Being Known Podcast S11E9: Mastering the Art of Repair: Harnessing Timing, Tempo, and Time (Part 1)
In this episode, Curt and Pepper dive deep into the crucial first steps of becoming effective repairers in times of relational rupture. We begin with Genesis 3:15 and explore how we can anticipate, prepare, and engage in repair work before the storm hits. It's not about reacting to conflict—it's about preparing in advance to become proactive, mindful, and compassionate repairers of relationships. Through this reflective practice, we explore the timing, tempo, and deep awareness required to anticipate future ruptures with empathy and intention. This preemptive work is necessary to avoid reactive responses and instead cultivate intentional repair.
In the first of this two-part series, the team shares insights into how spiritual practices, like meditation and prayer, can center us before a rupture occurs. They focus on the importance of anticipating moments of tension, embracing vulnerability, and reflecting on how our internal and external worlds influence our approach to conflict. With both empathy and practical tools for co-regulation, they guide us on how we can actively prepare to heal relational ruptures when they inevitably arise. Tune in and take the first step toward mastering the art of preemptive repair.
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Episode Links and References
- Genesis 3:15 – The first mention of God's promise to repair rupture.
- Deuteronomy – Mention of trust in God rather than in kings, horses, or chariots.
- Matthew 5:9 – "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God."
- Philippians 4:6-7 – Encouragement to meditate on things that are good, true, and beautiful.
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