viewing anxiety as a natural response to stress and emphasizes the importance of being present in managing it. As the conversation unfolds, practical tips for managing anxiety emerge, including the significance of self-care, building support networks, and seeking professional help when needed. Dive into this engaging dialogue for actionable strategies to cultivate a more peaceful and balanced life.๐Ÿ”— Links and ResourcesWe have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! shop.anatomyofus.com/collections/free-pdf-resources๐Ÿ‘ฅ Connect with Us:Subscribe to our channel for more insightful episodes.TikTok @anatomyofuspodIG @anatomyofuspodFacebook @anatomyofusWebsite anatomyofus.com๐Ÿ“Œ Keywords:Counseling, Anxiety, Mental Health, Stress Management, Support Network, Non-Anxious Life, Dr. John Delony, Therapy, Self-Care, Personal GrowthThank you to our sponsors!๐Ÿ”” Don't forget to hit the bell icon to get notified about our latest episodes!๐Ÿ’ฌ Your Thoughts Matter: We love hearing from our listeners! Drop a comment below sharing your key takeaways from this episode or any topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes.#Therapy #MentalHealth #Coaching #TheAnatomyOfUsPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #CommunicationTips #MarriageGoals #CoupleGoals๐Ÿ‘‰ Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes that help you deepen your connection and communication in your marriage.๐Ÿ™ Thank you for listening to The Anatomy Of Us Podcast โ€“ where we explore all aspects of relationships. See you in the next episode! ๐ŸŽงโœจ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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May 1, 2024 โ€ข 53min

HELP, my kid is OUT OF CONTROL! W: Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor & Parenting Coach Dan Peterson

In today's episode, we sit down with Dan Peterson, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor & Parenting Coach, to discuss what to do when your kid is out of control! ๐Ÿ˜ฉ ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ ๐Ÿ˜ญMeet Dan, the Founder of The Compass 4 Life, who brings years of expertise in clinical psychology and the Nurtured Heart Approachโ„ข (NHA) to the table. ๐ŸŒŸ With a Masters degree from Benedictine University and personal training from NHA founder Howard Glasser, Dan is your go-to expert for handling challenging children.In this enlightening conversation, Dan shares valuable insights and strategies to empower parents and caregivers facing similar challenges.๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฝ Don't miss out on his 90-day Coaching Program - check it out at https://www.thecompass4life.com/work-with-meโœ… And if you're ready to take the next step, reach out to Dan directly at https://www.thecompass4life.com/contactโŒ Don't struggle for one more day, reach out to Dan and get the help you need to TRANSFORM your relationship with your kid! ๐Ÿš€โœจ๐Ÿ”— Links and ResourcesWe have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! shop.anatomyofus.com/collections/free-pdf-resources๐Ÿ‘ฅ Connect with Us:Subscribe to our channel for more insightful episodes.TikTok @anatomyofuspodIG @anatomyofuspodFacebook @anatomyofusWebsite anatomyofus.com๐Ÿ“Œ Keywords:Marriage Communication, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Counseling, Nurtured Heart Approach, Parenting Techniques, Positive Reinforcement, Recognizing Greatness, Emotional Regulation, Intense Children, Parent-Child Relationship, Transformative Parenting, Setting Boundaries, Building Resilience, Acknowledging Successes, Parenting Workshops, Mindful Parenting, Self-Esteem.Thank you to our sponsors!๐Ÿ”” Don't forget to hit the bell icon to get notified about our latest episodes!๐Ÿ’ฌ Your Thoughts Matter: We love hearing from our listeners! Drop a comment below sharing your key takeaways from this episode or any topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes.#MarriageCommunication #EffectiveCommunication #TheAnatomyOfUsPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #CommunicationTips #MarriageGoals #CoupleGoals #ParentingSupport #NurturedHeartApproach #ParentCoaching #ProblemChild #TransformativeParenting #Boundaries #MindfulParenting๐Ÿ‘‰ Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes that help you deepen your connection and communication in your marriage.๐Ÿ™ Thank you for listening to The Anatomy Of Us Podcast โ€“ where we explore all aspects of relationships. See you in the next episode! ๐ŸŽงโœจ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Mar 21, 2024 โ€ข 35min

How to OWN YOUR DAY with Melanie's Prayer Planner + Journal!

Today, we share a behind-the-scenes look at Melanie's all new Prayer Planner + Journal! Melanie created this planner/journal to master her ADHD, Dyslexia, and the chaos of being a business owner and a busy mom of three!Melanie explains the components of the planner, how she uses it each day, and where you can get your own so that you can master YOUR LIFE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Mar 13, 2024 โ€ข 32min

My Husband does NOT want to GROW!

In this insightful episode, Melanie and Seth Studley discuss the challenges of navigating personal growth disparities within relationships. Inspired by a listener's question about what to do when your partner isn't interested in personal development or marriage growth, they share their own experiences and offer practical advice on how to handle situations where one partner is less interested in personal development.Melanie (Speaker and Coach) and Seth (Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist) emphasize the importance of maintaining a growth mindset and leading by example. They highlight the transformative power of personal growth and encourage viewers to focus on their own journey while fostering an environment of encouragement for their partners.Whether you're facing similar struggles in your relationship or seeking guidance on inspiring your partner to embrace personal development, this podcast provides valuable insights and actionable tips. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how to navigate personal growth differences and strengthen your relationship along the way.๐Ÿ”— Links and ResourcesWe have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! shop.anatomyofus.com/collections/free-pdf-resources๐Ÿ‘ฅ Connect with Us:Subscribe to our channel for more insightful episodes.TikTok @anatomyofuspodIG @anatomyofuspodFacebook @anatomyofusWebsite anatomyofus.com๐Ÿ“Œ Keywords:Marriage Communication, Personal Development, Conflict Resolution, Relationship Advice, Marriage Counseling, Active Listening, Relationship Building, Couples Therapy, Communication Skills, Healthy Marriage, Love and CommunicationThank you to our sponsors!Seed: Visit seed.com/AOU & use code 25AOU for 25% off your first month of synbiotics.Thrive Market: Visit thrivemarket.com/AOU for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift.Happy Mammoth: Visit happymammoth.com and use promo code AOU for 15% off your entire first order.๐Ÿ”” Don't forget to hit the bell icon to get notified about our latest episodes!๐Ÿ’ฌ Your Thoughts Matter: We love hearing from our listeners! Drop a comment below sharing your key takeaways from this episode or any topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes.#MarriageCommunication #EffectiveCommunication #TheAnatomyOfUsPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #CommunicationTips #MarriageGoals #CoupleGoals๐Ÿ‘‰ Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes that help you deepen your connection and communication in your marriage.๐Ÿ™ Thank you for listening to The Anatomy Of Us Podcast โ€“ where we explore all aspects of relationships. See you in the next episode! ๐ŸŽงโœจ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Mar 6, 2024 โ€ข 36min

Erectile Dysfunction in a Sexless marriage

Today, we're diving into a super important topic: erectile dysfunction in a sexless marriage.We've got a listener question asking how to bring up this sensitive issue with her husband as well as addressing the issue of a sexless marriage for many years. From spotting the signs to starting the talk, we've got your back with practical advice and a sprinkle of humor. We'll chat about fostering understanding, seeking support, and keeping the love alive in your relationship.So, if you're curious, concerned, or just want to be a supportive friend, this episode is for you! Hit that play button now and let's dive into this essential conversation with empathy and a touch of sass. And remember, we're all in this together! ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ”— Links and ResourcesWe have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! https://shop.anatomyofus.com/products/the-clearing-structure๐Ÿ‘ฅ Connect with Us:Subscribe to our channel for more insightful episodes.TikTok @anatomyofuspodIG @anatomyofuspodFacebook @anatomyofusWebsite anatomyofus.com๐Ÿ“Œ Keywords:Erectile Dysfunction, Men's Health, Sexless Marriage, Relationship Advice, Marriage Counseling, Relationship Building, Couples Therapy, Healthy Marriage, Love and CommunicationThank you to our sponsors!Seed: Visit seed.com/AOU & use code 25AOU for 25% off your first month of synbiotics.Thrive Market: Visit thrivemarket.com/AOU for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift.๐Ÿ”” Don't forget to hit the bell icon to get notified about our latest episodes!๐Ÿ’ฌ Your Thoughts Matter: We love hearing from our listeners! Drop a comment below sharing your key takeaways from this episode or any topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes.#ErectileDysfunction #SexlessMarriage #MensHealth #Testosterone #AdviceforMen #Men #Masculinity #TheAnatomyOfUsPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #LoveLanguages #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #MarriageTips #MarriageGoals #CoupleGoals๐Ÿ‘‰ Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes that help you deepen your connection and communication in your marriage.๐Ÿ™ Thank you for listening to The Anatomy Of Us Podcast โ€“ where we explore all aspects of relationships. See you in the next episode! ๐ŸŽงโœจ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Feb 28, 2024 โ€ข 56min

The Five Dos and Don'ts of Emotional Support in Marriage

Learn the essential dos and don'ts of emotional support in marriage. Topics include active listening, empathy, supportive language, full expression, and providing a safe space. Avoid pitfalls like invalidating emotions, interrupting, giving unsolicited advice, or making it about yourself. Dive into the importance of acknowledging past mistakes, navigating challenges, and building emotional support for a strong relationship.
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Feb 21, 2024 โ€ข 42min

The 5 Dos and Donโ€™ts of Shared Responsibility in Marriage!

In this episode, we're spilling the tea โ˜• on essential strategies for keeping harmony alive in your household. From chore wars to decision-making dilemmas, we've got you covered! ๐Ÿ’ชDO:โœ… Communicate openly about who's the laundry pro and who's the dishwashing master.โœ… Fairly divide tasks based on skills, availability, and interests (because, let's face it, nobody likes cleaning toilets).โœ… Keep things flexible by adjusting responsibilities as life throws its curveballs.โœ… Shower your partner with appreciation for their superhuman efforts (even if it's just for taking out the trash).โœ… Tag team decisions like the dynamic duo you areโ€”after all, it takes two to tango!DON'T:๐Ÿšซ Assume certain tasks belong to one gender (because scrubbing toilets is an equal opportunity task).๐Ÿšซ Nitpick your partner's cleaning styleโ€”hey, as long as it gets done, right?๐Ÿšซ Brush off your partner's concerns about who's doing what around the house (it's a big deal, okay?).๐Ÿšซ Take on the entire to-do list without consulting your partner (burnout, here we come!).๐Ÿšซ Leave your partner hanging with a pile of dirty dishesโ€”ain't nobody got time for that!So grab your popcorn ๐Ÿฟ, cuddle up with your sweetheart, and join us as we dish out some practical tips and hilarious anecdotes for building a partnership that's as smooth as butter! ๐ŸŒŸ Don't forget to hit that subscribe button for more episodes on building a thriving and fulfilling relationship! ๐ŸŽ‰ Let's make marriage magic happen, together! ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ”— Links and ResourcesWe have a FREE download of the Clearing Structure available RIGHT HERE! https://shop.anatomyofus.com/products/the-clearing-structure๐Ÿ‘ฅ Connect with Us:Subscribe to our channel for more insightful episodes.TikTok @anatomyofuspodIG @anatomyofuspodFacebook @anatomyofusWebsite anatomyofus.com๐Ÿ“Œ Keywords:Marriage Communication, Conflict Resolution, Relationship Advice, Marriage Counseling, Active Listening, Relationship Building, Couples Therapy, Communication Skills, Healthy Marriage, Love and CommunicationThank you to our sponsors!Seed: Visit seed.com/AOU & use code 25AOU for 25% off your first month of synbiotics.Thrive Market: Visit thrivemarket.com/AOU for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift.๐Ÿ”” Don't forget to hit the bell icon to get notified about our latest episodes!๐Ÿ’ฌ Your Thoughts Matter: We love hearing from our listeners! Drop a comment below sharing your key takeaways from this episode or any topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes.#MarriageCommunication #EffectiveCommunication #TheAnatomyOfUsPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #LoveLanguages #HealthyRelationships #Podcast #CommunicationTips #MarriageGoals #CoupleGoals๐Ÿ‘‰ Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes that help you deepen your connection and communication in your marriage.๐Ÿ™ Thank you for listening to The Anatomy Of Us Podcast โ€“ where we explore all aspects of relationships. See you in the next episode! ๐ŸŽงโœจ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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