Being Known Podcast

Explore the transformative journey of resilience shaped by engaging with relational ruptures. The conversation emphasizes that healing isn't just a momentary act but prepares us for a deeper life ahead. Personal stories and biblical insights reveal that repair requires courage and vulnerability. Highlighting the importance of supportive communities, the discussion underscores that true growth emerges from actively navigating conflicts. Discover how these practices not only foster personal wholeness but also enrich our connections with others.

What does it truly mean to forgive "seventy times seven"? The concept of forgiveness is explored as a movement of the heart, emphasizing its liberating nature. It's not just about granting freedom to others but freeing ourselves from resentment. The discussion reveals the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation and dispels myths like just getting over it. Personal stories and insights from therapy and Scripture illustrate the transformative journey of forgiveness, highlighting its essential role in personal growth and emotional well-being.

Explore the unraveling fabric of community as the hosts dissect the quiet violence of disconnection and the importance of reconciliation. They highlight the dangers of echo chambers, emphasizing that true growth comes from engaging with diverse perspectives. Through biblical insights and personal stories, they advocate for courageous vulnerability and intimate relationships across divides. The conversation encourages listeners to mend what’s torn, fostering connection through dialogue rather than debate.

Dive into the intricate world of caste systems and their deep roots in American culture. The conversation pushes boundaries, urging listeners to confront uncomfortable truths about social hierarchies. With personal anecdotes, the speakers reveal the complexities of race and community dynamics. An amusing tour story adds humor while highlighting societal tensions. They reflect on generational trauma’s impact, encouraging healing through understanding and relational repair. It’s a call to engage with diverse perspectives and embrace the journey of creating community together.

In this episode, we trace the journey of repair from the biblical story of Eden to the present-day church. We begin by looking at the rupture in Eden, the first human failure, which sets the stage for the entire narrative of repair in the Bible. The church, we argue, serves as the modern-day extension of God's original plan for renewal, where heaven and earth collide, and where God's work of restoration continues. Yet, this place of healing is also where significant ruptures can occur, often leaving members hurt and disillusioned.   The conversation highlights the delicate balance between idealism and realism when it comes to the church's role in repairing relational fractures. The church, like any human system, is not immune to dysfunction, but it is also the place where God's mission of restoration is most powerfully present. We discuss how leaders in the church must navigate the complexities of repair, creating spaces of safety and vulnerability while also confronting their own wounds. This episode offers listeners a deeper understanding of how spiritual growth and relational healing are inextricably linked, both for individuals and the community as a whole.     * * * Episode Links and References When Narcissism Comes to Church - Chuck DeGroat When the Church Harms People - Diane Langberg Redeeming Power: Understanding Power and Abuse in the Church - Diane Langberg Matthew 18:15-17 John 16:33   Artistic Offerings to Reflect On The Incredulity of Saint Thomas - painting by Caravaggio St. Matthew Passion (BWV 244) by Johann Sebastian Bach  . . . . . Stay connected: Instagram, Facebook YouTube (Unedited videos of each episode AND the Post Show Conversation.) Please subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode and we always welcome your reviews on Apple Podcasts.  Sign up to access the Being Known Podcast applications, the weekly exercises that connect what you are learning to your life in a practical way. 

Explore the deep connections between healing and community through the lens of biblical narratives and neuroscience. Discover how ruptures, like trauma and disconnection, impact not just individuals but whole communities. The conversation highlights the importance of vulnerability, empathy, and collective support in overcoming personal and intergenerational challenges. By sharing real-life stories and emphasizing quantum relationality, the hosts illustrate that repair can ripple through connections, fostering a path to collective healing.

This discussion delves into the art of mending relationships, emphasizing that repair requires both courage and clarity about our roles. The hosts explore the emotional timing involved in healing, suggesting that some wounds need immediate attention while others require patience. They also examine the psychological effects of holding onto grievances and the importance of understanding personal fears during the repair process. Ultimately, the conversation encourages listeners to embrace the rhythm of healing and foster meaningful dialogues.

In this episode, Curt and Pepper dive deep into the crucial first steps of becoming effective repairers in times of relational rupture. We begin with Genesis 3:15 and explore how we can anticipate, prepare, and engage in repair work before the storm hits. It's not about reacting to conflict—it's about preparing in advance to become proactive, mindful, and compassionate repairers of relationships. Through this reflective practice, we explore the timing, tempo, and deep awareness required to anticipate future ruptures with empathy and intention. This preemptive work is necessary to avoid reactive responses and instead cultivate intentional repair.   In the first of this two-part series, the team shares insights into how spiritual practices, like meditation and prayer, can center us before a rupture occurs. They focus on the importance of anticipating moments of tension, embracing vulnerability, and reflecting on how our internal and external worlds influence our approach to conflict. With both empathy and practical tools for co-regulation, they guide us on how we can actively prepare to heal relational ruptures when they inevitably arise. Tune in and take the first step toward mastering the art of preemptive repair.   * * * Episode Links and References Genesis 3:15 – The first mention of God's promise to repair rupture. Deuteronomy – Mention of trust in God rather than in kings, horses, or chariots. Matthew 5:9 – "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God." Philippians 4:6-7 – Encouragement to meditate on things that are good, true, and beautiful.    . . . . . Stay connected: Instagram, Facebook YouTube (Unedited videos of each episode AND the Post Show Conversation.) Please subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode and we always welcome your reviews on Apple Podcasts.  Sign up to access the Being Known Podcast applications, the weekly exercises that connect what you are learning to your life in a practical way. 

Explore how the stories we tell ourselves shape our healing journey. The podcast dives into the powerful connection between communication mediums and personal narratives. It discusses how different methods—like art, writing, or conversations—can alter our perception of pain and resilience. Learn the importance of open dialogue and introspection in navigating interpersonal relationships and emotional ruptures. Discover techniques to transform negative narratives into ones of empowerment, paving the way for genuine healing.

The discussion opens with the emotional connections of sensory experiences, diving into how toxic ruptures build over time through miscommunication and shame. Personal anecdotes reveal the importance of self-awareness and addressing unresolved issues. The episode explores trauma and emotional themes through the lens of film, highlighting the neurobiology of emotions. It emphasizes the need for balance in setting boundaries while fostering connection, and underscores personal accountability in the healing process, offering strategies to overcome destructive patterns.